My Husband so depressed

[mamalou 0]

Yesterday was almost a a tragic day for us, My husband is terribly depressed about the whole thing, We were expecting last week & this week of our NOA2 after we responded the RFE , but it was so frustrating, still no email from CRIS-Vermont until now, looking at the thread of some members here they got approval after 10 to 15 days, thats why my husband was expecting the same. We both feel the same way now we are sooooo pathetic waiting and waiting ,don't know now how much longer we gonna wait for more, we don't know what will happen to us now. Yesterday morning, my husband was crying out loud when i talked to him in the internet, At this point in time he's very deeply affected of the situation, he was sitting there, saw him hysterical, his mom, trying to comfort him, he shouted all his anger & frustrations. He keep on crying suddenly told me better to ''kill himself'' and speaking words he ''don't want to live anymore '' my life is useless without you sweetheart'' why it so hard to live with my wife'' why don't they approve us yet, why those people (Vermont) screwing us they don't care our feeling,,they want us to separate'', I was crying & screaming trying to stop him, i comforted him & I did my best to calm down, I talk to him with Love & affection ,just to cool his anger,.. Oh, i really pity him, i know what he feels now, I keep telling him that no one can help us except to have more patience & might as well ignore the petition in the meantime, & he answered, I been so patient for the last 300+ days & its over.

Things are so complicated, Our relation being husband & wife is so much important to him more than anything else in this world, he want us to be together, last Aug/Sept when were not yet approve he wanted to come & live with me here but i just stop his plan & told him to just wait until we get approve. Now he want to pursue it by early Jan. 2009 he will come, don't know yet if he will return to the States or not, but sure he will lost his job, & losing his job might be an issue in the Consulate interview, am afraid it may jeopardize granting me a visa. Don't know now what to do. We are in the verge or uncertainties.

My VJ friends Please we need your support...we are emotionally down this time.

Thank you, for bearing with us ever since i posted here.

Event Date

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Manilla, Philipines

Marriage : 2008-01-22

I-130 Sent : 2008-02-19

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-02-29

I-129F Sent : 2008-03-22

I-129F NOA1 : 2008-03-25

I-129F RFE(s) : 2008-11-21

RFE Reply(s) : 2008-12-06

I-129F NOA2 : ??????

I-130 NOA2 : ??????

04/17/2008 -touched 1-129F

05/07/2008 -touched I-130 05/08/2008 -touched 1-130

11/20/2008 -Touched both 1-130/1-129f.

11/21/2008 -Touched with RFE

12/01/2008 -got RFE noticed by mail

12/06/2008 -Sent out our RFE response

12/08/2008 -VSC Received RFE response

12/09/2008 -Case Processing Resumed -

12/11/2008 -Touched

12/12/2008 -Touched

Wish we could get approve soon

[notmrshamiltonnow 0]

Yesterday was almost a a tragic day for us, My husband is terribly depressed about the whole thing, We were expecting last week & this week of our NOA2 after we responded the RFE , but it was so frustrating, still no email from CRIS-Vermont until now, looking at the thread of some members here they got approval after 10 to 15 days, thats why my husband was expecting the same. We both feel the same way now we are sooooo pathetic waiting and waiting ,don't know now how much longer we gonna wait for more, we don't know what will happen to us now. Yesterday morning, my husband was crying out loud when i talked to him in the internet, At this point in time he's very deeply affected of the situation, he was sitting there, saw him hysterical, his mom, trying to comfort him, he shouted all his anger & frustrations. He keep on crying suddenly told me better to ''kill himself'' and speaking words he ''don't want to live anymore '' my life is useless without you sweetheart'' why it so hard to live with my wife'' why don't they approve us yet, why those people (Vermont) screwing us they don't care our feeling,,they want us to separate'', I was crying & screaming trying to stop him, i comforted him & I did my best to calm down, I talk to him with Love & affection ,just to cool his anger,.. Oh, i really pity him, i know what he feels now, I keep telling him that no one can help us except to have more patience & might as well ignore the petition in the meantime, & he answered, I been so patient for the last 300+ days & its over.

Things are so complicated, Our relation being husband & wife is so much important to him more than anything else in this world, he want us to be together, last Aug/Sept when were not yet approve he wanted to come & live with me here but i just stop his plan & told him to just wait until we get approve. Now he want to pursue it by early Jan. 2009 he will come, don't know yet if he will return to the States or not, but sure he will lost his job, & losing his job might be an issue in the Consulate interview, am afraid it may jeopardize granting me a visa. Don't know now what to do. We are in the verge or uncertainties.

My VJ friends Please we need your support...we are emotionally down this time.

Thank you, for bearing with us ever since i posted here.

Event Date

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Manilla, Philipines

Marriage : 2008-01-22

I-130 Sent : 2008-02-19

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-02-29

I-129F Sent : 2008-03-22

I-129F NOA1 : 2008-03-25

I-129F RFE(s) : 2008-11-21

RFE Reply(s) : 2008-12-06

I-129F NOA2 : ??????

I-130 NOA2 : ??????

04/17/2008 -touched 1-129F

05/07/2008 -touched I-130 05/08/2008 -touched 1-130

11/20/2008 -Touched both 1-130/1-129f.

11/21/2008 -Touched with RFE

12/01/2008 -got RFE noticed by mail

12/06/2008 -Sent out our RFE response

12/08/2008 -VSC Received RFE response

12/09/2008 -Case Processing Resumed -

12/11/2008 -Touched

12/12/2008 -Touched

Wish we could get approve soon

Keep ur head & spirits up, just know that this too shall pass, soon we will all be in the arms of our love ones for good. The new year is right around the corner, which brings a fresh start. I know that the holidays are very hard, but just keep in mind, this time next year , you & ur hubby will be together..Bless & respect

[12345678 1]

Yesterday was almost a a tragic day for us, My husband is terribly depressed about the whole thing, We were expecting last week & this week of our NOA2 after we responded the RFE , but it was so frustrating, still no email from CRIS-Vermont until now, looking at the thread of some members here they got approval after 10 to 15 days, thats why my husband was expecting the same. We both feel the same way now we are sooooo pathetic waiting and waiting ,don't know now how much longer we gonna wait for more, we don't know what will happen to us now. Yesterday morning, my husband was crying out loud when i talked to him in the internet, At this point in time he's very deeply affected of the situation, he was sitting there, saw him hysterical, his mom, trying to comfort him, he shouted all his anger & frustrations. He keep on crying suddenly told me better to ''kill himself'' and speaking words he ''don't want to live anymore '' my life is useless without you sweetheart'' why it so hard to live with my wife'' why don't they approve us yet, why those people (Vermont) screwing us they don't care our feeling,,they want us to separate'', I was crying & screaming trying to stop him, i comforted him & I did my best to calm down, I talk to him with Love & affection ,just to cool his anger,.. Oh, i really pity him, i know what he feels now, I keep telling him that no one can help us except to have more patience & might as well ignore the petition in the meantime, & he answered, I been so patient for the last 300+ days & its over.

Things are so complicated, Our relation being husband & wife is so much important to him more than anything else in this world, he want us to be together, last Aug/Sept when were not yet approve he wanted to come & live with me here but i just stop his plan & told him to just wait until we get approve. Now he want to pursue it by early Jan. 2009 he will come, don't know yet if he will return to the States or not, but sure he will lost his job, & losing his job might be an issue in the Consulate interview, am afraid it may jeopardize granting me a visa. Don't know now what to do. We are in the verge or uncertainties.

My VJ friends Please we need your support...we are emotionally down this time.

Thank you, for bearing with us ever since i posted here.

Event Date

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Manilla, Philipines

Marriage : 2008-01-22

I-130 Sent : 2008-02-19

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-02-29

I-129F Sent : 2008-03-22

I-129F NOA1 : 2008-03-25

I-129F RFE(s) : 2008-11-21

RFE Reply(s) : 2008-12-06

I-129F NOA2 : ??????

I-130 NOA2 : ??????

04/17/2008 -touched 1-129F

05/07/2008 -touched I-130 05/08/2008 -touched 1-130

11/20/2008 -Touched both 1-130/1-129f.

11/21/2008 -Touched with RFE

12/01/2008 -got RFE noticed by mail

12/06/2008 -Sent out our RFE response

12/08/2008 -VSC Received RFE response

12/09/2008 -Case Processing Resumed -

12/11/2008 -Touched

12/12/2008 -Touched

Wish we could get approve soon

Sweetheart, let me tell u my story. This may comfort you a lil. When we see things goin well with others we get frustrated like the way u getting now. But look at me...My husband filed for me I-130 in June 16,2007 and since then 18 months past nothing has showed up. No to mention MY HUSBAND IS A CITIZEN from 2006 and we got married in March 2007. Since then he visited me thrice. And is planning for 4th time.

You will be very surprised to know that, for some RFEs and some other issues which had been resolved by my husband, the USCIS system started showing that our file had been recieved in June 16, 2008 (means the 1 year later from what our NOA1 mentions). We were just devasted...He went to USCIS office, they ask him to go for I-129f as he wanted me to join him as soon as possible and they more or like said that 129f would bring me there within couple of months or so....and then I-129f was filed in September 04, 2008 and yet very unfortunate that I cannot check my status online, as it says the receipt no. is incorrect. Funny huh!!! And, more likely, I feel that by pushing him to file 129f has messed my situation more. This is not anymore a straight case...

I have no idea, like ur husband said, why is it so hard to live with my husband? Why do they have so much problem with it?

I don't know, I am in the worst situation of all VJers...If we can calm cool and wait for the good news..why not u guys can...don't look at the ppl who get lucky sometimes in VSC...look at me, I have been married to a US citizen (not to an illigal or PR holder) for almost 2 years, my file has had been with VSC for 18months...still waiting.....

What do u say?

[Y's_habibitk 2]

mamalou,

first off, you have a caring audience to talk to about these things and more importantly, we understand the emotional rollercoaster that you are on.

The fact that you cant even hold your husband when he is so upset makes it 800 times worse.

My husband and I have had those "f it!" just move here, talks and I would like to think its normal. There is nothing really to compare to this whole process. The closest thing I can think of is having a spouse in prison.

You are right in that you guys need patience and faith to get through it.

I dont know where Im going with this other than to say, you arent alone.

If you need an ear...I have two

Lisa

[12345678 1]

mamalou,

first off, you have a caring audience to talk to about these things and more importantly, we understand the emotional rollercoaster that you are on.

The fact that you cant even hold your husband when he is so upset makes it 800 times worse.

My husband and I have had those "f it!" just move here, talks and I would like to think its normal. There is nothing really to compare to this whole process. The closest thing I can think of is having a spouse in prison.

You are right in that you guys need patience and faith to get through it.

I dont know where Im going with this other than to say, you arent alone.

If you need an ear...I have two

Lisa

Very true.....I have become a fan of urs ..... by the way....I am really happy to be late sometimes....when I see, so many ppl in the same boat, becomes so good friends..............

Love you all.....best wishes to everyone....

[untouchables 0]

just be patient little bit more

i got rfe same time u had.i replied on november 26

we were approved both petıtıon on dec 21

yours should be approved this week or next week max

take care.

[cjgator 2]

Mama we love ya baby. Keep the faith. If you do not get aproved within the next 60 days, you need to do this. Get your or your spouse to find an immigration lawyer, and ask them if you are at an appropriate time frame to have them file for you a motion that is called a "writ of mandamus" . It is a judgment, issued by a court, that compels an administrative agengy of government (like USCIS) to take action on a pending request. I have read on a couple of immigration sites this past week where immigration lawyers have successfully used this to get USCIS to move on a case that has been stuck for a long time.

Good luck, love, tell your husband we are praying for him and you, and Merry Christmas.

CJ-G

Yesterday was almost a a tragic day for us, My husband is terribly depressed about the whole thing, We were expecting last week & this week of our NOA2 after we responded the RFE , but it was so frustrating, still no email from CRIS-Vermont until now, looking at the thread of some members here they got approval after 10 to 15 days, thats why my husband was expecting the same. We both feel the same way now we are sooooo pathetic waiting and waiting ,don't know now how much longer we gonna wait for more, we don't know what will happen to us now. Yesterday morning, my husband was crying out loud when i talked to him in the internet, At this point in time he's very deeply affected of the situation, he was sitting there, saw him hysterical, his mom, trying to comfort him, he shouted all his anger & frustrations. He keep on crying suddenly told me better to ''kill himself'' and speaking words he ''don't want to live anymore '' my life is useless without you sweetheart'' why it so hard to live with my wife'' why don't they approve us yet, why those people (Vermont) screwing us they don't care our feeling,,they want us to separate'', I was crying & screaming trying to stop him, i comforted him & I did my best to calm down, I talk to him with Love & affection ,just to cool his anger,.. Oh, i really pity him, i know what he feels now, I keep telling him that no one can help us except to have more patience & might as well ignore the petition in the meantime, & he answered, I been so patient for the last 300+ days & its over.

Things are so complicated, Our relation being husband & wife is so much important to him more than anything else in this world, he want us to be together, last Aug/Sept when were not yet approve he wanted to come & live with me here but i just stop his plan & told him to just wait until we get approve. Now he want to pursue it by early Jan. 2009 he will come, don't know yet if he will return to the States or not, but sure he will lost his job, & losing his job might be an issue in the Consulate interview, am afraid it may jeopardize granting me a visa. Don't know now what to do. We are in the verge or uncertainties.

My VJ friends Please we need your support...we are emotionally down this time.

Thank you, for bearing with us ever since i posted here.

Event Date

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Manilla, Philipines

Marriage : 2008-01-22

I-130 Sent : 2008-02-19

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-02-29

I-129F Sent : 2008-03-22

I-129F NOA1 : 2008-03-25

I-129F RFE(s) : 2008-11-21

RFE Reply(s) : 2008-12-06

I-129F NOA2 : ??????

I-130 NOA2 : ??????

04/17/2008 -touched 1-129F

05/07/2008 -touched I-130 05/08/2008 -touched 1-130

11/20/2008 -Touched both 1-130/1-129f.

11/21/2008 -Touched with RFE

12/01/2008 -got RFE noticed by mail

12/06/2008 -Sent out our RFE response

12/08/2008 -VSC Received RFE response

12/09/2008 -Case Processing Resumed -

12/11/2008 -Touched

12/12/2008 -Touched

Wish we could get approve soon

[notime4haterz 0]

Mamalou, honey, we're here for you! Don't despair!

EVERY SINGLE ONE OF US has had this situation with our husbands/wives. We all been through this. A few weeks ago when my house got robbed, I was the one crying and telling my husband I'm leaving everything and moving to him, because I don't wanna be alone anymore. I was acting totally crazy and screaming, crying, and just losing it. This is normal! Because you love each other...so of course you're gonna feel pain, being apart!

I don't know what others had to wait, after sending an RFE. I always thought it it took 2 months for the approval after an RFE was answered. If it's faster, even better.

Look at it this way...you have already passed 8 or 9 months waiting...another 2 months is still okay. Because it's not much longer. So in your case, maybe it's only another 2 weeks. Don't throw all the time you already spent, alone and struggling...don't throw it away now!

We're here for you. We are always complaining and crying to each other here. That's what we do in our NO touches NO approvals thread and our weekend pity party thread. Join us! We're here and we NEVER get tired of hearing anyone's problems.

I wish you the best of luck and I DO THINK you're gonna get your approval this month.

Narina

PS- Lisa mentioned that it's almost the same like the people whose husband is in jail and they are waiting... Well my grandmother has Alzheimers, so she can't remember things anymore. She actually thinks my husband is in jail. Everytime I talk to her, she asks me, "Did they say when he's going to be let out of jail? God damn those people! Why aren't they releasing him??? He's innocent!!! He didn't do anything wrong!!!" LOOOOOOOOL

[cjgator 2]

I love this girl. Everyone still waiting for their approval, you must know that I would have not remained in one piece, if not for she (Narnia), and Lisa. They care beyond their own circumstances, and give love when they're not asked for it.

I'm telling ya. I'd trade in my approval today to see these two ladies get theirs. Please, everyone on this thread, show them some love. They saved me through almost 9 months of hell..

CJ-G

Mamalou, honey, we're here for you! Don't despair!

EVERY SINGLE ONE OF US has had this situation with our husbands/wives. We all been through this. A few weeks ago when my house got robbed, I was the one crying and telling my husband I'm leaving everything and moving to him, because I don't wanna be alone anymore. I was acting totally crazy and screaming, crying, and just losing it. This is normal! Because you love each other...so of course you're gonna feel pain, being apart!

I don't know what others had to wait, after sending an RFE. I always thought it it took 2 months for the approval after an RFE was answered. If it's faster, even better.

Look at it this way...you have already passed 8 or 9 months waiting...another 2 months is still okay. Because it's not much longer. So in your case, maybe it's only another 2 weeks. Don't throw all the time you already spent, alone and struggling...don't throw it away now!

We're here for you. We are always complaining and crying to each other here. That's what we do in our NO touches NO approvals thread and our weekend pity party thread. Join us! We're here and we NEVER get tired of hearing anyone's problems.

I wish you the best of luck and I DO THINK you're gonna get your approval this month.

Narina

PS- Lisa mentioned that it's almost the same like the people whose husband is in jail and they are waiting... Well my grandmother has Alzheimers, so she can't remember things anymore. She actually thinks my husband is in jail. Everytime I talk to her, she asks me, "Did they say when he's going to be let out of jail? God damn those people! Why aren't they releasing him??? He's innocent!!! He didn't do anything wrong!!!" LOOOOOOOOL

[mamalou 0]

Yesterday was almost a a tragic day for us, My husband is terribly depressed about the whole thing, We were expecting last week & this week of our NOA2 after we responded the RFE , but it was so frustrating, still no email from CRIS-Vermont until now, looking at the thread of some members here they got approval after 10 to 15 days, thats why my husband was expecting the same. We both feel the same way now we are sooooo pathetic waiting and waiting ,don't know now how much longer we gonna wait for more, we don't know what will happen to us now. Yesterday morning, my husband was crying out loud when i talked to him in the internet, At this point in time he's very deeply affected of the situation, he was sitting there, saw him hysterical, his mom, trying to comfort him, he shouted all his anger & frustrations. He keep on crying suddenly told me better to ''kill himself'' and speaking words he ''don't want to live anymore '' my life is useless without you sweetheart'' why it so hard to live with my wife'' why don't they approve us yet, why those people (Vermont) screwing us they don't care our feeling,,they want us to separate'', I was crying & screaming trying to stop him, i comforted him & I did my best to calm down, I talk to him with Love & affection ,just to cool his anger,.. Oh, i really pity him, i know what he feels now, I keep telling him that no one can help us except to have more patience & might as well ignore the petition in the meantime, & he answered, I been so patient for the last 300+ days & its over.

Things are so complicated, Our relation being husband & wife is so much important to him more than anything else in this world, he want us to be together, last Aug/Sept when were not yet approve he wanted to come & live with me here but i just stop his plan & told him to just wait until we get approve. Now he want to pursue it by early Jan. 2009 he will come, don't know yet if he will return to the States or not, but sure he will lost his job, & losing his job might be an issue in the Consulate interview, am afraid it may jeopardize granting me a visa. Don't know now what to do. We are in the verge or uncertainties.

My VJ friends Please we need your support...we are emotionally down this time.

Thank you, for bearing with us ever since i posted here.

Event Date

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Manilla, Philipines

Marriage : 2008-01-22

I-130 Sent : 2008-02-19

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-02-29

I-129F Sent : 2008-03-22

I-129F NOA1 : 2008-03-25

I-129F RFE(s) : 2008-11-21

RFE Reply(s) : 2008-12-06

I-129F NOA2 : ??????

I-130 NOA2 : ??????

04/17/2008 -touched 1-129F

05/07/2008 -touched I-130 05/08/2008 -touched 1-130

11/20/2008 -Touched both 1-130/1-129f.

11/21/2008 -Touched with RFE

12/01/2008 -got RFE noticed by mail

12/06/2008 -Sent out our RFE response

12/08/2008 -VSC Received RFE response

12/09/2008 -Case Processing Resumed -

12/11/2008 -Touched

12/12/2008 -Touched

Wish we could get approve soon

Many thanks to all of you guys! you are so nice people, you are all a shoulder to cry on. While ago i talk to my husband and hes alright now, at least he disposes all his ill feelings & anger.I let him read all of your replies and he said thanks for your concern it somehow help him relieve the burdens n his heart.

God Bless us all. Let us be Merry this Christmas. Ok Love you ALL!!

Mamalou

[12345678 1]

Yesterday was almost a a tragic day for us, My husband is terribly depressed about the whole thing, We were expecting last week & this week of our NOA2 after we responded the RFE , but it was so frustrating, still no email from CRIS-Vermont until now, looking at the thread of some members here they got approval after 10 to 15 days, thats why my husband was expecting the same. We both feel the same way now we are sooooo pathetic waiting and waiting ,don't know now how much longer we gonna wait for more, we don't know what will happen to us now. Yesterday morning, my husband was crying out loud when i talked to him in the internet, At this point in time he's very deeply affected of the situation, he was sitting there, saw him hysterical, his mom, trying to comfort him, he shouted all his anger & frustrations. He keep on crying suddenly told me better to ''kill himself'' and speaking words he ''don't want to live anymore '' my life is useless without you sweetheart'' why it so hard to live with my wife'' why don't they approve us yet, why those people (Vermont) screwing us they don't care our feeling,,they want us to separate'', I was crying & screaming trying to stop him, i comforted him & I did my best to calm down, I talk to him with Love & affection ,just to cool his anger,.. Oh, i really pity him, i know what he feels now, I keep telling him that no one can help us except to have more patience & might as well ignore the petition in the meantime, & he answered, I been so patient for the last 300+ days & its over.

Things are so complicated, Our relation being husband & wife is so much important to him more than anything else in this world, he want us to be together, last Aug/Sept when were not yet approve he wanted to come & live with me here but i just stop his plan & told him to just wait until we get approve. Now he want to pursue it by early Jan. 2009 he will come, don't know yet if he will return to the States or not, but sure he will lost his job, & losing his job might be an issue in the Consulate interview, am afraid it may jeopardize granting me a visa. Don't know now what to do. We are in the verge or uncertainties.

My VJ friends Please we need your support...we are emotionally down this time.

Thank you, for bearing with us ever since i posted here.

Event Date

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Manilla, Philipines

Marriage : 2008-01-22

I-130 Sent : 2008-02-19

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-02-29

I-129F Sent : 2008-03-22

I-129F NOA1 : 2008-03-25

I-129F RFE(s) : 2008-11-21

RFE Reply(s) : 2008-12-06

I-129F NOA2 : ??????

I-130 NOA2 : ??????

04/17/2008 -touched 1-129F

05/07/2008 -touched I-130 05/08/2008 -touched 1-130

11/20/2008 -Touched both 1-130/1-129f.

11/21/2008 -Touched with RFE

12/01/2008 -got RFE noticed by mail

12/06/2008 -Sent out our RFE response

12/08/2008 -VSC Received RFE response

12/09/2008 -Case Processing Resumed -

12/11/2008 -Touched

12/12/2008 -Touched

Wish we could get approve soon

Many thanks to all of you guys! you are so nice people, you are all a shoulder to cry on. While ago i talk to my husband and hes alright now, at least he disposes all his ill feelings & anger.I let him read all of your replies and he said thanks for your concern it somehow help him relieve the burdens n his heart.

God Bless us all. Let us be Merry this Christmas. Ok Love you ALL!!

Mamalou

We are like a family here (atleast I believe so). We all have the similar pain more or less...But we are here only for our love....the love which has yet to receive justice from the people who probabely never loved someone so dearly...Never got the pain of being apart from the person u love so dearly....while u need the person when ur house get robbed...when u have extreme fever, and want to have a kiss on ur forehead to make some comfort of being with the person that u love so dearly....

[Sinergy 3]

You sent your RFE in on 12/6...it can and sometimes will take another 30-60 sometimes 90 days for an approval and NOA2. Just giving you heads up on that. sure it can take shorter, but at this moment, keep in mind its the holidays. however, when you recieve your paper that your RFE has been recieved, or you view your status online, it will read that you can expect an answer or update on the RFE like an approval in 30-60 days.

[e-migra 4]

Best of luck for you. Better days will come .

Merry Xmas

[Y's_habibitk 2]

Many thanks to all of you guys! you are so nice people, you are all a shoulder to cry on. While ago i talk to my husband and hes alright now, at least he disposes all his ill feelings & anger.I let him read all of your replies and he said thanks for your concern it somehow help him relieve the burdens n his heart.

God Bless us all. Let us be Merry this Christmas. Ok Love you ALL!!

Mamalou

so glad to hear it hun

[happywifeymom 4]

Yesterday was almost a a tragic day for us, My husband is terribly depressed about the whole thing, We were expecting last week & this week of our NOA2 after we responded the RFE , but it was so frustrating, still no email from CRIS-Vermont until now, looking at the thread of some members here they got approval after 10 to 15 days, thats why my husband was expecting the same. We both feel the same way now we are sooooo pathetic waiting and waiting ,don't know now how much longer we gonna wait for more, we don't know what will happen to us now. Yesterday morning, my husband was crying out loud when i talked to him in the internet, At this point in time he's very deeply affected of the situation, he was sitting there, saw him hysterical, his mom, trying to comfort him, he shouted all his anger & frustrations. He keep on crying suddenly told me better to ''kill himself'' and speaking words he ''don't want to live anymore '' my life is useless without you sweetheart'' why it so hard to live with my wife'' why don't they approve us yet, why those people (Vermont) screwing us they don't care our feeling,,they want us to separate'', I was crying & screaming trying to stop him, i comforted him & I did my best to calm down, I talk to him with Love & affection ,just to cool his anger,.. Oh, i really pity him, i know what he feels now, I keep telling him that no one can help us except to have more patience & might as well ignore the petition in the meantime, & he answered, I been so patient for the last 300+ days & its over.

Things are so complicated, Our relation being husband & wife is so much important to him more than anything else in this world, he want us to be together, last Aug/Sept when were not yet approve he wanted to come & live with me here but i just stop his plan & told him to just wait until we get approve. Now he want to pursue it by early Jan. 2009 he will come, don't know yet if he will return to the States or not, but sure he will lost his job, & losing his job might be an issue in the Consulate interview, am afraid it may jeopardize granting me a visa. Don't know now what to do. We are in the verge or uncertainties.

My VJ friends Please we need your support...we are emotionally down this time.

Thank you, for bearing with us ever since i posted here.

Event Date

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Manilla, Philipines

Marriage : 2008-01-22

I-130 Sent : 2008-02-19

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-02-29

I-129F Sent : 2008-03-22

I-129F NOA1 : 2008-03-25

I-129F RFE(s) : 2008-11-21

RFE Reply(s) : 2008-12-06

I-129F NOA2 : ??????

I-130 NOA2 : ??????

04/17/2008 -touched 1-129F

05/07/2008 -touched I-130 05/08/2008 -touched 1-130

11/20/2008 -Touched both 1-130/1-129f.

11/21/2008 -Touched with RFE

12/01/2008 -got RFE noticed by mail

12/06/2008 -Sent out our RFE response

12/08/2008 -VSC Received RFE response

12/09/2008 -Case Processing Resumed -

12/11/2008 -Touched

12/12/2008 -Touched

Wish we could get approve soon

Prayers works! So just keep on praying. Have you tried calling USCIS ?Sometimes you need to do thorough follow up.Call,, call till they get tired of you and will approve your case.I do think they're doing documents verification that is why it still is not approve. Chances are you may have the approval early of next month.