Yardies at home and farrin (part 10)

[JaHoney 3]

Somehow im still missing what is being said?? i honestly dont have a damn clue, but i at this point im done trying to figure it out. Never once have i intentionally or knowingly disrespected anyone on this site and if i have i apologize. Yeah i engage in the ish talking as we all do, cause we are bs ing or its all in good fun or so i thought. Obviously not, i enjoyed VJ because it gave me something and someone to relate to....where all this other stuff came up i dont know. All i know is i have more than my share of ####### to deal with this in the past weeks, and now this!!!!

I have encouraged, prayed for, championed and laughed with all of you on here, but today i guess its my turn to catch hell, for whatever reason. I have enjoyed chatting and laughing with you all and value the friendships i have made on here, and those of you whom i have met. FOr those of you, who care to keep in contact, you know how to get in contact with me. For the rest of you, its been real

Peace

[sus 70]

Hey guys!

All you women of faith and prayer warriors, please keep me in your thoughts.

It is so hard for me to read threads and everyone else that applied at the same time as me have their SO home a long time ago..or they are getting ready for them to come home this month. I am so happy for everyone, but sometimes I get really discouraged!

How is everyone today?

Sorry to hear you are having a tough day, Shrewdie, but hold strong, your day will come soon! Santa MUST bring you that Christmas present!!

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Honey whatever..u keep having no clue

[*JG* 2]

oonuh waan si oonuh man get tek..lef him wid a Jamaican ooman wah want him...ooman a JA put on the "the face" cause they are fighting for their bread and butter their men..who provide for them..no matter how little it is

they are taught to hold on to what they have...but they say who know better do better

Freedom of choice makes it all a 2 way street, Kimmy.

[sus 70]

Happy Birthday, Island! I meant to do this this am, but forgot, sorry!

[SupportOAFJF 0]

oonuh waan si oonuh man get tek..lef him wid a Jamaican ooman wah want him...ooman a JA put on the "the face" cause they are fighting for their bread and butter their men..who provide for them..no matter how little it is

they are taught to hold on to what they have...but they say who know better do better

Freedom of choice makes it all a 2 way street, Kimmy.

Kelly, mi no know wah u a talk bout

[clairern 0]

Honey I'm not u mi no need drama..if i did i would be on here tellin my life story...mi just call it like mi see it...i notice many a times u say ish and then laugh after..no either u say what u gotta seriously or not at all...I'M A PROUD JAMAICAN AND I BE DAMNED IF SOME OF THE ISH DOESN'T PISS ME OFF !!!

Kimmy yuh sound like me fren but I totally agree with you about some of the things Honey says sometimes but I just shrug it off cause she is too dramatic.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

nuffa oonuh figet seh there are some real Jamaicans on here..yes mi seh it..real Jamaicans...u know wah i guess mi need fi tek a break from posting ova yah so to...

[*JG* 2]

Happy B Day, Island. Doing anything special?

I hope it's a good one.

[clairern 0]

Hi Claire! How ya doing?

Good girl, just bumming on the couch and being a potato today. I don't know why I tend to feel guilty or feel the need to explain myself when I have a day off from work and just want to sit on the couch, watch some mindless TV and socialize with my cyber friends on VJ...lol

[Marlita 0]

oonuh waan si oonuh man get tek..lef him wid a Jamaican ooman wah want him...ooman a JA put on the "the face" cause they are fighting for their bread and butter their men..who provide for them..no matter how little it is

they are taught to hold on to what they have...but they say who know better do better

Kimmy, this is really true. I gotta say it and I aint even Jamaican, but I know if i aint putting it down a JA woman could slip in there....they do know how to put on face.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

oonuh waan si oonuh man get tek..lef him wid a Jamaican ooman wah want him...ooman a JA put on the "the face" cause they are fighting for their bread and butter their men..who provide for them..no matter how little it is

they are taught to hold on to what they have...but they say who know better do better

Kimmy, this is really true. I gotta say it and I aint even Jamaican, but I know if i aint putting it down a JA woman could slip in there....they do know how to put on face.

exactly the point mi a try mek

she affi survive somehow and b/c most don't finish school or were taught wrong they depend on their men..do i agree with this HELL NO!!!

[Marlita 0]

Somehow im still missing what is being said?? i honestly dont have a damn clue, but i at this point im done trying to figure it out. Never once have i intentionally or knowingly disrespected anyone on this site and if i have i apologize. Yeah i engage in the ish talking as we all do, cause we are bs ing or its all in good fun or so i thought. Obviously not, i enjoyed VJ because it gave me something and someone to relate to....where all this other stuff came up i dont know. All i know is i have more than my share of ####### to deal with this in the past weeks, and now this!!!!

I have encouraged, prayed for, championed and laughed with all of you on here, but today i guess its my turn to catch hell, for whatever reason. I have enjoyed chatting and laughing with you all and value the friendships i have made on here, and those of you whom i have met. FOr those of you, who care to keep in contact, you know how to get in contact with me. For the rest of you, its been real

Peace

Hey Honey,

I hope you are not taking my posts personally. I'm just talking bout general stuff. I've been gone off VJ for the last couple weeks so who knows how much i missed. I have seen part of your issues you are having but I dont know they whole story. I think folks are just commenting on things they see or have experienced but not all is referenced to you per se.

[wakeywakeup 1]

kimmy what is all that about...

seriously when i made the comment about rooksin yesterday, that was a joke...plain and simple... i dont know why everyone got so bent about it. hell i ask d, what is a bowcat or what does this mean or that mean? he knows about VJ AND that i seek out advice on here. like i told jawi i skipped like 8 pages of post to respond to her, then i went thru and skimmed, so i didnt get the half of what was discussed last night. FOr 8 months or so i have been on here and joked and made all types of comments, it wasnt until today that i see that people think i go to JA just to get my freak on...LOL..

when i went to JA for the first time ever, it was with no preconcieved ideas about what JA was supposed to be about, sex tourism, gigolo;s whatever?? i went to enjoy the country.

Im really tripping off this whole thang, cause i have always been up front about whats going on with me and how i feel about this that or the other....

oh well i guess from now on i will just not say anything, this feels to much like drama and for what i dont know???i have had enough drama to last me a life time.

Honey

I can’t speak for anyone here but I know I would never want Dwayne to read anything I’ve posted about him sexually. I really keep this part of our lives between us. He does know about this site and doesn’t get why I’m obsessed with it but I tell him how it provides my therapy. Men are so proud ... but to each his/her own though. You have to use the site in the way that helps you most.

I am glad you and he will work through the kids and find out how it will work in your family dynamic.

[^KK^ 3]

Has everyone put of their christmas trees?

I'm still looking for black ornaments. I'm trying to do a black silver and red tree this year.