Marriage problem

[chrissa 0]

Hi, I recently got married and I've been here in the US for 3 months now. We filed for AOS the last week of Nov. But I still haven't received my biometrics and interview date. My problem is that my wife doesn't love me anymore because she has found someone else. It is really so painful and I don't know what to do anymore. I got here through a fiance visa, we got married and filed for AOS. To what I understand, if the marriage won't work then I must go home so I won't be permanently ban here. I want to stay here for the sake of helping my family but at the same time I'm scared of the consequence of staying here. What should I do? Please help me because I'm really so confuse and miserable.

[mrsartis 10]

Hi, I recently got married and I've been here in the US for 3 months now. We filed for AOS the last week of Nov. But I still haven't received my biometrics and interview date. My problem is that my wife doesn't love me anymore because she has found someone else. It is really so painful and I don't know what to do anymore. I got here through a fiance visa, we got married and filed for AOS. To what I understand, if the marriage won't work then I must go home so I won't be permanently ban here. I want to stay here for the sake of helping my family but at the same time I'm scared of the consequence of staying here. What should I do? Please help me because I'm really so confuse and miserable.

what's her plan? i believe you can still stay in the us with 3 D's Death of the petitioner, domestic violence and divorce.. your choice. sorry to hear your case dude.

[Dakine 26]

Hi, I recently got married and I've been here in the US for 3 months now. We filed for AOS the last week of Nov. But I still haven't received my biometrics and interview date. My problem is that my wife doesn't love me anymore because she has found someone else. It is really so painful and I don't know what to do anymore. I got here through a fiance visa, we got married and filed for AOS. To what I understand, if the marriage won't work then I must go home so I won't be permanently ban here. I want to stay here for the sake of helping my family but at the same time I'm scared of the consequence of staying here. What should I do? Please help me because I'm really so confuse and miserable.

Tough one. If there is a possible way your wife may clean her act up then try to make the marriage work.

What does your wife want? Divorce? or what?

Edited December 29, 2008 by Haole

[envy_me 18]

Hi, I recently got married and I've been here in the US for 3 months now. We filed for AOS the last week of Nov. But I still haven't received my biometrics and interview date. My problem is that my wife doesn't love me anymore because she has found someone else. It is really so painful and I don't know what to do anymore. I got here through a fiance visa, we got married and filed for AOS. To what I understand, if the marriage won't work then I must go home so I won't be permanently ban here. I want to stay here for the sake of helping my family but at the same time I'm scared of the consequence of staying here. What should I do? Please help me because I'm really so confuse and miserable.

uhmmm.. im confused..

so you are the hubby, so you're in the US for 3 months now, so u filed for AOS last month and you're saying your wife doesn't love you anymore???

i got questions..

- how did u know she doesn't love u anymore?? i mean falling out of love cant be that fast.. IMO

- if your wife doesn't love you anymore why did she allow you to file AOS??

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Edited December 29, 2008 by envy_me

[Old Dominion 26]

Hi, I recently got married and I've been here in the US for 3 months now. We filed for AOS the last week of Nov. But I still haven't received my biometrics and interview date. My problem is that my wife doesn't love me anymore because she has found someone else. It is really so painful and I don't know what to do anymore. I got here through a fiance visa, we got married and filed for AOS. To what I understand, if the marriage won't work then I must go home so I won't be permanently ban here. I want to stay here for the sake of helping my family but at the same time I'm scared of the consequence of staying here. What should I do? Please help me because I'm really so confuse and miserable.

Wait another month for the biometrics appt. letter and then, if you are able, wait another eight months for the AOS interview. How long have you known your wife? Is she your AOS sponsor? How soon after you filed AOS did she tell you this? What is her plan? Can you still try to make the marriage work?

[chrissa 0]

We've been together for 7 years back in the Philippines. We filed for a fiance visa after finishing our studies. But when she started working here (july this year), she met someone else. She said that she's not in-love with me anymore. She said she still loves and cares for me that she wants to help me stay here. But how can I legally stay here if I'm not with her?

[Ban Hammer 13,491]

probably better suited in another forum - mbc from pi forum.

[envy_me 18]

We've been together for 7 years back in the Philippines. We filed for a fiance visa after finishing our studies. But when she started working here (july this year), she met someone else. She said that she's not in-love with me anymore. She said she still loves and cares for me that she wants to help me stay here. But how can I legally stay here if I'm not with her?

im speechless.........

PS: be back later

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Edited December 29, 2008 by envy_me

[mrsartis 10]

anu ba gusto mo? siya or stay ka dito? kasi kung siya talo kana.. kung iba naman ang dahilan, eat #### sandwhich dude it too shall pass..

[Dakine 26]

We've been together for 7 years back in the Philippines. We filed for a fiance visa after finishing our studies. But when she started working here (july this year), she met someone else. She said that she's not in-love with me anymore. She said she still loves and cares for me that she wants to help me stay here. But how can I legally stay here if I'm not with her?

Best way is to get your 2 year GC and then have her divorce you. You can then file to remove conditions and get the 10 year GC. You will be in the clear then.

It's a bit on the shady side but beats going TNT or going home.

Hopefully you will get the 2 year GC without an interview. Otherwise it may be a bit difficult as your wife would have to attend the interview and both of you would probably have to lie to get approval. That would not be a good thing.

Ingat

Edited December 29, 2008 by Haole

[bhajishah 4]

Let uscis know she two timing sluz and mess with your case. Have her at least write a letter verifying this.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

We've been together for 7 years back in the Philippines. We filed for a fiance visa after finishing our studies. But when she started working here (july this year), she met someone else. She said that she's not in-love with me anymore. She said she still loves and cares for me that she wants to help me stay here. But how can I legally stay here if I'm not with her?

Thread carefully on this. I f you are still waiting for Adjustment of Status based on marriage to her, these are dangerous waters.

[diadromous mermaid 36]

You can't unless there is a sustaining marriage. She could wait until your adjustment of status has been approved before making any final decision to divorce. However, you'll have to have evidence that you are living as husband and wife and commingling your assets and liabilities until the application is adjudicated.

We've been together for 7 years back in the Philippines. We filed for a fiance visa after finishing our studies. But when she started working here (july this year), she met someone else. She said that she's not in-love with me anymore. She said she still loves and cares for me that she wants to help me stay here. But how can I legally stay here if I'm not with her?

[vof 0]

Hi, I recently got married and I've been here in the US for 3 months now. We filed for AOS the last week of Nov. But I still haven't received my biometrics and interview date. My problem is that my wife doesn't love me anymore because she has found someone else. It is really so painful and I don't know what to do anymore. I got here through a fiance visa, we got married and filed for AOS. To what I understand, if the marriage won't work then I must go home so I won't be permanently ban here. I want to stay here for the sake of helping my family but at the same time I'm scared of the consequence of staying here. What should I do? Please help me because I'm really so confuse and miserable.

Tough one. If there is a possible way your wife may clean her act up then try to make the marriage work.

What does your wife want? Divorce? or what?

tell her to hel[ u get the card and see if it works out, try to start a family

[William33 110]

People, do not suggest visa fraud here.

If the relationship has soured, and there are no viable "legal" alternatives, the beneficiary must leave the US. Period.

Stall techniques, having a baby and/or attempting to file AOS with minimal time married are not acceptable practices.

Having said that, the AOS may be possible based on a good faith marriage, but this approach does not seem plausible, given the very short marriage.

Diadromous Mermaid is the in-house expert on this issue and I defer.