Yardies at home and farrin (part 10)

[*JG* 2]

Morning ladies,

Finally got some juice back in my battery, Anyhoo i stand by what i said last night, dont mean that any kind of way, or to be taken out of context. I do intend to go to JA in january cause i know having one of my hissys isnt gonna solve anything, i have nothing against the baby momma dont know her and what was with her was before my time. When i was with my EX, and i tried to date others he acted all kinds of fools and every man that got near me was like dang you need to deal with that. I knew from day one when i talked to D, and asked about his kids that if i was going to be with him that i was accepting all of them. Since i skipped a good chunk of last nights argument/debate/discussion to respond, i might have been missing something directed at me, who knows i dont really feel the need to reply if any of it was negative. I also saw something about stereotypes, dont quite know what that was about, but anyhoo if i wasnt up for the commentary i wouldnt have posted

I talked to D, last night and again what i discuss on here is no secret to him, where trying to work on the issues, and that isnt gonna always be easy, but no relationship is.. so yeah i feel im entitled to have my pissy hissy days and my good days and im sure you all will understand. That is what VJ is for right?

Only thing i didnt quite get was were the sex thing came up at ? i remember months ago we could all laugh and joke when off hand comments were made and now they seem to be the basis for spirited debate? who knows, but anyhoo i dont take any of it personally, and i value everyones opinion... sometimes different personalities have a way of making a person see or view things differently.

Morning Honey - Nice to have you back in the computer world again!

I think the sex thing came up because you mentioned that you couldn't get naked and do Mr Nasty in a one room apartment with 3 kids around. The feeling of your post was that you were postponing your trip because D had his kids and you weren't able to be with him freely as you have in the past. Whether that was your intention or not, I think that's how it was read (at least how I took it, which I why I suggested you not cancel cuz you needed the time together - with or without sex).

Good morning Ladies! I have a question Im goin to NYC this weekend for one day...does anyone have any suggestion on where I should eat, go or do? Mind u this is a very budget trip. The bus drops u off in time square at 9am and picks u back up at 9pm. It was designed for a shoppin trip but now that I have no job Im not able to do lots of shopping. Thanks

I always love to see the shows when I go to NYC. There is a place right in Times Square where you can get discounted tickets or you can go off Broadway and still see fabulous performances.

Other than that, just walking about NYC and poking through the little shops is an experience in itself.

Go to the Times's Square McDonalds and take some pictures for me. I saw it on the World's Best McDonald's on the Travel Channel last week. It looked really cool.

[JaHoney 3]

Shrewdie, scuse my language my language but my biotch azz landlord is gonna call and tell me today, well im fixing the doors for you and having motion sensor lights installed in the back yard, if you want a security system that has to be all on you!!!! im like #######???? i know she didnt personally break in the house but damn, i have been there about 2 weeks now, and already been violated. I have been sleeping with one eye open and had the repair man who fixed one of the locks nail the back door shut and put a board over it... just so i can feel semi safe. i guess im gonna have to suck it up and come outta pocket in order to have some peace of mind, my mom is all for me breaking the lease getting a lawyer and moving out but i really dont feel like going thru all of that again. I AM SERIOUSLY PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY TIRED....lol

Yeah i know that this whole visa thing is seriously, a trial and testiment to ones resolve, but nothing in life worth having has ever been easy. we will get thru this, im just gonna have to excercise some patience, some restraint and trying not to be a control freak...

[Ryon4life 0]

Goodluck today JGay

Welcome to the mix LoveSponge!

Thanks, I am trying to keep up

Welcome Lovesponge

Awakening - that is funny b/c the same thing happen to me!

[*JG* 2]

Today is not going to be a good day. I can feel it.

My mom sent me an e-mail of the Naked Fireman 2009 Calendar. It was this cute little baby's picture in fireman garb. I have a fireman friend, so I forwarded it on to him with a note that said, "I thought I might see you in this." Only, I didn't send it on to him. I accidentally hit reply and sent it to my mom. OMG.....good thing I didn't say anything else!!!!!

[Islandwoman 0]

Awakening - that is funny b/c the same thing happen to me!

Love the new pic Ryon!! Daymn that tv is old - lol.

[wakeywakeup 1]

I wore some wide leg cuffed pants to work today. I just went outside for a quick second and FELL!! My high heel was caught in the cuff. My knees, hips, and hands are stinging now from the fall.

Enjoy the laugh!

Ouch Wakey!! I can top you and return the favor though - I had on wide leg pants one day that have an elastic waist - I rolled my chair back from my desk and stood up - I had caught the leg of my pants under the wheel and pulled them right down to my ankles!

Now that does top mine at least no undies were revealed.

[^KK^ 3]

KK do you have to work January 20th?

Yes, I'm trying to get the courage to ask my manager if I can have that day off. It's my husband's birthday too.

It's going to be a MAD house in this city. Have you heard that the bars and clubs can stay open for 24 hours during that week? The city is trying to make some $$$$.

Are a lot of people at your job taking it off? Do you have personal/vacation time that you can take off without notice? Maybe, that would be an option. One of my ex-boyfriend's b'day was on 1/20. He was a real sweetheart. I was young and he had tooooooooooo much baby mama drama. Anyway, I digress...must be the pain meds. LOL

I'm not sure. Doesn't seem like there were a lot of Obama fans. It's a busy time for us as it will be year financial reporting stuff. I have plenty of vacation and will have my floating holidays.

[jawi876 2]

Go to the Times's Square McDonalds and take some pictures for me. I saw it on the World's Best McDonald's on the Travel Channel last week. It looked really cool.

I love your "innocent...childlike" view on the world and how simple things bring you such joy. That is a very admirable trait Jomo. I sometimes feel that I am slowly losing that trait and become more and more cynical of the world. Thanks for bringing that smile to my face.

[sus 70]

Today is not going to be a good day. I can feel it.

My mom sent me an e-mail of the Naked Fireman 2009 Calendar. It was this cute little baby's picture in fireman garb. I have a fireman friend, so I forwarded it on to him with a note that said, "I thought I might see you in this." Only, I didn't send it on to him. I accidentally hit reply and sent it to my mom. OMG.....good thing I didn't say anything else!!!!!

Oops!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Go to the Times's Square McDonalds and take some pictures for me. I saw it on the World's Best McDonald's on the Travel Channel last week. It looked really cool.

I love your "innocent...childlike" view on the world and how simple things bring you such joy. That is a very admirable trait Jomo. I sometimes feel that I am slowly losing that trait and become more and more cynical of the world. Thanks for bringing that smile to my face.

JAWI!

No way, not with that beautiful smile. Okay, someone with fiance and budgetting experience rescue me, I'm about to lose my mind up in here.

[jawi876 2]

Go to the Times's Square McDonalds and take some pictures for me. I saw it on the World's Best McDonald's on the Travel Channel last week. It looked really cool.

I love your "innocent...childlike" view on the world and how simple things bring you such joy. That is a very admirable trait Jomo. I sometimes feel that I am slowly losing that trait and become more and more cynical of the world. Thanks for bringing that smile to my face.

JAWI!

No way, not with that beautiful smile. Okay, someone with fiance and budgetting experience rescue me, I'm about to lose my mind up in here.

Awww shucks...you made me blush. I think I'm high. LOL!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

JG --

My friend's sister that was having issues with her husband and his kids...well, her husband (soon to be ex) and kids were deported this morning to Jamaica. Not sure, if I want to call it deporation, she said the letter stated "voluntary departure"

[sus 70]

Okay, someone with fiance and budgetting experience rescue me, I'm about to lose my mind up in here.

Sorry, can't help on that one - Ask me a legal question, no problem - Ask me to do math - BIG problem!

[shrewdgal 0]

Shrewdie, scuse my language my language but my biotch azz landlord is gonna call and tell me today, well im fixing the doors for you and having motion sensor lights installed in the back yard, if you want a security system that has to be all on you!!!! im like #######???? i know she didnt personally break in the house but damn, i have been there about 2 weeks now, and already been violated. I have been sleeping with one eye open and had the repair man who fixed one of the locks nail the back door shut and put a board over it... just so i can feel semi safe. i guess im gonna have to suck it up and come outta pocket in order to have some peace of mind, my mom is all for me breaking the lease getting a lawyer and moving out but i really dont feel like going thru all of that again. I AM SERIOUSLY PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY TIRED....lol

Yeah i know that this whole visa thing is seriously, a trial and testiment to ones resolve, but nothing in life worth having has ever been easy. we will get thru this, im just gonna have to excercise some patience, some restraint and trying not to be a control freak...

about the Landlord...start a notebook now. document it all. write the time and date of every convo you have of this nature, make notes on it, etc.,

I would probably pay now for the stuff...but document everything... you know that being a social worker and all

yes. you will get thru this

[wakeywakeup 1]

JG --

My friend's sister that was having issues with her husband and his kids...well, her husband (soon to be ex) and kids were deported this morning to Jamaica. Not sure, if I want to call it deporation, she said the letter stated "voluntary departure"

What happened to get him deported or voluntary departed???