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rebeccajo Grand Master

rebeccajo   14

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I'm not 'connected' to the originators of VisaJourney. Just been here a while, that's all.

I was just observing that for someone who, by their member name claims they have 'notime4haterz' that this member certainly seem to have a lot of time to devote to hateful talk (as some of the members of the MENA forum will vouch for, I'm sure).

As I've stated before, I don't enjoy seeing any of you separated from your spouses. I just think that getting yourselves all in a stew about it isn't mentally healthy. There are more productive ways to be supportive of each other.

My husband's at work, cj. I'm leaving to pick him up in a few moments.

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daboyz   36

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daboyz, do these people want a war or what? :devil:

Not even worth it. She's right about everything, and everybody else is wrong. The sooner people realize that is how she operates, the better.

Its hard to be right all the time, you know.

Actually, I have a bit of a problem with ones who have nothing better to do than badger people for no apparent reason.

"rally 'round the family" by rage against the machine started playing in my head and i got a little carried away lol

Hard to figure why someone that got approved years ago, has nothing better to do than run around this site beating people down. Once my wife is here, I'd like to spend my time with her. Who knows. Allegedly, she helps some people. I haven't seen it. It's only a matter of time before one of her minions lock this thread.

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Bangkok, Thailand

Marriage : 2006-11-08

I-130 Sent : 2008-02-22

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-03-10

I-129F Sent : 2008-04-08

I-129F NOA1 : 2008-04-14

I-129F touched: 2008-05-06

I-130 touched: 2008-05-09

I-129F approved 2008-09-05

I-130 approved 2008-09-05

NVC received 2008-09-12

Pay I-864 2008-10-08

Pay IV bill 2008-10-08

Receive Instruction 2008-11-05

Case Complete 2008-11-18

Medical 2009-01-19/20 passed

Receive Pkt 4 2009-01-30

Interview 221g 2009-02-23

Second interview 2009-03-02 Approved

POE DFW 2009-03-07

Received SS card 2009-03-17

Received GC 2009-04-01

Done for 3 years or 10 years. Haven't decided yet.

(I'm going for the IR-1 and blowing off the K-3. Even if it takes an extra couple months, it's worth it to not have to deal with USCIS again)

"Give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free, the wretched refuse of your teeming shore. Send these, the homeless, tempest-tost to me, I lift my lamp beside the golden door!"

Note:

Please fill out I-130, wait 6 months for approval, then 3 more months for an interview. (Unless of course we've bombed your country into the stone age, then you qualify for expedited processing.)

Welcome to the USA!!!

rebeccajo Grand Master

rebeccajo   14

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daboyz, do these people want a war or what? :devil:

Not even worth it. She's right about everything, and everybody else is wrong. The sooner people realize that is how she operates, the better.

Its hard to be right all the time, you know.

Actually, I have a bit of a problem with ones who have nothing better to do than badger people for no apparent reason.

"rally 'round the family" by rage against the machine started playing in my head and i got a little carried away lol

Hard to figure why someone that got approved years ago, has nothing better to do than run around this site beating people down. Once my wife is here, I'd like to spend my time with her. Who knows. Allegedly, she helps some people. I haven't seen it. It's only a matter of time before one of her minions lock this thread.

I helped you when you private messaged me looking for help.

Y's_habibitk Mentor

Y's_habibitk   2

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I'm not 'connected' to the originators of VisaJourney. Just been here a while, that's all.

I was just observing that for someone who, by their member name claims they have 'notime4haterz' that this member certainly seem to have a lot of time to devote to hateful talk (as some of the members of the MENA forum will vouch for, I'm sure).

As I've stated before, I don't enjoy seeing any of you separated from your spouses. I just think that getting yourselves all in a stew about it isn't mentally healthy. There are more productive ways to be supportive of each other.

My husband's at work, cj. I'm leaving to pick him up in a few moments.

I frequent the MENA forum and what i have observed is that someone antagonized and then the people developed a 'mob' mentality and the sh*t insued.

To go out of your way to make a comment like that and the suggesting what is and what is not mentally healthy is kind of amusing really.

"you fondle my trigger then you blame my gun"

Timeline: 13 month long journey from filing to visa in hand

If you were lucky and got an approval and reunion with your loved one rather quickly; Please refrain from telling people who waited 6+ months just to get out of a service center to "chill out" or to "stop whining" It's insensitive,and unecessary. Once you walk a mile in their shoes you will understand and be heard.

Thanks!

rebeccajo Grand Master

rebeccajo   14

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I'm not 'connected' to the originators of VisaJourney. Just been here a while, that's all.

I was just observing that for someone who, by their member name claims they have 'notime4haterz' that this member certainly seem to have a lot of time to devote to hateful talk (as some of the members of the MENA forum will vouch for, I'm sure).

As I've stated before, I don't enjoy seeing any of you separated from your spouses. I just think that getting yourselves all in a stew about it isn't mentally healthy. There are more productive ways to be supportive of each other.

My husband's at work, cj. I'm leaving to pick him up in a few moments.

I frequent the MENA forum and what i have observed is that someone antagonized and then the people developed a 'mob' mentality and the sh*t insued.

To go out of your way to make a comment like that and the suggesting what is and what is not mentally healthy is kind of amusing really.

Well, sorry about what you feel is 'amusing'. I can only relay what I've learned from observing behaviors (over a period of years) on this site and others. It's just my opinion. You may take it or leave it.

Y's_habibitk Mentor

Y's_habibitk   2

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daboyz, do these people want a war or what? :devil:

Not even worth it. She's right about everything, and everybody else is wrong. The sooner people realize that is how she operates, the better.

Its hard to be right all the time, you know.

Actually, I have a bit of a problem with ones who have nothing better to do than badger people for no apparent reason.

"rally 'round the family" by rage against the machine started playing in my head and i got a little carried away lol

Hard to figure why someone that got approved years ago, has nothing better to do than run around this site beating people down. Once my wife is here, I'd like to spend my time with her. Who knows. Allegedly, she helps some people. I haven't seen it. It's only a matter of time before one of her minions lock this thread.

I have wondered that about alot of members here really, and some just come by to stir the pot. Its sad really

"you fondle my trigger then you blame my gun"

Timeline: 13 month long journey from filing to visa in hand

If you were lucky and got an approval and reunion with your loved one rather quickly; Please refrain from telling people who waited 6+ months just to get out of a service center to "chill out" or to "stop whining" It's insensitive,and unecessary. Once you walk a mile in their shoes you will understand and be heard.

Thanks!

cjgator Collaborator

cjgator   2

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I love my peeps. You are all invited to sail on our first cruise with us when Natasha gets here. Bubba-jo can come too. Because, the hot tub gets dirty after a while when happy couples are relaxing in it. Here's your toothbrush, BA-BY..

CJ-G

daboyz, do these people want a war or what? :devil:

Not even worth it. She's right about everything, and everybody else is wrong. The sooner people realize that is how she operates, the better.

Its hard to be right all the time, you know.

Actually, I have a bit of a problem with ones who have nothing better to do than badger people for no apparent reason.

"rally 'round the family" by rage against the machine started playing in my head and i got a little carried away lol

pushbrk Grand Master

pushbrk   13,108

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daboyz, do these people want a war or what? :devil:

Not even worth it. She's right about everything, and everybody else is wrong. The sooner people realize that is how she operates, the better.

Its hard to be right all the time, you know.

Actually, I have a bit of a problem with ones who have nothing better to do than badger people for no apparent reason.

"rally 'round the family" by rage against the machine started playing in my head and i got a little carried away lol

Hard to figure why someone that got approved years ago, has nothing better to do than run around this site beating people down. Once my wife is here, I'd like to spend my time with her. Who knows. Allegedly, she helps some people. I haven't seen it. It's only a matter of time before one of her minions lock this thread.

I have wondered that about alot of members here really, and some just come by to stir the pot. Its sad really

Some pots need stirring. Even though my wife arrive more than two years ago, I've been doing without her for 7 weeks now and it'll be another 48 hours before she returns. Can I join the pity party for a while? :devil:

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daboyz   36

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daboyz, do these people want a war or what? :devil:

Not even worth it. She's right about everything, and everybody else is wrong. The sooner people realize that is how she operates, the better.

Its hard to be right all the time, you know.

Actually, I have a bit of a problem with ones who have nothing better to do than badger people for no apparent reason.

"rally 'round the family" by rage against the machine started playing in my head and i got a little carried away lol

Hard to figure why someone that got approved years ago, has nothing better to do than run around this site beating people down. Once my wife is here, I'd like to spend my time with her. Who knows. Allegedly, she helps some people. I haven't seen it. It's only a matter of time before one of her minions lock this thread.

I have wondered that about alot of members here really, and some just come by to stir the pot. Its sad really

Some pots need stirring. Even though my wife arrive more than two years ago, I've been doing without her for 7 weeks now and it'll be another 48 hours before she returns. Can I join the pity party for a while? :devil:

:rofl:

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Bangkok, Thailand

Marriage : 2006-11-08

I-130 Sent : 2008-02-22

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-03-10

I-129F Sent : 2008-04-08

I-129F NOA1 : 2008-04-14

I-129F touched: 2008-05-06

I-130 touched: 2008-05-09

I-129F approved 2008-09-05

I-130 approved 2008-09-05

NVC received 2008-09-12

Pay I-864 2008-10-08

Pay IV bill 2008-10-08

Receive Instruction 2008-11-05

Case Complete 2008-11-18

Medical 2009-01-19/20 passed

Receive Pkt 4 2009-01-30

Interview 221g 2009-02-23

Second interview 2009-03-02 Approved

POE DFW 2009-03-07

Received SS card 2009-03-17

Received GC 2009-04-01

Done for 3 years or 10 years. Haven't decided yet.

(I'm going for the IR-1 and blowing off the K-3. Even if it takes an extra couple months, it's worth it to not have to deal with USCIS again)

"Give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free, the wretched refuse of your teeming shore. Send these, the homeless, tempest-tost to me, I lift my lamp beside the golden door!"

Note:

Please fill out I-130, wait 6 months for approval, then 3 more months for an interview. (Unless of course we've bombed your country into the stone age, then you qualify for expedited processing.)

Welcome to the USA!!!

Y's_habibitk Mentor

Y's_habibitk   2

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daboyz, do these people want a war or what? :devil:

Not even worth it. She's right about everything, and everybody else is wrong. The sooner people realize that is how she operates, the better.

Its hard to be right all the time, you know.

Actually, I have a bit of a problem with ones who have nothing better to do than badger people for no apparent reason.

"rally 'round the family" by rage against the machine started playing in my head and i got a little carried away lol

Hard to figure why someone that got approved years ago, has nothing better to do than run around this site beating people down. Once my wife is here, I'd like to spend my time with her. Who knows. Allegedly, she helps some people. I haven't seen it. It's only a matter of time before one of her minions lock this thread.

I have wondered that about alot of members here really, and some just come by to stir the pot. Its sad really

Some pots need stirring. Even though my wife arrive more than two years ago, I've been doing without her for 7 weeks now and it'll be another 48 hours before she returns. Can I join the pity party for a while? :devil:

thats a long time...of course, come on in.

You know i dont always agree with your delivery pshbrk, but you actually come by vj to help and i know you have good hearted intentions. ;)

"you fondle my trigger then you blame my gun"

Timeline: 13 month long journey from filing to visa in hand

If you were lucky and got an approval and reunion with your loved one rather quickly; Please refrain from telling people who waited 6+ months just to get out of a service center to "chill out" or to "stop whining" It's insensitive,and unecessary. Once you walk a mile in their shoes you will understand and be heard.

Thanks!

Y's_habibitk Mentor

Y's_habibitk   2

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:secret: pouring stoli into the diet mt dew....let the pity begin LOL

"you fondle my trigger then you blame my gun"

Timeline: 13 month long journey from filing to visa in hand

If you were lucky and got an approval and reunion with your loved one rather quickly; Please refrain from telling people who waited 6+ months just to get out of a service center to "chill out" or to "stop whining" It's insensitive,and unecessary. Once you walk a mile in their shoes you will understand and be heard.

Thanks!

cjgator Collaborator

cjgator   2

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Absolutely you can, Push. Your advice has saved many on this site, and you are reaspectful, albeit direct, to the plight of others. You are appreciated, you offer lots of good (sometimes hard to digest) advice without ever asking for anything, and being appreciative of our circumstances.

GET MRS. PUSHBRK HOME!!

All the best..

CJ-G

daboyz, do these people want a war or what? :devil:

Not even worth it. She's right about everything, and everybody else is wrong. The sooner people realize that is how she operates, the better.

Its hard to be right all the time, you know.

Actually, I have a bit of a problem with ones who have nothing better to do than badger people for no apparent reason.

"rally 'round the family" by rage against the machine started playing in my head and i got a little carried away lol

Hard to figure why someone that got approved years ago, has nothing better to do than run around this site beating people down. Once my wife is here, I'd like to spend my time with her. Who knows. Allegedly, she helps some people. I haven't seen it. It's only a matter of time before one of her minions lock this thread.

I have wondered that about alot of members here really, and some just come by to stir the pot. Its sad really

Some pots need stirring. Even though my wife arrive more than two years ago, I've been doing without her for 7 weeks now and it'll be another 48 hours before she returns. Can I join the pity party for a while? :devil:

pushbrk Grand Master

pushbrk   13,108

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Gee, thanks. You know the worst thing is, Air Canada reduced the number of flights from Vancouver to Portland and now my wife will have to wait in the airport an extra two hours. It's just not fair.

Absolutely you can, Push. Your advice has saved many on this site, and you are reaspectful, albeit direct, to the plight of others. You are appreciated, you offer lots of good (sometimes hard to digest) advice without ever asking for anything, and being appreciative of our circumstances.

GET MRS. PUSHBRK HOME!!

All the best..

CJ-G

daboyz, do these people want a war or what? :devil:

Not even worth it. She's right about everything, and everybody else is wrong. The sooner people realize that is how she operates, the better.

Its hard to be right all the time, you know.

Actually, I have a bit of a problem with ones who have nothing better to do than badger people for no apparent reason.

"rally 'round the family" by rage against the machine started playing in my head and i got a little carried away lol

Hard to figure why someone that got approved years ago, has nothing better to do than run around this site beating people down. Once my wife is here, I'd like to spend my time with her. Who knows. Allegedly, she helps some people. I haven't seen it. It's only a matter of time before one of her minions lock this thread.

I have wondered that about alot of members here really, and some just come by to stir the pot. Its sad really

Some pots need stirring. Even though my wife arrive more than two years ago, I've been doing without her for 7 weeks now and it'll be another 48 hours before she returns. Can I join the pity party for a while? :devil:

Facts are cheap...knowing how to use them is precious...
Understanding the big picture is priceless. Anonymous

Google Who is Pushbrk?

A Warning to Green Card Holders About Voting

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/606646-a-warning-to-green-card-holders-about-voting/

rebeccajo Grand Master

rebeccajo   14

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Members who have been waiting a hideously long time:

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showuser=23405

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showuser=40194

Or waited:

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showuser=19620

Or waited and as near as we know - split:

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showuser=9347

Point of the post - only to point out that there is always someone worse off.

 
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