couple waited for marriage to kiss

[Niels Bohr 72]

Americans....Same old, same old.

[Ling Ling 22]

The terrible thing is, that these are people who 'teach' abstinence. What I forsee is the 'reformed smoker' type attitude 'well, if we can do it you can/must do it too' angle. That would be very, very sad.

Everyone needs to make their own choices about when and how they have sexual relationships (not sure how 'sexual' kissing is, but that's another question) and no one should have the moral high ground on this issue.

DING DING DING!

That's what I'm talking about!!!

Good for them if that's what THEY want to do, but the main problem I have with those that teach preach abstinence, is that they do not teach sex education as well. Abstinence may work for some, but not teaching sex education is much more dangerous than teaching it.

As a matter of fact, I think they should add onto sex education with classes in the legal, moral, and economic ramifications of both a pregnancy outside of marriage, and a pregnancy to a young under-educated and under-employed person.

We need to stop sending kids out with loaded pubes and telling them to just say no...because it's the morally right thing to do.

Here's the advise I give..."During your teen years, there will be boys that will say and do ANYTHING and EVERYTHING to get into your pants.

Don't believe a word of it. Don't believe the 'if you love me you will' line. Don't believe the 'you can't get pregnant' line, and don't believe the 'everybody else is doing it line'. Those who will leave you because you won't put out, will leave you after you put out. Sex can be a beautiful thing

between two consenting adults, and between two consenting teenagers, it can be a terribly dangerous thing. Above all, if you do have sex outside of marriage, make sure it's because YOU want to do it, not because someone else pressures you into it."

[britty 1]

a semi ? after waiting that long ? whatever.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

I wouldn't wait for sex...I don't want to marry someone and then find out they can't satisfy me sexually

On the flip side of that....some schmucks want to marry the girl they just had great sex with. There's no sure fire way of finding someone who is compatible where it's important, and finding someone you can have great sex with can actually cloud your mind to other not-so-compatible things about them. Seriously, when you think about it - if you were truly in love in with someone...and the first or second sexual experience you had with them didn't bring fireworks, you're not going to dump them. Also, IMO, sexual performance and sexual compatibility are two different things.

[Amby 490]

I wouldn't wait for sex...I don't want to marry someone and then find out they can't satisfy me sexually

On the flip side of that....some schmucks want to marry the girl they just had great sex with. There's no sure fire way of finding someone who is compatible where it's important, and finding someone you can have great sex with can actually cloud your mind to other not-so-compatible things about them. Seriously, when you think about it - if you were truly in love in with someone...and the first or second sexual experience you had with them didn't bring fireworks, you're not going to dump them. Also, IMO, sexual performance and sexual compatibility are two different things.

you're a smart man steven

[Not Available 0]

Freaking creeps

What if he/she sucks @ kissing and doing it? you are screwed!

Theory says if you are in love, you'll most likely enjoy kissing that person. Even if his/her "technique" needs a few improvement hints

Saludos,

Caro

Well said! Practice makes perfect

[one...two...tree 2,762]

I wouldn't wait for sex...I don't want to marry someone and then find out they can't satisfy me sexually

On the flip side of that....some schmucks want to marry the girl they just had great sex with. There's no sure fire way of finding someone who is compatible where it's important, and finding someone you can have great sex with can actually cloud your mind to other not-so-compatible things about them. Seriously, when you think about it - if you were truly in love in with someone...and the first or second sexual experience you had with them didn't bring fireworks, you're not going to dump them. Also, IMO, sexual performance and sexual compatibility are two different things.

you're a smart man steven

I don't know...I learned a lot of hard lessons in my life.

[Scott & Lai 12]

I wouldn't wait for sex...I don't want to marry someone and then find out they can't satisfy me sexually

On the flip side of that....some schmucks want to marry the girl they just had great sex with. There's no sure fire way of finding someone who is compatible where it's important, and finding someone you can have great sex with can actually cloud your mind to other not-so-compatible things about them. Seriously, when you think about it - if you were truly in love in with someone...and the first or second sexual experience you had with them didn't bring fireworks, you're not going to dump them. Also, IMO, sexual performance and sexual compatibility are two different things.

[*Robert* 2]

As for the future of the couple's sex life, John said he is full of hope. "I'd like to maybe try actually touching Linda's ####### with my hand at some point," he said. "Then again, I don't want to rush things. Also, I've heard that the ####### kind of smells bad."

"I certainly hope the Lord will now bless us with a child after this wonderful night," Linda said. "If not, we may be forced to repeat this beautiful experience."

God forbid they are forced to have sex again!

[Saddle Bronc 124]

What's wrong with waiting till marriage to do full "French" kiss? Edited December 2, 2008 by CherryXS

[*julez* 124]

We need to stop sending kids out with loaded pubes and telling them to just say no...because it's the morally right thing to do.

Totally. They must engage in "personal" grooming first. No one wants a hairy first encounter!