Sensitive topic! Need input please

[NameWitheld 0]

Hi everyone. I just read another post, with the lady who never OFFICIALLY adopted her niece as her own daughter. She knew the doctor would know that she has never given birth. THAT got me to thinking....

My fiance' has had an abortion, and I know that's not acceptable there in the Phil. If she tells the truth, will that stay with her and the doctor in the exam room? Or, is that going to raise all sorts of issues that I need to get in front of NOW????

Thank you for understanding my anonimity in this question. I appreciate it.

[jamesNrei 0]

this thread will help you alleviate your worries. read this from start to bottom. Specifically post #1 & 19 will answer your question http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...155001&st=0

Edited November 25, 2008 by jamesNrei

[sunlyk 1]

Hi everyone. I just read another post, with the lady who never OFFICIALLY adopted her niece as her own daughter. She knew the doctor would know that she has never given birth. THAT got me to thinking....

My fiance' has had an abortion, and I know that's not acceptable there in the Phil. If she tells the truth, will that stay with her and the doctor in the exam room? Or, is that going to raise all sorts of issues that I need to get in front of NOW????

Thank you for understanding my anonimity in this question. I appreciate it.

As long as your fiancée is honest about. I don't think doctors would handcuff her or call a police for having an abortion in the past. The fact that you know it also it's nothing to worry. I remembered during my medical it's one of the doctors question just answer YES.

[charramal 0]

Hi everyone. I just read another post, with the lady who never OFFICIALLY adopted her niece as her own daughter. She knew the doctor would know that she has never given birth. THAT got me to thinking....

My fiance' has had an abortion, and I know that's not acceptable there in the Phil. If she tells the truth, will that stay with her and the doctor in the exam room? Or, is that going to raise all sorts of issues that I need to get in front of NOW????

Thank you for understanding my anonimity in this question. I appreciate it.

PM you

[charramal 0]

just tell the truth about her niece. they will know if she give birth or not and it will become additional problem if she lie.

[NameWitheld 0]

sunlyk, thanks for recalling it from your interview.

jamesNrei, that thread really gives me pause.

However, I will NOT lie, nor encourage my fiance' to do so. It may seem AT THE WORST, that the admission will be cause for the addition of a psych interview to the medical, at extra cause. I can live with that. I am sure that my love will get through it. She is strong.