My Experience in the States

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I find both of you very irritating and juvenile in your continued bickering. If you know someone pushes your buttons purposely, why continue to feed into it. It's quite entertaining to see you both make bumbling fools of yourselves while arguing why you both have the right to defend yourselves publicly on these forums. You both enjoy drama, being in the spotlight, and antagonizing..otherwise you would just ignore each other, and go about your "supportive" business on here.

(ooops.. I am antagonizing, aren't I? Sorry mods...just had to add my opinion before the thread got closed... )

[Ta Ta 1]

I find both of you very irritating and juvenile in your continued bickering. If you know someone pushes your buttons purposely, why continue to feed into it. It's quite entertaining to see you both make bumbling fools of yourselves while arguing why you both have the right to defend yourselves publicly on these forums. You both enjoy drama, being in the spotlight, and antagonizing..otherwise you would just ignore each other, and go about your "supportive" business on here.

(ooops.. I am antagonizing, aren't I? Sorry mods...just had to add my opinion before the thread got closed... )

You seem to enjoy it much more than the two of us together, otherwise you would not be so irritating as to instigate

and antagonize all the while holding up the sign which says do not feed the drama. Now the spotlight is on you so enjoy your audience. Take your own advice.

[Aunt Bee 2]

Good morning all. Hope all is well with everyone on-board.

All I can say is "WoW"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"One night with the King, changes everything, one day in his courts will forever change your course"

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[Enlighten one :) 5]

Good morning all. Hope all is well with everyone on-board.

All I can say is "WoW"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"One night with the King, changes everything, one day in his courts will forever change your course"

AMEN!

[Sandrila 1]

I know this is an old thread but my heart goes out to you and what in the world ever attracted you to this person anyway?? My God NO ONE deserves that kind of abuse...I hope you can escape that situation as soon as possible.

So sorry to hear about it!

[idocare 3]

Boye,

Where for art thou Boye.

[Enlighten one :) 5]

I have to say my first response was compassion and trust, but as I returned for follow up messages and responses. There are red flags all over his post. Beginning with the fact that his post was 5 am. Now because I do not know if that is my time, his time or visa journey’s time I did not draw attention to this. He stated he was in a shelter that I am assuming does not have internet access at that time of the morning.

His note was very detailed, but at the same time awfully vague. Reading his first post again, it seems like he was in Maine. In his 2nd post he is someplace that he didn't even mention in his first post. His responses to our questions were vague and indirect, which just leads me to believe that this story is false.

Since I am chief fraud police and informant, I must render my determination that this post has con and fake spelled out all over.

[Ta Ta 1]

The judge and jury has spoken. So sad that these assumptions are made. No wonder he is not coming back here to share.

Only God knows the heart and all that is required of us is compassion and an ear to listen without being judgmental.

Very sad indeed.

[KimandRuss 0]

I have to say my first response was compassion and trust, but as I returned for follow up messages and responses. There are red flags all over his post. Beginning with the fact that his post was 5 am. Now because I do not know if that is my time, his time or visa journey's time I did not draw attention to this. He stated he was in a shelter that I am assuming does not have internet access at that time of the morning.

His note was very detailed, but at the same time awfully vague. Reading his first post again, it seems like he was in Maine. In his 2nd post he is someplace that he didn't even mention in his first post. His responses to our questions were vague and indirect, which just leads me to believe that this story is false.

Since I am chief fraud police and informant, I must render my determination that this post has con and fake spelled out all over.

The concerns brought up in this post are valid and serve a greater purpose than just proving the OP right or wrong.

There is no need to speculate. Please.

[Enlighten one :) 5]

Considering that someone sent me an email concerning my generous and compassionate offer. This particular VJ’r has not posted in this thread. Making me aware that she to though this post did not make sense and was worried I might be scammed from my generosity. This was not my thought, but I have to agree that something is suspicious.

Nah, I am not really the fraud expert, I just play one on the internet.

[KimandRuss 0]

Let's just please try to stick to the topic and away from personal attacks that really serve no purpose.

Thanks.

[LovinLiberia 0]

I find both of you very irritating and juvenile in your continued bickering. If you know someone pushes your buttons purposely, why continue to feed into it. It's quite entertaining to see you both make bumbling fools of yourselves while arguing why you both have the right to defend yourselves publicly on these forums. You both enjoy drama, being in the spotlight, and antagonizing..otherwise you would just ignore each other, and go about your "supportive" business on here.

(ooops.. I am antagonizing, aren't I? Sorry mods...just had to add my opinion before the thread got closed... )

You hit the nail on the head with this one. Stop reading my mind...

I have to say my first response was compassion and trust, but as I returned for follow up messages and responses. There are red flags all over his post. Beginning with the fact that his post was 5 am. Now because I do not know if that is my time, his time or visa journey’s time I did not draw attention to this. He stated he was in a shelter that I am assuming does not have internet access at that time of the morning.

His note was very detailed, but at the same time awfully vague. Reading his first post again, it seems like he was in Maine. In his 2nd post he is someplace that he didn't even mention in his first post. His responses to our questions were vague and indirect, which just leads me to believe that this story is false.

Since I am chief fraud police and informant, I must render my determination that this post has con and fake spelled out all over.

Of course I don't know the OP or his full story and if it is true, then I really feel sorry for him and wish him well. MrsJibowu, I'm glad you opened your eyes and decided to take another look at the story. I was about to PM you because I was concerned when I saw you invite him (a stranger) to your home for dinner. It's okay to offer help to someone in need, but you gotta be careful with how much help you offer, woman.

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I answer to posts as I see fit and that is my choice and really nobody else's business but the one I am in a discussion with. Just as it is your choice not to respond when your buttons are pushed. It's really a dead issue by now.

[LovinLiberia 0]

It's really a dead issue by now.

Great!