When a Woman Isn't In the Mood: Part II

[Chica Yeyé 41]

(Men need to understand that intercourse should not necessarily be the goal of every sexual encounter.)

This is the part I don't understand. Literally. I mean...it's all English words and stuff, but it's not arranged in any order that's comprehensible to me. Is it a typo or what?

Translation: Me so horny...me love you long time?

OMFG

Best.Post.Of.The.Day.

[Jenn! 918]

There is something to be said for "just sucking it up and doing it", pun intended.

However, methinks this guy just doesn't get it when he wants it.

...and this part:

2. Why would a loving, wise woman allow mood to determine whether or not she will give her husband one of the most important expressions of love she can show him? What else in life, of such significance, do we allow to be governed by mood?

I don't know who he is trying to kid, but what the husband is craving for isn't just a need to feel loved by his wife.

Perhaps not, but I understand what the author was saying. Mood isn't a justifiable excuse for most areas of life.

If she's not feeling very keen about having sex with her husband to a point that it becomes a problem in the marriage, then they both should see a therapist. There are many 'turn-offs' as well 'turn-ons' for each partner. It's not very appealing, IMO, for a spouse to be merely going through the motions just to satisfy their husband's sexual appetite.

All in all, I'd have to agree. However, if either partner is denying the other sex (on purpose or not) then a whole multitude of problems can occur.

Inevitably, libido will differ between the two in the couple (usually the man wants it more often, but that doesn't have to be the case). There are 3 options I guess: have as much sex as the man wants, have as much sex as the woman wants, or have some sort of compromise. While, no, it's not pleasant to just be going through the motions, that's part of compromise, doing things you wouldn't do if the choice were solely up to you. So I can see this guy's point.

Steven, would you say that someone should never have sex unless they are in the mood?

[mox 298]

Translation: Me so horny...me love you long time?

Are you flirting with me?

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Perhaps not, but I understand what the author was saying. Mood isn't a justifiable excuse for most areas of life.

Yes and perhaps if he hadn't gone off on his anti-"60's thinking"-tirade he might still have a shred of credibility (with me at least, I'm sure there are plenty who agree with him).

I agree. I'm not sure what his point was with that.

Because Prager is linking the Women's Movement with the sexual unhappiness of married men.

WHAT? You mean they are NOT related? I thought Feminism was the root of all evil.... + the perfect pansy for short-endowed men

Yeah, thanks women, for taking away our sexual prowess. Getting married now is like a lion getting de-fanged and de-clawed....turns us into big p@@@y cats.

Translation: Me so horny...me love you long time?

Are you flirting with me?

You got fitty dollah, Joe?

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Steven and Mox, sitting on a treeeee.... la la la la la

[Tahoma 2,292]

This probably isn't relevant but it thought it was funny. My sister found it in an old book she had. She thought it a funny joke so gave it to my daughter on her wedding day

Instruction and advice for the young Bride:

Printed by Spiritual Guidance press in 1884

To the young woman who has had the benefits of a proper upbringing, the wedding day is, ironically, both the happiest and the most terrifying day of her life. On the positive side, there is the wedding itself, in which the bride is the central attraction in a beautiful and inspiring ceremony, symbolizing her triumph in securing a male to provide for all her needs for the rest of her life. On the negative side, there is the wedding night, during which the bride must pay the piper, so to speak, by facing for the first time the terrifible experience of sex.

At this point, dear reader, let me concede one shocking truth. Some young women actually anticipate the wedding night ordeal with curiosity and pleasure. Beware such an attitude! One cardinal rule of marriage should never be forgotten: GIVE LITTLE, GIVE SELDOM AND ABOVE ALL, GIVE GRUDGINGLY. Otherwise what could have been a proper marriage could become an orgy of sexual lust. On the other hand, the bride’s terror need not be extreme. While sex, at best, is revolting and, at worst, painful, it has to be endured, and has been endured by women since the beginning of time.

Most men, if not denied, would demand sex almost every day. The wise bride will permit a maximum of two brief sexual experiences weekly during the first months of marriage. As time goes by, she should make every effort to reduce this frequency.

Feigned illness, sleepiness and headaches are among the bride’s best friends. Arguments, nagging, scolding and bickering also prove effective, if used about an hour before the husband would normally commence his seduction. A good wife should expect to have reduced sexual contacts to once a week at the end of the first year and to once a month by the end of the fifth year of marriage. By their tenth anniversary many wives have achieved the ultimate goal of terminating all sexual contacts with the husband. She can depend upon his love for the children and social pressures to hold the husband in the home.

Sex, when it cannot be prevented, should be practiced clothed and only in total darkness. Once the bride has donned her gown and turned off the lights, she should lie quietly upon the bead and await her groom. When he comes groping into the room she should make no sound to guide him. She should let him grope in the dark. When he finds her, the wife should lie as still as possible.

As soon as the husband has completed the act, the wise wife will start nagging him about various minor tasks she wishes him to perform on the morrow. Many men obtain a major portion of their satisfaction from the peaceful exhaustion immediately after the act is over. Thus the wife must ensure that there is no peace for him to enjoy.

One heartening factor is the fact that the husband’s home, school, church and social environment have been working together all through his life to instill in him a deep sense of guilt in regards to his sexual feelings. The wife seizes upon this advantage and relentlessly pursues her goal first to limit, later to annihilate completely her husband'’ desire for sexual expression.

Sorry about the double posting...I was laughing so hard that I hit the "Proceed" button.

This article is hilarious...I can't stop laughing...a BIG thanks for posting it...it's a classic!!!

> "Thus the wife must ensure that there is no peace (piece?) for him to enjoy".......too funny......!!!

[JVKn'CVO 11]

Why the stereotype? women enjoy loving too

Saludos,

Caro

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Why the stereotype? women enjoy loving too

Saludos,

Caro

Good point, sister Caro. Sometimes it's the husband who is not in the mood...like when he's watching a ball game.

[mox 298]

Steven and Mox, sitting on a treeeee.... la la la la la

Jealous!

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Why the stereotype? women enjoy loving too

Saludos,

Caro

Good point, sister Caro. Sometimes it's the husband who is not in the mood...like when he's watching a ball game.

Where's AJ when you need him to make a snarky comment???

Steven and Mox, sitting on a treeeee.... la la la la la

Jealous!

Of you perverts' so called "ball game"?????????????

[Amby 490]

hmmmm

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Steven and Mox, sitting on a treeeee.... la la la la la

Jealous!

Where's Marc (Rogue) when you need him? All this **-erotic would turn him Japanese. Maybe he's got his hands full.

[JVKn'CVO 11]

Why the stereotype? women enjoy loving too

Saludos,

Caro

Good point, sister Caro. Sometimes it's the husband who is not in the mood...like when he's watching a ball game.

Where's AJ when you need him to make a snarky comment???

Steven and Mox, sitting on a treeeee.... la la la la la

Jealous!

Of you perverts' so called "ball game"?????????????

Saludos,

Caro

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Steven and Mox, sitting on a treeeee.... la la la la la

Jealous!

Where's Marc (Rogue) when you need him? All this **-erotic would turn him Japanese. Maybe he's got his hands full.

You win brother.

[Empress of Groovy 373]

1. If most women wait until they are in the mood before making love with their husband, many women will be waiting a month or more until they next have sex. When most women are young, and for some older women, spontaneously getting in the mood to have sex with the man they love can easily occur. But for most women, for myriad reasons -- female nature, childhood trauma, not feeling sexy, being preoccupied with some problem, fatigue after a day with the children and/or other work, just not being interested -- there is little comparable to a man’s “out of nowhere,” and seemingly constant, desire for sex.

Well, if it's female nature that's keeping Mrs. Prager from putting out, Dennis doesn't have a whole lot of options.