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Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Italy
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Got married in Killeen, Texas on April 27 2004

*°K-3 Visa°*

Oct 12 2005 - Sent I-130 to NSC

Oct 24 2005 - NOA 1

Nov 7 2005 - Sent I-129F to Chicago

Nov 9 2005 - NOA 1

Dec 5 2005 - NOA 2 - I-129F Approved!!! (28 days)

Dec 13 2005 - Application Forwarded to NVC

Dec 16 2005 - Application received by the Consulate in Italy

Jan 4 2006 - Packet 3

Jan 10 2006 - Sent "Applicant's Statement" to Naples

Jan 27 2006 - Packet 4

Feb 22 2006 - Medical and Interview

Feb 22 2006 - Interview... APPROVED Got the Visa!!!

Mar 2 2006 - I-130 case *touched*

Mar 6 2006 - RFE for the I-130 (Marriage Certificate)

Mar 14 2006 - Sent RFE to CSC

Mar 21 2006 - RFE received by CSC

Mar 30 2006 - Detroit POE - Got the I-94

Mar 31 2006 - I-130 NOA 2 - APPROVED!!! (170 days)

*°AOS°*

Mar 31 2006 - I-765 sent to Chicago

Apr 5 2006 - I-765 NOA1

Apr 7 2006 - Vaccination Supplement appt. in Cleveland

Apr 13 2006 - EAD Biometrics Appointment Letter

Apr 18 2006 - EAD Biometrics in Pittsburg

Apr 22 2006 - I-485 sent to Chicago lockbox

Apr 28 2006 - I-485 NOA1

May 3 2006 - EAD Approved!! (33 days)

May 5 2006 - EAC received (NOA2)

May 5 2006 - AOS Biometrics Appointment Letter

May 8 2006 - Applied for Social Security Number

May 11 2006 - AOS Biometrics Appointment in Pittsburgh

May 18 2006 - Social Security Card arrived in the mail

May 18 2006 - Interview Appointment Letter

May 31 2006 - Flew back to Italy

Jun 24 2006 - I-485 *touched*

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Canada
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That is very true. In fact they are planning an Arizona visit to us in Feb!

*January 24 2006 - mailed in I129-F petition

*January 25 2006 - I129-F received at CSC

*January 30 2006 - packet returned.....arggggggggg we forgot one signature!!

*January 31 2006 - sent I129-F back to the CSC, hope we did not forget anything else

*February 1 2006 - I129-F received at CSC again

*February 3 2006 - NOA1

*April 20 2006 - NOA2!!!!!

*April 24 2006 - Touched!

*May 15 2006 - NVC received petition today!

*May 17 2006 - Case left NVC today!!

*May 30 2006 - Received Packet 3 from Vancouver!

*May 30 2006 - Faxed back Packet 3!!

*June 6 2006 - Received packet 4!

*June 20 2006 - Medical in Saskatoon

*June 28 2006 - Interview in Vancouver!!

*June 28 2006 - GOT THE VISA!!!*June 30 2006 - Moving day!

*July 3 2006 - Home at last!!

*July 28 2006 - married!

*September 13 2006 - Mailed AOS/EAD package

*September 25 2006 - Received NOA for AOS/EAD

*October 6 2006 - Biometrics appointments

*October 10 2006 - Touched!

*October 19 2006 - Transferred to CSC!

*October 26 2006 - Received by CSC

*October 27 2006 - Touched

*October 28 2006 - Touched again

*October 31 2006 - Touched again

*November 2 2006 - Touched again

*November 3 2006- and another touch

*November 7 2006- touched

*November 7 2006 - My case approved, still waiting for kids!

*November 8 2006 - Touched my case again

*November 13 2006 - Greencard arrived...yeah I can work!

*November 14 2006 - Touched my case again

*January 2007 - RFE for kids Greencard.

*February 2007 - kids medical and sent in RFE

*February 2007 - Received kids greencards

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: England
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Oh Cristy, I feel for you!

I've often noted that parents go through something like the Kubler-Ross stages of grief when their child announces they're moving to another country. My mom certainly did. Shock, denial, anger, bargaining, depression, testing, acceptance...all of that stuff was there. The important thing is to take some of the VERY good advice offered in this thread and talk it through with your mom. Don't take it personally if she isn't ready, though, that's the one thing I would add to everything that's already been said.

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Cristy,

My mum was exactly the same before I left the Uk and it even continued after for a bit. I mean she was just hateful, no other word for it. She said things to me that I won't forget ever, I might have let them go for now but they are still with me.

I know it was because she was fighting the idea of me moving so far away and was probably scared too. The only other thing I would add is look out later too.

My mum is staying with us for 5 weeks at the moment and the majority of the time we are getting on fine and having fun. But there are moments when it seems she has to make up for the fact she is too far away to have any influence or opinion on my new life. We have had a few big rows whilst she has been here, when she has tried to tell me how to do things, or just change the wasy we do things, ot just plain takeover!!

Gary has told me to just either ignore the comments or tell her straight this is our home and we choose to do it that way.

Mums - we love them but they can drive us nuts sometimes!

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Filed: K-3 Visa Country: Cuba
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I just need to know if anyone else has had an experience like this.

My mom has been making nasty comments the last few weeks. The other day she said 'wouldn't it be funny if Casey came home from Costa Rica married? #######? Ummmm no not really funny.

Then the other night she told me to think long and hard about this move and make sure it is the right thing to do. I thought it was obvious that I have done that and I know it is the right thing. Why say that now just Weeks before it is going to happen?

Today she went nuts on me over nothing, hung up on me and would not answer when I called her back. Saying really hurtful and untrue things.

My mom is never like this. She is one of my best friends, I can go to her with anything. She has been really supportive and happy about me moving and getting married. She has said she is getting sadder as it gets nearer but this is just astonishing. My friends are telling me it is because she is losing me and my kids.....and I think that may be true but I just don't get being so negative and causing me this unnecessary stress.

Anyone else have a close family member act like this before the big move? I don't know what else it could be.

I understand what you are going throw, My mother met Al before I did about 3 years before I did and she loved him, she said only good things about him, till she found out that we had more than a friendship between us, it was like the exorcists she completely change towards him, but I understand that she had control over my live till I met him, and that was the issue with her, but she has to understand that we love each other and I have to live my life.

12/26/05 I go to Cuba

send I-130 Petition

03/02/06 recived NOA1

04/03/06 send I-129 visa

04/13/06 NOA 1 for I-129F in mail

06/07/06 I-130 Approved

07/05/06 Ref in mail (129F)

07/06/06 send back (129F)

07/07/06 rcvd I-864 Processing fee bill &DS-3032

07/09/06 faxed DS-3032 to al

07/10/06 send I-864 fee

07/11/06 send DS- 3032 (next day delivery)

08/02/06 send bill $380. recived 08/08/06

08/09/06 send affidavit of support recived 08/10/06

08/16/06 send DS 230- arrived at visa center on 08/17/06 at 8AM

08/16/06 I129 approved

10/26/06 1-130 completed at NVC

02/12/07 Visa was issued

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mom needs an anti anxiety agent :yes:

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