Yardies at home and farrin (part 10)

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Morning/Afternoon Yardies! I see people are having the kinda Thursday I woke up to. Some ASSHAT in the laundromat before my alarm even went off clomping around in their shoes towards the back wall where my bedroom is on the other side. Then, the bus was friggin packed this morning! BUT, my honey called and I said "Hi Honey!" and all I heard was several 'kisses' before his credit ran out! Made me smile and laugh and made my day all better!

Tap trynna scare har!

I used to have this happen to me a lot too. And it seems it will still happen on occasion when I try and fall asleep on my back. First, a very loud buzzing sound would start and that would alarm me but I couldn't move anything. I always felt like I could open my eyes and look around the room but couldn't move a muscle and could never yell or anything. It took serious effort to jerk my head enough to wake me up out of it. Still freaks me out a little even though I know what it is now. Once in a while I'd try to just 'ride it out' and see what happened and usually at that point I'd finally fall asleep. But it is pretty scary so it's hard to just see how it goes cause all you want to do it wake up! When it first happened when I was a teenager, I had been playing with a ouija (sp?) board and thought I'd messed with the wrong spirits even though we could never get it to work right. I slept with a cross and took down my heavy metal posters! LOL! It also happened to be about the time 'Nightmare on Elm Street' came out so when I feel into sleep paralysis one time, it then became a nightmare where Freddy was chasing us. Boy, I was freaked out for a while! Then I learned how to do the head jerk thing and could at least stop that from happening again. After I learned there was a scientific explanation, I felt much better about the whole thing even though it still happens every now and then. I just always try to lay on my side when going to sleep now.

I'm dying with laughter right now. What is a ASSHAT? Then laughing even harder about sleeping with a cross and taking down heavy metal posters....LAWD!!!!! HELP ME....I can't laugh this hard.

I can't jerk out of them. I have to call on Jesus every time. I come out with no problem then...but it is the scariest thing in the world because I think I'm suffocating if I go back to sleep. It happens to me no matter what position I sleep in. It is supposed to be about poor circulation back to your heart.

LIKE mi seh! a DUPPY a ole unuh dung innah unu sleep...tan deh

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Last night, I heard hubby givng the "you tink farrina bed ah roses" talk to his bredren on the phone. I am glad he finally realizes. I was laughing cuz I used to say the same thing to him!

good..don't u love to see ur words come to pas

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Last night, I heard hubby givng the "you tink farrina bed ah roses" talk to his bredren on the phone. I am glad he finally realizes. I was laughing cuz I used to say the same thing to him!

good..don't u love to see ur words come to pas

Kimmy, 1luv I'm glad whe nthey find their way.

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Wha ya deal wid??

wus up sistren (and any breddrin that may arise) its been a minute.. SOOOO good to peek in and say hi. i think I am gonna be sensible this time and NOT try fi ketch up..(hmm, we'll see, mi nosy fi tru)

ja baby love?? weh ya deh?, u enjoying this weather, i guess its a likkle warmer in TX than Maryland...LOL

Big up to u Tre, i see you got a promotion!!! sooo exciting!

1 luv, it will be ok sweetie, maybe u will be that one where the nausea comes and then goes.. w/ my first I had it real bad but then after a couple of mnths never had it again.. i was so proud of my first pregnancy, still walking around like a diva..

now my second.. OMG.. different story. .. either way u will be fine and will do it again and again and again and..

EVERYONE HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY!!!! back to di wan trainee!!

Hi Quana how are you ms. lady? I read that we are not one big happy family so you might want to correct the use of the word sistren or breddrin. I stand corrected I was under the impression that I had found someplace where people choose to live, love,learn and disagree with one another but that turns out not to be the case from what I can ascertain from the past couple of days posts. Just think of me as a human SWITZERLAND from here on out.

Come on sol i think you are taking it to an extreme. we r not one big happy family we are one big happy family who have disagreements but that's ok.

Thank you Jakeswife. Theses types of posts are what divide and conquer. I'm true to myself first...and if you don't like my opinion then you have every right to disagree with it. Sol this was some really childish sh*t to post. Every time I read it, I get vexed. Does your real family get along like that? Why does a different perspective or view have to start a war and a division of sides? CHILDISH. Mek mi dun chat!

I pm'd you regarding this some things should be PM I feel.

[jawi876 2]

Thank you Jakeswife. Theses types of posts are what divide and conquer. I'm true to myself first...and if you don't like my opinion then you have every right to disagree with it. Sol this was some really childish sh*t to post. Every time I read it, I get vexed. Does your real family get along like that? Why does a different perspective or view have to start a war and a division of sides? CHILDISH. Mek mi dun chat!

You know Jawi, you been on here long enough to know this is just the cycle on the Yardie thread. Some of the folks who are newer may not know that we have these spats all the time. they just come in phases. So maybe this was a phase where Sol saw it. It happens we move on. But in real life....somebody is gonna get on my nerves. Same stuff happens on this thread. So when there are "bad" days....thats all it is people....a bad day. We'll move on and trust me.....you will continue to read this thread and even post in it. There will also be times when you feel people are ignoring you and you'll state that you are leaving the thread.....you'll be back.....it ALWAYS happens. Its just the way it goes. Everyone needs to know that there is tension EVERYDAY on VJ, just from the sheer nature of what people are on this site for. They are away from family and stressed out. The get emotional and defensive, rude and snippy, annoyed and whatever else. I say feel what yuh want. Its natural. Just dont make it seem like the only thing to feel is love and joy and happiness when you'r raging like a bull on the inside.

I know Lita. You understand perfectly what I'm saying.

I never meant to start an all out war when I posted my opinion to Honeychild. It snowballed into pure childish bs for no reason at all. I like Sol...she knows it...but to come on and try to push buttons or bring someone else into childish behavior just pushed my buttons. I mean come on...don't say bredrin or sistern because we aren't one big happy family? Come on. Really?

I'm not having a bad day just because I don't blow smoke up somebody's azz to make them feel like they are right. I will call a spade a spade all day. If I'm being trivial, spoiled, self-centered, etc...(not saying anyone on this board was/is)...I want those that care about me to say "Hey girl calm your azz down. You know you are wrong." Don't be fake with me. I don't respect it. PERIOD.

Mi vibes gwaan easy cuz mi knoa miself. Nuff respect sis. What are you and E's plans for your first Christmas together? A wants me to come to Jamaica...but I can't. I don't leave my boys at Christmas...I can't afford gifts and plane tickets...nor can I travel with my current condition. So, looks like another year of sitting on an International call saying "Merry Christmas baby" LOL

[Ellsinlove 2]

he looks familiar, is he from Negril area?

He is from Lucea area but works near Negril at a resort as a tour guide. I'll tell you more if you PM me!

Morning/Afternoon Yardies! I see people are having the kinda Thursday I woke up to. Some ASSHAT in the laundromat before my alarm even went off clomping around in their shoes towards the back wall where my bedroom is on the other side. Then, the bus was friggin packed this morning! BUT, my honey called and I said "Hi Honey!" and all I heard was several 'kisses' before his credit ran out! Made me smile and laugh and made my day all better!

Tap trynna scare har!

I used to have this happen to me a lot too. And it seems it will still happen on occasion when I try and fall asleep on my back. First, a very loud buzzing sound would start and that would alarm me but I couldn't move anything. I always felt like I could open my eyes and look around the room but couldn't move a muscle and could never yell or anything. It took serious effort to jerk my head enough to wake me up out of it. Still freaks me out a little even though I know what it is now. Once in a while I'd try to just 'ride it out' and see what happened and usually at that point I'd finally fall asleep. But it is pretty scary so it's hard to just see how it goes cause all you want to do it wake up! When it first happened when I was a teenager, I had been playing with a ouija (sp?) board and thought I'd messed with the wrong spirits even though we could never get it to work right. I slept with a cross and took down my heavy metal posters! LOL! It also happened to be about the time 'Nightmare on Elm Street' came out so when I feel into sleep paralysis one time, it then became a nightmare where Freddy was chasing us. Boy, I was freaked out for a while! Then I learned how to do the head jerk thing and could at least stop that from happening again. After I learned there was a scientific explanation, I felt much better about the whole thing even though it still happens every now and then. I just always try to lay on my side when going to sleep now.

I'm dying with laughter right now. What is a ASSHAT? Then laughing even harder about sleeping with a cross and taking down heavy metal posters....LAWD!!!!! HELP ME....I can't laugh this hard.

I can't jerk out of them. I have to call on Jesus every time. I come out with no problem then...but it is the scariest thing in the world because I think I'm suffocating if I go back to sleep. It happens to me no matter what position I sleep in. It is supposed to be about poor circulation back to your heart.

LOL! ASSHAT is just another way to insult someone....heard it a long time ago and liked it so much I use it frequently!

Now I can laugh about my silly teenage years but I thought I was headed to hell at the time!

Last night, I heard hubby givng the "you tink farrina bed ah roses" talk to his bredren on the phone. I am glad he finally realizes. I was laughing cuz I used to say the same thing to him!

good..don't u love to see ur words come to pas

I can't wait for him to come here and tell his cousins the same thing. And I always think men should listen to women cause we're SMART! Even recently things have happened where he told me later that what he thought was such a good idea at the time ended up being not so great. Of course, I was nice and didn't say "I told you so" because I'm pretty sure it wasn't necessary....he knew I was right!

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Thank you Jakeswife. Theses types of posts are what divide and conquer. I'm true to myself first...and if you don't like my opinion then you have every right to disagree with it. Sol this was some really childish sh*t to post. Every time I read it, I get vexed. Does your real family get along like that? Why does a different perspective or view have to start a war and a division of sides? CHILDISH. Mek mi dun chat!

You know Jawi, you been on here long enough to know this is just the cycle on the Yardie thread. Some of the folks who are newer may not know that we have these spats all the time. they just come in phases. So maybe this was a phase where Sol saw it. It happens we move on. But in real life....somebody is gonna get on my nerves. Same stuff happens on this thread. So when there are "bad" days....thats all it is people....a bad day. We'll move on and trust me.....you will continue to read this thread and even post in it. There will also be times when you feel people are ignoring you and you'll state that you are leaving the thread.....you'll be back.....it ALWAYS happens. Its just the way it goes. Everyone needs to know that there is tension EVERYDAY on VJ, just from the sheer nature of what people are on this site for. They are away from family and stressed out. The get emotional and defensive, rude and snippy, annoyed and whatever else. I say feel what yuh want. Its natural. Just dont make it seem like the only thing to feel is love and joy and happiness when you'r raging like a bull on the inside.

Lita although I have not been on here as long as some I have seen posts in past threads and I know that there is a cycle. This is actually the 2nd or 3rd I've seen. I know that we all have moods but that gives no one the right to put everyone else in a bad mood if all they are trying to do is cheer another up. Attitude determines Altitude and none have a right to sour someone elses day if they are stressed. No the sun don't shine everyday but we don't have to piss on everyone just because it is raining.

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JALOVE, I'm glad you guy's made it to Texas safe. Wow, what a long ride. I'm upset that I didn't get to see Sanaa before you guy's left, but I'll have to get over it.

I still need to print out pictures im gonna send you one.

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Just a note..I wasn't having a bad day..and if I did I wouldn't post cause I can't think clearly

[jakeswife 0]

Thank you Jakeswife. Theses types of posts are what divide and conquer. I'm true to myself first...and if you don't like my opinion then you have every right to disagree with it. Sol this was some really childish sh*t to post. Every time I read it, I get vexed. Does your real family get along like that? Why does a different perspective or view have to start a war and a division of sides? CHILDISH. Mek mi dun chat!

You know Jawi, you been on here long enough to know this is just the cycle on the Yardie thread. Some of the folks who are newer may not know that we have these spats all the time. they just come in phases. So maybe this was a phase where Sol saw it. It happens we move on. But in real life....somebody is gonna get on my nerves. Same stuff happens on this thread. So when there are "bad" days....thats all it is people....a bad day. We'll move on and trust me.....you will continue to read this thread and even post in it. There will also be times when you feel people are ignoring you and you'll state that you are leaving the thread.....you'll be back.....it ALWAYS happens. Its just the way it goes. Everyone needs to know that there is tension EVERYDAY on VJ, just from the sheer nature of what people are on this site for. They are away from family and stressed out. The get emotional and defensive, rude and snippy, annoyed and whatever else. I say feel what yuh want. Its natural. Just dont make it seem like the only thing to feel is love and joy and happiness when you'r raging like a bull on the inside.

Lita although I have not been on here as long as some I have seen posts in past threads and I know that there is a cycle. This is actually the 2nd or 3rd I've seen. I know that we all have moods but that gives no one the right to put everyone else in a bad mood if all they are trying to do is cheer another up. Attitude determines Altitude and none have a right to sour someone elses day if they are stressed. No the sun don't shine everyday but we don't have to piss on everyone just because it is raining.

huh? sol what post are you reading?

Edited December 4, 2008 by jakeswife

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Just a note..I wasn't having a bad day..and if I did I wouldn't post cause I can't think clearly

madoomannnnnnnnnnnnn

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Just a note..I wasn't having a bad day..and if I did I wouldn't post cause I can't think clearly

madoomannnnnnnnnnnnn

((((((((((chups)))))))))))))

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I am having a bad day...hence why I haven't posted

1luv - try the Ramen noodles

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I am having a bad day...hence why I haven't posted

1luv - try the Ramen noodles

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

I am having a bad day...hence why I haven't posted

1luv - try the Ramen noodles

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