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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Morocco
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I'm having a hard time waiting for a little bit more and I miss him si much and my family I have been crying over 45 minutes. I want him to be here with me and I can't believe I had been wating over 5 years. They say the end is the most painful and hard. :crying::crying::crying::crying::crying::crying::crying::crying::crying::crying:

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Jordan
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(((hugs))))

Lisa

"you fondle my trigger then you blame my gun"

Timeline: 13 month long journey from filing to visa in hand

If you were lucky and got an approval and reunion with your loved one rather quickly; Please refrain from telling people who waited 6+ months just to get out of a service center to "chill out" or to "stop whining" It's insensitive,and unecessary. Once you walk a mile in their shoes you will understand and be heard.

Thanks!

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The wait is soooo hard. Hang in there and try to stay strong.

I-130 Sent : 2008-06-14

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-06-20

I-129F Sent : 2008-07-17

I-129F NOA1 : 2008-07-21

I-129F NOA2 : 2008-09-26

Touched - 2008-07-23

Touched - 2008-09-18

Touched - 2008-09-19

Emailed DS3230 - 10-08-08

Received AOS Package - 10-14-08

Paid AOS Bill - 10-15-08

Mailed hard copy DS3230 - 10-15-08

NVC Received DS3230 - 10-20-08

Paid IV Bill - 10-23-08

IV Bill Paid - 10-24-08

Mailed IV Package - 10-23-08

Received DS-230 at NVC - 10-24-08

CASE COMPLETE - 11-5-08

Interview - 1-13-09

Visa in Hand - 1-20-09

POE - LAX - 1-22-09 Woohoo!!!!

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Canada
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I'm having a hard time waiting for a little bit more and I miss him si much and my family I have been crying over 45 minutes. I want him to be here with me and I can't believe I had been wating over 5 years. They say the end is the most painful and hard. :crying::crying::crying::crying::crying::crying::crying::crying::crying::crying:

Sorry to hear that.

Try to put sadness and negative thought behind. You should at least tell us what is your situation so we can offer advice or help.

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: India
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Hello,

I am sorry you are feeling so down. I felt the same way about a month or so ago. It gets tiring being apart for so long and dealing with the uncertainty of what could happen and the hope that soon everything will be alright. In fact, I think I cried a little today.

Yes, please let us know what you have been throught. You said it has been 5 years. That is longer than most of us had to endure.

We are here to help each other. I will pray for you and hope that you feel better. Think to the future!

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hey dont feel sad..life is full of ups and downs...u have to be strong and very positive in this journey.Even I have been away from my husband for 5years...but we have been married only 2years now and he has visited 3 times in the last 3 yrs:)I live in India and he had left for the US in sep 2002.

He finally will be a citizen next month then will upgrade my I-130 application...my wait will hopefully be over in few months.What is your story?Why 5years for you?

I-130 SENT - Mar 2007

NOA1 - Mar 2007

Application Upgraded - Dec 05 2008

Touched- Dec 23 2008

Case approved at USCIS - July 20th 2009

NVC assigned case number- July 28th 2009...yeah!!

DS3032 mailed to us by NVC - Aug 3rd 2009

DS3032 emailed to NVC - Aug 5th 2009

AOS fee paid - Aug 5th 2009

AOS fee accepted - Aug 8th 2009-yeah!!

Email frm NVC to send I864 - Aug 19th 2009

I864 sent - Aug 20th 2009

I864 received by NVC - Aug 24th 2009

DS3032 accepted - Aug 24th 2009 Yeah email from NVC DS3032 processed:)

IV bill paid - Aug 25th 2009

DS230 sent to NVC - Sep 2nd 2009

DS230 received by NVC - Sep 4th 2009

I864 & DS230 processed by NVC - still waiting:(god willing it should be soon:)

RFE on DS230 - Sep 17th 2009 - NVC requires original Birth and Marriage certificate:(

Original certificates sent - Sep 19th 2009

NVC received docs - Sep 22nd 2009 - still waiting for some good news....

CASE COMPLETE - OCT 5th 2009 - YEAH...NOW AM WAITING FOR AN INTERVIEW DATE..GOD WILLING THAT WILL B NEXT MONTH:)

INTERVIEW email - Oct 13th 2009

INTERVIEW DATE - NOV 20TH 2009....YEAH...YIPPY...AM SUPER EXCITED!!

Yeah interview over just have to submit one document tht was missing then i will get my visa!!nov 22nd 2009

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Hang in there.. we've been apart for nearly 6 years now from when I was aged 16-22.. that's a tough age and time to deal with everything.

We get through it with regular visits, talk on the phone every day and focus on the future. It also helps to break time up into sections, not so overwhelming.

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Hi:

I am sorry to hear that you are feeling down. Your emotions are understandable under these circumstances. Be assured that all things change with time, and your time WILL come soon. You and your loved onces will be together again. In the mean time go to the movies, the park, the gym, listen to good music, read a good book, talk to God, do things to occupy your thoughts until your time comes. I am in the waiting procees too, and I know it sucks. I have also cried from the pain of missing my spouse. But our time will come. BELIEVE!! :)

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Brazil
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Hello, I am sure all of us understand you very well. I am so sad that I am sick for over 2 days straight with strong pain in my stomach. I feel weak and today it is hurting more and more because it is my 1st wedding anniversary, and I am here in Brazil and he is in US.

However, I do believe all of this will be gone soon ( we are wating for an interfview date), and we HAVE TO hang in there. I do agree the worst part is the end of the process. it seems we are way more vulnerable.

Faith, Faith and Faith. It will get over soon.

Best Luck to you.

Aryadne

Met first time: 07/23/2003 in Rio de Janeiro (1 week having fun!)

Dating: july 03 to dec 2003

Engage: jan 2004 to jun 2007

Ary living in US: 2004-2005

Jun 2007 - wedding planns back!

oct 2007 - legal marriage

nov 2007 - wedding party with our whole family

Ary graduates: dec 2007

Visa Journey 2008

April 5th: I130 sent

April 15th: NOA1

MAY: HONEY MOON IN CABO SAN LUCAS MX

JUl: NOA2

Aug: Packet 3 documents gather in BR and US and medical test done

AUg: paied fees I-864 and IV Bill

Oct: Packet 3 sent

Nov: RFE

Nov: NVC case completed

INTERVIEW: JANUARY 9th = APPROVED!

Visa Delivered: JANUARY 14TH ( 3 working days after interview)

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(((((((((HUgs))))))))) (((((((((HUgs))))))))) (((((((((HUgs))))))))) (((((((((HUgs))))))))) (((((((((HUgs))))))))) (F)

F2A

Petitioner (My Mom)

Beneficiary (My Sister 18 y.o)

06-07-19- Sent I-130

06-11-19- NOA1

02-19-20- "Initial Review, Transferred to another Visa Center"

03-11-20- APPROVED!!!

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Kosova
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here's a beer.

Vermont Service Center:

11-23-2007: I-130 Sent

01-25-2008: I-130 NOA1 Received

08-26-2008: I-130 NOA2 Approved

NVC:

09-02-2008: NVC RECEIVED CASE

11-19-2008: CASE COMPLETE

Consulate:

Interview @ Skopje, Macedonia

January 20th, 2009

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Morocco
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thank to all of your support and I wish if I could drink but I don't drink and I don't smoke. It's very hard to wait and is killing me. I will keep parying to God for us and for all of you

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