I can't stand this anymore... I miss him, badly...

[Carlos and Jocel 2]

I have not seen my wife since I left Cebu on June 5, 2008? For some reasons VSC is slow than expected... I know they, VSC staff, are doing thier best as they see lots of documents filed and millions of applicants throughout the world. I hate waiting but that's all we can do... everything else is the waiting game... how long can you wait???

[*JG* 2]

3 months is nothing. You can do this. Just hang in there.

[Cham 3]

Amen to THAT!!!! I pray we all get our SOs home SOON!

[samer 1]

hi,

I think you have the same story like i do iam still waiting they put me under ap for 4 months and then they called me and asked me few questions and said its going to take amother 3 or 4 months and it might take longer i said to her its carazy i was waiting all that time to tell me that said ( oh iam only working her i am doing my job) i told her ok ok and hang up it is really silly right!!!!!

Take care

[samer 1]

hi,

I think you have the same story like i do iam still waiting they put me under ap for 4 months and then they called me and asked me few questions and said its going to take another 3 or 4 months and it might take longer i said to her its crazy i was waiting all that time to tell me that said ( oh iam only working her i am doing my job) i told her ok ok and hang up it is really silly right!!!!!

Take care

[zuluforzen 0]

God-willing, YES , StinkyMonkey. I'm REALLY, REALLY happy for you and your fiance. May God bless you both! Good luck on the next stage of your VISA process.

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Zuluforzen, I feel the same as you... empty. I never thought it would be this hard, but even still... thank God for everything that has happened. I know that everything happens for a reason. It will soon be our turn to celebrate too, my friend. As for your time-line.... I stopped checking mine. It's never accurate, it's always changing, & quite honestly... it depresses me when I see the dates fluctuate back and forth. It's helped me to stop looking at mine. But then again, that's just me.

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Kaye, I feel your pain too. Even though your journey has just begun, it doesn't make it hurt any less & it's just as hard. It's hard to be separated from the one person you love most in this world. It's so unfair. I see people around me always fighting and complaining about stupid little things in their relationships... ALWAYS making a HUGE FUSS over the little things.... they don't realize just how lucky & how BLESSED they are for having their significant other by their side. Meanwhile, here are people like you and I... who can only see our fiances through a web-cam & pics. i miss holding him... I miss his smell... I miss the sparkle in his eyes & his sweet, sweet smile.... I miss being in his arms which is the only place in this world where I feel safe... I miss EVERTHING about my Habibi. It's just not the same being without him. I hate it!

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YOU ARE ALL IN MY PRAYERS! I'M SERIOUSLY NOT JUST SAYING THAT EITHER... I KNOW WE ALL OUR IN DESPERATE NEED OF GOD'S HELP RIGHT NOW. HOPE YOU CAN COUNT US IN IN YOUR PRAYERS, TOO! WE ALL NEED A LITTLE PRAYER. LOVE 'YA GUYS

thanks for the kind words !!!like my husband says at less we can talk on line and see each other many years ago all they had where letters so we should consider our selfs lucky he is my strength miss him so mush

[Beautiful_years 0]

Hey hang in there

trust me you wont remember how long you waited when you finally get together,

you re on the right track, do all the venting here.

[adiiann 163]

Waiting game seems the hardest game I ever play.... Let's just think that..... at the end of the tunnel, there's always light......

[Rosalinda 0]

(F)Take a Deep Breath... look around and think of the times you get to talk to him.... It's not easy but we ARE doing it.. we did it yesterday today and we WILL keep doing it until they are by our side... and remember it is ok to feel sad ...I would be worried if you didn"t just if it gets to be too much go walk or do something that will take your mind off of it......

browneyedgirl... I think I have you beat mine and my husbands AP since December 2007

[♥ ShaRich ♥ 0]

I yearn for him a lot, too

[sweet_peach 0]

I know it isnt "good news", but ours took about 3 months to get through VSC and we never received a touch until the day that they were issuing our NOA2.

If you filed in Aug. you should be seeing something soon.

Good Luck!!!

[inGODShands 0]

Awwwwww I'm soooooooooo sorry to hear that. Why did they deny you the first time? Listen, I know you've been waiting longer than we have & if it hurts us like hell, I can ONLY imagine how much more it hurts you guys. Don't worry, things will be better for you second time around. Just stay positive & HAVE FAITH! May God finally grant you & your fiance a SMOOTH & SPEEDY approval. Good luck & best wishes. You're both in my prayers.

I yearn for him a lot, too

[adiiann 163]

I yearn for him a lot, too

Just wondering, what really makes them decide to deny your petition. Usually as what I notice, RFE now is for the missing documents or wrong fill-up of forms. Maybe they expect that you should be aware of showing all proofs for your bonafide relationship. Don't you think, might be the reason for the decision? Some got deny because of other cases such as divorce or other legal matters.

Anyway, good luck to all of us. Yeah, let's have FAITH. God is always there for us.

[inGODShands 0]

God-willing, YES , Sweet_Peach! So yours took 3 months from NOA1 to NOA2??? How long did the rest of the process take you, if you don't mind me asking? I hope we hear something soon... I swear to GOD we need to hear GOOD NEWS right now.

I know it isnt "good news", but ours took about 3 months to get through VSC and we never received a touch until the day that they were issuing our NOA2.

If you filed in Aug. you should be seeing something soon.

Good Luck!!!

[zuluforzen 0]

God-willing, YES , StinkyMonkey. I'm REALLY, REALLY happy for you and your fiance. May God bless you both! Good luck on the next stage of your VISA process.

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Zuluforzen, I feel the same as you... empty. I never thought it would be this hard, but even still... thank God for everything that has happened. I know that everything happens for a reason. It will soon be our turn to celebrate too, my friend. As for your time-line.... I stopped checking mine. It's never accurate, it's always changing, & quite honestly... it depresses me when I see the dates fluctuate back and forth. It's helped me to stop looking at mine. But then again, that's just me.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Kaye, I feel your pain too. Even though your journey has just begun, it doesn't make it hurt any less & it's just as hard. It's hard to be separated from the one person you love most in this world. It's so unfair. I see people around me always fighting and complaining about stupid little things in their relationships... ALWAYS making a HUGE FUSS over the little things.... they don't realize just how lucky & how BLESSED they are for having their significant other by their side. Meanwhile, here are people like you and I... who can only see our fiances through a web-cam & pics. i miss holding him... I miss his smell... I miss the sparkle in his eyes & his sweet, sweet smile.... I miss being in his arms which is the only place in this world where I feel safe... I miss EVERTHING about my Habibi. It's just not the same being without him. I hate it!

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

YOU ARE ALL IN MY PRAYERS! I'M SERIOUSLY NOT JUST SAYING THAT EITHER... I KNOW WE ALL OUR IN DESPERATE NEED OF GOD'S HELP RIGHT NOW. HOPE YOU CAN COUNT US IN IN YOUR PRAYERS, TOO! WE ALL NEED A LITTLE PRAYER. LOVE 'YA GUYS

thanks for the kind words !!!like my husband says at less we can talk on line and see each other many years ago all they had where letters so we should consider our selfs lucky he is my strength miss him so mush