Yardies at home and farrin (part 10)

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LADIES:

I feel everyone is entitled to their opinion. But can we move on. Everyone here has the same intention "to love a man" it doesn't matter if he's JA or American. If a new person came to this thread and read the comments made yesterday and today they would probably leave laughing and disgusted. We are here to support and maybe sometimes that support is hard but do it discretely. If past comments were an issue, if it wasn't commented on when it was made, let it go! She wasn't the only one talking about Bowcat, it made the conversation juicier with no objections. Honey is Honey and whatever is said to her will not make or break her. She has to live with her decisions not us. I understand all that is said and I agree and disagree with a lot but I choose not to comment. I come here to relax and mingle with other like me. I don't like soap opera and this is becoming a soap opera. Now if me voicing my opinion on this makes me the next subject make sure you spell my name right "EASTBOUND", lets hug and move on Next!!

k whatever....bound

im lost what do u mean by "whatever"?

meaning...we are not one big happy family..and if someone has an objection to whatsomeone else writes..doesn't mkae it a soap opera....and why would u voicing ur opinion make u the next "TARGET"..what Honey was talking was not opinions

waving white flag , not going to entertain,,, soap opera is MY opinion.

eastbound if i understand it correctly you ask for clarification about what hotlegz said and i can see that she tried to explain but now you in turn are saying ""you are not going to entertain"". i don't think she was trying to stir anything up. i think she was trying to answer your question.

waving white flag was for the "Target" comment, that was put there as a joke, not to be taken seriously. I never said we were one big family, never said we were a family. (thats what im not entertaining). and soap opera is my opinion. I read sit back and laugh, the environment is calm one minute and in a uproar the next. just like a soap opera . I dont think she is stirring up anything, if i did i would say so.My mouth is big enough to do this. We are all adults and my voice,ideas and decisions if thay are wrong or right is my OPINION. That why i said Honeys comments were her opinion that she had to live with.

Definition of opinion:

personal view: the view somebody takes about an issue, especially when it is based solely on personal judgment (type the word , rightclick, look up and the dictionary will say this). Her Issues are her opinion of HER life and they way she wants to live it.

This is hilarious to me,

A vocal woman is a powerful force.

iSN'T THAT THE TRUTH !!!...EVERYTHING ELSE IS BORING AND HILARIOUS TO ME AS WELL...I DON'T FIGHT OTHER PPLS BATTLES...!!

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im not arguing with you, opinions are like azzholes everyone has one, and i dont need my friends to tell me what you said, smart azz! now MI DONE!!

YUP U GOT ONE THING RIGHT..I AM A SMART AZZ I KNEW THAT EVER SINCE I WAS VERY YOUNG ..THANKS FOR THE COMPLIMENT THOUGH...MI NO AVE NO FREN..GOOD FI U IF U DO!!!

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iSN'T THAT THE TRUTH !!!...EVERYTHING ELSE IS BORING AND HILARIOUS TO ME AS WELL...I DON'T FIGHT OTHER PPLS BATTLES...!!

Kimmy.. I felt like being the quote police for minute!!!!

Edited December 4, 2008 by kkholiday2006

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U can KK it's ok...but why when ppl start foolishness I'm the one being told to stop..I don't even know this chic..I wasn't even talking to her..

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Thanks for the help with NYC and Happy Birthday Island!

momto2, where in WVa are you? My dad lives in Charleston and so does another VJ member Tonya.

Wow!! I havent heard that name in forever!! How is she doing?

I know Tonya we go to the same church, they are both doing good I just saw them this past Sunday.

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im not arguing with you, opinions are like azzholes everyone has one, and i dont need my friends to tell me what you said, smart azz! now MI DONE!!

YUP U GOT ONE THING RIGHT..I AM A SMART AZZ I KNEW THAT EVER SINCE I WAS VERY YOUNG ..THANKS FOR THE COMPLIMENT THOUGH...MI NO AVE NO FREN..GOOD FI U IF U DO!!!

your welcome sweetie, ok so who's dieting and where is the thread.. I'm in !! I need to lose and tone up . and please use my name when commenting about me ..

Edited December 4, 2008 by eastbound

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Kimmy all I have to say is I wish I had a mouth like u

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STRAWBERRY LETTER FOR TODAY

Date: 12/04/2008

Subject: Subject: Betrayed Wife/Stepsister

Hello Steve and Fam.,I recently found out that my husband has been having secret relations/text messaging my single step-sister. She had disowned my side of the family, as she and my mother has been having issues since our childhood. My husband spent New Year's Eve w/the chic, 8p - 1a, at her home talking with her. I called him @ 11:15, to no avail! He claims that she was explaining to him how my family has issues and how we are not forgiving people. I gave her (stepsister) children X-mas gifts, and never rec'd a call thanking me, which was bothering me, its cool and I'm over it. She is against my mom so I have to suffer. This is not the first nor second time my husband has had secret relations with a woman. Each time, he swears that he has not been unfaithful, however will tell me in an heated argument that he is going to sex someone else, calling me fat w/sagging breasts, 2 chins. Hey, I am a good looking woman w/junk in my trunk and a 38 C, was a size 12 but now a 10 w/in a matter of 3 wks, thanks to the treadmill and exercising in my basement. Now he�s envious of my new shape. Please give me a little male insight on this nonsense.

Any thoughts?

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I'm trying the quote trick too. Let's see how it goes.

I respect your opinion and the request for peace. However, my post was not one of malice. I check my real girlfriends the same way. My sister will tell you that I will pull her too when she is not coming correct. I'm not going to side with a woman when they are wrong just because I'm a woman.

I didn't see malice in your post. Each person sees what is posted on hear and responds accordingly. You did what is natural in a forum.

YEP! and me have my opinion right back..doesn't mean we don't love each other

LADIES:

I feel everyone is entitled to their opinion. But can we move on.

Keep in mind some people are not on the site to provide their opinion when the topic is presented. I like sharing my opinion once I've read a post. I also don't see why we can't have real conversations on here. Somedays ain't easy. Such is life

I was riding the bus home from work tonight and this 'yuppyish' young woman was sitting at the front of the bus normally reserved for the elderly (but that's beside the point except for her seeming sense of entitlement) and was on her

The same thing happened to me last night on the subway. This African guy was yelling on his cell about Obama...saying that Africans should not have voted for Obama cuz he hasn't done anything for them yet by not appointing any Africans to any jobs. He was YELLING at the top of his lungs...everyone clapped when he got off the train.

I would have clapped too!

Hi Quana how are you ms. lady? I read that we are not one big happy family so you might want to correct the use of the word sistren or breddrin. I stand corrected I was under the impression that I had found someplace where people choose to live, love,learn and disagree with one another but that turns out not to be the case from what I can ascertain from the past couple of days posts. Just think of me as a human SWITZERLAND from here on out.

I don't get this one again. I haven't seen anyone being abused on here so just like we do with our SO talk and disagree it doesn't mean we don't care for each other.

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Oh yeah, I had some chicken broth, and I feel a lot better

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Wha ya deal wid??

wus up sistren (and any breddrin that may arise) its been a minute.. SOOOO good to peek in and say hi. i think I am gonna be sensible this time and NOT try fi ketch up..(hmm, we'll see, mi nosy fi tru)

ja baby love?? weh ya deh?, u enjoying this weather, i guess its a likkle warmer in TX than Maryland...LOL

Big up to u Tre, i see you got a promotion!!! sooo exciting!

1 luv, it will be ok sweetie, maybe u will be that one where the nausea comes and then goes.. w/ my first I had it real bad but then after a couple of mnths never had it again.. i was so proud of my first pregnancy, still walking around like a diva..

now my second.. OMG.. different story. .. either way u will be fine and will do it again and again and again and..

EVERYONE HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY!!!! back to di wan trainee!!

Hi Quana how are you ms. lady? I read that we are not one big happy family so you might want to correct the use of the word sistren or breddrin. I stand corrected I was under the impression that I had found someplace where people choose to live, love,learn and disagree with one another but that turns out not to be the case from what I can ascertain from the past couple of days posts. Just think of me as a human SWITZERLAND from here on out.

I thought this is exactly what I was doing..DIAGREEING...

OK Solsoeur you didn't state my name but I made the statement that we are not one big happy family...AND AGAIN WE ARE NOT!! we come here to chat and some become friends and others just don't match my personality so I leave them alone. I WILL CONTINUE TO DISAGREE WITH ANYTHING ANYONE SAYS IF IT'S NOT FACT..I DO NOT NEED OTHERS TO BACK ME UP ON ANYTHING I SAY HERE..EVEN IF MY FRIENDS SAY SOMETHING DISGUSTING AND RIDICULOUS I WILL VOICE MY OPINION..IF U KNOW NOTHING ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE TALKING THEN HOW DID U FORM A SO CALLED OPINION. I CAME INTO THIS WORLD ALONE AND NEED NO ONE TO FIGHT MY BATTLES !! so take that how you want. and how dare u bring Quana into this she has no clue of what is going on in this thread...ALOT OF U PPL ON HERE ACT LIKE U BEEN TO JAMAICA A COUPLE OF TIMES AND ALL OF A SUDDEN YOU ARE EXPERTS ON EVERYTHING ABOUT THE ISLAND...GET REAL..

ok you disagree. I was not directing my comments at you or anyone else(I didn't even remember who made the comment just that it was made) if I wanted to comment about anything being said I have no problem replying directly to you or anyone else. As I can recall there were several people involved in the whole uproar not just you. Also why must we use the word U PEOPLE? I do have a problem with that. Just like the whole stereotyping thing I commented on the other day. STEREOTYPING IS wrong regardless of WHO is doing it. Some people are just trying to get a greencard, some want to puck, some just want someone to love. Everyone should be judged on the contents of their character not how you preceive them to be based on opinions or what you have SEEN from others that may look like them. I don't profess to know all about Jamaica cause I don't. I'm here to learn about that which I do not know I don't think I have ever told anyone otherwise. I am on the board for informational purposes only. I feel like you should learn about someone you claim to want to spend the rest of your life with. AND GUESS WHAT? LEARNING GOES BOTH WAYS. Just like I want to learn about his culture etc he needs to learn about mine. Lastly Quana will not be dragged into anything unless she goes back and reads the past few days posts. I can't speak for nobody but sol and Sol says that SHE READ that we weren't all one big happy family. OK FINE WE AREN'T FAMILY ...I STAND CORRECT...I'M U PEOPLE BECAUSE I'M AMERICAN...SO BE IT...I support your right to disagree because without disagreement, FREE SPEECH, and the like there can be no new ideas or new ways of solving old problems....just my 2 cents...y'all can keep the change.

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It's Kimmy actually...

Thanks for the strawberry letter...now I have something interesting to read

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U can KK it's ok...but why when ppl start foolishness I'm the one being told to stop..I don't even know this chic..I wasn't even talking to her..

I'm beginning to think I'm goal oriented. It's like I'm counting down to the next Part of the thread How many post until we will need to start part 10? I swear when I joined we were on like Part 2 or 3...more people are on the internet these days I guess.

Edited December 4, 2008 by kkholiday2006

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STRAWBERRY LETTER FOR TODAY

Date: 12/04/2008

Subject: Subject: Betrayed Wife/Stepsister

Hello Steve and Fam.,I recently found out that my husband has been having secret relations/text messaging my single step-sister. She had disowned my side of the family, as she and my mother has been having issues since our childhood. My husband spent New Year's Eve w/the chic, 8p - 1a, at her home talking with her. I called him @ 11:15, to no avail! He claims that she was explaining to him how my family has issues and how we are not forgiving people. I gave her (stepsister) children X-mas gifts, and never rec'd a call thanking me, which was bothering me, its cool and I'm over it. She is against my mom so I have to suffer. This is not the first nor second time my husband has had secret relations with a woman. Each time, he swears that he has not been unfaithful, however will tell me in an heated argument that he is going to sex someone else, calling me fat w/sagging breasts, 2 chins. Hey, I am a good looking woman w/junk in my trunk and a 38 C, was a size 12 but now a 10 w/in a matter of 3 wks, thanks to the treadmill and exercising in my basement. Now he�s envious of my new shape. Please give me a little male insight on this nonsense.

Where do you get this stuff KK?

Any thoughts?

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Wha ya deal wid??

wus up sistren (and any breddrin that may arise) its been a minute.. SOOOO good to peek in and say hi. i think I am gonna be sensible this time and NOT try fi ketch up..(hmm, we'll see, mi nosy fi tru)

ja baby love?? weh ya deh?, u enjoying this weather, i guess its a likkle warmer in TX than Maryland...LOL

Big up to u Tre, i see you got a promotion!!! sooo exciting!

1 luv, it will be ok sweetie, maybe u will be that one where the nausea comes and then goes.. w/ my first I had it real bad but then after a couple of mnths never had it again.. i was so proud of my first pregnancy, still walking around like a diva..

now my second.. OMG.. different story. .. either way u will be fine and will do it again and again and again and..

EVERYONE HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY!!!! back to di wan trainee!!

Hi Quana how are you ms. lady? I read that we are not one big happy family so you might want to correct the use of the word sistren or breddrin. I stand corrected I was under the impression that I had found someplace where people choose to live, love,learn and disagree with one another but that turns out not to be the case from what I can ascertain from the past couple of days posts. Just think of me as a human SWITZERLAND from here on out.

I thought this is exactly what I was doing..DIAGREEING...

OK Solsoeur you didn't state my name but I made the statement that we are not one big happy family...AND AGAIN WE ARE NOT!! we come here to chat and some become friends and others just don't match my personality so I leave them alone. I WILL CONTINUE TO DISAGREE WITH ANYTHING ANYONE SAYS IF IT'S NOT FACT..I DO NOT NEED OTHERS TO BACK ME UP ON ANYTHING I SAY HERE..EVEN IF MY FRIENDS SAY SOMETHING DISGUSTING AND RIDICULOUS I WILL VOICE MY OPINION..IF U KNOW NOTHING ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE TALKING THEN HOW DID U FORM A SO CALLED OPINION. I CAME INTO THIS WORLD ALONE AND NEED NO ONE TO FIGHT MY BATTLES !! so take that how you want. and how dare u bring Quana into this she has no clue of what is going on in this thread...ALOT OF U PPL ON HERE ACT LIKE U BEEN TO JAMAICA A COUPLE OF TIMES AND ALL OF A SUDDEN YOU ARE EXPERTS ON EVERYTHING ABOUT THE ISLAND...GET REAL..

ok you disagree. I was not directing my comments at you or anyone else(I didn't even remember who made the comment just that it was made) if I wanted to comment about anything being said I have no problem replying directly to you or anyone else. As I can recall there were several people involved in the whole uproar not just you. Also why must we use the word U PEOPLE? I do have a problem with that. Just like the whole stereotyping thing I commented on the other day. STEREOTYPING IS wrong regardless of WHO is doing it. Some people are just trying to get a greencard, some want to puck, some just want someone to love. Everyone should be judged on the contents of their character not how you preceive them to be based on opinions or what you have SEEN from others that may look like them. I don't profess to know all about Jamaica cause I don't. I'm here to learn about that which I do not know I don't think I have ever told anyone otherwise. I am on the board for informational purposes only. I feel like you should learn about someone you claim to want to spend the rest of your life with. AND GUESS WHAT? LEARNING GOES BOTH WAYS. Just like I want to learn about his culture etc he needs to learn about mine. Lastly Quana will not be dragged into anything unless she goes back and reads the past few days posts. I can't speak for nobody but sol and Sol says that SHE READ that we weren't all one big happy family. OK FINE WE AREN'T FAMILY ...I STAND CORRECT...I'M U PEOPLE BECAUSE I'M AMERICAN...SO BE IT...I support your right to disagree because without disagreement, FREE SPEECH, and the like there can be no new ideas or new ways of solving old problems....just my 2 cents...y'all can keep the change.

Ok, when I say U PEOPLE i say that because I know no one on here to state names, would it have been better if I said U GUYS, U FOLKS etc..come on..I didn't say U AMERICANS OR U JAMAICANS OR U CRACKERS OR U NIGGERS.. It has nothing to do with being an American if u want to be technical I'm an American too...I'm the only one that stated we are not one family..I thought I was exercising FREE SPEECH??? don't get it..where did I sterotype anyone?