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It's best to not share, some men act like it don't mess with them but really it do.

MY HAPPINESS IS SOLELY UP TO ME AND

LIFE IS ALL ABOUT CHOICES, U DONT HAVE TO REMAIN IN UR CURRENT SITUATION IF U DON'T CHOSE TO BE!!!!!!!!!

***SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO FORGET HOW YOU FEEL AND REMEMBER WHAT YOU DESERVE***

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Did you talk to the guy, or just hubby? If it was just hubby, I would say that it was someone you dated in the past, that the last time you had talked to him you told him you were engaged - and you don't know why he called -

Whatever you do, NEVER tell him he was a friend with benefits - Trust me, it doesn't go over well!

I still have exes that I am friends with - I would have a problem with any man that told me I can't be friends with them or speak to them -

Oh man I don't ever intend to share that type of info..lol I would be the biggest fool but I did wonder how others have handled the reveal.

Intimacy, like charity, begins at home. If we cannot be intimate with ourselves, we have no way to bring to intimacy with another person.

Intimacy with ourselves takes time. We need time for rest, time for walks, time for quiet, and time to tune into to ourselves. We cannot completely fill up our lives with activities and become intimate with ourselves. Nor can we just sit quietly indefinitely and become intimate with ourselves. We have to have the time and energy to be our lives and to do our live in order to establish and intimate relationship with ourselves.

Surprisingly, as we become intimate with ourselves, we discover our connection with others

Intimacy....In/to/me/see...

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It's best to not share, some men act like it don't mess with them but really it do.

That's what I say......ammunition for future arguments. No thank you!

Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train

You can't go back for what you've missed

So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right

You only get one trip

So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast

You only get one trip

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That was my initial reaction too. LOL...Not that I have the $$ for a 32-day cruise...but I won't be sailing those waters ANY time soon. Just my luck to get kidnapped and sacraficed to King Kong or something else wierd.

lol. you are so silly

Intimacy, like charity, begins at home. If we cannot be intimate with ourselves, we have no way to bring to intimacy with another person.

Intimacy with ourselves takes time. We need time for rest, time for walks, time for quiet, and time to tune into to ourselves. We cannot completely fill up our lives with activities and become intimate with ourselves. Nor can we just sit quietly indefinitely and become intimate with ourselves. We have to have the time and energy to be our lives and to do our live in order to establish and intimate relationship with ourselves.

Surprisingly, as we become intimate with ourselves, we discover our connection with others

Intimacy....In/to/me/see...

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So ladies on this site I have a question. How do you feel about sharing your previous sexcapades with your SO. Have you told all – meaning how many partners you’ve had, dates, locations (e.g. other Jamaican or American flings)?

Lastly, how do you feel if all is revealed to you by your man. Any old insecurities pop up?

Wakey

Well I have said several times Garth is very conservative in my opinion so I just ignore the subject. I feel as if we should leave the past in the past cause my stories might make the man :o I think I will stick to my innocent act! ROFL....yeah all those kids I have...they are adopted! :D it is just a coincidence one of them looks like my twin....that is my story and i'm sticking to it! :whistle:

Opportunities are like sunrises - if you wait too long, you miss them.

William Arthur Ward

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It's best to not share, some men act like it don't mess with them but really it do.

That's what I say......ammunition for future arguments. No thank you!

true

Intimacy, like charity, begins at home. If we cannot be intimate with ourselves, we have no way to bring to intimacy with another person.

Intimacy with ourselves takes time. We need time for rest, time for walks, time for quiet, and time to tune into to ourselves. We cannot completely fill up our lives with activities and become intimate with ourselves. Nor can we just sit quietly indefinitely and become intimate with ourselves. We have to have the time and energy to be our lives and to do our live in order to establish and intimate relationship with ourselves.

Surprisingly, as we become intimate with ourselves, we discover our connection with others

Intimacy....In/to/me/see...

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:ot:

So ladies on this site I have a question. How do you feel about sharing your previous sexcapades with your SO. Have you told all – meaning how many partners you’ve had, dates, locations (e.g. other Jamaican or American flings)?

Lastly, how do you feel if all is revealed to you by your man. Any old insecurities pop up?

Wakey

Well I have said several times Garth is very conservative in my opinion so I just ignore the subject. I feel as if we should leave the past in the past cause my stories might make the man :o I think I will stick to my innocent act! ROFL....yeah all those kids I have...they are adopted! :D it is just a coincidence one of them looks like my twin....that is my story and i'm sticking to it! :whistle:

now that is funny

Intimacy, like charity, begins at home. If we cannot be intimate with ourselves, we have no way to bring to intimacy with another person.

Intimacy with ourselves takes time. We need time for rest, time for walks, time for quiet, and time to tune into to ourselves. We cannot completely fill up our lives with activities and become intimate with ourselves. Nor can we just sit quietly indefinitely and become intimate with ourselves. We have to have the time and energy to be our lives and to do our live in order to establish and intimate relationship with ourselves.

Surprisingly, as we become intimate with ourselves, we discover our connection with others

Intimacy....In/to/me/see...

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okay ladies...How do u feel with ur SO talking to a female friend?

Hornets nest here. We've had some heated debates on this very topic in the past.

I have no problems. My husband has several and a few ex girlfriends he talks to fairly regularly. I have my male friends and ex's as well.

Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train

You can't go back for what you've missed

So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right

You only get one trip

So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast

You only get one trip

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okay ladies...How do u feel with ur SO talking to a female friend?

I don't particulary care for it. I think there is always attraction between male/female friends that was never acted on. I have to know the situation of how they became friends and some of the history and then try to base my thoughts based on those facts.

okay ladies...How do u feel with ur SO talking to a female friend?

Hornets nest here. We've had some heated debates on this very topic in the past.

I have no problems. My husband has several and a few ex girlfriends he talks to fairly regularly. I have my male friends and ex's as well.

Really JG...I missed the debate on this subject..what thread was in so I can find it for my reading pleasure..

Intimacy, like charity, begins at home. If we cannot be intimate with ourselves, we have no way to bring to intimacy with another person.

Intimacy with ourselves takes time. We need time for rest, time for walks, time for quiet, and time to tune into to ourselves. We cannot completely fill up our lives with activities and become intimate with ourselves. Nor can we just sit quietly indefinitely and become intimate with ourselves. We have to have the time and energy to be our lives and to do our live in order to establish and intimate relationship with ourselves.

Surprisingly, as we become intimate with ourselves, we discover our connection with others

Intimacy....In/to/me/see...

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IT'S ONE THING TO talk to ur ex/male friend but if ur SO knows nothing of the conversation then???

I don't mind female friends at all...what I mind is when the man/woman have different intentions..thinking they still have a chance...I have an EX that kicks himself verytime we talk and sometimes i have to tell him like yo..u forgot I'm married..like seriously..we kool but i'll put u in ur place..I have to deal with the baby mother so I think I have my share :)..but mi couldn't care less until he gives me something to care about

MOTIVATE A CHILD... SUPPORT OPEN ARMS FOR JAMAICA'S FUTURE, INC. WE NEED A BRIGHTER TOMORROW !!!!!!

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okay ladies...How do u feel with ur SO talking to a female friend?

Hornets nest here. We've had some heated debates on this very topic in the past.

I have no problems. My husband has several and a few ex girlfriends he talks to fairly regularly. I have my male friends and ex's as well.

Sorry I did not know it was discussed here b4. No arguments PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!

I LOVE MY RAMPING SHOP!!

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Wakey..I keep thinking ur JALOVE :yes:

okay ladies...How do u feel with ur SO talking to a female friend?

Hornets nest here. We've had some heated debates on this very topic in the past.

I have no problems. My husband has several and a few ex girlfriends he talks to fairly regularly. I have my male friends and ex's as well.

Sorry I did not know it was discussed here b4. No arguments PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!

:whistle: right :)

MOTIVATE A CHILD... SUPPORT OPEN ARMS FOR JAMAICA'S FUTURE, INC. WE NEED A BRIGHTER TOMORROW !!!!!!

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okay ladies...How do u feel with ur SO talking to a female friend?

I think when you get married some friendships need to decrease dramatically. I understand that you are friends but long azz conversations on the phone constantly is distasteful in my opinion. I am the type of person who likes to keep down drama. I know how to keep my male friends in check and I expect him to do the same with his female friends.

IT'S ONE THING TO talk to ur ex/male friend but if ur SO knows nothing of the conversation then???

I don't mind female friends at all...what I mind is when the man/woman have different intentions..thinking they still have a chance...I have an EX that kicks himself verytime we talk and sometimes i have to tell him like yo..u forgot I'm married..like seriously..we kool but i'll put u in ur place..I have to deal with the baby mother so I think I have my share :)..but mi couldn't care less until he gives me something to care about

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Opportunities are like sunrises - if you wait too long, you miss them.

William Arthur Ward

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