Gentleman x Caveman

[EstebanTrabajos 7]

I can call myself a cheap-a$$ gentleman since I remember everything (thanks to technology) but I'd never buy something super expensive for my wife, we are not materialistics and she agrees with this that's why I fell in love with her because I hate when women expect men to buy them expensive gifts or support them.

People are different. I would never be happy having my husband supporting me, and I'm proud of being able to afford myself whatever I want to buy. Still, I was raised and have always been around people that exchange gifts. It's a natural thing to do, for me and everybody that has been in my life.

As mentioned above, it's the thought of it that counts, not the amount on money spent. I have never met a woman that doesn't expect their SO to at least write a card, do something personal for them to show they appreciate them.

I give her presents just not expensive ones flowers, those great edible arrangements (I'm not into cards though). She loves to go have dinner or travel, that for me is better than buying her a stupid 2K bucks diamond ring

Edited November 26, 2008 by TävôLuDô

[Nessa 23]

I give her presents just not expensive flowers, those great edible arrangements, I'm not into cards though, or take her to have dinner or travel, that for me is better than buying her a stupid 2K bucks diamond ring

It takes good sense to know what you can and cannot afford, what's within the budget. if I made huge amounts of money I'd probably buy expensive stuff like 2K+ for my husband. So far the most I was able to spend was $800 on his guns safe Since my money is his money, we will not go broke to spoil each other.

Bills first, savings account second, extras third.

[Ban Hammer 13,337]

I guess it's more of a cultural thing then. It's the first time I hear about it not being a normal thing. For me it's like pooping, something that has to be done

Hey don't get me wrong - I love gifts.

eeek i just had a bad idea.