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[coria1988 0]

Hey,

Thank you so much.

I think its getting better from now. I talked to my ex-fiancé yesterday. He told me that he had started feeling weird some time in August. However, he did not want to admit it he said. He then told me on the date I told you that he had to tell me something, he prolly carried it with him for too long. I told him that he could have told me before but he did not want to admit his weird feelings. Now, it is clear, he does not love me no more. We will still talk later on, maybe in the new year. It is said to hear that now he wants to go and get laid by some random chicks (he does not know yet lol). It still somehow hurts me to know this, but we are not together anymore and he can do what he wants. Maybe I will be really hurt when he gets "the right one" because I was not it. If there is a girl out there who is "the right one" for him anyway. He did not blame me and he told me that I did nothing wrong. He did not get mad on the phone and I liked that finally he talked to me normally. I do feel weird but I think that talk will make it easier. I am going to miss the great times we had!!!

Thank you so much for the time you have taken to listen to my story and to give me advise, to support me and to be there for me. You are great guys!!!

I think that was my story...in case there are some news in the new year which belong here, I will let you know.

[YGandMAT 0]

Best of luck to you! And hope the new year brings you joy, health, love and peace. Move on, and stay away from him, you cannot allow him to hurt you again.

Take care of yourself.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Hey,

Thank you so much.

I think its getting better from now. I talked to my ex-fiancé yesterday. He told me that he had started feeling weird some time in August. However, he did not want to admit it he said. He then told me on the date I told you that he had to tell me something, he prolly carried it with him for too long. I told him that he could have told me before but he did not want to admit his weird feelings. Now, it is clear, he does not love me no more. We will still talk later on, maybe in the new year. It is said to hear that now he wants to go and get laid by some random chicks (he does not know yet lol). It still somehow hurts me to know this, but we are not together anymore and he can do what he wants. Maybe I will be really hurt when he gets "the right one" because I was not it. If there is a girl out there who is "the right one" for him anyway. He did not blame me and he told me that I did nothing wrong. He did not get mad on the phone and I liked that finally he talked to me normally. I do feel weird but I think that talk will make it easier. I am going to miss the great times we had!!!

Thank you so much for the time you have taken to listen to my story and to give me advise, to support me and to be there for me. You are great guys!!!

I think that was my story...in case there are some news in the new year which belong here, I will let you know.

My best advice? Stop calling him and emailing him. He's made his point and at this point you need to STOP talking to him.Its not funny for him to say those things.. telling you that he wants to get laid by random chicks is just disrespectful. Calling him or talking to him at this point is just masochism.. but even if there was some chance things would change, hounding him and calling him and talking to him all the time will kill that. I think hes just immature... and love ,,,, true love doesnt disappear like that...You need to make a clean break and you do NOT need to be friends... Friends dont hurt others like that and even if he broke up with you, you deserved a cleaner break. Stop calling him. Let him go.. And go on with your life. Its not a death...its not a divorce. Its some immature twirp who didnt have the balls to cut this off months ago and drug you along hurting you in the process....

[Beautiful_years 0]

Sweetie,

If i were you, il stop the calls and Emails and move on, you wont help your healing process this way babe, but you know whats best for you, do what you think makes you feel better.

I can tell you this... sorry for my language, he's a douche bag, a year from now you ll be asking yourself what you really saw in the looser anyway!

[DanielParul 50]

My best advice? Stop calling him and emailing him. He's made his point and at this point you need to STOP talking to him.Its not funny for him to say those things.. telling you that he wants to get laid by random chicks is just disrespectful. Calling him or talking to him at this point is just masochism.. but even if there was some chance things would change, hounding him and calling him and talking to him all the time will kill that. I think hes just immature... and love ,,,, true love doesnt disappear like that...You need to make a clean break and you do NOT need to be friends... Friends dont hurt others like that and even if he broke up with you, you deserved a cleaner break. Stop calling him. Let him go.. And go on with your life. Its not a death...its not a divorce. Its some immature twirp who didnt have the balls to cut this off months ago and drug you along hurting you in the process....

You don't want to be friends with a guy who is getting the satisfaction of still telling you stuff which shows what an a$$hole he is. Totally inconsiderate of him to now say such things. STOP calling and talking to him coz its just going to prolong your healing and he will keep saying things to belittle you.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

My best advice? Stop calling him and emailing him. He's made his point and at this point you need to STOP talking to him.Its not funny for him to say those things.. telling you that he wants to get laid by random chicks is just disrespectful. Calling him or talking to him at this point is just masochism.. but even if there was some chance things would change, hounding him and calling him and talking to him all the time will kill that. I think hes just immature... and love ,,,, true love doesnt disappear like that...You need to make a clean break and you do NOT need to be friends... Friends dont hurt others like that and even if he broke up with you, you deserved a cleaner break. Stop calling him. Let him go.. And go on with your life. Its not a death...its not a divorce. Its some immature twirp who didnt have the balls to cut this off months ago and drug you along hurting you in the process....

You don't want to be friends with a guy who is getting the satisfaction of still telling you stuff which shows what an a$$hole he is. Totally inconsiderate of him to now say such things. STOP calling and talking to him coz its just going to prolong your healing and he will keep saying things to belittle you.

ditto

[chavelle 6]

Hey,

Thank you so much.

I think its getting better from now. I talked to my ex-fiancé yesterday. He told me that he had started feeling weird some time in August. However, he did not want to admit it he said. He then told me on the date I told you that he had to tell me something, he prolly carried it with him for too long. I told him that he could have told me before but he did not want to admit his weird feelings. Now, it is clear, he does not love me no more. We will still talk later on, maybe in the new year. It is said to hear that now he wants to go and get laid by some random chicks (he does not know yet lol). It still somehow hurts me to know this, but we are not together anymore and he can do what he wants. Maybe I will be really hurt when he gets "the right one" because I was not it. If there is a girl out there who is "the right one" for him anyway. He did not blame me and he told me that I did nothing wrong. He did not get mad on the phone and I liked that finally he talked to me normally. I do feel weird but I think that talk will make it easier. I am going to miss the great times we had!!!

Thank you so much for the time you have taken to listen to my story and to give me advise, to support me and to be there for me. You are great guys!!!

I think that was my story...in case there are some news in the new year which belong here, I will let you know.

My best advice? Stop calling him and emailing him. He's made his point and at this point you need to STOP talking to him.Its not funny for him to say those things.. telling you that he wants to get laid by random chicks is just disrespectful. Calling him or talking to him at this point is just masochism.. but even if there was some chance things would change, hounding him and calling him and talking to him all the time will kill that. I think hes just immature... and love ,,,, true love doesnt disappear like that...You need to make a clean break and you do NOT need to be friends... Friends dont hurt others like that and even if he broke up with you, you deserved a cleaner break. Stop calling him. Let him go.. And go on with your life. Its not a death...its not a divorce. Its some immature twirp who didnt have the balls to cut this off months ago and drug you along hurting you in the process....

VERYYYYY well said

[Kiv 32]

I agree with the others, you do not need him as a friend.

You won't get him back or convince him that he made a mistake.

Don't let him hurt you. Love will find you when the time is right.

[e-migra 4]

I have do the happy dance for you . You're FINE without him!!! Just forget about that idiot and move on. Rest, relax, hang out with friends and family and soon you'll find the right man for you.

Good luck, be happy

e-migra

[nunyab 0]

It's better to have found out now (not easier on your heart) then to have moved away from family and friends and find out then..... I hope all is good with you and each day is better...

[2xHollyx2 3]

You don't want to be friends with a guy who is getting the satisfaction of still telling you stuff which shows what an a$$hole he is. Totally inconsiderate of him to now say such things. STOP calling and talking to him coz its just going to prolong your healing and he will keep saying things to belittle you.

ditto

Now you know he is not worth all the stress. You're better without him.

[tedjen 0]

Coria,

Take the advice of most of people here... Stop communicating with him and move on... You cannot move on by still keeping in touch with him... Because at the back of your mind you are still hoping (even if you won't admit)...

Here's the truth: HE IS CRAZY... The way he thinks is not normal... unstable mind etc..

I pray for you...

[coria1988 0]

Awww, thank you.

I love you guys!

[coria1988 0]

I cant believe what I am seeing!

He prolly did talk to his ###### half sister he did not like and look at that: http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fusea...endID=434077041. Holy ####! I mean thats great but why did he chicken out and could not even tell me? OO

Disappointment is bad, but what is worse is the fact that you saw the wrong person.

[DanielParul 50]

Get over it. What he does is not your concern now, the sooner you realise that the better for you.