Yardies at home and Farrin (part12)

[SupportOAFJF 0]

This is a conversation I don't have, so I don't know why. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and I leave it at that. BTW-your kids are too cute..the baby is getting so big so fast! I miss those days.

ok, why not...u kinda opened the door IMO..and thnx..she is getting big

I feel like entertaining the conversation keeps the problem alive. You are right I guess about me opening the door, but I didn't want to be the one fielding the comments about me being white, stealing "their" men, stick to my own, he is disgracing his color, blah blah blah....I've heard it all before! That list can go on. I don't come here to offend anyone, and when I do I immediately apologize because it isn't my intention. Again, offending anyone was not my intention. But I have seen post about color, people flaunting, etc. Not naming because I don't really remember who, but it was here!

what's does this mean? see I wasn't starting nuttin I was just trying to prove a point..

[MSNELLY 0]

good evening ladies stop in for a sec, how is everyone doing tonight

[jakeswife 0]

welcome nells . i got my so start talking fi get yours

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Okay, Was something deleted? Because the first statement that brought up race that I saw was the one from Jakeswife - I'm confused....

ok i just made a joke about mrslady vacation. it wasn't meant to be offensive or racist.besides it's a well known cliche' ""once you go black you can't go back""

exactly ! and then she opened the "box" and didn't even realize it. I don't care who u date as long as a no my man! Disrespecting me as a Black person is a different case. I remember heated conversations on here before too..but i don't remember anyone "attacking" any other person just for the simple fact that they are in an IR relationship.

Edited January 22, 2009 by Hotlegz

[jawi876 2]

good evening ladies stop in for a sec, how is everyone doing tonight

Hey Nells! How is the paper coming along?

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Hey Nells...u get yuh paper done?

[MSNELLY 0]

lawd ave mercy Jake , ells and nells...wah oonuh a do up til afta 1am...

I just tried a recipe that didn't go as planned. I was going to make coconut candy based on a recipe on-line. Directions were 3 cups sugar, 1 cup milk & 3 cups coconut. Boil sugar & milk until thin syrup forms, add coconut until mixture thickens, spoon out on cookie sheet w/wax paper. Well, the darn mixture never thickened properly so I just started spooning. It's blobs of coconut steeped in sugar milk syrup. Maybe it will harden a bit when it cools....oh well, you win some, you lose some!

Brown sugar? Did you chop up fresh coconut? Conconut drops those are. Love those.

use the milk from the coconut Ells

if this is chopped up coconut pieces it's drops but if it's shredded it's coconut cake

nuh hate the late nite chat get mi a a nells turn but mi a lef har alone tonite fi chat tu harself, no tell har

jakes so i see how you going to do me

[sus 70]

Thank you Sus! That is exactly why I love and respect you so much! I pray that you join me quickly in the process too. You are still waiting on DJ's divorce decree right?

Love you too! Yes, we are still waiting for the *$$&*#@^#*@^&^$&^*&*@^&*#*@*@&^$*@)#(*@#)(@$)(*#@)$@BUMBACLAAAAAT attorney to do what he needs to do (can you tell I have had it? LOL). I think we are going K3, though Hopefully Feb or March.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Thank you Sus! That is exactly why I love and respect you so much! I pray that you join me quickly in the process too. You are still waiting on DJ's divorce decree right?

Love you too! Yes, we are still waiting for the *$$&*#@^#*@^&^$&^*&*@^&*#*@*@&^$*@)#(*@#)(@$)(*#@)$@BUMBACLAAAAAT attorney to do what he needs to do (can you tell I have had it? LOL). I think we are going K3, though Hopefully Feb or March.

love it....rollin !

[Lovesponge 0]

good evening ladies stop in for a sec, how is everyone doing tonight

Hey Nelly, how was your day?

[jakeswife 0]

lawd ave mercy Jake , ells and nells...wah oonuh a do up til afta 1am...

I just tried a recipe that didn't go as planned. I was going to make coconut candy based on a recipe on-line. Directions were 3 cups sugar, 1 cup milk & 3 cups coconut. Boil sugar & milk until thin syrup forms, add coconut until mixture thickens, spoon out on cookie sheet w/wax paper. Well, the darn mixture never thickened properly so I just started spooning. It's blobs of coconut steeped in sugar milk syrup. Maybe it will harden a bit when it cools....oh well, you win some, you lose some!

Brown sugar? Did you chop up fresh coconut? Conconut drops those are. Love those.

use the milk from the coconut Ells

if this is chopped up coconut pieces it's drops but if it's shredded it's coconut cake

nuh hate the late nite chat get mi a a nells turn but mi a lef har alone tonite fi chat tu harself, no tell har

jakes so i see how you going to do me

no my girl how mi fi leave you heartless

[Lovesponge 0]

Thank you Sus! That is exactly why I love and respect you so much! I pray that you join me quickly in the process too. You are still waiting on DJ's divorce decree right?

Love you too! Yes, we are still waiting for the *$$&*#@^#*@^&^$&^*&*@^&*#*@*@&^$*@)#(*@#)(@$)(*#@)$@BUMBACLAAAAAT attorney to do what he needs to do (can you tell I have had it? LOL). I think we are going K3, though Hopefully Feb or March.

[sus 70]

Okay, Was something deleted? Because the first statement that brought up race that I saw was the one from Jakeswife - I'm confused....

ok i just made a joke about mrslady vacation. it wasn't meant to be offensive or racist.besides it's a well known cliche' ""once you go black you can't go back""

Understood - But it's one of those well known cliche that perpetuates the stereotype and needs to die a quick death - Because the more people make jokes like that, the more some ignorant fools out there will believe it to be the truth - I could spend hours ranting about the comments I have heard / the experiences I have had, but I won't -

I don't think you meant harm by it JW - but it's one of those things that I can't stand - I have no tolerance when people treat people differently bc of race, disability, whatever - and as long as people fling statements like that around as jokes, it will keep happening because people will continue to think it's okay.

[MSNELLY 0]

good evening ladies stop in for a sec, how is everyone doing tonight

Hey Nells! How is the paper coming along?

hey jawi paper is do just have totake a online test before sunday nite i think i am going to start on the next paper, how are you feeling today

Hey Nells...u get yuh paper done?

hey kimmy paper is done, like the new pics

[jawi876 2]

Thank you Sus! That is exactly why I love and respect you so much! I pray that you join me quickly in the process too. You are still waiting on DJ's divorce decree right?

Love you too! Yes, we are still waiting for the *$$&*#@^#*@^&^$&^*&*@^&*#*@*@&^$*@)#(*@#)(@$)(*#@)$@BUMBACLAAAAAT attorney to do what he needs to do (can you tell I have had it? LOL). I think we are going K3, though Hopefully Feb or March.

roollllliiiinnnnnnn!!!!! I feel you girl. Why can't you prepare his divorce settlement? Have the papers already been filed with the courts? Were they filed in Jamaica or the States?