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You are really doing wonderful, you may not see it that way, but from where I am sitting I say good job mate. You are taking good care of your children, and truly from all that you have went through you are amazing, be proud, people fall apart for a lot less. To be honest I admire your courage and intelligence, you are a strong beautiful woman. I am being a big baby these days feeling all sorry for myself and to be honest I have nothing to be really depressed about, compared to a lot of folks. I blame it on menopause, sucks buttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt. Now that I am on break I have time to think about my life, this can be good or bad, now I am thinking I will work geriatrics since I will be young compare to my patients. OMG someone stop the bleeding.

Ganja... its not like that.. When people go through things, you cant compare grief. For some people infertility is their grief.. for some its a miscarriage or their husband leaving... or a parent dying.. It may feel like the end for them.. You are not a big baby... this stuff is going on inside of you and its making you down and sad...PS I am not strong. I am a normal person and I have blame all over the place to throw around.. I just made a decision to keep living.. thats not strength.. thats just resolve..

Dont be so hard on yourself ok? We all have stuff we deal with and one kind of grief isnt more or less than the other

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I thought I'd throw in my 2 cents here...I'm not really one for revenge, but I do believe that as an American bringing over a foreigner to live in the US and ultimately things didn't work out, I would still contact USCIS with a letter with your spouse's A# and a statement letting them know what happened. Family immigration (fiance/spouse) is such a touchy matter...you want to believe that everything ends in love, but I can assure you it doesn't. The idea of being responsible for someone is very disconcerting, and I wonder how many men on some of the other forums like the Asian, Eastern Europe/Russian threads have really thought about this. Because traditionally, males can't access too many public services, so the burden for USC women petiitioners is relatively low. Now on the other hand, you take some foreign chica who comes here, marries someone way older than her, fools around after she has her 10-year GC, man, she's golden! She's got her card, her alimony, and because of that I-864 she can can access all sorts of government services.

So I would say, go ahead and send that letter to USCIS - give them a little head's up. They don't have to deport the person, but remember this, when that person goes to apply for citizenship, GC renewal, or maybe even petiition a family member to come to the US, an IO will take a gander at that letter and see a little red flag on their case...might not change their mind or anything...but why not make the person sweat it out a little bit. ;):devil:

Bridget, I love what you wrote...it reminds me of that song - "I've been to paradise, but I've never been to me." We all need to know how we define ourselves before we let someone else define us. Love it!

Kat...I'm so proud of you and where you're going. You will never forget Rayan and you will always be a mother to three beautiful children, but what you've been through reminds me of the saying from the Shawshank Redemption - "You've got to get busy living, or get busy dying." I'm glad to see you're living - you do have a lot to live for.

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I thought I'd throw in my 2 cents here...I'm not really one for revenge, but I do believe that as an American bringing over a foreigner to live in the US and ultimately things didn't work out, I would still contact USCIS with a letter with your spouse's A# and a statement letting them know what happened. Family immigration (fiance/spouse) is such a touchy matter...you want to believe that everything ends in love, but I can assure you it doesn't. The idea of being responsible for someone is very disconcerting, and I wonder how many men on some of the other forums like the Asian, Eastern Europe/Russian threads have really thought about this. Because traditionally, males can't access too many public services, so the burden for USC women petiitioners is relatively low. Now on the other hand, you take some foreign chica who comes here, marries someone way older than her, fools around after she has her 10-year GC, man, she's golden! She's got her card, her alimony, and because of that I-864 she can can access all sorts of government services.

So I would say, go ahead and send that letter to USCIS - give them a little head's up. They don't have to deport the person, but remember this, when that person goes to apply for citizenship, GC renewal, or maybe even petiition a family member to come to the US, an IO will take a gander at that letter and see a little red flag on their case...might not change their mind or anything...but why not make the person sweat it out a little bit. ;):devil:

Bridget, I love what you wrote...it reminds me of that song - "I've been to paradise, but I've never been to me." We all need to know how we define ourselves before we let someone else define us. Love it!

Kat...I'm so proud of you and where you're going. You will never forget Rayan and you will always be a mother to three beautiful children, but what you've been through reminds me of the saying from the Shawshank Redemption - "You've got to get busy living, or get busy dying." I'm glad to see you're living - you do have a lot to live for.

Yeah.. I never really thought about the whole guy vs girl thing.. They could end up with a younger woman and she could go on all kinds of assistance and he could get stuck paying back the government. In my state you cant get food stamps but 3 months in a 3 year period if you dont have kids.. so yeah like you said.. the guys have it rougher than us.

I have a little bit different of a situation in that mine IS coming back and that he really isnt interested in living in the USA all that much. He likes it back home.. even poor and although I think his initial intent was to marry someone for papers I think those papers lost their luster when he realised how much WORK it is to live in this country. This country requires that you WORK for your money.. not sit around drinking coffee and smoking cigarettes and TALKING or working in a store watching soccer games and talking with your friends all day. Its just harder here than even Europe so this is just not the golden ticket for everyone... I am certain that my husband if we split up would not remain here indefinitely... I just think he would go home and resume life...not hang out here.. Its a 100 a month for an apt there.. here its 6 times that much.. electricity there is basically free as well as gas.. I mean who is to say that its that great over here for everyone who comes.. Couple that with our economy.. etc etc etc... I just already dont feel like beating up on my husband if he wants to leave and write letters here and there...I am tired for gods sake... And revenge doesnt seem to make me feel better... you wanna a greencard? take it and good riddance..I love him but god .. how much of my life have I wasted worrying if he will get it or not and leave me... I think I already lost everything except my other kids... My marriage.. my family is almost all dead.. and my husband left *hes coming back**** but its almost too much to process. Revenge isnt on my plate any more. .I want to be happy with what life is left.. You have met me Staashi and you know what a hyper little joy my daughter is.. And I just want to enjoy her,,, this whole hating men and this man thing is old at this point... Id rather go off with my other kids and dance....

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I thought I'd throw in my 2 cents here...I'm not really one for revenge, but I do believe that as an American bringing over a foreigner to live in the US and ultimately things didn't work out, I would still contact USCIS with a letter with your spouse's A# and a statement letting them know what happened. Family immigration (fiance/spouse) is such a touchy matter...you want to believe that everything ends in love, but I can assure you it doesn't. The idea of being responsible for someone is very disconcerting, and I wonder how many men on some of the other forums like the Asian, Eastern Europe/Russian threads have really thought about this. Because traditionally, males can't access too many public services, so the burden for USC women petiitioners is relatively low. Now on the other hand, you take some foreign chica who comes here, marries someone way older than her, fools around after she has her 10-year GC, man, she's golden! She's got her card, her alimony, and because of that I-864 she can can access all sorts of government services.

So I would say, go ahead and send that letter to USCIS - give them a little head's up. They don't have to deport the person, but remember this, when that person goes to apply for citizenship, GC renewal, or maybe even petiition a family member to come to the US, an IO will take a gander at that letter and see a little red flag on their case...might not change their mind or anything...but why not make the person sweat it out a little bit. ;):devil:

Bridget, I love what you wrote...it reminds me of that song - "I've been to paradise, but I've never been to me." We all need to know how we define ourselves before we let someone else define us. Love it!

Kat...I'm so proud of you and where you're going. You will never forget Rayan and you will always be a mother to three beautiful children, but what you've been through reminds me of the saying from the Shawshank Redemption - "You've got to get busy living, or get busy dying." I'm glad to see you're living - you do have a lot to live for.

Yeah.. I never really thought about the whole guy vs girl thing.. They could end up with a younger woman and she could go on all kinds of assistance and he could get stuck paying back the government. In my state you cant get food stamps but 3 months in a 3 year period if you dont have kids.. so yeah like you said.. the guys have it rougher than us.

I have a little bit different of a situation in that mine IS coming back and that he really isnt interested in living in the USA all that much. He likes it back home.. even poor and although I think his initial intent was to marry someone for papers I think those papers lost their luster when he realised how much WORK it is to live in this country. This country requires that you WORK for your money.. not sit around drinking coffee and smoking cigarettes and TALKING or working in a store watching soccer games and talking with your friends all day. Its just harder here than even Europe so this is just not the golden ticket for everyone... I am certain that my husband if we split up would not remain here indefinitely... I just think he would go home and resume life...not hang out here.. Its a 100 a month for an apt there.. here its 6 times that much.. electricity there is basically free as well as gas.. I mean who is to say that its that great over here for everyone who comes.. Couple that with our economy.. etc etc etc... I just already dont feel like beating up on my husband if he wants to leave and write letters here and there...I am tired for gods sake... And revenge doesnt seem to make me feel better... you wanna a greencard? take it and good riddance..I love him but god .. how much of my life have I wasted worrying if he will get it or not and leave me... I think I already lost everything except my other kids... My marriage.. my family is almost all dead.. and my husband left *hes coming back**** but its almost too much to process. Revenge isnt on my plate any more. .I want to be happy with what life is left.. You have met me Staashi and you know what a hyper little joy my daughter is.. And I just want to enjoy her,,, this whole hating men and this man thing is old at this point... Id rather go off with my other kids and dance....

Amen - yeah, Zahra is a handful!!! But she should be as a 3-year old. :star: Like I said, you're busy living...and that's how it should be. :)

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I thought I'd throw in my 2 cents here...I'm not really one for revenge, but I do believe that as an American bringing over a foreigner to live in the US and ultimately things didn't work out, I would still contact USCIS with a letter with your spouse's A# and a statement letting them know what happened. Family immigration (fiance/spouse) is such a touchy matter...you want to believe that everything ends in love, but I can assure you it doesn't. The idea of being responsible for someone is very disconcerting, and I wonder how many men on some of the other forums like the Asian, Eastern Europe/Russian threads have really thought about this. Because traditionally, males can't access too many public services, so the burden for USC women petiitioners is relatively low. Now on the other hand, you take some foreign chica who comes here, marries someone way older than her, fools around after she has her 10-year GC, man, she's golden! She's got her card, her alimony, and because of that I-864 she can can access all sorts of government services.

So I would say, go ahead and send that letter to USCIS - give them a little head's up. They don't have to deport the person, but remember this, when that person goes to apply for citizenship, GC renewal, or maybe even petiition a family member to come to the US, an IO will take a gander at that letter and see a little red flag on their case...might not change their mind or anything...but why not make the person sweat it out a little bit. ;):devil:

Bridget, I love what you wrote...it reminds me of that song - "I've been to paradise, but I've never been to me." We all need to know how we define ourselves before we let someone else define us. Love it!

Kat...I'm so proud of you and where you're going. You will never forget Rayan and you will always be a mother to three beautiful children, but what you've been through reminds me of the saying from the Shawshank Redemption - "You've got to get busy living, or get busy dying." I'm glad to see you're living - you do have a lot to live for.

Yeah.. I never really thought about the whole guy vs girl thing.. They could end up with a younger woman and she could go on all kinds of assistance and he could get stuck paying back the government. In my state you cant get food stamps but 3 months in a 3 year period if you dont have kids.. so yeah like you said.. the guys have it rougher than us.

You know, Cat, I never really thought about this before you posted this topic. While my first reaction was "I'd give it to God," another conversation I had with another member today made me think about it a little more than I ever have. The "guy vs girl" discussion prompted me to write my thoughts here.

Here's what I mean. Here's a What If?: What if he divorces me then heads back home, marries a local girl, petitions her, she sets about producing the compulsory minimum of three children (I swear they all have at least three here; I have my own opinion about why that might be), and he (because, as a ME/NA male, it's his duty to support his household) can't afford the entire brood, so they go on welfare? Who's on the hook for his portion of the government benefits? Me.

In that case, I wouldn't give it to God. I'd move Heaven and earth to remove myself from that financial obligation.

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I thought I'd throw in my 2 cents here...I'm not really one for revenge, but I do believe that as an American bringing over a foreigner to live in the US and ultimately things didn't work out, I would still contact USCIS with a letter with your spouse's A# and a statement letting them know what happened. Family immigration (fiance/spouse) is such a touchy matter...you want to believe that everything ends in love, but I can assure you it doesn't. The idea of being responsible for someone is very disconcerting, and I wonder how many men on some of the other forums like the Asian, Eastern Europe/Russian threads have really thought about this. Because traditionally, males can't access too many public services, so the burden for USC women petiitioners is relatively low. Now on the other hand, you take some foreign chica who comes here, marries someone way older than her, fools around after she has her 10-year GC, man, she's golden! She's got her card, her alimony, and because of that I-864 she can can access all sorts of government services.

So I would say, go ahead and send that letter to USCIS - give them a little head's up. They don't have to deport the person, but remember this, when that person goes to apply for citizenship, GC renewal, or maybe even petiition a family member to come to the US, an IO will take a gander at that letter and see a little red flag on their case...might not change their mind or anything...but why not make the person sweat it out a little bit. ;):devil:

Bridget, I love what you wrote...it reminds me of that song - "I've been to paradise, but I've never been to me." We all need to know how we define ourselves before we let someone else define us. Love it!

Kat...I'm so proud of you and where you're going. You will never forget Rayan and you will always be a mother to three beautiful children, but what you've been through reminds me of the saying from the Shawshank Redemption - "You've got to get busy living, or get busy dying." I'm glad to see you're living - you do have a lot to live for.

Yeah.. I never really thought about the whole guy vs girl thing.. They could end up with a younger woman and she could go on all kinds of assistance and he could get stuck paying back the government. In my state you cant get food stamps but 3 months in a 3 year period if you dont have kids.. so yeah like you said.. the guys have it rougher than us.

You know, Cat, I never really thought about this before you posted this topic. While my first reaction was "I'd give it to God," another conversation I had with another member today made me think about it a little more than I ever have. The "guy vs girl" discussion prompted me to write my thoughts here.

Here's what I mean. Here's a What If?: What if he divorces me then heads back home, marries a local girl, petitions her, she sets about producing the compulsory minimum of three children (I swear they all have at least three here; I have my own opinion about why that might be), and he (because, as a ME/NA male, it's his duty to support his household) can't afford the entire brood, so they go on welfare? Who's on the hook for his portion of the government benefits? Me.

In that case, I wouldn't give it to God. I'd move Heaven and earth to remove myself from that financial obligation.

well.... he cant import from back home until he is a us citizen and I THINK I don t know.. I think you are released at that point. NOW if he married a younger girl here and then starts knocking them up...you could conceivably be on the hook for at least a year or 2 cause it takes a while to have a kid bla bla bla

I dont know and I havent thought of it but alot of the Moroccan friends of mine that have small kids are ALL ON ASSISTANCE of either 4 c wic and or food stamps but they are all lottery winners and came here together. I mean they seem to know the programs and free stuff better than alot of Americans do. I dont think that wic is a means tested benefit and really ... its pretty hard to qualify these days for all these different programs.. Look at how long it took us to get our spouses here.. now imagine they start petitioning.. It will take a while and really they have to be citizens at that point and then they have to make enough money on taxes to bring someone here.. Its not easy to marry and dump at least in the us.. but europe and uk seem pretty easy or at least they used to be....Its hard to get into the good old usa and the whole marry and get a greencard and then turn around and divorce doesnt seem to be working out for some of the moroccans I know.. They just end up looking for a girl already here like who came on lottery or who is divorced from an american or a student. Its too hard and time consuming to bring someone here...I wouldnt worry about being stuck with welfare.. The chances of that are very very slim...

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I thought I'd throw in my 2 cents here...I'm not really one for revenge, but I do believe that as an American bringing over a foreigner to live in the US and ultimately things didn't work out, I would still contact USCIS with a letter with your spouse's A# and a statement letting them know what happened. Family immigration (fiance/spouse) is such a touchy matter...you want to believe that everything ends in love, but I can assure you it doesn't. The idea of being responsible for someone is very disconcerting, and I wonder how many men on some of the other forums like the Asian, Eastern Europe/Russian threads have really thought about this. Because traditionally, males can't access too many public services, so the burden for USC women petiitioners is relatively low. Now on the other hand, you take some foreign chica who comes here, marries someone way older than her, fools around after she has her 10-year GC, man, she's golden! She's got her card, her alimony, and because of that I-864 she can can access all sorts of government services.

So I would say, go ahead and send that letter to USCIS - give them a little head's up. They don't have to deport the person, but remember this, when that person goes to apply for citizenship, GC renewal, or maybe even petiition a family member to come to the US, an IO will take a gander at that letter and see a little red flag on their case...might not change their mind or anything...but why not make the person sweat it out a little bit. ;):devil:

Bridget, I love what you wrote...it reminds me of that song - "I've been to paradise, but I've never been to me." We all need to know how we define ourselves before we let someone else define us. Love it!

Kat...I'm so proud of you and where you're going. You will never forget Rayan and you will always be a mother to three beautiful children, but what you've been through reminds me of the saying from the Shawshank Redemption - "You've got to get busy living, or get busy dying." I'm glad to see you're living - you do have a lot to live for.

Yeah.. I never really thought about the whole guy vs girl thing.. They could end up with a younger woman and she could go on all kinds of assistance and he could get stuck paying back the government. In my state you cant get food stamps but 3 months in a 3 year period if you dont have kids.. so yeah like you said.. the guys have it rougher than us.

I have a little bit different of a situation in that mine IS coming back and that he really isnt interested in living in the USA all that much. He likes it back home.. even poor and although I think his initial intent was to marry someone for papers I think those papers lost their luster when he realised how much WORK it is to live in this country. This country requires that you WORK for your money.. not sit around drinking coffee and smoking cigarettes and TALKING or working in a store watching soccer games and talking with your friends all day. Its just harder here than even Europe so this is just not the golden ticket for everyone... I am certain that my husband if we split up would not remain here indefinitely... I just think he would go home and resume life...not hang out here.. Its a 100 a month for an apt there.. here its 6 times that much.. electricity there is basically free as well as gas.. I mean who is to say that its that great over here for everyone who comes.. Couple that with our economy.. etc etc etc... I just already dont feel like beating up on my husband if he wants to leave and write letters here and there...I am tired for gods sake... And revenge doesnt seem to make me feel better... you wanna a greencard? take it and good riddance..I love him but god .. how much of my life have I wasted worrying if he will get it or not and leave me... I think I already lost everything except my other kids... My marriage.. my family is almost all dead.. and my husband left *hes coming back**** but its almost too much to process. Revenge isnt on my plate any more. .I want to be happy with what life is left.. You have met me Staashi and you know what a hyper little joy my daughter is.. And I just want to enjoy her,,, this whole hating men and this man thing is old at this point... Id rather go off with my other kids and dance....

Amen - yeah, Zahra is a handful!!! But she should be as a 3-year old. :star: Like I said, you're busy living...and that's how it should be. :)

I am grieving but it got to the point that if I didnt break out of the grief I was going down and fast.. Sometimes you cry yourself backwards and you just sit up and say .. I am gonna die if I dont stop this.. and then you try to figure out plan b
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I thought I'd throw in my 2 cents here...I'm not really one for revenge, but I do believe that as an American bringing over a foreigner to live in the US and ultimately things didn't work out, I would still contact USCIS with a letter with your spouse's A# and a statement letting them know what happened. Family immigration (fiance/spouse) is such a touchy matter...you want to believe that everything ends in love, but I can assure you it doesn't. The idea of being responsible for someone is very disconcerting, and I wonder how many men on some of the other forums like the Asian, Eastern Europe/Russian threads have really thought about this. Because traditionally, males can't access too many public services, so the burden for USC women petiitioners is relatively low. Now on the other hand, you take some foreign chica who comes here, marries someone way older than her, fools around after she has her 10-year GC, man, she's golden! She's got her card, her alimony, and because of that I-864 she can can access all sorts of government services.

So I would say, go ahead and send that letter to USCIS - give them a little head's up. They don't have to deport the person, but remember this, when that person goes to apply for citizenship, GC renewal, or maybe even petiition a family member to come to the US, an IO will take a gander at that letter and see a little red flag on their case...might not change their mind or anything...but why not make the person sweat it out a little bit. ;):devil:

Bridget, I love what you wrote...it reminds me of that song - "I've been to paradise, but I've never been to me." We all need to know how we define ourselves before we let someone else define us. Love it!

Kat...I'm so proud of you and where you're going. You will never forget Rayan and you will always be a mother to three beautiful children, but what you've been through reminds me of the saying from the Shawshank Redemption - "You've got to get busy living, or get busy dying." I'm glad to see you're living - you do have a lot to live for.

Yeah.. I never really thought about the whole guy vs girl thing.. They could end up with a younger woman and she could go on all kinds of assistance and he could get stuck paying back the government. In my state you cant get food stamps but 3 months in a 3 year period if you dont have kids.. so yeah like you said.. the guys have it rougher than us.

You know, Cat, I never really thought about this before you posted this topic. While my first reaction was "I'd give it to God," another conversation I had with another member today made me think about it a little more than I ever have. The "guy vs girl" discussion prompted me to write my thoughts here.

Here's what I mean. Here's a What If?: What if he divorces me then heads back home, marries a local girl, petitions her, she sets about producing the compulsory minimum of three children (I swear they all have at least three here; I have my own opinion about why that might be), and he (because, as a ME/NA male, it's his duty to support his household) can't afford the entire brood, so they go on welfare? Who's on the hook for his portion of the government benefits? Me.

In that case, I wouldn't give it to God. I'd move Heaven and earth to remove myself from that financial obligation.

The other thing that you need to know is that the economy as far as moving here has lost its luster... Someone used to be able to come here lets say with Disney.. do a marriage to legalise then divorce and quickly get papers.. sometimes a greencard within 2 years.. After 9 11 people were waiting for interviews ( aos) sometimes as much as 2 years from the date of application. that meant if someone had already been married 2 years and by the time they got their application notice for their interview..., they were ready to get 10 year greencards...Its just not the same thing going on anymore. The point of this initial post is to say that getting mad about this kind of stuff and obsessing about someone using you is a total waste of valuable life and time...I personally cant go there anymore.. even knowing things because I get burned up inside and dont want to obsess about what if.. what if..

Yes, people get used. No there is really nothing you can do about it anyway.. even if you are. Or have been. Thats why I made this thread.. I see people including myself getting riled up over stuff that cant really even be helped...

As far as using benefits.. its no secret in my community that its better sometimes for the woman to stay home and just use the guys paycheck and get WIC, foodstamps and medicaid. Why work when you can get benefits..? But the question from I HAVE QUESTIONS is are you responsible. I think you would be since he is the one applying with the new wife... but the likely hood of this scenario is so small because it takes years to get through the process of even getting someone here.. and then it takes time to have kids.. etc.. By that time the quarters of work are up

Again... obsessing about something that hasnt happened and most likely WONT happen is just silly. The marriages and divorces I have seen were at least 10 years ago and they remarried several years after...Its not like a 1 2 3 thing anyway and not easy to do..

I wouldn t obsess about it..NOW.. if he marries someone from here and gets straight on welfare with his wife and has kids,,,,,and hasnt worked through the adjustment..um... I think you may have a problem because he is applying for benefits along with his new wife.. Technically if the law is followed... the sponsor may very well end up carrying him.

Oh boy.. have to ask Diddie Mermaid about all this stuff

Um the whole point of the thread was to move one and forget...:pop:

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My two cents worth--We have been married a year, had many things to adjust to, including age, culture, his adjustment problems, his temper, etc. BUT we have said that the big thing is---if either of us starts chatting online to another or something else seen as cheating, that's it, boy. No further chances.

Believe me, ladies, you will have things to contend with when you marry a guy from another culture and age, but we have kept on chugging along. Sometimes I thought that was the end, but we are still trying to make our marriage work. If the end comes.....

Then, all you can tell yourself, is consider pitying the next poor slob that has to put up with his #######.

Hope all is going well with you other people on here....hi Jackie!!! from down south

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Uh whats wrong with online chatting (choke prison) ..seems extreme there?? each thier own if you BOTH agree and stick

august 2004 I-129 filed (neb)

DEC 2004 Approved

interview: SEOUL

MArch 21st , 2005AR for special security clearance,washington

May 18th tranfer case from Seoul to Islammabad

June 21st security clearance done

June 28th online at the embassy in Islamabad

waiting for paper transfer and the good word

OCTOBER 14TH 2005 Interview Number 2: ISLAMABAD, PK

AR number 2 sent to DOS per Islamabad (2 cable request)

Nov 22 okd updated financial and etc proof accepted / embassy waiting for security cables

dec 20th one cable back waiting on 2nd

Jan 17th.. good word recieved. SECURITY CHECKS ALL CLEAR!!! DOS says embassy to contact him within two weeks!!!!!!

FEBRUARY 10th, 2006 VISA RECIEVED!!! They called him In via phone, stamped his passort and sent him on his way!!!

FEB 28th WELCOME HOME>>>POE CHICAGO did not even look at xray, few questions. one hour wait at Poe

march 10th marriage (nikkah at the islamic center)

aug 2006 AOS interview, cond 2 yr GC arrived september

June 2008 applied for removal of conditions on permant residency aka awaiting for 10 yr greencard

Dec 2008 10yr green card approved, no interview.

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My two cents worth--We have been married a year, had many things to adjust to, including age, culture, his adjustment problems, his temper, etc. BUT we have said that the big thing is---if either of us starts chatting online to another or something else seen as cheating, that's it, boy. No further chances.

Believe me, ladies, you will have things to contend with when you marry a guy from another culture and age, but we have kept on chugging along. Sometimes I thought that was the end, but we are still trying to make our marriage work. If the end comes.....

Then, all you can tell yourself, is consider pitying the next poor slob tard that has to put up with his #######.

Hope all is going well with you other people on here....hi Jackie!!! from down south

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