I'm back and have more questions..

[JeanneVictoria 55]

I think it's more of a frontline expression. I liked Cindi better.

True Nagi !!

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Face it..........no guy .......no matter what country ........likes fat,ucly ,old women .

And that is a fact !!!!!!!!

Those that live in a lie and a dream world............sorry ..............those men do not love you......they want the greencard!!!!!!!!

If they don;t won;t kids ,its bcause they are going back home some day to marry that younger ,pretty women with some money in their pocket and have a good life....... come on ladies .......wake up .......no man is worth making yourelf feel so bad.

American or muslim.

They use you?...kick their asses as far as u can.

If you want to feel bad some day stay with american men .

They do a good job at it too.

I don't exactly agree with you ,but I will say one thing. I think even if they love the older woman, I think they get made fun alot back home and everyone says that their marriage isnt real etc..etc . I think there is alot of pressure from OUTSIDE people to marry the "right" woman and have kids with the "right" woman and maybe through no fault of their own, the American doesnt fit the qualifications.

Its kind of like taking someone who majored in English lit to a WWF match. The english lit major can dumb herself down to fit in with that crowd but neither she really ever fits in nor do the beer guzzlers relate to her that well,

I think you can really have a real love relationship that defies the cultural norms of mena.. and yes everyone can root for the relationship.. but like I said, there are alot of cultural norms to overcome

And another thing. Who said that there arent really hard AMERICAN cultural norms to overcome? How many American men are just out there using and abusing American women, sponging off them.. not marrying them and stringing them along. I think as women age, we are still worthwhile and have lots to give, but our property value drops when our bodies age and we gain weight etc. There are plenty of depressed and lonely and sad MENA women left behind by husbands too when their guy wants a younger wife or decides to make his fortunes overseas. Just remember the girls over there are NOT WITHOUT HEARTBREAK THEMSELVES. I posted alot about who makes up the prostitute population in some of the cities I have visited. Single mothers. Divorced women. Abandoned women with kids... So as American, just realise we have shelf life issues too with our own men devaluing us. I have seen American woman after American woman abandoned either after their husband got a greencard or citizenship but the ways the marriage ended werent necessarily because the husband didnt feel love for her. He just decided he needed to either go have kids... or make his family happy or start something back home. What I feel bad for is that they acted like things were normal until they dropped the bomb. I think many women marrying the men from over there just may not have had too manythings to look foward to here.. JMHO

Its like if life sucked over here for you as a 30 or 40 year old and men werent commitment oriented.. and then you find some sort of happiness with someone from mena... why would you be shocked if that happiness was fleeting as well? I mean men over HERE dump women when they get older , fat.. kids etc. Whats so shocking REALLY about a mena younger man using a woman for papers? Why do we even discuss any of this? I just think love is POWERFUL but it cant overcome culture..

[doodlebugg 10]

da bigger da cushion.....

[RAKASA 0]

I'd like to know what happened to grammar & spelling? Doesn't that count for anything anymore?

[doodlebugg 10]

I'd like to know what happened to grammar & spelling? Doesn't that count for anything anymore?

The bigger the cushion....

Edited January 11, 2009 by humpkinpumpkin

[RAKASA 0]

I'd like to know what happened to grammar & spelling? Doesn't that count for anything anymore?

The bigger the cushion....

silly doodle... iz notz talking bout choo!

[Nagishkaw 510]

The bigger the bust, the tighter the sweater.

[~Jackie~ 30]

eyez waz gunna seh...da lol catz will not be plzd

The bigger the butt the tighter the jeans too

[RAKASA 0]

eyez waz gunna seh...da lol catz will not be plzd

The bigger the butt the tighter the jeans too

then there's also the problem of "camel toes"

[~Jackie~ 30]

[RAKASA 0]

[sara535 15]

[Sofiyya 1,687]

hey vw must be because your getting so oldddddddddddd can u pass me the geritol

Yea, those "senior moments" are coming closer together Doesn't help that I can't type worth a damn either.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

hey vw must be because your getting so oldddddddddddd can u pass me the geritol

Yea, those "senior moments" are coming closer together Doesn't help that I can't type worth a damn either.

hum was it u then that cant spell ha usually its me but since sarah is gone hasnt been a problem(wasnt that her name) its true bad memories do fade away

[amal 4]

Face it..........no guy .......no matter what country ........likes fat,ucly ,old women .

And that is a fact !!!!!!!!

I'd like to know where you get your facts coz I know quite a few men who prefer their women to be large. Even my own father can't stand skinny women. He says they look malnurished and unattractive so he prefers large women. I have been with boyfriends who dumped me because I was less than a size 20. So don't come up in here saying that no man in the world likes fat, ugly, or old women. This is merely your opinion and not the opinions of the rest of the world (although it may be the majority, it is not 100% fact) There are also men who prefer less attractive women because they have better spirits than those women who are high maintenance. They just want a woman to be a woman and not superficial........just my 2 cents worth carry on

this thread needs a LOLcat... this one seems good:

that looks suspiciously like jackie's cat.

put it back hilarious

Oh, and I just wanted to say that I'm sure that amal does not have her fair share of enemies. Everyone has their faults, but I'm not sure I can think of a kinder soul here in MENA.

thanks guys I love you all too

Amal is a sweetie!!!!

Thanks babs mwah

I agree, amal is sweet...and i dont believe anyone has said anything nasty about amal

You all make me blush I don't know what I'd do without the ego boost I get from my VJMENA peeps! You all are the best!