Asking for Prayers again!

[ManilaIdaho 2]

I have just offered a prayer and will continue to pray not only for your unborn grandson and daughter in law but also for you and for the rest of your family

God bless

Edited November 30, 2008 by ManilaIdaho

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

I found out this week, that my son's unborn son is in trouble. I hope you can forgive me to ask for prayers for him. She is about 20 weeks along (not due til April), having labor pains, and the placenta is presenting itself first. They say its very low and that if the baby is born anytime soon, he only has a 30% chance of making it. All I can think about is what i went thru almost 21 years ago with my son Christopher. She has placenta previa, I had abruption of placenta. I'm praying and hope you all will say prayers for Arron Jacob. This is gonna be a rough road for a while for me. So forgive me if I start babbling. I don't know if I can take another big loss like this!!!!

You are not babbling. You lost your son 21 years ago and you survived it. You are facing losing your grandson and are having flashbacks of the loss. My mother grieves for what has happened to me this year, watching me struggle through a dangerous pregnancy a 3 day labor only to lose my precious baby. Mothers want their children to be loved, treated fairly and never hurt. Sometimes life gives us what we don't deserve.

Grief has got to be a choice at that point.. I would absolutely lose my son to the bad things in this world if I grieve and grieve over my baby because he is an adolescent. For your son and his wife to survive what ever happens which may include pregnancy loss, you need to put yourself in your life 21 years ago and remember what helped you to survive, then impart that wisdom to your son. You are not babbling. The only people that would think you were babbling were people who never ever had something hit them this hard. Some people live charmed lives and never see things like this. They bury their parents and their loved ones that are older and then as they age, they bury their siblings. But they dont bury their kids. Their kids are all around them when they die. When things are out of the natural order, it forever affects you. But you need to decide how you want it to affect you. You can use the pain of the loss to leave good things behind or the grief eats your soul. You obviously went on to nuture your son and now he is having his baby so just keep inside your heart that you are doing all you can. I do understand what losing a child does to you mentally. But I also know that people like us can turn things around to survive and take meaning from the loss. You lost a big part of you, your child and its completely understandable why you are in so much pain. You dont want your son to endure what you went through. A miscarriage is traumatising and very hard to endure...its the loss of dreams...I lost my baby after he was here and trust me, not only am I traumatised, my son is too. This is why you have to make certain choices over the next few weeks.. if the baby makes it...then you wont have to endure. If the baby doesnt make it, then you will have to be a rock for your son. Its hard to be a rock when you never recovered from the first situation... And being that what happened was so traumatic, it may not ever completely be over.. but I feel actually pretty pissed off when people who have never experienced this kind of loss tell me I will never recover or much of anything else. If YOU tell me things, I can believe it because you have been through something close to me.. So you provide wisdom for me as well. You understand now? 21 years later you are still here... Thats an inspiration to me.. Your survival gives me hope as well that 21 years later you are still living and you are having grandkids..etc...

You are more strong than you know and you can be a rock for your son. This is your time to be a hero to your kids.. You can do this and I am proud of you for making it this far....

Love Hanging in there

[JeanneVictoria 55]

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

I found out this week, that my son's unborn son is in trouble. I hope you can forgive me to ask for prayers for him. She is about 20 weeks along (not due til April), having labor pains, and the placenta is presenting itself first. They say its very low and that if the baby is born anytime soon, he only has a 30% chance of making it. All I can think about is what i went thru almost 21 years ago with my son Christopher. She has placenta previa, I had abruption of placenta. I'm praying and hope you all will say prayers for Arron Jacob. This is gonna be a rough road for a while for me. So forgive me if I start babbling. I don't know if I can take another big loss like this!!!!

It took me watching this video by natalie grant several times to understand.. There are things we never really understand Turia. Its only faith and the belief in greater things than us that help us survive the losses that cripple us

I am not where you are right now but I know that this is so painful for you and hard to survive... like you dont want to see your son go through this and then you have to reopen things you are trying to survive.. This I completely understand. I am sorry so sorry Turia... You are a hero to me because you have made it this far

[ARALB 0]

Much love and many prayers are coming your way. God will handle things, Every ones advise is very good. Hydration, Hydration, Hydration--and plenty of rest. She needs to stay relaxed and stress needs to be minimal. A piece of chocolate might do you some good too sweetie! Take care and God bless you!--Amy

[Nagishkaw 510]

Consider it done.

[True Love at Last 15]

InshaAllah Allah (God)will keep and save your little angel. Our prayers are with your little one and your family. Stay strong for your son, he will need your strength to help him keep his faith and hope.

Salam

[nunyab 0]

Praying for u sister!! Never apologize for anything sister; we re always here for u HUG

[morocco4ever 63]

Praying here for the best outcome.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

I found out this week, that my son's unborn son is in trouble. I hope you can forgive me to ask for prayers for him. She is about 20 weeks along (not due til April), having labor pains, and the placenta is presenting itself first. They say its very low and that if the baby is born anytime soon, he only has a 30% chance of making it. All I can think about is what i went thru almost 21 years ago with my son Christopher. She has placenta previa, I had abruption of placenta. I'm praying and hope you all will say prayers for Arron Jacob. This is gonna be a rough road for a while for me. So forgive me if I start babbling. I don't know if I can take another big loss like this!!!!

You are not babbling. You lost your son 21 years ago and you survived it. You are facing losing your grandson and are having flashbacks of the loss. My mother grieves for what has happened to me this year, watching me struggle through a dangerous pregnancy a 3 day labor only to lose my precious baby. Mothers want their children to be loved, treated fairly and never hurt. Sometimes life gives us what we don't deserve.

Grief has got to be a choice at that point.. I would absolutely lose my son to the bad things in this world if I grieve and grieve over my baby because he is an adolescent. For your son and his wife to survive what ever happens which may include pregnancy loss, you need to put yourself in your life 21 years ago and remember what helped you to survive, then impart that wisdom to your son. You are not babbling. The only people that would think you were babbling were people who never ever had something hit them this hard. Some people live charmed lives and never see things like this. They bury their parents and their loved ones that are older and then as they age, they bury their siblings. But they dont bury their kids. Their kids are all around them when they die. When things are out of the natural order, it forever affects you. But you need to decide how you want it to affect you. You can use the pain of the loss to leave good things behind or the grief eats your soul. You obviously went on to nuture your son and now he is having his baby so just keep inside your heart that you are doing all you can. I do understand what losing a child does to you mentally. But I also know that people like us can turn things around to survive and take meaning from the loss. You lost a big part of you, your child and its completely understandable why you are in so much pain. You dont want your son to endure what you went through. A miscarriage is traumatising and very hard to endure...its the loss of dreams...I lost my baby after he was here and trust me, not only am I traumatised, my son is too. This is why you have to make certain choices over the next few weeks.. if the baby makes it...then you wont have to endure. If the baby doesnt make it, then you will have to be a rock for your son. Its hard to be a rock when you never recovered from the first situation... And being that what happened was so traumatic, it may not ever completely be over.. but I feel actually pretty pissed off when people who have never experienced this kind of loss tell me I will never recover or much of anything else. If YOU tell me things, I can believe it because you have been through something close to me.. So you provide wisdom for me as well. You understand now? 21 years later you are still here... Thats an inspiration to me.. Your survival gives me hope as well that 21 years later you are still living and you are having grandkids..etc...

You are more strong than you know and you can be a rock for your son. This is your time to be a hero to your kids.. You can do this and I am proud of you for making it this far....

Love Hanging in there

I just feel like everything is gonna be ok so hang in there. There are so many technological advances now and they can keep her on a lot of bed rest so that she can make it through this time. You can do this and survive this and you need to keep hoping for the best possible outcome and listen to the drs..

[Muh and me 18]

I just want to thank everyone for their prayers. Espcially you Kat, your words got to me, and it means the world to me what you said.

[LRA 0]

ISA everything will be OK.

[doodlebugg 10]

Praying for u sister!! Never apologize for anything sister; we re always here for u HUG

This is the time to ask for help. That's the hard part. Now just hang on to our prayers and God willing you will get through this.

[amal 4]

I just saw this and I will make sure to pray each day for him. I'm never more than a phone call away girl.

love ya

amal

[Tunisia216 2]

I'm sorry to be chiming in so late, but I just wanted to let you know that I am praying too Terrie and I'm so sorry to hear that your family is going through this! As everyone else said, many prayers and wishes that everything is going to be alright.