Yardies at home and farrin (part 10)

[dancehallquana 5]

STOP LYING!!! Sam mussi love your RAS!!!! Wait, em a probably call yuh by next week! " Ello...Yaads, yuh nuh horda yuh ten ton hof tings...is whaappen? Yuh nuh knoa seh Christmas is round deh corner?? The recession ah hit yuh tuh...nuh boddah fuh tell us yuh git laid-off! We ave tings ere piling up cause yuh nuh horda nuttin!! Dyam lazy ooman git hoff yuh rass han find some wuk! Wi need fuh move these tings, Mon!"

:rofl:

Seriously...she used to be all formal with me and now we are on a first name basis

Si deh ting is A only waan mi fi buy Grace or Walkerswood product. Wi nah ave nuttin else in fi wi house. So when mi buy fram Sam's mi always buy nuff...6 bokkle Grace Curry powder, 12 ####### soup mix, 6 box a tea etc.

Deh first couple a orda deh lady a call an sey "Mrs. Yaads - thank you for your order. Just wanted to let you know we only have 3 bottles of Grace Curry. We do have another brand that is just as good <insert dutty brand here>. Would you be ok with us making this change?" and of course mi sey no cause wi nah go use dat bran an juss sen deh ress when dem git ie.

So afta bout 3 different orda wey mi place an dem nah have alla mi tings dem she finally start fi realize mi knoa wha mi waan an mi no regular "yankee" Mi a loyal customa fi almost 4 years now so dem knoa how mi stay. This was the latest convo "Evening yaads. Mi juss a call fi tell yuh wi nah ave 6 bokkle inna deh store so mi a go sen yuh 3 now an mi will send deh ress tuh yuh inna deh next week. Mek mi knoa if dat nah go wuk fi yuh. Tonks."

she so special, so special, so special, so special.. not Movado special LOL

mi wunda wa fi appen ya cook wid off brand wan time han mek hubby taste widout him knoa.. mi badmind cyaan stop LOL nuh bodda, mi nuh wan divorce on mi conscience ova nuh seasonings!!!

[shrewdgal 0]

Along with the snowstorm brings an e-mail from the embassy:

Hello Tanya,

Raymond’s appointment is scheduled for January 22, 2009 @ 9AM.

I am glad you finally heard!!! At least someone around here got a January date

soon come shrewdy.. soon come

Its getting harder and harder to keep the hope

I know I am am always whining but you guys really help more than you know. thanks so much!

[*JG* 2]

Afternoon Family,

Question: I was in the middle of a wonderul conversation with my friend, Mrs. Legz last night. When Ken bursts in with his friend and tells me "Carlos needs immigration assistance! Tell Kim-Kim(Gurl, I told him your name-but em prefer Kim-Kim) yuh will call har back!"

So here's the deal...don't know if 'we' can help Carlos, but I told him I'd ask.

Carlos arrived in FL. from JA. in 2000-2001 on an entertainment visa. He met a Girl, got married. She filed for him and he recieved his all of his conditonal documents (2 yr. GC, EAD,...etc). They filed for his conditions to be lifted in 2003-2004(?) and to recieve his permanent GC. He never recieved his Perm GC. Carlos and the Girl broke -up. He came to NY and she...well we don't know where the devil she is. When he consulated with an attorney they told him USCIS had sent him an interview letter (which they never recieved) and since he didn't show up at the interview. The perm GC was never issued.

Now what does he do? He and the Girl never divorced...but as I mentioned he has no idea where to find her.

Thanks for your help, Gang.

Bless-ed,

Gill

P.S.- I JUST found out what happened to NowMrs. and I am honestly devasted. Does anyone know how she is doing?

No, Gil. I can't her to answer me.

I don't know about the other. Maybe put this in the removal of conditions threads. There are many smart people trolling out there who could probably help you.

[Yaads 0]

Mi gaan a lunch...mi soon come back. Alla yuh chatty people betta still be here!

[sus 70]

I just got out of my messy day of meetings, and am about to run to my Xmas party -

Congrats on the visa, Jakeswife!! Congrats on the interview, Island!

[Marlita 0]

I'm the same way with my daughter!! When I read your post I was like eeeek - I'm a bad mama...she is almost 7 and I turn on the shower for her, wash her hair, brush her hair...brush and floss her teeth.....but I think she likes the attention and extra time with me cuz she does all that stuff for herself when she's at her Dad's. And I know both of my kids play me cuz they ask me to do stuff for them that I know their Dad doesn't do. Sometimes I will call them on it, but other times I just chuckle and be thankful they still want their mom around. I remember the day I didn't want my mom anymore and wouldn't kiss her - cuz I was too big.

LOL.. i still do most of that stuff too and like u say they won't be loving lil kiddies all their lives (ooh one of them has PAST that stage already )

BUT (brace urself) they also don't really have to make up their beds, fold up and put away clothes, ( i just started that this year, i tried but they did it soo badly, i said forget it.. now i just make them do it over and over). just started making my 11 yr old clean up the bathroom (don't think my brotha EVER did that) and she puts away dishes "sometimes" LOL..

OK!! What di rass a gwaan ova desso!! Yall are WAAAY nicer than my parents. I swear I felt like a little slave child. I kid u not....I NEVER remeber my parents making my bed, or brushing my teeth. My hair they did...cause that was a hot mess of curls on my head otherwise. But before I could even reach the kitchen sink i was doing dishes! I pulled the dining room chair up to the sink stood in it and wash. Every friday it was thorough cleaning day. vacuum, dust, mop, clean, change sheets, wash clothes...etc for the WHOLE house...not just my room. This was me and my older sis. Every friday was throw down day with her cause i never wanted to do nothing and she thought i was lazy. The things yall say i would never have known parents did that for they kids....thought that stuff was only in the movies.

[^KK^ 3]

JG - So now NowMrs is not answering you?

[*JG* 2]

I think men who grow up with all women make the best mates! Not to exclude men who don't but men who do just have a sensitivity about them that makes them great partners. I think when they see firsthand how women go through things, they learn how to treat a woman. I'm probably biased though cause my honey has two sisters and he's so sweet!

I'm bored too Yaads! Boss is out today so I have a 'free' day although I COULD be making myself much more productive. Just glad I have ya'll to chat to!

, I dont think so. Sometimes they can get too....wierd. Either they dont have much experience with knowing what a man is supposed to be or they were babied and taken care of too much by mama, granmma, sis, auntie, that they take that on to their personal relationships and that ####### can be quite annoying for their mate. I like a man who's had a good balance.

I have mixed feelings on this one. Sometimes yes. Sometimes no.

[Marlita 0]

Along with the snowstorm brings an e-mail from the embassy:

Hello Tanya,

Raymond's appointment is scheduled for January 22, 2009 @ 9AM.

Is this the 3rd time? Is he ok from the accident. tell im rass nuh miss this appointment!!

[*JG* 2]

JG - So now NowMrs is not answering you?

No. I am trying and trying. Scared for her.

I just keep leaving messages. I hope one day she will return one.

[dancehallquana 5]

Along with the snowstorm brings an e-mail from the embassy:

Hello Tanya,

Raymond’s appointment is scheduled for January 22, 2009 @ 9AM.

I am glad you finally heard!!! At least someone around here got a January date

soon come shrewdy.. soon come

Its getting harder and harder to keep the hope

I know I am am always whining but you guys really help more than you know. thanks so much!

whine, shout, scream, holla... nuh bodda.. i am sure many of ur friends and loved ones can't understand ur situation like VJ can.. u are closer than u were yesterday my girl.. i'd like to believe that people who have CRAZY tribulation will have CRAZY blessings.. in fact He will give u double for ur shame!!

[Marlita 0]

STOP LYING!!! Sam mussi love your RAS!!!! Wait, em a probably call yuh by next week! " Ello...Yaads, yuh nuh horda yuh ten ton hof tings...is whaappen? Yuh nuh knoa seh Christmas is round deh corner?? The recession ah hit yuh tuh...nuh boddah fuh tell us yuh git laid-off! We ave tings ere piling up cause yuh nuh horda nuttin!! Dyam lazy ooman git hoff yuh rass han find some wuk! Wi need fuh move these tings, Mon!"

Seriously...she used to be all formal with me and now we are on a first name basis

Si deh ting is A only waan mi fi buy Grace or Walkerswood product. Wi nah ave nuttin else in fi wi house. So when mi buy fram Sam's mi always buy nuff...6 bokkle Grace Curry powder, 12 ####### soup mix, 6 box a tea etc.

Deh first couple a orda deh lady a call an sey "Mrs. Yaads - thank you for your order. Just wanted to let you know we only have 3 bottles of Grace Curry. We do have another brand that is just as good <insert dutty brand here>. Would you be ok with us making this change?" and of course mi sey no cause wi nah go use dat bran an juss sen deh ress when dem git ie.

So afta bout 3 different orda wey mi place an dem nah have alla mi tings dem she finally start fi realize mi knoa wha mi waan an mi no regular "yankee" Mi a loyal customa fi almost 4 years now so dem knoa how mi stay. This was the latest convo "Evening yaads. Mi juss a call fi tell yuh wi nah ave 6 bokkle inna deh store so mi a go sen yuh 3 now an mi will send deh ress tuh yuh inna deh next week. Mek mi knoa if dat nah go wuk fi yuh. Tonks."

OMG!! This is the funniest thing ever!

[*JG* 2]

AWWWWWWWWWWW.....so sad. No Air Supply at the 2009 Jazz Fest!

[dancehallquana 5]

Quana; we tried to go to mediation afterwards and he was just telling more likes that I physically abused him for 10 years, so I walked out. My lawyer told me I could leave the session at anytime. The lawyer is not permitted to be in mediation with you. Now, I have to take "PARENTING CLASSES" since he's concerns about me being and unfit mother...I damn near fainted

Lawny - it seems like he wants to be back with you more than sorting this whole thing out with you and your son. It's sad he has to stoop so low. I wish you the best.

KK

i agree KK, its also the case w/ my ex.. even this morning he told me he thought i would have come home by now?? so that is why u try and get custody of our kids, as a way to woo me home?? uhhh WRONG approach luv

[shrewdgal 0]

Along with the snowstorm brings an e-mail from the embassy:

Hello Tanya,

Raymond’s appointment is scheduled for January 22, 2009 @ 9AM.

I am glad you finally heard!!! At least someone around here got a January date

soon come shrewdy.. soon come

Its getting harder and harder to keep the hope

I know I am am always whining but you guys really help more than you know. thanks so much!

whine, shout, scream, holla... nuh bodda.. i am sure many of ur friends and loved ones can't understand ur situation like VJ can.. u are closer than u were yesterday my girl.. i'd like to believe that people who have CRAZY tribulation will have CRAZY blessings.. in fact He will give u double for ur shame!!

that made me teary eyed. Thank you so so much!