I'm back and have more questions..

[Imua 0]

There are some men that prefer a bigger woman, not all men have the same tastes. As far as children are concern I don’t have the answer to that one, my husband has 4, I have one, so we have 5 together, we have enough children. So not sure if that makes it better or not, no one can know for sure what works and what doesn’t work, but looks will change and fade with age, that is one thing I do know. I like a good looking man, but I am more for someone I can at least get along with. If you got into a car accident and they are still picking glass out of your face a year later, with other grave injuries, would that change your mates feelings toward you? If you are just turned on by the way they look, than pray you never have a nasty accident, like the one girl, who was beautiful, was hit by a drunk driver and her looks were gone in an instance. I was married for 23 years with my ex, my husband 15 with his ex, one thing we do have in common is both of us have had long term marriages. Does that mean we will be fine, of course not, but it makes me do feel better than he has been in long term relationship before and knows that it takes some work to stay married a while. Culture, it can be a factor if you let it, most of my family is foreigners anyway so that really doesn’t bother me. I grew up with a very Spanish grandfather who has the same feelings about women that a lot of Arabs do, men are first women second. My husband is pretty liberal, he hasn’t lived at home in over 20 years and has lived in America before, so this might make a difference, and it might not. What I am trying to say is you never can tell what will happen to any of us, you always try your best, but life is a journey and one just never knows how things will turn out. By the way just because a women is smoking hot doesn’t guarantee a good marriage, I know a lot of beautiful women that have been cheated on, left and other things that happens to every women. Looks are not guarantee for happiness. By the way all 5 children know that they are to lie about MOMMY'S AGE, in school tell the teachers that I am in my early thirties, I was married young, 10 years old. I still can't believe I am as old as I am 50, it truly upsets my tummy. lol

I always wonder about these women who marry guys knowing that their husbands value them mainly for their looks - what would happen if she has breast cancer and needs a double mastectomy or like you said if she gets in an accident - well we see what John McCain did, didn't we? I suspect most of those women are the kind that guys ###### about as 'golddiggers' in one breath (who demand expensive gifts and then divorce them and take them to the cleaners) and then in the next say they would never lower their standards looks-wise and then get taken for a GC ride by their Russian or PI wife who is young enough to be their (grand)daughter. So I guess each party gets what they deserve.

Edited January 11, 2009 by Pattu Rani

[mohamed N melinda 0]

Face it..........no guy .......no matter what country ........likes fat,ucly ,old women .

And that is a fact !!!!!!!!

Those that live in a lie and a dream world............sorry ..............those men do not love you......they want the greencard!!!!!!!!

If they don;t won;t kids ,its bcause they are going back home some day to marry that younger ,pretty women with some money in their pocket and have a good life....... come on ladies .......wake up .......no man is worth making yourelf feel so bad.

American or muslim.

They use you?...kick their asses as far as u can.

If you want to feel bad some day stay with american men .

They do a good job at it too.

[bhajishah 4]

AHh come one now. we all know character is inner. Thiefs of all society are predators. if you find a diamond in the rough then You have it ALL. dont be bitter its not your fault you run in to a jerk.. I hang out here, my msulim sisters in pakistani land are boring. and the pedophile types over in the hmmm mens section try to get me banned (truth hurts them they dont want to hear it) These ladies over here are proud of thier MENA studs if it lasts 3, 5 10, yr or forever. ALLAH is the final judge. No more this disparaging talk make everyone depressed , Im hungry for somosas.

[bhajishah 4]

WOW idle minds and time really a devils playground. jeesh mix in the internet and there you go. Im going to go now and do something constructive. husband doing inventory, me on call and no one calling. I often get ignored and whateva in here. DO I care Nahhh . jeez let these Mena sisters have thier place of support and fun. WOW. no one want to hear from a hater.

[bhajishah 4]

Oh for petes sake, everyone know it that egypt men get ugly fat with age, and women well we get better looking than them, so it balbances out, and who need kids when they get sister , brother and their kids running around here on visa.

[Nothing1234 2]

Who are you talking to?

[Dr. A ♥ O 203]

Who are you talking to?

askfruitcakelady!

[Nothing1234 2]

Who are you talking to?

askfruitcakelady!

That's what I was afraid of....

[Staashi 371]

[brnidokiegurl 0]

hum guess angel is perfect, everyone young will at one time become old so what is the age to no longer be of any use to anyone...most thin will add some weight maybe not to extreme can vary so what is the perfect size until no one will want you...what are the details to ones self to be deemed pretty, beautiful, i always thought it was in the eyes of those looking. Wondering minds are waiting for these answers. In my old age experience normally i have found those that THINK they are all that and have it DONT

[JeanneVictoria 55]

Oh for petes sake, everyone know it that egypt men get ugly fat with age, and women well we get better looking than them, so it balbances out, and who need kids when they get sister , brother and their kids running around here on visa.

You are a fruitcake.

[Nagishkaw 510]

Proper name, don't ya think?

[sara..... 371]

[JeanneVictoria 55]

Proper name, don't ya think?

[Nagishkaw 510]

I think it's more of a frontline expression. I liked Cindi better.