I am ready to pull all my hair out!!!!!

[Bunnyqr 0]

As you can see from our time line, Andreas and I have been put on hold because of the RFE. I received it in the mail on April 28th. I told Andreas on the phone what Immigration needs from him. 2 forms, with translations. It has taken him 3 weeks to get the documents with translations. GREAT!!! But then he decides to go to Mykonos 2 Friday's ago. As he is getting ready for his 3 hour trip to the island I ask him if he got the papers. He says "Yes", I then ask, did you mail them. He tells me no, he doesn't have time because he has to leave for the boat. He tells me not to worry, he put them in an envelope and his mother will mail them on the following Monday. A whole week and half passes and no papers in the mail. I ask him every day, did you talk to your mother, did she mail the documents. He finally calls me today and tells me that his mother never sent them, that she thought she was supposed to wait until he called her and told her to mail them.

WHAT IS GOING ON WITH HIM!?!?!?!?!??!!?!??!? He knows that this is important, and he knows that we are on hold until I get these in to the Vermont office. So now his mom knows to mail the documents. I WANT TO SCREAMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHat is the hold up!!!!!???? Why didn't he mail them???????????? Why did he leave it to his mother to do???????

Please Lord give me patience!!!!! And then to top it off, he has a melt down the other night saying how much he misses me, how he wants me to go to Greece and wait with him through the process and how this is so difficult to be apart from each other. HELLO!!!!!!!! Am I the only rational one in this situation!???!!!!

MAIL THE FRIGGIN DOCUMENTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Razor 0]

Relax people from that part of the world are real laid back they take things slow and easy.I Was across the border in Albania for two months my friends thought I was high on speed They had a hard time understating why I was in a rush all the time

Edited June 2, 2006 by Razor

[Ladylethal 12]

If he was the USC I'd say he's having second thoughts.

[djcess 0]

I totally understand how you feel.. my fiance is like that too. Upto now he hasnt sent me the I-134 documents cause he's always busy. I know that I shouldn't pressure him but there are times I just want to scream, kick and throw stones on his roof (if that is possible ) I know slowly but surely works, but damn.. this is prettyyyy sloooowww.. oh well! slow or not, at least he's moving! just need some appreciation that's all!

[Cristy 4]

I relate to a point. But when I 'remind' I am 'nagging' lol

Oh well we got this far, when we are together I can kick his @$$!

[kimlbs 0]

Trust me...you are not alone with this one!!!! It seems that a lot of men (not all) from other Countries just have this laid back attitude.

I think we US citizens grow up in a fast pace environment and we are programmed to get things done TIMELY!!! We have deadlines and we put things in motion.....That laid back attitude has made me want to fly to his Country and kick his assssssssssss numerous times!!! I keep thinking that he will soon find out about "my world" and I better hear 101 apologies!!!!

Just have patience and kick his butt when he finally arrives on US soil!!!

[Vagina Journey 0]

For a moment i thought i was reading on of my old posts...Your not the only one just remember that!

I got smart and pretty much fuked him off and refused to speak to him and then he got on the ball........Good luck

[aliceyang 0]

my bf is the same, always tell me patient, patient, stay calm. everything is ok. But if everything is in normal way, then it is ok, we can wait, but when something special, like RFE, need to prepare soon and send back soon, make everything back to normal. hehe, hope everyone here good luck and seem waiting is the only thing we can do now

[aussiewench 9]

my hands up for this one too

[goldie 0]

my hands up for this one too

oh well, i would say, its not where the guy is coming from, its coz he is a MAN! guess they are a bit more relaxed and have more patience... we woman are always ina worry aobut something and in a rush.. more or less.. am the one off the usa.. and i speed everything i can...

BUNNYGR

i remember u posted not too long ago something about that u couldnt get hold of him.. he was in greece on a island and u couldnt rich him.. u where worried that something is going on.. i guess this was soughted out, right? what did he say, happened that u couldnt get in touch with him?? well, i hope all will be fine, and that he speed up a bit.. and tell him, what u feel...!! if he loves u that much, then he should try to moove his a.. over there as quick as possible! meeeen....

Good luck!!!

[Jaylen Brit 0]

I've been guilty of this myself

I udually get bogged down in stuff tho, and then leave it cos its annoying me or making me crazy - so its not JUST guys who do this

I honestly need a rocket up the ar$e at times.. other times I'm real good tho.. I'm VARIABLE

[KaiserD 12]

Oh well we got this far, when we are together I can kick his @$$!

That's what I tell myself too my SO is the USC and he is soooo lazy and laid back (just like his father!). I nagged him like hell cause I know what he's like! I will do the same thing when he gets the RFE

[ajames79 0]

I CAN SO RELATE!!

Good luck though!

[iceyspots 0]

me and yacine rush for every thing and let uscis take their time

[Karen_L 1]

As you can see from our time line, Andreas and I have been put on hold because of the RFE. I received it in the mail on April 28th. I told Andreas on the phone what Immigration needs from him. 2 forms, with translations. It has taken him 3 weeks to get the documents with translations. GREAT!!! But then he decides to go to Mykonos 2 Friday's ago. As he is getting ready for his 3 hour trip to the island I ask him if he got the papers. He says "Yes", I then ask, did you mail them. He tells me no, he doesn't have time because he has to leave for the boat. He tells me not to worry, he put them in an envelope and his mother will mail them on the following Monday. A whole week and half passes and no papers in the mail. I ask him every day, did you talk to your mother, did she mail the documents. He finally calls me today and tells me that his mother never sent them, that she thought she was supposed to wait until he called her and told her to mail them.

WHAT IS GOING ON WITH HIM!?!?!?!?!??!!?!??!? He knows that this is important, and he knows that we are on hold until I get these in to the Vermont office. So now his mom knows to mail the documents. I WANT TO SCREAMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHat is the hold up!!!!!???? Why didn't he mail them???????????? Why did he leave it to his mother to do???????

Please Lord give me patience!!!!! And then to top it off, he has a melt down the other night saying how much he misses me, how he wants me to go to Greece and wait with him through the process and how this is so difficult to be apart from each other. HELLO!!!!!!!! Am I the only rational one in this situation!???!!!!

MAIL THE FRIGGIN DOCUMENTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LOL! It has nothing to do with the importance of the documents or how much he misses you; the only reason he's moving in slow motion is this: He's male and he's from a Mediterranean country.

My fiance's from Albania and I have to nag him 'til I can't stand the sound of my own voice sometimes before he'll call a number or mail something or go somewhere. One time it took him like 2 weeks to contact the consulate and I told him, "We're far away from each other right now and I love you very much, but if you don't call them TOMORROW, when you do finally get the visa and your plane lands and we see each other and we run into each other's arms, I'm going to slap you!" and... he called the very next day! lol -- sometimes it takes an idle threat

Edited June 2, 2006 by Karen_L