My Experience in the States

[WhidbeyGirl 1]

What did you detect in the phone and what type of phone is it that you can detect a name? It gives the number but not the name. Are you saying you can't go back to Nigeria because you quit your coaching job? I am sure you can find something back home why stay here and suffer, go home to your family. You also said you were "happy to be alive" did she try to kill you, then you should have her arrested. Your story just isn't adding up, maybe you should try to get someone to interpret this for you. Or is this is what you wanted for us not to understand. Ko ye mi. How did you know about VJ? Were you a frequent VJ flyer before coming? Just doesn't add up to me.

Why does it even matter to you? If you don't want to believe the individual and offer help then don't.

This is not up for debate. It should matter to you, do you know this man? I am curious just like the rest of us, I decided to ask question, thought that was my constitutional right. It's just questions that should be addressed, we are all strangers to each other. How many have actually met in person or do we just correspond online via VJ or email. This is an open forum, hence the name "Forum". Everyone has their own opinion, I adddressed mines. How do you intend to help him? He said he has his Nigerians friend that is assisting him. I am very curious to hear her side of the story. So many American have been victims of the "infamous I-360" at the hands of immigrant. I've read many stories on different forums regarding this form and the way that it is used against the USC. So don't attack me, I am stating my opinion. We never know when we may fall victim of the I-360. Please have a wonderful, productive and bless weekend. My prayers are for all Gods children.

It's too bad you needed to create a new ID to make your questions and concerns known. It's too bad you can't own your own thoughts.

[Aunt Bee 2]

What did you detect in the phone and what type of phone is it that you can detect a name? It gives the number but not the name. Are you saying you can't go back to Nigeria because you quit your coaching job? I am sure you can find something back home why stay here and suffer, go home to your family. You also said you were "happy to be alive" did she try to kill you, then you should have her arrested. Your story just isn't adding up, maybe you should try to get someone to interpret this for you. Or is this is what you wanted for us not to understand. Ko ye mi. How did you know about VJ? Were you a frequent VJ flyer before coming? Just doesn't add up to me.

Why does it even matter to you? If you don't want to believe the individual and offer help then don't.

This is not up for debate. It should matter to you, do you know this man? I am curious just like the rest of us, I decided to ask question, thought that was my constitutional right. It's just questions that should be addressed, we are all strangers to each other. How many have actually met in person or do we just correspond online via VJ or email. This is an open forum, hence the name "Forum". Everyone has their own opinion, I adddressed mines. How do you intend to help him? He said he has his Nigerians friend that is assisting him. I am very curious to hear her side of the story. So many American have been victims of the "infamous I-360" at the hands of immigrant. I've read many stories on different forums regarding this form and the way that it is used against the USC. So don't attack me, I am stating my opinion. We never know when we may fall victim of the I-360. Please have a wonderful, productive and bless weekend. My prayers are for all Gods children.

It's too bad you needed to create a new ID to make your questions and concerns known. It's too bad you can't own your own thoughts.

Your opinion is that "yours". I won't give you a platform. I pick my battle. So to you I say, Happy New Year and May God continue to bless you and your family.

[WhidbeyGirl 1]

What did you detect in the phone and what type of phone is it that you can detect a name? It gives the number but not the name. Are you saying you can't go back to Nigeria because you quit your coaching job? I am sure you can find something back home why stay here and suffer, go home to your family. You also said you were "happy to be alive" did she try to kill you, then you should have her arrested. Your story just isn't adding up, maybe you should try to get someone to interpret this for you. Or is this is what you wanted for us not to understand. Ko ye mi. How did you know about VJ? Were you a frequent VJ flyer before coming? Just doesn't add up to me.

Why does it even matter to you? If you don't want to believe the individual and offer help then don't.

This is not up for debate. It should matter to you, do you know this man? I am curious just like the rest of us, I decided to ask question, thought that was my constitutional right. It's just questions that should be addressed, we are all strangers to each other. How many have actually met in person or do we just correspond online via VJ or email. This is an open forum, hence the name "Forum". Everyone has their own opinion, I adddressed mines. How do you intend to help him? He said he has his Nigerians friend that is assisting him. I am very curious to hear her side of the story. So many American have been victims of the "infamous I-360" at the hands of immigrant. I've read many stories on different forums regarding this form and the way that it is used against the USC. So don't attack me, I am stating my opinion. We never know when we may fall victim of the I-360. Please have a wonderful, productive and bless weekend. My prayers are for all Gods children.

It's too bad you needed to create a new ID to make your questions and concerns known. It's too bad you can't own your own thoughts.

Your opinion is that "yours". I won't give you a platform. I pick my battle. So to you I say, Happy New Year and May God continue to bless you and your family.

I don't need to be given a platform, when I speak, I create my own, thanks. The battle you picked was against someone who came here for support and advice. I am the eternal optimist and ALWAYS give people the benefit of the doubt that they are being honest and truthful when they speak. I have been on the receiving end of the type of behavior you displayed toward this individual, it's not a fun place to be when one is seeking help and support. So I will always come to the defense of those being picked on and harrassed. Just as Jesus did.

[Aunt Bee 2]

What did you detect in the phone and what type of phone is it that you can detect a name? It gives the number but not the name. Are you saying you can't go back to Nigeria because you quit your coaching job? I am sure you can find something back home why stay here and suffer, go home to your family. You also said you were "happy to be alive" did she try to kill you, then you should have her arrested. Your story just isn't adding up, maybe you should try to get someone to interpret this for you. Or is this is what you wanted for us not to understand. Ko ye mi. How did you know about VJ? Were you a frequent VJ flyer before coming? Just doesn't add up to me.

Why does it even matter to you? If you don't want to believe the individual and offer help then don't.

This is not up for debate. It should matter to you, do you know this man? I am curious just like the rest of us, I decided to ask question, thought that was my constitutional right. It's just questions that should be addressed, we are all strangers to each other. How many have actually met in person or do we just correspond online via VJ or email. This is an open forum, hence the name "Forum". Everyone has their own opinion, I adddressed mines. How do you intend to help him? He said he has his Nigerians friend that is assisting him. I am very curious to hear her side of the story. So many American have been victims of the "infamous I-360" at the hands of immigrant. I've read many stories on different forums regarding this form and the way that it is used against the USC. So don't attack me, I am stating my opinion. We never know when we may fall victim of the I-360. Please have a wonderful, productive and bless weekend. My prayers are for all Gods children.

It's too bad you needed to create a new ID to make your questions and concerns known. It's too bad you can't own your own thoughts.

Your opinion is that "yours". I won't give you a platform. I pick my battle. So to you I say, Happy New Year and May God continue to bless you and your family.

I don't need to be given a platform, when I speak, I create my own, thanks. The battle you picked was against someone who came here for support and advice. I am the eternal optimist and ALWAYS give people the benefit of the doubt that they are being honest and truthful when they speak. I have been on the receiving end of the type of behavior you displayed toward this individual, it's not a fun place to be when one is seeking help and support. So I will always come to the defense of those being picked on and harrassed. Just as Jesus did.

You are "almost" funny. Hope that you have a short VJ and that your love one will be here soon to join you in the States. Sorry to hear that you didn't win the contest, God's knows best. Maybe we can meet in Dakar one day. Have you learned French or Woloof or do you already know the languages? Both are interesting languages. I am learning both personally I like French better. My honey will be here for the Inauguration, have to get my house in order. We are bless to have an apartment close to DC. Are you planning on attending? Have a bless day. Will chat with you later.

[Ta Ta 1]

Some people here cast the judgment : guilty until proven innocent. And only towards the immigrant, never the USC. Very narrow minded.

I have wondered myself, why hide behind another ID and launch an insult on someone who is already down and just wanted to share his story.

[Aunt Bee 2]

Some people here cast the judgment : guilty until proven innocent. And only towards the immigrant, never the USC. Very narrow minded.

I have wondered myself, why hide behind another ID and launch an insult on someone who is already down and just wanted to share his story.

Hi Omoba, how are things with you. Glad that you could join us. Is it possible he can be hiding behind "another id"? Just a question, he could be a female we don't know. Enquiry minds wants to know. Are you attending the Inauguration? I am really looking forward to this event. Please have a wonderful afternoon.

[Aunt Bee 2]

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Edited December 28, 2008 by Aunt Bee

[idocare 3]

Some people have several accounts that they may use being whom ever they want to be at the time. Just as this is a free country they are free to do so until the moderators of this forum say differently or makes it impossible to do. Up to this point all of us could be just a few people posting here in Saharan.

This isn't the place to be calling anyone narrowminded based on some letters typed to form words. If a person choose's to troll around that's what they gonna do, name calling and accusing someone of being someone else without the proper proof opens the door for falsification of information unless they have the ability of a psychic. If you feel you have that ability then I welcome you to make known the person your accusing.

We here in SubSaharan come into the site to advise people on their journey and to share our experiences. Let's move away from name calling and such. It's just not beneficial. Newbies, I hope you see that we post to help each other, that's our goal here . Please over look those that resort to name calling and such as there are bad apples on every tree.

[Ta Ta 1]

Some people have several accounts that they may use being whom ever they want to be at the time. Just as this is a free country they are free to do so until the moderators of this forum say differently or makes it impossible to do. Up to this point all of us could be just a few people posting here in Saharan.

This isn't the place to be calling anyone narrowminded based on some letters typed to form words. If a person choose's to troll around that's what they gonna do, name calling and accusing someone of being someone else without the proper proof opens the door for falsification of information unless they have the ability of a psychic. If you feel you have that ability then I welcome you to make known the person your accusing.

We here in SubSaharan come into the site to advise people on their journey and to share our experiences. Let's move away from name calling and such. It's just not beneficial. Newbies, I hope you see that we post to help each other, that's our goal here . Please over look those that resort to name calling and such as there are bad apples on every tree.

Your post makes no sense to me whatsoever.

I call it " narrow minded " for someone behind a hidden ID to attack a newbie who shared his story and accuse him of building a case on VJ instead of giving support to what he said his problems currently are. That definitely was not helpful to the OP. What is your problem with me now Idocare ?

[Ta Ta 1]

no comment

No, no comment. What else is there to say ?

[idocare 3]

Omoba You don't think my post makes sense.........okay you have every right to your oppinion. Why do you feel I have a problem with you Omoba? What I have a problem with is some of your misinformation and wanting to be the Visajourney Queen.

Every person that choose's to type on this board brings a thought behind their words even tho I or you may not agree this labeling has to stop.

[Ta Ta 1]

Omoba You don't think my post makes sense.........okay you have every right to your oppinion. Why do you feel I have a problem with you Omoba? What I have a problem with is some of your misinformation and wanting to be the Visajourney Queen.

Every person that choose's to type on this board brings a thought behind their words even tho I or you may not agree this labeling has to stop.

Because you are stalking my posts, that leads me to believe you have a problem with me.

What misinformation are you referring to ?

I am not interested in being called names by you, such as VJ Queen, I am here to pass the time on my own visa journey and help and support others.

What labeling ? You calling me vjqueen ? Yes, your accusations and name calling have to stop, so stop it.

[idocare 3]

The queen thing was a little out of line, and I apologze to all that reads it.

Your previous post susgest that some are narrowminded and it's without merit.

Please be more respectful of others post.

Now back to topic please.

[Ta Ta 1]

The queen thing was a little out of line, and I apologze to all that reads it.

Your previous post susgest that some are narrowminded and it's without merit.

Please be more respectful of others post.

Now back to topic please.

The person you are so avidly defending has discredided the OP. The OP was accused of building his case here and looking for other woman. You defend all that but have a problem with my typed word of narrow minded ? Strange indeed.

To me, that is not without merit. I see insults and assumptions without facts as narrow minded opinions.

Apology accepted.

[idocare 3]

Is there anything else you want to share with us poster ? Any more updates ?

We are here and willing to give our little 5-cents.