Moved out and seperating from my US husband

[baumdeor bedoor 0]

Now, I moved out and shacked up with my coworker, it was an office an affair. Can we live together if I am not formally divorced yet? How will that affect my GC and ability to remove conditions from residency? Is Adultery cause for being deported?

My husband is not aware of the fact i have been with my co worker for over a year. He travels to Iraq often for DOS. But what happens now? Can he remove the support from my application? He has filed for seperation and I signed.

Lesson learned, dont leave half naked pics of boyfriend and yourself on your family computer. Same goes for intimate emails and naughty text messages. God I hate online access to the phone bills. He figured it out all the way from IRaq by looking at his phone bill.

What can he do to my immigration status at this point? Please help? Yikes? Should I try returning to my husband? Its an uncontested divorce, so it should be finalized soon. But again, what happens to my status?

Edited November 11, 2008 by baumdeor

[Precious 2]

Now, I moved out and shacked up with my coworker, it was an office an affair. Can we live together if I am not formally divorced yet? How will that affect my GC and ability to remove conditions from residency? Is Adultery cause for being deported?

My husband is not aware of the fact i have been with my co worker for over a year. He travels to Iraq often for DOS. But what happens now? Can he remove the support from my application? He has filed for seperation and I signed.

Lesson learned, dont leave half naked pics of boyfriend and yourself on your family computer. Same goes for intimate emails and naughty text messages. God I hate online access to the phone bills. He figured it out all the way from IRaq by looking at his phone bill.

What can he do to my immigration status at this point? Please help? Yikes? Should I try returning to my husband? Its an uncontested divorce, so it should be finalized soon. But again, what happens to my status?

Sorry, you should have thought about that before breaking your husband's heart and putting yourself in this mess.

Go figure.

[Passing.star 0]

I think VJ members are not happy to give you an advise because of what you did to your husband.

Go figure I second the motion!

[Y's_habibitk 2]

Are you serious or trolling?

If you are serious... I suggest you divorce your husband and go home to your family.

If you try to stay, I hope your husband does some more investigating and finds this post so he can use it against you.

Lisa

[Otto 83]

What can he do to my immigration status at this point? Please help? Yikes? Should I try returning to my husband? Its an uncontested divorce, so it should be finalized soon. But again, what happens to my status?

Without any judgments against the OP - we don't know the whole story and should refrain from snap judgments.

The green card is yours - there's not a lot anyone can do so long as you've not committed any crime. Divorce (for whatever reason), while a setback, is not necessarily a reason to not be able to retain ones residency status.

[KandD 1]

Yeah Right! I think your full of it. Nice try though.

[Jenn! 918]

I believe this post would pertain to your situation. I'm not sure how the infidelity would impact the determination of a bonafide marriage.

So here are my questions:

What will happen to our joint petition to remove the condition of my greencard?

If ever there will be an interview, and I will show up alone, are they going to deny my case eventhough they will see that I am pregnant? or maybe I will have my baby by then?

If ever there will be an interview, either I am approved or denied, or let say if I am denied, its okay with me to go back to my home country as Ive been wanting to move back there anyway. But still I want my baby to be born here in the US, so she/he will still have something to do with her/his daddy.

What should I do?

Your joint petition can continue to be processed. You must withdraw that joint application, ONLY IF your divorce is finalised and receive a decree BEFORE the application to remove conditions is adjudicated.

You won't be denied unless you fail to show that the marriage was bonafide. Do you have evidence to support that?

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Edited November 11, 2008 by Jenn!

[Y's_habibitk 2]

What can he do to my immigration status at this point? Please help? Yikes? Should I try returning to my husband? Its an uncontested divorce, so it should be finalized soon. But again, what happens to my status?

Without any judgments against the OP - we don't know the whole story and should refrain from snap judgments.

The green card is yours - there's not a lot anyone can do so long as you've not committed any crime. Divorce (for whatever reason), while a setback, is not necessarily a reason to not be able to retain ones residency status.

I dont think anyoe made any "snap" judgments. The tone of the OP's post speaks for itself

Edited November 11, 2008 by Y_habibitk

[sara..... 371]

well im trying not to judge u because it is not my place to but WHY WOULD U DO THAT!!!!!!!

[morocco4ever 63]

What can he do to my immigration status at this point? Please help? Yikes? Should I try returning to my husband? Its an uncontested divorce, so it should be finalized soon. But again, what happens to my status?

Without any judgments against the OP - we don't know the whole story and should refrain from snap judgments.

The green card is yours - there's not a lot anyone can do so long as you've not committed any crime. Divorce (for whatever reason), while a setback, is not necessarily a reason to not be able to retain ones residency status.

I dont think anyoe made any "snap" judgments. The tone of the OP's post speaks for itself

My though exactly. No remorse, just wants to stay. Was there ever love? Or was this just a means to come?

To those that get offended by our cynicism I am sorry, but come on now.

[maliciant 7]

As hard as it is to believe that this isn't a troll post, it's just so over the top and hard to believe... if you notice the join date of the OP it's unlikely to be a troll... seriously, who would register an account that far ahead to troll a forum (I'm thinking maybe now is a good time to invest in your future trolling needs a few years from now by registering spare accounts on all forums you visit or may visit in the future!).

Uh, and other than saying that the OP probably isn't a troll, I'm out of nice things to say, the OP's post is just that bad.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

well im trying not to judge u because it is not my place to but WHY WOULD U DO THAT!!!!!!!

and then post to the world to know it

[Saffyre 0]

I make no apologies for what i am about to say: cheating on a partner is abhorrent. If you used him to get a GC then you disgust me. If you genuinely loved him and then decided to just cheat on him, then you disgust me.

To then come onto a forum full of people who are genuinely trying to be with the ones they love - some of whom haven't been with their SO's for prolonged periods of time - and brag about what you have done whilst asking for advice on how you can keep you GC? Ugh.....words fail me at the levels you'd stoop to.

Legally you may not have broken the law - but do you have no morals?

*stepping down from soap box now*

[baumdeor bedoor 0]

Now, I moved out and shacked up with my coworker, it was an office an affair. Can we live together if I am not formally divorced yet? How will that affect my GC and ability to remove conditions from residency? Is Adultery cause for being deported?

My husband is not aware of the fact i have been with my co worker for over a year. He travels to Iraq often for DOS. But what happens now? Can he remove the support from my application? He has filed for seperation and I signed.

Lesson learned, dont leave half naked pics of boyfriend and yourself on your family computer. Same goes for intimate emails and naughty text messages. God I hate online access to the phone bills. He figured it out all the way from IRaq by looking at his phone bill.

What can he do to my immigration status at this point? Please help? Yikes? Should I try returning to my husband? Its an uncontested divorce, so it should be finalized soon. But again, what happens to my status?

Sorry, you should have thought about that before breaking your husband's heart and putting yourself in this mess.

Go figure.

How was I supposed to know he was going to be looking at the cell bill all the way at his base in Iraq? He found all the late night phone calls and text messages. He returned home and wanted to forgive me but he I only told him it was just friendship. I had no idea it was going to get that far with the coworker. No idea. I did receive a letter few weeks ago stating that my removing conditions for residence was declined if I can't provide info that it was not ?fraudulent? marriage. Is it considered fraudulent if i am moved out to coworkers townhome? The letter is confusing, I submitted my conditions to remove stipulations on residence in April. I think? But now this letter says that I would have to prove it was not a fraudulent marriage by 15th Nov. by providing bank statements, utility bills and joint tnancy contracts. I closed the only joint account about a month ago. no utility bills we lived in his family's home. What do i do? OOOOOOOOh god this is so confusing.

[Y's_habibitk 2]

As hard as it is to believe that this isn't a troll post, it's just so over the top and hard to believe... if you notice the join date of the OP it's unlikely to be a troll... seriously, who would register an account that far ahead to troll a forum (I'm thinking maybe now is a good time to invest in your future trolling needs a few years from now by registering spare accounts on all forums you visit or may visit in the future!).

Uh, and other than saying that the OP probably isn't a troll, I'm out of nice things to say, the OP's post is just that bad.

ha ha! I saw that after I posted and thought, wow... this is real!