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Filed: K-3 Visa Country: Philippines
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Coria, I've been following this thread. Now I want to say something, God let it happen for a reason. You maybe don't understand it right now but I tell you, in time you will thank that this hurtful thing happened to you...

You will definitely find the RIGHT person who will respect, love and treat you as his queen... God bless and just keep on praying, it will help :)

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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Hello everyone!

I just wanted to let you know the NEWS.

I am single. We are not together anymore....

It just hurts sooooo much.

Today we have been a couple for one year and nine months.

Well, now it is over.

He said that he was sorry...

bighug.gif sorry to hear the bad news.

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Germany
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I just wish it was a huge nightmare...

That he came back again and realized that it was a mistake.

I feel so empty and I wished nothing more than being with him, cuddling, dining out, watching movies etc.

And now it should be over, from one day to another...how can love be over within two weeks?!!!

:(:(:(

Schlimm ist nicht die Enttäuschung,

sondern die Erkenntnis,

sich in einem Menschen geirrt zu haben!

Manche Menschen treten einem auf den Fuß und entschuldigen sich.

Manche Menschen treten einem ins Herz und merken es nicht einmal

Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Thailand
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I just wish it was a huge nightmare...

That he came back again and realized that it was a mistake.

I feel so empty and I wished nothing more than being with him, cuddling, dining out, watching movies etc.

And now it should be over, from one day to another...how can love be over within two weeks?!!!

:(:(:(

I am sorry, I have nothing to say rathan than giving you a big hug and cheer you up. (F)(L)

Filed: Country: Mexico
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I just wish it was a huge nightmare...

That he came back again and realized that it was a mistake.

I feel so empty and I wished nothing more than being with him, cuddling, dining out, watching movies etc.

And now it should be over, from one day to another...how can love be over within two weeks?!!!

:(:(:(

It will be hard, but at the end you will see that it was better. It's his lost not yours.

Some day you will feel happy because you do not remember his phone number.

My husband and I were both hurt for prior bad love experiences when we meet, this was 8 years ago.

There was something better for both of us.

There will be something much better for you. (F)

K

Meet 12/2000; Married 01/2004; AOS 01/2005; R-C 07/2007; Citizen 06/2008
In love for 14 years and happily counting...

Filed: Citizen (pnd) Country: Canada
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Sorry to hear your news.

Stay strong (F)

PEGGY & ROGER

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Hello everyone!

I just wanted to let you know the NEWS.

I am single. We are not together anymore....

It just hurts sooooo much.

Today we have been a couple for one year and nine months.

Well, now it is over.

He said that he was sorry...

Coria, I am sorry to say that I actually understand. I wish I didnt. You will get through this. You will survive this. It wont be easy . But here my thoughts to you. Take one hour at a time as you grieve. Then those hours will stretch into half days and before you know it, you will be able to take on day at a time. Cry as much as you can to get it out.

Then....if you can.. In a few weeks , venture out and talk to people online and in the real world. A good talk site is www.paltalk.com and they have nice rooms where you can just talk in a friendly way. Get out of the house even if it kills you. you need to just walk away from this in the best way possible. Sometimes losses are so huge all you can do is break them down to simple survival. Someone abandoning you and you love them so much is so hard.. But you will see in a few months you will look back at this and see all kinds of red flags and you will understand things much more

And play this song alot alot alot And realise there are alot of women like you.. and alot moved on to meet the right person.. You can do it.. You can do this and you can survive this junk

Filed: Lift. Cond. (pnd) Country: Wales
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I'm so sorry, Coria. I hope you can take time to grieve and lean on your friends and family there for support. You will find someone amazing - you are still very young and though it may not seem like it now, you *will* find someone and be happy again. I do think it worked out better splitting up before you gave up your life and moved to a different country, at least there you have people you can count on and can move on without having to be alone in the US and worry about immigration issues. Again, I'm so sorry.

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My dear Sweet sweet Coria,

I refrained from writting anymore because i was getting worked up, worrying more than was necessary and being drained for several reasons, A lot of us had warned you to begin preparing for sad news as it obviously wasnt going in the right direction after he gave you a date!

Its very hard for you yes i understand, especially since this is a festive season, how on earth did he pick now of all the times in the world? Why let it linger till Jan 02? Whats going on behind closed doors there?

My fruustration.....

Do you take time to read our responses or just scan through them? Its hard i agree but you ll never get better advice and encouragement like you have found here as these caring, nice, calming, thoughtful, experienced men and women, old and young have taken time out to write to you, not just a few words but lengthy messages, some have shown experience some have used parables.

Coria, you are young, you have been patient, you have cried enough, its time to say good riddance to bad rubbish, take nice, long warm showers and scented baths, drink some apple ciders! Wear some lovely soothing lipstick straighten your hair and put some blushes on, look in the mirror and say .... he didnt deserve me and i will NOT be miserable for you all my life....

Alot of us have tried to advice, encourage and guide you in preparing for the worse, accepting it and moving on... leaving him in your past! I know its hard to explain but sincerely we have had worse experieces! We survived, i Did....

My fiancee got my bridesmaid and best friend pregnant 7 months to our wedding,all for a few minutes of groin gratification! its a long story, i lost my fiancee and best friend in one day, everything i had worked for, and i heard of it all through a lousy txt message, meanwhile it had been circulating round me while i was busy shopping for the wedding, silly me..... but i'm still here, laughing in his sorry face, so my dear, i've been there, others have seen worse, we listened, learned and survived!

I cant say more than i have, neither can i match words with some fine comments you have had, please Coria, re-read, take it in and accept the situation... then and only then would healing process begin..

I wish you good luck Coria, soon love would find you again and this time you ll be careful and question everything deeper.

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EAD arrives in mail ........................12/15/2008

AOS Touched .................................01/12/2009

AOS card production ordered...........02/27/2009

ROC TIMELINE 2011.

Jan 1st 2011 mailed in I751

Feb 15th 2011 Biometric appointment

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