green card marriages, ladies beware

[Staashi 371]

I am so confused

is there a reason why we arent allowed to talk about this?

open the fruit cake's profile. look at display name history. used to be cindi shah. go to review all posts. click the double arrow thing to go to the first post ever. a more eloquent person who likely had english as their first language posted under the profile. now, well you can read the later posts. so we are wondering what happened to cindi shah or the original person who was posting under this profile. and we hope she is safe, and OK.

Aha!

Now *I'm* confused.

Seems like the same Cindi we all know and love to me!

some of the posts seem like the poster is either under the influence or english isnt the first language or one of their alternate personalities took over. or its a different person. the posts were much different before in my opinion than lately. maybe a couple sharing their ID, i dont know.

Yeah, at first I thought fruitcakelady was a man because of the way she talked. I had to look twice at her profile name. LOL.

Fruitcakelady is a man - that is CindiShah's husband.

[bhajishah 4]

Clarissa explains it all!! Bullseye Howd ya know. you must be my neighbor the one who never comes out the house and is peering behind curtain all day. WOW

[morocco4ever 63]

Clarissa explains it all!! Bullseye Howd ya know. you must be my neighbor the one who never comes out the house and is peering behind curtain all day. WOW

Okay, who is Clarissa?

[bhajishah 4]

Ur right no man hating Hos and ####### fests going on in mass orgy over there on the Desi thread. what a shame. someone hand me a tissue please

[Ban Hammer 13,342]

I am so confused

is there a reason why we arent allowed to talk about this?

open the fruit cake's profile. look at display name history. used to be cindi shah. go to review all posts. click the double arrow thing to go to the first post ever. a more eloquent person who likely had english as their first language posted under the profile. now, well you can read the later posts. so we are wondering what happened to cindi shah or the original person who was posting under this profile. and we hope she is safe, and OK.

Aha!

and now you know why i said you was a noob

[bhajishah 4]

thank yo ubrother charles, Im leaving with my dignity and my mmultiple personalities, going to find husband food b4 he comes home . Qudah Hafiz

[Sofiyya 1,687]

I knew something had gone haywire from the time when cindi was cindi. The posts didn't "sound" like her anymore and they didn't

sound" like a woman anymore. It actually hasn't been that long since her hubby "hijacked" her account, but it sure was noticable.

Hello, cindi's hubby. Carry on.

[Nothing1234 2]

Wow...that's just so wrong. Poor Cindi. Plus the fact that her husband is married to a male as well...."going to find husband food b4 he comes home "....dear god, what's he into?

[JeanneVictoria 55]

He/she has one too many nuts in the fruitcake, or an identity crisis.

[Imua 0]

Ur right no man hating Hos and ####### fests going on in mass orgy over there on the Desi thread. what a shame. someone hand me a tissue please

The desi thread is booooorrrrriiiiiiing - now you know why I hang in MENA.

I guess there isn't much drama when you're an ABCD marrying the girl your parents picked out for you(after breaking the heart of some sincere gori who you always intended on dumping because 'ama wouldn't approve', going to India for 'a family emergency' and then coming back to the US married to a girl you only met once) - maybe the drama starts once they get here.

[childress_london 3]

I am so confused

is there a reason why we arent allowed to talk about this?

open the fruit cake's profile. look at display name history. used to be cindi shah. go to review all posts. click the double arrow thing to go to the first post ever. a more eloquent person who likely had english as their first language posted under the profile. now, well you can read the later posts. so we are wondering what happened to cindi shah or the original person who was posting under this profile. and we hope she is safe, and OK.

Aha!

and now you know why i said you was a noob

Yes, and this is why I know nothing and ask questions. Cindi was before my time. B)

[Jenn! 918]

Clarissa explains it all!! Bullseye Howd ya know. you must be my neighbor the one who never comes out the house and is peering behind curtain all day. WOW

Okay, who is Clarissa?

Clarissa Explains It All was a Nickelodeon show with Melissa Joan Hart that I used to watch.

[morocco4ever 63]

Clarissa explains it all!! Bullseye Howd ya know. you must be my neighbor the one who never comes out the house and is peering behind curtain all day. WOW

Okay, who is Clarissa?

Clarissa Explains It All was a Nickelodeon show with Melissa Joan Hart that I used to watch.

Okay, well this certainly does clear (cloud) things up doesn't it!

[teenutty 0]

Dear Nutcake,

Please try to control your anti-India sentiments. India and Pakistan have intoo much in common since it was basically one country until about 60 years ago. The mud you throw at them, falls on yourself.

Ur right no man hating Hos and ####### fests going on in mass orgy over there on the Desi thread. what a shame. someone hand me a tissue please

Edited January 29, 2009 by teenutty

[pch1 64]

Hello Ladies,

I want to talk to you about something serious... Internet dating. I have made many friends from on here...MANY! Out of all these marriages from the middle eastern marriages I know of ONE that is real. Where the man did not marry for the green card. I know I know I said, oh my husband didnt do that!!! But trust me , he did.

Please think twice before marriage.

I am filing for bankruptcy, I am losing my house, I almost lost my children... God think twice!!!!!

I pray that any of you who even question ONCE that he may be marrying for the wrong reasons... think about it. Marriages where they marry an older woman is a HUGE red flag. Sorry ladies, but it is true.

Good luck

I am sorry for what you have to go through. Its like they say, "LOVE IS BLIND." or is it? Well, I hope many women as yourself can read your warning with an open mind and leave that stupid heart alone for a minute and instead use their God given brain. Once a woman is trapped in such a relationship, it would be hard to convince her even if she hears with her own ears and see with her own eyes, she will still deny the truth...

I wish you the best and thank you for bringing this message to attention of all people out there contemplating marriage to a foreign national.

Edited January 30, 2009 by Pch1