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Does any woman here have a fiancee who is younger than yourself?

Someone here commented that it might cause an extra scrutiny at the service center. Is it true? :unsure:

My (male) fiancee is 6 years younger than me and I'm worried if this may delay our timeline.

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Y's_habibitk   2

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There are TONS of women and men, who petition fiances and spouses that are younger.

It's not such an "odd" thing in immigration.

Good luck :)

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If you were lucky and got an approval and reunion with your loved one rather quickly; Please refrain from telling people who waited 6+ months just to get out of a service center to "chill out" or to "stop whining" It's insensitive,and unecessary. Once you walk a mile in their shoes you will understand and be heard.

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My husband is 10 years younger than I am. It's never been a problem at all. I've read on here some stories where there might be more scrutiny if the country is high fraud, but most people have had good experiences.

Good luck!

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My husband is 10 years younger than I am. It's never been a problem at all. I've read on here some stories where there might be more scrutiny if the country is high fraud, but most people have had good experiences.

Good luck!

Thanks, that's very encouraging and reassuring :yes:

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6 years isn't a major difference.

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It's not the Service Centers job to pass moral judgement, but to ensure everything is legitimate. If you meet the requirements of the petition, and show you have met withing two years, and there are no legal issues with you or your fiance, then you have nothing to worry about.

On top of all that... 6 years ain't nothin! ;)

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11-29-05: Mailed I-129F Petition to CSC

12-06-05: NOA1

03-02-06: NOA2

03-23-06: Interview Date May 16

05-17-06: K-1 Visa Issued

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I-751 Timeline

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07-25-08: NOA for I-751

08-27-08: Biometrics Appointment

02-25-09: I-751 transferred to CSC

04-17-09: I-751 Approved

06-22-09: Received 10 yr Green Card

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07-20-09: Mailed N-400 to Lewisville, TX

07-23-09: NOA for N-400

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My husband is 5 years younger than me. No problem at the interview!

cradle robber! :P

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Does any woman here have a fiancee who is younger than yourself?

Someone here commented that it might cause an extra scrutiny at the service center. Is it true? :unsure:

My (male) fiancee is 6 years younger than me and I'm worried if this may delay our timeline.

If there were extra scrutiny, it would be at the interview, not at the service center. Extra scrutiny does not necessarily present a problem. As with any K1 case, it's important to have and conduct in a way that can be evidenced, a "bona fide" relationship, then procede with a positive attitude.

Six years is nothing if you're 50 and he's 44 but it could be a significant issue if he's only 18. Take a wholistic approach. Consular officers are trained to consider the totality of circumstances both objectively and subjectively.

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Does any woman here have a fiancee who is younger than yourself?

Someone here commented that it might cause an extra scrutiny at the service center. Is it true? :unsure:

My (male) fiancee is 6 years younger than me and I'm worried if this may delay our timeline.

Don't worry! :-) You will be just fine.... It's not like he is 18 and you are 42.... That would be a bit "odd".(It still happens though and that does NOT mean it is a fraud) My hubbie is 3 years younger than me and I used to feel like it was such a BIG deal!(I thought that was what people would think) Remember age is just a number! Plus... Love is blind! lol

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my husband is 6 years younger than me and it hasn't provided any problems so far - we just sent his AOS paperwork today, his K-1 was approved in July

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Our ROC Journey

Feb 23, 2011: ROC packet sent to VSC

Feb 24, 2011: Packet rec'd at VSC

Feb 25, 2011: NOA date

Mar 04, 2011: Rec'd NOA dated 2/25

Mar 18, 2011: Rec'd Biometrics Appt letter

Apr 08, 2011: Biometrics Appointment

Aug 26, 2011: Approval letter rec'd dated 8/22

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I knoiw many folks who are in a 10 year or more age gap 6 is nothing.

I am in a 21 year age gap and happy as a clam:) been together over 2 years and look forward to many more:)

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07/15/08[/font] Sent off I 129F

07/17/08 Arrived and picked up by CSC

07/25/08 NOA-1 FINALLY!!!!

07/31/08 CHECK WAS CASHED!

07/28/08 touched!!

12/08/08 NOA2 FINALLY!

12/13/08 NOA2 received in the mail

12/18/08 Called NVC at (603)334-0700 and talked to a nice lady named Rose. Our case was received on the13th and was sent out to sydney...WE WILL SEE!

12/13/08 NVC received letter and said they sent out to Sydney

12/18/08 received letter in the mail from NVC.

12/19/08 another letter from NVC stating it was shipped out

12/24/08 ARRIVED IN SYDNEY at 10:26 am and signed by tom

12/29/08 CONFIRMED it is at Sydney and Good ol Tom did sign for it LOL THANKS TOM!!

12/29/08 Sydney waiting for paper file from nvc and has it requested

12/31/08 Sydney confirmed through email that the paper file was received

01/05/09 His police checks are done and sent off!!

01/28/09 Kai went to his medicals forgot one of his passport pics and needs two more shots all was good!

2/18/09 medicals ready to be picked

2/20/09 packet 3 sent in

2/26/09 pkt 3 received today takes UP to 10 days

04/07/09 interview....APPROVED!!!!

04/20/09 He flew in ..flight was changed he was 3 hours late BUT HE IS HOME

port of entry took 2 mins!! LOL

04/25/09 WE ARE MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!

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You aren't the only one... my man is 14 years younger and I worry a lot because I am dealing with a high fraud consulate. You gotta have faith. Do you guys look like you "go together"? When a couple looks like they fit, it seems to help, but I could be wrong. The only times I have seen problems with older women and younger men, and you will forgive my blunt honesty here, is when the women was extremely unnattractive (I mean EXTREMELY) and the man was gorgeous and then the CO accused the man of using her for a greencard. Again, looks shouldn't matter (my best friend is not very attractive and very overweight and her husband is a gorgeous model and they love each other truly) but it seems that personal opinion of CO's does affect this process, even when it should NOT.

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