anyone??? who knows how to file for alimony and child support???

[mrs. harris 0]

hi there guys!!! i reaally need help on how to file for alimony and child support...i'm from the philippines...my husband is from nevada, usa. we were married for 2 1/2 years...and my petition was approved last july 2, 2008...not knowing that there's something going on there...he cheated on me...he is now living with this other woman, who has 2 sons with another man...by the way...he cancelled the petition...and i received the cancellation letter from usem...last september...we have a son...who is deeply hurt by his sudden change/decision...he rarely calls his son and rarely send allowance for our son...i suddenly realize that i should file for child support for my son...(i just dont know where to start)...my friend told me...that not only i can file for child support but also...i can file for alimony...we were abandoned..and i was really devasted....it's new year now...and i realize that..i have to fight for our right...i have to be strong for the sake of my son....i've been gone and quiet for a while...but now...it's time to move on....i know i have to...and i can do it!!!

[desert_fox 32]

You would need to contact a nevada attorney within the county where he is living, and file a complaint. Did he ever bother to get a divorce???

[JVKn'CVO 11]

hi there guys!!! i reaally need help on how to file for alimony and child support...i'm from the philippines...my husband is from nevada, usa. we were married for 2 1/2 years...and my petition was approved last july 2, 2008...not knowing that there's something going on there...he cheated on me...he is now living with this other woman, who has 2 sons with another man...by the way...he cancelled the petition...and i received the cancellation letter from usem...last september...we have a son...who is deeply hurt by his sudden change/decision...he rarely calls his son and rarely send allowance for our son...i suddenly realize that i should file for child support for my son...(i just dont know where to start)...my friend told me...that not only i can file for child support but also...i can file for alimony...we were abandoned..and i was really devasted....it's new year now...and i realize that..i have to fight for our right...i have to be strong for the sake of my son....i've been gone and quiet for a while...but now...it's time to move on....i know i have to...and i can do it!!!

Here in Texas there is a child support hotline that you can call to get help. I know because we have it posted in our work's newsboard. I think if you can google that in your area I think it may be available and would be a good starting point.

Good luck

Saludos,

Caro

[Ling Ling 22]

This needs to be MOVED to "Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits" where it will get the attention and experienced answers you need.

Hopefully when Charles or the other mods get over their hangovers....it'll be moved.

To your issue at hand, it sounds like you've got a very good case. The courts don't look very favorably on abandonment.

Find an attorney...don't worry about the cost...if your husband can afford it, he'll be made to pay.

Sorry this had to happen to you. Jerks like him make it hard for the good guys.

[pinktulips2012 1]

This needs to be MOVED to "Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits" where it will get the attention and experienced answers you need.

Hopefully when Charles or the other mods get over their hangovers....it'll be moved. where r u charles. mbc???

To your issue at hand, it sounds like you've got a very good case. The courts don't look very favorably on abandonment.

Find an attorney...don't worry about the cost...if your husband can afford it, he'll be made to pay.

Sorry this had to happen to you. Jerks like him make it hard for the good guys.

im sorry to hear that, if the moderator will move ur topic 2 d right forum im sure u will get more info.

goodluck sis!!!

Edited January 1, 2009 by stevent

[Ban Hammer 13,490]

mbc as suggested above.

Hopefully when Charles or the other mods get over their hangovers....it'll be moved.

[Cham 3]

here you go I hope this helps you!

http://www.womenslaw.org/laws_state_type.p...p;state_code=NV

if you scroll down on this one it will explain a lot!!

http://www.womansdivorce.com/nevada.html#LAW

[Jasman0717 9]

Go to a local Child Support Services for your state, they should be able to help you. Are you in California?

Edited January 1, 2009 by jasman0717

[diadromous mermaid 36]

Was the K-3 visa petition approved in July 2008? Are you still in your native country?

hi there guys!!! i reaally need help on how to file for alimony and child support...i'm from the philippines...my husband is from nevada, usa. we were married for 2 1/2 years...and my petition was approved last july 2, 2008...not knowing that there's something going on there...he cheated on me...he is now living with this other woman, who has 2 sons with another man...by the way...he cancelled the petition...and i received the cancellation letter from usem...last september...we have a son...who is deeply hurt by his sudden change/decision...he rarely calls his son and rarely send allowance for our son...i suddenly realize that i should file for child support for my son...(i just dont know where to start)...my friend told me...that not only i can file for child support but also...i can file for alimony...we were abandoned..and i was really devasted....it's new year now...and i realize that..i have to fight for our right...i have to be strong for the sake of my son....i've been gone and quiet for a while...but now...it's time to move on....i know i have to...and i can do it!!!

[Old Dominion 26]

I read your timeline. It looks as if you are still in the Phils, and will not be getting the visa because he withdrew the petition after it was approved. If so, I doubt you have a valid claim to file anywhere although perhaps a Phils lawyer could make noises in Nevada to see what happens.

[Carlos and Jocel 2]

YES, you definetely entitle to child support and alimony. Since you , I suppose, have copied of married certificates, his information...etc.. they will be able to track him down. Getting an attorney may be the best way since you there in the Philippines and he is Nevada. Not is not fair for you, don't let run away from his responsibility. GO GET HIM, it's the law to pay child support and now alimony.

[Carlos and Jocel 2]

OLD Dominion, she is entitled for support for her child eventhough she lives in other country. If they have these child together, yes indeed she can get her husband or even ex to support her child.

[Old Dominion 26]

I expect that only a lawyer would know. She has no standing, so far as I am aware, to file anything in an American court. Yes, ethically she should be entitled to child support but suing for it is another thing. How can she appear in court on her behalf?

[desert_fox 32]

I expect that only a lawyer would know. She has no standing, so far as I am aware, to file anything in an American court. Yes, ethically she should be entitled to child support but suing for it is another thing. How can she appear in court on her behalf?

You're right. She cant file in Nevada without being a resident. She would have to use some court in the P.I.'s

Edited January 2, 2009 by desert_fox

[rmncm 0]

Even using a court in the Philippines she is still screwed. No court order in the phils is valid in the US. Being she is neither a USC or a PR she has no rights in this regards. I am very sorry to say that out of country child support is not enforcable. Proving that her child is that of a USC will be quit hard also. I am very sorry to say but your situation is not looking good.

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I am very sorry that you got screwed like this.