Yardies at home and farrin (part 10)

[jawi876 2]

Island....LMAO

You know i like you, i think your a sweetheart... honeslty i would hope no one would think that i of all people who 95% of the time is being silly, would be that shallow that i would postpone a trip to another country just over SEX... LMAO.. i find that utterly crazy. I have been on VJ for months and everyone should know that i love my SO, the frustration has come from the behind the scenes drama, the things that have been said and the way in which i think things should be handled, but that much i owned up too, is that it isnt my situation to handle and no matter how mad i get i cant control the situation. So yeah i am going, because i miss him and love him.

( still shaking my head at the thought)

and for the record, anyone who has the money to fly to another country solely to have sex, please tell me where you work cause i need an application...LOL

First, I for one was not worked up about you having SEX. However, you should read your own words. I think we all got the impression that you were upset because the kids were around and you would not be able to do your thing. My post to you was strictly about you being upset that the kids wouldn't be pawned off on a relative so you could enjoy your vacation and the money you spent to get there. I thought that was shallow.

You also mentioned it (lack of rooksing abilities) when you were considering taking your kids with you. Look back over your history of posts, and 95% of them are about sex or lack thereof with D. I don't know you personally, and at first I found you quite offensive and shallow based on your actual posts. I found myself skipping them all together. Then, I started reading your posts more, and found that you are just over the top and like to be silly. In a lot of ways, we are similar because I can be the energizer bunny too...and I am a natural born nut.

If women didn't travel to have sex, there would definitely not be a such thing as sex tourism, not only in Jamaica but other countries as well. So, the idea is not utterly crazy. You have clarified now that it does not apply to you. Some Jamaican men have made Sex Tourism a career, some even a sport or game. When, Kimmy posted her reply to you, she was letting you know why some Jamaican women are leary of warming up to farrin women....not you in particular...just FROM A JAMAICAN WOMAN's perspective. I think you asked that question at one point or another about why Jamaican women are not as friendly as Jamaican men.

The stereotype threads didn't have anything to do with your situation (I don't think)...and I think my post just opened it up for discussion.

Lastly, I am happy to hear that you have reconsidered and will not cancel your trip after all. I'm trying to figure out if I can flip my budget and manage a trip down at the end of December/early January...so we may even be able to cross paths. PM me.

[Yaads 0]

Goodluck today JGay

Welcome to the mix LoveSponge!

[shrewdgal 0]

of the two VISAS I obviously preferred to do Cr-1 and hopefully the time will be much faster for you...but if so much is going on with BM drama...are you sure you are ready for that commitment?

cause trust me... it is waaay more of a commitment than I bargained for...

I love M. and he is my very best friend but it isnt easy! (not that you are expecting it to be )

How is everything going with the house? did your land lord ever give in and pay for the door stuff?

hey ladies wha gwaan,

I managed to find a computer to sneak on, i have been sitting around the office since 8 am not doing shyt. They have to replace my work laptop and encrypt it with all this security so i have nothing to do since everything is now electronic. i just happened to find an unattended desktop to use. I am tired as heck, since i havent gotten much sleep lately, im still kind of paranoid, but am planning on getting a home security system installed. I also went and got a tetanus shot from the bite, that i recieved on Thanksgiving, so its been a fun week....LOL

The time is drawing near for me to go to JA in January and still no resolve to where i will stay, im still flat out refusing to stay in a resort, but there seems to be no end to the BM drama...yall pray for me, i dont want to postpone my trip, but i dont want to bite the bullet either and wind up paying to stay somewhere for a week. i have too many other expenses at this present moment.

One thing that i did decide though is that me and d are going to file k3/cr1 (?) we are going to marry in JA. I keep going back and forth with the guides and realized i really really really dont want to do any more paperwork once he gets here for the time being and i want him to have the option to travel back and forth if need be.

[sus 70]

Morning Yaads!

Momto2 -

Also if you want to walk-

Go down Broadway into Canal Street (south on Broadway). You'll pass many trendy and hip clothing/accessory stores along the way. Lots of street vendors, too. If you keep going south on Broadway, you'll hit Canal Street, which runs perpendicular to Broadway. All along Canal Street are electronic and surplus stores, and other places of interest. Canal runs into Chinatown - lots of inexpensive Dim Sum restaurants, lots of fun.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Goodluck today JGay

Welcome to the mix LoveSponge!

Yards, where you been?

[jawi876 2]

Yeah..what are some good dancehall songs? I have a few but not as many as i would like

wow. i only had about 1/3 of them!

thanks!!!

I'm so Special - Movado

Pickney Nuh Hol Yuh Down - Beenie Man

100 Stab - Aidonia

Overcome - Movado

Can't be My Lover - John Legend and Buju - LOVE LOVE THIS!

Nuh Look Nuh Gal - Assassin

Body A Shake - Shaggy

I'm On The Rock Movado

Shootout Michael Rose & Jr. Gong

Which Gyal Movado

Dem Nah Look Nuh Gyal Assassin

Pon Di Edge Busy Signal

Wanted Man Munga Honourable

Study People Serani

Don't Worry Movado

Click Mi Finga - Erupt

Study People - Serani

Gangster Girl - Cecile

Wine up yuh body - Tony Matterhorn

Doah - Serani

Buddy in Ya Pum Pum = Charlie Blacks

Needle Eye by Shabba Ranks

She-s A Ho by Mr Vegas,

Brain Damage by Ward 21,

Red Red Red by Beenie Man and Robyn,

Good Hole by Lexxus,

Give It To Me by Ce-Cile,

Sweet To The Belly by Vybz Kartel

Breast Specialist by Vybz Kartel and Beenie Man

Tekk by Vybz Kartel

Saadda Dem and Sen on Heng On by Bounty Killer

Agony by Busy Signal

Sitten Tight by Mad Cobra

More Punanny by Dr Evil

This is a good list, some are pretty dated, but still a good list. I will try to compose a list soon. I'm not up to it just yet with my neck and the pain meds. Sorry guys. I agree Elephant Man has been in top form as of late with his latest dance tunes. He is definitely the Energy God of Dancehall.

[Yaads 0]

Good morning ladies, yes I am back in the states. We cried all day yesterday, so today at work I look loke a truck hads hit me. But my co-workers are saying I look great. I just got back last night and today i am sitting here in my office at work.

Glad you got back safely Roxcie. Sucks having to go back to work so quick...hope the day goes by fast for you.

[sus 70]

This is a good list, some are pretty dated, but still a good list. I will try to compose a list soon. I'm not up to it just yet with my neck and the pain meds. Sorry guys. I agree Elephant Man has been in top form as of late with his latest dance tunes. He is definitely the Energy God of Dancehall.

I know some are dated - I was digging back - I have issues with Elephant Man, lol - I think his new stuff is good - but I have a hard time reconciling his music with the crazy stupid stuff he used to do in the Scare Dem Crew days when he was abusive to women on stage and acted like a fool -

[Yaads 0]

Goodluck today JGay

Welcome to the mix LoveSponge!

Yards, where you been?

Hey Lawns I have been around...where have you been? Been busy at work though since its month end and that means inventory and reports, reports, reports

Hi Sus

[Islandwoman 0]

Good morning Ladies! I have a question Im goin to NYC this weekend for one day...does anyone have any suggestion on where I should eat, go or do? Mind u this is a very budget trip. The bus drops u off in time square at 9am and picks u back up at 9pm. It was designed for a shoppin trip but now that I have no job Im not able to do lots of shopping. Thanks

From Times Square you should take the N,Q,R, or W trains downtown to Canal Street. It will be the 3rd stop on the N or Q and the 7th stop on the R or W.

Walk down the street and listen for the men whispering - purses, purses, purses,.... Gucci, Chanel, Prada,......

LMAO!!! Sus - she naw have money to shop for hot purses.....

[wakeywakeup 1]

OMG! What mi fe do for Christmas.

I just found out a credit card I'd paid in full at the beginning of the year and was saving for Christmas shopping has been closed by the lender!!! They told me that I hadn’t used it in a long time so they closed it and then they said that because I’m over extended with other cards they won’t reopen my account.

When it rains, it pours. I know with each trial and tribulation there is a lesson for me to learn. I’m praying for this lesson to end soon. So far, I’ve learned patience, increased faith, trust in the Lord, and to listen to my inner voice and take action as it tells me.

So what lessons has 2008 taught you guys?

Wakey

[sus 70]

LMAO!!! Sus - she naw have money to shop for hot purses.....

LOL - Once I get through school I am heading down - they make great Christmas gifts!

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Thanks to all, I am trying to read my 1000 e-mails at work, so please don't think I am ignoring anyone.

[jawi876 2]

One more happy thought to share with yall for i hit the road>

I was finally able to put on a belt that i have had for a hundred years but havent worn in around 3 years... i was able to put it on and fasten it today!!!! YAY...it must be the stress....lol... on the down side it is causing me to have a wedgie....LOL... but hey guess we cant have everything....baby steps

and with that sentiment...im out.!!!

Hope everyone has a blessed day.

LMAO...my question is why would you want to wear a 100 year old belt? Is it even in style now? AND LMAO...why in the H is it giving you a wedgie? LOL at the image. Let go of that stress...stress can kill!

Have a good one!

Good morning ladies, yes I am back in the states. We cried all day yesterday, so today at work I look loke a truck hads hit me. But my co-workers are saying I look great. I just got back last night and today i am sitting here in my office at work.

Awwww. Chin up Rox. I know it's hard. Each trip is harder and harder.

[Islandwoman 0]

LMAO!!! Sus - she naw have money to shop for hot purses.....

LOL - Once I get through school I am heading down - they make great Christmas gifts!

Let me know when you go - I will meet up with you. Get better deals when you shop in bulk - lol!!