If you had known then what you know now??

[amal 4]

Hey I like green shoes! And it's so not me.

I have my suspicions on who it is.

somebody with very little sense of self-esteem, decency, class. I bet she likes green shoes.

I'm so lost...

[morocco4ever 63]

Hey I like green shoes! And it's so not me.

I have my suspicions on who it is.

somebody with very little sense of self-esteem, decency, class. I bet she likes green shoes.

I'm so lost...

You missed the good stuff. Doodle has a stalker.

[sara535 15]

aah

surely its not the SAME stalker for like 2 years now, is it??

good heavens!

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Hey I like green shoes! And it's so not me.

I have my suspicions on who it is.

somebody with very little sense of self-esteem, decency, class. I bet she likes green shoes.

Edited September 21, 2009 by *Len*

[Ban Hammer 13,346]

aah

surely its not the SAME stalker for like 2 years now, is it??

good heavens!

more than likely - sounded like they was still smarting over doodle spanking their butt a long time ago.

[doodlebugg 10]

aah

surely its not the SAME stalker for like 2 years now, is it??

good heavens!

more than likely - sounded like they was still smarting over doodle spanking their butt a long time ago.

eeeewwwwwwww now I have a visual!!!!

*going to my happy place*

*going to my happy place*

It seems like she shows up once/month. Coincidence?

[ya falaha! 0]

Do you have an arsenal of b1tch please pics? Still like the MJ one best.

Hey I like green shoes! And it's so not me.

I have my suspicions on who it is.

somebody with very little sense of self-esteem, decency, class. I bet she likes green shoes.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Do you have an arsenal of b1tch please pics? Still like the MJ one best.

I was feeling the Cullen luvz today

[amal 4]

Hey I like green shoes! And it's so not me.

I have my suspicions on who it is.

somebody with very little sense of self-esteem, decency, class. I bet she likes green shoes.

I'm so lost...

You missed the good stuff. Doodle has a stalker.

Doods, again??? geez woman!!! lol u'z a popular persuhn now lollll

[Meriem_DZ 37]

If i knew then what i know now I would not have married my now husband

I would not have either. I did not thoroughly think through the immense responsibility of bringing someone here. I did not think through what life would be like if they did not work and contribute and I did not know enough about his homelife and family dynamics ( alot of abuse both verbal and physical were very commonplace in his family) and the fact that the men in his family tantrum and terrorise and the women cow tow to it, even condone it. Absolutely without any shadow of a doubt that it was the worst mistake of my entire life and it nearly destroyed me. I do not recommend marrying someone from there that you meet on the internet and bringing them here unless you have an extremely stable source of income that can support both of you and frankly , this will offend, I dont recommend anyone with children in the home marrying someone from mena and bringing them here. If the kids are grown, as you like, but very few of the marriages I have seen have ended up long term (and I am looking back over the last 9 years of knowing cross cultural marriages) and I dont think anyone with kids should put them in a marriage that most likely wont last. If you dont have kids, its no big deal because you can have your own or just have none. But dragging little kids through someones boat adventures or quest for citizenship and then their leaving traumatises the kids in my opinion is a bad move. It may not be other peoples opinions but I think these marriages are alot harder than we ever could have imagined. I am not saying there are not intense moments of joy and happiness but they are not easy undertakings and not cheap either and whether you like it or not, you end up spending alot of money either way because it takes longer and phone and bla bla are more expensive than lets say , Europe and then if you get left, you are 10000 in debt for someone else to use you as a stepping stone.. No I would not do it again nor would or could I recommend anyone bringing someone that they met on the internet over here unless they were financially pretty ok and had no kids involved..

My husband and I have become friends with many Mena/USC couples from all over the States. There are 3 Mena couples that live right here in our area. Not one of the Mena husbands that we know are anything like your husband. You just picked a bad apple out of the bunch. Please dont lump my husband and the husbands of my friends into your little generalization about mena (especially Algerian) men, just because yours ruined your life. My husband has worked since he got his GC and goes to school full time with a 4.0gpa. He still finds time to make me feel special and loved and on payday he comes in and gives me 3/4 of his paycheck to help pay our bills. He keeps just enough money for gas to get to work and school, and a little spending money for himself. He does not have to send money home, because his family doesnt need it. Everything is fine in our little world, so quit trying to rain on everyones parade. Just pick yourself up, move on, and dont feel like you have to make it your life's goal to "warn" everyone of the impending demise of their marriages. Peace!

Meriem

Edited September 22, 2009 by Meriem_DZ

[Nothing1234 2]

*Bump*

[Miss smarty pants 84]

Just said to the hubby....Wonder if they have a good return/exchange policy in the ME? <img src="http://www.visajourney.com/forums/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/devil.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid="" border="0" alt="devil.gif" />

Directly from the hubby...Fooking VJ again, right? <img src="style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/laughing.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid="" border="0" alt="laughing.gif" />

LOL! Mine just said that last night about something!

[Cheryl & Medo 3]

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