Getting Married Too Young

[Chica Yeyé 41]

I'm 29 and sometimes my wife says I act like a 12 year-old...

SHUT UP

I thought DP was circa 46....

I thought deadpool was older than that too

Well... back in my day, we didn't have these here fancy type writers! No sir, we used ink quill pens! While walking forty miles in the snow in our underwear! We couldn't afford a pool -- had to use the neighbor's septic tank. We were tough, unlike you young folk today!

Moi? Jeune? No brother, I am proudly *gulp* 37

[Ban Hammer 13,355]

I'm 29 and sometimes my wife says I act like a 12 year-old...

What is your real name, BTW?

I am the terror that flaps in the night...

Drake?

Darkwing Duck?

chupacabra?

[mawilson 2,133]

I say wait until your fify or so. By then you'll be done sowing your wild oats.

Who's Fify?

[DeadPoolX 9]

I say wait until your fify or so. By then you'll be done sowing your wild oats.

Who's Fify?

A miniature poodle, perhaps?

[Waldo 0]

Here's what I think.

1-3 is obviously too young.

3-12 is good. The age they know true love, don't have any expenses so they are good.

12 through 20 is too young.

Then then it gets touchy the males are ready 21-35 while the females don't are too busy at the clubs and into themselves.

Then 35-50 its the reciprocal where the males are too busy for mid life crises (unless they married a 7 year old) and the females want to settle down and start a family... again.

If they've made it to 50 both of them are good to go again!

[alex and astrid 38]

At the time we file for our K-1, I will be 22 and my fiance will be 23. By the time it is approved (hopefully!) I will be 23 and my fiance will be not far off 24. We're coming up on 4 years strong together and yet people still tell us we are too young. Every marriage is different, and as long as the two people in the relationship feel ready, then what is it to others? They're not the ones being joined for life.

[alienlovechild 75]

It's a myth that marrying younger leads to higher risk of divorce.

Sure about that?

What Factors are Associated with Divorce

and/or Marital Unhappiness?

This is not an exhaustive list of risk factors, but the list contains those that have been found in various ways by many researchers to increase the odds of a couple experiencing unhappiness and divorce.

Factors THAT ARE HARD TO CHANGE ONCE You are MARRIED (Static Risk factors):

Having a personality tendency to react strongly or defensively to problems and disappointments

Having divorced parents

Living together prior to marriage

Being previously divorced, yourself or your partner

Having children from a previous marriage

Having different religious backgrounds

Marrying at a very young age (for example, at the age of 18 or 19; the average these days is about 25 or 26 years of age for first marriages).

Knowing each other only for a short time before marriage

Experiencing financial hardship

http://www.prepinc.com/main/docs/what_factors.html

[msu17 0]

Here's what I think.

1-3 is obviously too young.

3-12 is good. The age they know true love, don't have any expenses so they are good.

12 through 20 is too young.

Then then it gets touchy the males are ready 21-35 while the females don't are too busy at the clubs and into themselves.

Then 35-50 its the reciprocal where the males are too busy for mid life crises (unless they married a 7 year old) and the females want to settle down and start a family... again.

If they've made it to 50 both of them are good to go again!

Seriously??? 21-35 yo men are the ones that can't get serious. The girls at the club at 30 are just desperate or sluts. Not quality. Besides who actually goes to a club anymore??? CREEPY!