Is the romance gone?

[star_dragon 0]

yeah and hanging out with girls all day!

lol

[chaishai 1]

I recall a married couple in the backseat Saturday night holding hands

Wait a min. I'm talking about the romance that is unspoken. Like the little things they do. Not the sex, if that weren't there man his butt would be back in Morocco!

does he do other nice things not necessarily cards or flowers? my husband never i mean NEVER gives me cards and once a year maybe flowers (i buy them better myself). his response to valentines day is "noone tells me when to love my wife".... occasionally he spoils me with an extremely extravagant gift but i dont get gifts for every occasion. however he constantly cooks me gourmet meals, changes poopy diapers more than me, takes me out to special dinners, fun things etc. constantly is there for me in soooo many ways, he isnt a card person and doesnt know where or how to get flowers (that are acceptable to me lol) but I am happy with what he DOES do....

[morocco4ever 63]

The first year of the marriage you have mad passionate love making at least once a day.

The second year of the marriage you cut down some, but still have mad passionate love making 3 or 4 times a week.

By the fifth year it has cut down to a forgetable quicky about once every week or two.

By the tenth year it is a "F*#@ you" as you pass each other in the hall.

But seriously, I felt the same way at first. But then i started seeing the little things he would do. Things like he could see on my face that I didn't feel good, so he would massage my neck. Or when he could see how tired I was, but he wasn't. He would say "let's go to bed", even though he couldn't sleep yet. Or just when he could see I was on the verge of tears, and he would stop what he was doing just to hold me.

Let's just say that I would take these romantic gestures any day over a card.

[bhajishah 4]

Muslim wife=momma substitute, congratulations on the adoption!!

[Y's_habibitk 2]

I recall a married couple in the backseat Saturday night holding hands

Wait a min. I'm talking about the romance that is unspoken. Like the little things they do. Not the sex, if that weren't there man his butt would be back in Morocco!

does he do other nice things not necessarily cards or flowers? my husband never i mean NEVER gives me cards and once a year maybe flowers (i buy them better myself). his response to valentines day is "noone tells me when to love my wife".... occasionally he spoils me with an extremely extravagant gift but i dont get gifts for every occasion. however he constantly cooks me gourmet meals, changes poopy diapers more than me, takes me out to special dinners, fun things etc. constantly is there for me in soooo many ways, he isnt a card person and doesnt know where or how to get flowers (that are acceptable to me lol) but I am happy with what he DOES do....

thats kinda cute!

[RAKASA 0]

Muslim wife=momma substitute, congratulations on the adoption!!

not here - maybe that's your case

[Muh and me 18]

Muslim wife=momma substitute, congratulations on the adoption!!

I so think you are wrong!

[Staashi 371]

Muslim wife=momma substitute, congratulations on the adoption!!

not here - maybe that's your case

Noura...that might not be your case, but I do know that it is common.

[bhajishah 4]

What?? love the wife ,but spoil the mistress??

[babynursetobe 0]

They call that "Hall Sex".......

The first year of the marriage you have mad passionate love making at least once a day.

The second year of the marriage you cut down some, but still have mad passionate love making 3 or 4 times a week.

By the fifth year it has cut down to a forgetable quicky about once every week or two.

By the tenth year it is a "F*#@ you" as you pass each other in the hall.

But seriously, I felt the same way at first. But then i started seeing the little things he would do. Things like he could see on my face that I didn't feel good, so he would massage my neck. Or when he could see how tired I was, but he wasn't. He would say "let's go to bed", even though he couldn't sleep yet. Or just when he could see I was on the verge of tears, and he would stop what he was doing just to hold me.

Let's just say that I would take these romantic gestures any day over a card.

[Staashi 371]

They call that "Hall Sex".......

The first year of the marriage you have mad passionate love making at least once a day.

The second year of the marriage you cut down some, but still have mad passionate love making 3 or 4 times a week.

By the fifth year it has cut down to a forgetable quicky about once every week or two.

By the tenth year it is a "F*#@ you" as you pass each other in the hall.

But seriously, I felt the same way at first. But then i started seeing the little things he would do. Things like he could see on my face that I didn't feel good, so he would massage my neck. Or when he could see how tired I was, but he wasn't. He would say "let's go to bed", even though he couldn't sleep yet. Or just when he could see I was on the verge of tears, and he would stop what he was doing just to hold me.

Let's just say that I would take these romantic gestures any day over a card.

[nunyab 0]

awwww romance I just got a surprise love letter in the mail from my husband... :sigh: i miss him

[Der Bücherwurm 1]

Muslim wife=momma substitute, congratulations on the adoption!!

I think all men are like that to an extent. It's just generally Asian & ME guys are the worst. But what can you expect when the parents assign so many chores to daughters while letting their precious favored sons just run around and play.

I'm working hard to house train my man and he's getting more helpful. But a lot of times when he's being helpful he just ends up making a bigger mess for me to have to clean up after him. He just needs to learn how to cook something other than Persian style rice and I'll be happy not having to cook all the time. He's great at giving complements and attention though.

[nunyab 0]

my husband promised to drive me to work, pick me up and we would talk about our days over coffee...lol I know that's not going to happen but what a sweet thing for him to hope for

[S and S 12]

There is a lot I want to say as my husband is really the romantic type, but I think I'll wait until he gets here so I can say he still does things even after arrival, lol. Besides I sent this link to him so he could read it and I don't want his ego to get too high if I say all the nice things I love about him and he sees it