Fraud???

[Jaminzel 0]

The least I expected that would be asked from me are the money remittances but it was one of those the pre-screener asked first.LOL. So that could be a plus in a way.LOL.

Good luck!

Hi All Rights Reserved,

I'll try to bring everything we can, I hope it's not too much.

Thanks, Ben

[Jaminzel 0]

What kind of trouble can we expect to receive? If anyone could give us any advice it would be more than greatly appreciated, this has been eating away at us for a very long time.

Thanks,

Ben

As long as there is a bona fide relationship, there is nothing wrong with your case. The other posters have already said that it will be in your favor. IMO, the real trouble I foresee is the further strained relationship with you and your brother. I hope you'll also be able to work that out.

Hi Jose Rizal,

I think I can find it in my heart to forgive him, but the trust will be gone.

Thanks, Ben

[Jaminzel 0]

Ditto on everyone else's statements. Your brother can not have any say in these things. Let him make a fool out of himself for trying to turn the tables. He'll realize or probably already realized he's talking to a wall. Enjoy and gloat over his disappointments. LOL

Hi Happy dancer,

Yea, he certainly has issues with anger, I'm certain this is not the first time his temper has cost him.

Thanks, Ben

[Jaminzel 0]

same to me pre-screener asked money remittances, Western union and money gram and have many of remittances lol

Hi Lady 23,

I'll have her take all the receipts, she never throws anything away, she's awesome!

Thanks, Ben

[Jaminzel 0]

Actually he is doing you a favor. You just need to prove that the relationship is real. Same thing happened to me.. it's funny Not a family member but the X wife. So much of the threat that i got and continually spying on me ( iba talaga ang ganda ng pinay,hahahaha) ..I end up thinking who would listen to the X wife? I am now in the process of my conditional GC. Crossing my fingers with no interview because it was transferred to CSC.

As what others said.. don't worry! Assure her it's not a mess as long as you two are in a real commitment no one can ruin.

Hi Blue Kiss 24,

Some say it's not good to bring too much evidence, but I am going to bring all we can.

Thanks, Ben

[sj5 4]

Why don't threat your brother you'll sue him for scamming you? We'll see how he likes it. Anyway, don't worry about his threat unless if he holds strong evidence against your fiancee. Edited November 16, 2008 by SJ

[sunandmoon 450]

Why don't threat your brother you'll sue him for scamming you? We'll see how he likes it. Anyway, don't worry about his threat unless if he holds strong evidence against your fiancee.

lawsuit? seems you've already learned the American way.

[sj5 4]

Why don't threat your brother you'll sue him for scamming you? We'll see how he likes it. Anyway, don't worry about his threat unless if he holds strong evidence against your fiancee.

lawsuit? seems you've already learned the American way.

Why not? I like this rule "Eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth" or you like this rule "I do it to you before you can do to me?"

Edited November 16, 2008 by SJ

[spikeyflip 0]

Hey good this thread is around...was wondering about the money remittances and if it will negatively affect my fiance's chance for a K1/interview... guess not ^^ good to know

[chinese_mutt 11]

Relax, if he really did file.. jus explain your side of the story. And tell them you've tried to reconcile with your brother to no avail.

If need be, print your email correspondence that went unreplied.

[Raeka 0]

Hi VJ People,

I have an unusual situation here, my brother found out that I was sending my fiance money, after had warned me not to, so he Emailed me and told me that he was going to notify both embassies in the Philippines of this, I have repeatedly tried to contact him to find out if he was only bluffing, but he refuses to return my Emails. Well, here it is about a year later and we are about to go to our interview in Manila, and on top of all the normal stress from the setbacks we've experienced, we are about to find out If he actually did carry out his threat. What kind of accusations could he have made?, What kind of trouble can we expect to receive? If anyone could give us any advice it would be more than greatly appreciated, this has been eating away at us for a very long time.

Thanks,

Ben

Edited April 11, 2009 by Raeka