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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Russia
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But hey, what's a few abused, raped, tortured, and/or murdered women compared to the gutwrenching, heartbreaking inconvenience of filling out an extra form?

Imbra2005, there's no statistical proof/study that says international women are abused at a higher rate than domestic relationships. Please point me to a non-biased statistical study if it exits. Don't try to justify your position by picking and choosing individual cases. And don't tell me that ####### that American men are looking for submissive women.

This should get you started, if you are actually seeking the facts. The entire report is at:

http://legalmomentum.org/legalmomentum/files/dvusc.pdf

There is a growing body of research data demonstrating that immigrant women are a

particularly vulnerable group of victims of domestic violence. They tend to have fewer

resources, stay longer in the relationship, and sustain more severe physical and emotional

consequences as a result of the abuse and the duration of the abuse than other battered

women in the United States (Abraham, 2000; Anderson, 1993; Ammar, Orloff, Dutton &

Hass, 2005; Ammar & Orloff, 2006; Bui, 2003; Hass, Dutton, & Orloff, 2000; Menjivar

& Salcido, 2002; Raj & Silverman, 2002; Raj & Silverman, 2003; Rodriguez, 2004;

Valdez, 2005; Warrier, 2002). In particular, research studies have found that abusers of

immigrant domestic violence victims actively use their power to control their wife’s and

children’s immigration status and threats of deportation as tools that play upon victim’s

fears so as to keep their abused spouses and children from seeking help or from calling

the police to report the abuse (American Bar Association,1994; Ammar, Orloff, Dutton &

Hass, 2005; Natarajan, 2003; Orloff, Dutton, Hass, & Ammar, 2003; Raj & Silverman,

2003; Ramos & Runner, 1999; Raj, Silverman, McCleary-Sills & Liu, 2005).

Although the lifetime prevalence of domestic violence in the U.S. in the general

population is estimated at 22.1% (Tjaden & Thoennes, 2000), the prevalence of domestic

violence for immigrant women has been reported as being much higher. In a study of

immigrant Latinas in Atlanta; Perilla, Bakerman, and Norris (1994) found that half of

them have sought out assistance for abuse. The Immigrant Women’s Task Force of the

Coalition for Immigrant and Refugee Rights and Service (CIRRS, 1990) in their study of

immigrant Latina and Filipina women in the San Francisco Bay Area found that 34% of

Latinas and 20 % of Filipinas admitted experiencing domestic violence. More than half

(52%) of the battered Latina said they were still living with the abusive partner. Taken

together, studies of intimate partner violence prevalence in Latina, South Asian, and

Korean immigrant women report numbers that range from 30% to 50% (Dutton, Orloff &

Hass, 2000; Raj & Silverman, 2002ab; Rodriguez & Duran, 1995; Song, 1996).

Yeah right, just look at the source of the link. "Legal momentum - Advancing Women's Rights". I think we all know why you're here and it's not seeking advice for immigration.

Thanks for keeping an eye on all us VJ's and educating us.

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Canada
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But hey, what's a few abused, raped, tortured, and/or murdered women compared to the gutwrenching, heartbreaking inconvenience of filling out an extra form?

Imbra2005, there's no statistical proof/study that says international women are abused at a higher rate than domestic relationships. Please point me to a non-biased statistical study if it exits. Don't try to justify your position by picking and choosing individual cases. And don't tell me that ####### that American men are looking for submissive women.

This should get you started, if you are actually seeking the facts. The entire report is at:

http://legalmomentum.org/legalmomentum/files/dvusc.pdf

There is a growing body of research data demonstrating that immigrant women are a

particularly vulnerable group of victims of domestic violence. They tend to have fewer

resources, stay longer in the relationship, and sustain more severe physical and emotional

consequences as a result of the abuse and the duration of the abuse than other battered

women in the United States (Abraham, 2000; Anderson, 1993; Ammar, Orloff, Dutton &

Hass, 2005; Ammar & Orloff, 2006; Bui, 2003; Hass, Dutton, & Orloff, 2000; Menjivar

& Salcido, 2002; Raj & Silverman, 2002; Raj & Silverman, 2003; Rodriguez, 2004;

Valdez, 2005; Warrier, 2002). In particular, research studies have found that abusers of

immigrant domestic violence victims actively use their power to control their wife’s and

children’s immigration status and threats of deportation as tools that play upon victim’s

fears so as to keep their abused spouses and children from seeking help or from calling

the police to report the abuse (American Bar Association,1994; Ammar, Orloff, Dutton &

Hass, 2005; Natarajan, 2003; Orloff, Dutton, Hass, & Ammar, 2003; Raj & Silverman,

2003; Ramos & Runner, 1999; Raj, Silverman, McCleary-Sills & Liu, 2005).

Although the lifetime prevalence of domestic violence in the U.S. in the general

population is estimated at 22.1% (Tjaden & Thoennes, 2000), the prevalence of domestic

violence for immigrant women has been reported as being much higher. In a study of

immigrant Latinas in Atlanta; Perilla, Bakerman, and Norris (1994) found that half of

them have sought out assistance for abuse. The Immigrant Women’s Task Force of the

Coalition for Immigrant and Refugee Rights and Service (CIRRS, 1990) in their study of

immigrant Latina and Filipina women in the San Francisco Bay Area found that 34% of

Latinas and 20 % of Filipinas admitted experiencing domestic violence. More than half

(52%) of the battered Latina said they were still living with the abusive partner. Taken

together, studies of intimate partner violence prevalence in Latina, South Asian, and

Korean immigrant women report numbers that range from 30% to 50% (Dutton, Orloff &

Hass, 2000; Raj & Silverman, 2002ab; Rodriguez & Duran, 1995; Song, 1996).

Yeah right, just look at the source of the link. "Legal momentum - Advancing Women's Rights". I think we all know why you're here and it's not seeking advice for immigration.

Thanks for keeping an eye on all us VJ's and educating us.

yeah how horrible to try to advance womens rights. those #$%^&*@#

*January 24 2006 - mailed in I129-F petition

*January 25 2006 - I129-F received at CSC

*January 30 2006 - packet returned.....arggggggggg we forgot one signature!!

*January 31 2006 - sent I129-F back to the CSC, hope we did not forget anything else

*February 1 2006 - I129-F received at CSC again

*February 3 2006 - NOA1

*April 20 2006 - NOA2!!!!!

*April 24 2006 - Touched!

*May 15 2006 - NVC received petition today!

*May 17 2006 - Case left NVC today!!

*May 30 2006 - Received Packet 3 from Vancouver!

*May 30 2006 - Faxed back Packet 3!!

*June 6 2006 - Received packet 4!

*June 20 2006 - Medical in Saskatoon

*June 28 2006 - Interview in Vancouver!!

*June 28 2006 - GOT THE VISA!!!*June 30 2006 - Moving day!

*July 3 2006 - Home at last!!

*July 28 2006 - married!

*September 13 2006 - Mailed AOS/EAD package

*September 25 2006 - Received NOA for AOS/EAD

*October 6 2006 - Biometrics appointments

*October 10 2006 - Touched!

*October 19 2006 - Transferred to CSC!

*October 26 2006 - Received by CSC

*October 27 2006 - Touched

*October 28 2006 - Touched again

*October 31 2006 - Touched again

*November 2 2006 - Touched again

*November 3 2006- and another touch

*November 7 2006- touched

*November 7 2006 - My case approved, still waiting for kids!

*November 8 2006 - Touched my case again

*November 13 2006 - Greencard arrived...yeah I can work!

*November 14 2006 - Touched my case again

*January 2007 - RFE for kids Greencard.

*February 2007 - kids medical and sent in RFE

*February 2007 - Received kids greencards

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Yeah right, just look at the source of the link. "Legal momentum - Advancing Women's Rights". I think we all know why you're here and it's not seeking advice for immigration.

Thanks for keeping an eye on all us VJ's and educating us.

Yes, shoot the messenger when the message isn't to your liking. You asked for the studies, and that group has compiled them. Rational discussion is out of the question, isn't it?

Oh, and you have no idea why I'm here, but I do find your conspiracy theories entertaining.

Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Russia
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I am all for protecting the rights of women throughout the world, as in many cases their voices are not being heard. It is an epidemic of sorts, and I can agree foreign women coming to the US are at risk.

However, parts of the IMBRA law just doesn't cut it for me. The police check is a wonderful idea. You must realize that there was still a background check being done on the USC, and this isn't going to suddenly expose a mass of criminals. It will expose some though, and that is great!

I just can't agree with what I understand about the rest of it. Someone please explain how the background checks before you even get someones phone number will reduce the occurance of this crime? Do you think all criminals will continue to use these services? Do you think there is no other way for them to contact women? What about our American women? Shouldn't we protect them in the same manner? Why as a man am I assumed guilty until proven innocent?

K1 Visa Process long ago and far away...

02/09/06 - NOA1 date

12/17/06 - Married!

AOS Process a fading memory...

01/31/07 - Mailed AOS/EAD package for Olga and Anya

06/01/07 - Green card arrived in mail

Removing Conditions

03/02/09 - Mailed I-751 package (CSC)

03/06/09 - Check cashed

03/10/09 - Recieved Olga's NOA1

03/28/09 - Olga did biometrics

05/11/09 - Anya recieved NOA1 (took a call to USCIS to take care of it, oddly, they were helpful)

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I am all for protecting the rights of women throughout the world, as in many cases their voices are not being heard. [...]

I just can't agree with what I understand about the rest of it. Someone please explain how the background checks before you even get someones phone number will reduce the occurance of this crime? Do you think all criminals will continue to use these services? Do you think there is no other way for them to contact women? What about our American women? Shouldn't we protect them in the same manner? Why as a man am I assumed guilty until proven innocent?

Well.. if i understand correctly, it doesn't even apply to all the non-american women the same way... Only to those who wish to marry in the US... apparently, marrying outside US and subsequently applying for a CR1 makes them somehow less vulnerable to abuse. :wacko: Which makes this law discriminating by definition.

The land of the free? Ha! I wonder what the ACLU thinks. Suddendly I need paperwork BEFORE I date someone?

Correction. Not before you date. Before you speak to, or make any contact.

I agree though, petition is poorly written, even style- and spelling-wise, and tries to focus on the brokers-related aspects of the law for the most part, while in fact IMHO there's much more to the discrimination imposed by the law regardless whether broker was involved or not. Indeed, sounds like written by a broker's lobbyist.. Most people (at least whom i know) did not use any brokers, and the aspects of the law that would apply to most of the people are not emphasized in the petition at all. The whole tone leaves an impression that someone with a vested interest just tries to capitalize on mass resentment and back-firing issues that this law seems to cause.

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Malaysia
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To me, it is really not about the law, it is really how this law being rollout and implement... Simple to say, if the process is not ready and in place for the law, it should not recall cases that already in the path and pipeline...

I think added with an additional classification, Form or VISA type might be a better solution to accommodate the law instead of impacting everyone applying for K1 VISA.

IMBRA, by the name shouldn’t it be just applicable to the International marriage broker? Why does it impacting everyone in the K1 path?

Sheldon (US) & Wendy (Malaysia)

2003-April – Meet my fiancé at work place

2003-July – Engagement

2005-May - Appointed an Attorney to work on our K1 VISA

2005-Aug – Attorney mishandling our case, they told us will expedite our case

2006-02-16 to 2006-03-09 - With my fiancé in US for our new apartment move

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

2006-03-09 - I-129F Sent to VSC

2006-03-13 - NOA1

2006-03-25 - NOA2

2006-03-27 - NVC Received

2006-03-29 - NVC Left

2006-04-10 - Sent email to Embassy for Packet 3, Consular advice Packet 3 has sent on 10 April

2006-04-21 - Received Packet 3!

2006-04-24 - Sent DS230 Part 1 and Checklist back to Embassy

2006-04-28 – Self collected Packet 4 at Embassy and make appointment for medical

2006-04-29 - Medical check-up

2006-05-11 - Interview Day!!!! - APPROVED!!!

2006-05-15 - Submitted my resignation from work

2006-05-17 - Got a call from Embassy, my visa issuance ON HOLD due to new law IMBRA, they are not able to issue my VISA!!!

2006-05-19 - Pick up my passport without VISA. No information as to when my VISA will be ready...

2006-05-22 - Embassy inform that our case has sent back to NVC via FedEx

2006-06-24 - Last day of my job after serving 1 month notice. (Manage to extend my last work day to 6/24)

~~~ Still don't know what they need from us...

2006-06-25 - USC's finace fly to Malaysia...

Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Canada
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Imbra2005, is this new Act connected in some way with immigration reform in general? Is the government quietly closing many loopholes that were previously abused? (It would help if you identified yourself in order to have some credibility.)

I-130 sent Mar 30, 06

approved Aug 15, 06

I-129f sent April 24, 06

approved July 27, 06

Montreal interview Jan 18, 07

POE Toronto Jan 28, 07

EAD sent Jan. 30, 07

transferred to Vermont Feb 12

biometrics Feb 22

approved March 13

card returned undeliverable! March 27

called after 6 weeks to have EAD re-sent

AOS sent Jan. 30, 07

biometrics Feb 22

RFE for complete medical (!) Feb 23

Called Senator from NJ - never returned call

Infopass March 19 (no help)

Replied to RFE with duplicate medical March 19

Sent additional evidence (I-693A) March 26

NBC received supplement March 30

touched April 4

Interview July 16

Filed: K-1 Visa Country: United Kingdom
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Imbra2005, is this new Act connected in some way with immigration reform in general? Is the government quietly closing many loopholes that were previously abused? (It would help if you identified yourself in order to have some credibility.)

Just had to put my two cents in on this one.

First of all alot of what is in the IMBRA law will have to be sorted out in the courts. Including what is the definition of "marriage broker"

Second this law is long overdue, and is part of the effort going on internationally to control the issue of trafficing in humans.

Third if USCIS would have had their act together, this would have had very little impact on those of us involved in trying to get our fiancees or spouses approval to enter the US

If you look at all the court cases already filed againest IMBRA, you will find that they are sponsored by the very agencies that this law is out to control. The Marriage Broker business is a multi million (maybe even billion) dollar business that takes advantage and exploits everyone involved with it. It is the law perfect? NO.

But it at least addresses an issue that should have been addressed years ago.

Just for the fun of it, I too like the theory of IMBRA2005 being a plant and part of some effort to control us.

Maybe we are more important than what we thought!!! (notice tongue in cheek here)

June 05 Lisa and I fall in love

15 Mar 06 I-129F received at CSC NOA1

5 Aug 06 NOA2 after 143 days in CSC purgatory

20 Oct 06 Interview Date

16 Feb 07 Denial Letter received

12 Mar 07 Motion to reconsider submitted

10 Sep 07 Motion to Reconsider denied

9 May 08 Lisa and Married in United Kingdom

23 May 08 I-130 filed

Oct 08 NOA-2 received

May 7 09 Lisa's Interview I 601 filed

29 Jul 09 I-601 waiver approved

18 Aug 09 Passport to London Embassy

20 Aug 09 Tickets purchased for 10 Sep 09

WE HAVE FINALLY WON, OUR LONG AND HARD JOURNEY IS COMPLETE!!!!!!

Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Canada
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Imbra2005, is this new Act connected in some way with immigration reform in general? Is the government quietly closing many loopholes that were previously abused? (It would help if you identified yourself in order to have some credibility.)

Several people have asked the same thing of Imbra2005 but they dont respond to who they are. Sounds like what you would call astroturfing if you ask me, so I wouldn't worry too much about it...

Anyways I have to agree the law does have some good ideas in it...but there is also many loop holes as previously mentioned that its some what sad as the ultimate goal of protecting people is going to be far from achieved here.

Same thing will happen as always...criminals will still get passed that and they still can be abussive. Does that make people using K1 more abusive then others...I hardly think so and to label people as such is sad. Domestic Abuse calls make up a good percentage of emergency service calls in a day its a very common thing within the US, Canada, and most places around the world already so to label people using K1 visa's the way Imbra2005 has tried to do is some what suspect...Bottom line good law, poorly written, and people with criminal intent will still sneak through the system as always.

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ppboo,

Because the name given to the Act reflects only one part of what the Act encompasses, the name does not reflect the full scope of the Act.

Yodrak

...

IMBRA, by the name shouldn't it be just applicable to the International marriage broker? Why does it impacting everyone in the K1 path?

Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Ukraine
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IMBRA is Done.

I was sponsored by hilary clinton adn signed by US President Bush.

See how it affects US Citizens:

See:

www.usaimmigrationattorney.com/nucleus/

(go to bottom and click on "Read More")

See:

http://www.latineuro.com/garybalasview.htm

Now sign the petition!

http://www.petitiononline.com/imbra05/petition.html

geez!

Filed: K-1 Visa Country: China
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But hey, what's a few abused, raped, tortured, and/or murdered women compared to the gutwrenching, heartbreaking inconvenience of filling out an extra form?

Imbra2005, there's no statistical proof/study that says international women are abused at a higher rate than domestic relationships. Please point me to a non-biased statistical study if it exits. Don't try to justify your position by picking and choosing individual cases. And don't tell me that ####### that American men are looking for submissive women.

This should get you started, if you are actually seeking the facts. The entire report is at:

http://legalmomentum.org/legalmomentum/files/dvusc.pdf

There is a growing body of research data demonstrating that immigrant women are a

particularly vulnerable group of victims of domestic violence. They tend to have fewer

resources, stay longer in the relationship, and sustain more severe physical and emotional

consequences as a result of the abuse and the duration of the abuse than other battered

women in the United States (Abraham, 2000; Anderson, 1993; Ammar, Orloff, Dutton &

Hass, 2005; Ammar & Orloff, 2006; Bui, 2003; Hass, Dutton, & Orloff, 2000; Menjivar

& Salcido, 2002; Raj & Silverman, 2002; Raj & Silverman, 2003; Rodriguez, 2004;

Valdez, 2005; Warrier, 2002). In particular, research studies have found that abusers of

immigrant domestic violence victims actively use their power to control their wife’s and

children’s immigration status and threats of deportation as tools that play upon victim’s

fears so as to keep their abused spouses and children from seeking help or from calling

the police to report the abuse (American Bar Association,1994; Ammar, Orloff, Dutton &

Hass, 2005; Natarajan, 2003; Orloff, Dutton, Hass, & Ammar, 2003; Raj & Silverman,

2003; Ramos & Runner, 1999; Raj, Silverman, McCleary-Sills & Liu, 2005).

Although the lifetime prevalence of domestic violence in the U.S. in the general

population is estimated at 22.1% (Tjaden & Thoennes, 2000), the prevalence of domestic

violence for immigrant women has been reported as being much higher. In a study of

immigrant Latinas in Atlanta; Perilla, Bakerman, and Norris (1994) found that half of

them have sought out assistance for abuse. The Immigrant Women’s Task Force of the

Coalition for Immigrant and Refugee Rights and Service (CIRRS, 1990) in their study of

immigrant Latina and Filipina women in the San Francisco Bay Area found that 34% of

Latinas and 20 % of Filipinas admitted experiencing domestic violence. More than half

(52%) of the battered Latina said they were still living with the abusive partner. Taken

together, studies of intimate partner violence prevalence in Latina, South Asian, and

Korean immigrant women report numbers that range from 30% to 50% (Dutton, Orloff &

Hass, 2000; Raj & Silverman, 2002ab; Rodriguez & Duran, 1995; Song, 1996).

First off let me say that I think some of what IMBRA does is good. I have no problem with making sure that a foreign fiance knows about a past history of violence. The main problem is the implementation.

That being said, your quoted studies are not statistically supportive of this issue. If you want to give some evidence, you need to show studies of abuse where the abuser was American and the abused was an immigrant. That is the only way you can logically show support of your argument.

Again, I am not against the intent of IMBRA, but if you want to debate, you need to use statistics that are valid to the issue.

I think a lot of this debate has decended into personal attack, which does not really add much value to this forum. Those of us that have had our applications held up indefinitely are naturally frustrated by the situation that we find ourselves in, but I think that some of the ideas being posted here are counter productive. Flooding USCIS with communication will likely not serve any more purpose than to slow down our applications further.

Am I frustrated? Absolutely. Do I want to do something to complain about it? You bet. Will it help? I am not sure at this point.

Qiao

我爱小兔子

Filed: K-1 Visa Country: United Kingdom
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I'm tired of hearing the sob stories of how this law affects only American men.... HELLO :no: I am the petitioner and I'm female, and it is delaying the process for me in the same way as it is the male petitioners.

And can we PLEASE throw petitions and legal injunctions into the equation??.... I'm SURE it will help to speed up this whole mess.. LET IT GO. If you don't have a criminal record, then what are you so worried about? If the US gov't had their act together, nobody would even care about this law.

Stacey (USA) & Carl (ENGLAND)

06-2005.... met in an online game room & knew instantly we

............... were meant to be together.. not a day has gone by that

............... we haven't spoken with one another

09-2005.... went on holiday with Carl in England

................ (he proposed and I accepted!!!)

12-2005.... Carl came to the US on holiday

03-2006.... went on holiday once again in England

03-23-2006.... mailed I-129F

03-27-2006.... NOA1 - received at nsc

06-01-2006.... e-mail notice of transfer to csc

06-02-2006.... touched

06-03-2006.... touched

06-05-2006.... paper notice of transfer to csc received in mail

06-10-2006.... 2nd paper notice of transfer to csc received in mail

06-14-2006.... touched

06-15-2006.... touched

06-16-2006.... touched

06-17-2006.... touched

07-03-2006.... touched (email notice of RFE)

07-03-2006.... RFE (imbra) received in mail

07-04-2006.... touched (on a holiday even!)

07-05-2006.... RFE sent via express mail to CSC

07-05-2006.... touched

07-06-2006.... RFE received at CSC

08-07-2006.... NOA2

Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Ukraine
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I'm tired of hearing the sob stories of how this law affects only American men.... HELLO :no: I am the petitioner and I'm female, and it is delaying the process for me in the same way as it is the male petitioners.

And can we PLEASE throw petitions and legal injunctions into the equation??.... I'm SURE it will help to speed up this whole mess.. LET IT GO. If you don't have a criminal record, then what are you so worried about? If the US gov't had their act together, nobody would even care about this law.

IMBRA is Done.

It was sponsored by hilary clinton and signed into law by US President Bush.

See how it affects US Citizens:

See:

www.usaimmigrationattorney.com/nucleus/

(go to bottom and click on "Read More")

See:

http://www.latineuro.com/garybalasview.htm

Here is a petition to sign:

http://www.petitiononline.com/imbra05/petition.html

 

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