I can't stand this anymore... I miss him, badly...

[inGODShands 0]

I miss him soooooooooooooo much! Time seems to be going by SOOOOO slowly without my habibi, and NOTHING seems to be happening lately at VSC. I'm miserable without him. Anyone have any kind of news about progress at VSC??? Edited November 8, 2008 by inGODShands

[Gemmie 142]

We understand, we're all waiting for some kind of progress. It's hard, it really is, and it can get you down if you let it. You have to try and stay positive and take care of yourself.

You got your NOA1 after us, it hasn't even been 3 months yet.. you should be recieving your approval in 1-2 months, so just hold on, you can do it.

[Stinky Monkey 1]

I know that VSC seems real slow at the moment, I was going crazy last week waiting for a approval since I got my touch, and it arrived in the mail last night and we were approved on Monday. The USCIS site still says pending but I think you will find that a lot of people will update there timelines when they receive the NOA2 in the post as we are not getting the information from the site so it might not be as slow as we think, it might just be a computer glitch

Hang in there, we all know how hard it is, but just think one day it will all be behind you and you will be together just not as soon as you would like

[inGODShands 0]

Thanks StinkyMoney & Gemmie It just seems like I'm hearing and seeing less and LESS approvals lately. Plus we haven't been touched since August. But you're right... all we can do is WAIT... and WAIT.... and WAIT Edited November 8, 2008 by inGODShands

[zuluforzen 0]

i feel your pain i am missing my husband as well !! i have not seen him since april 28th . we talk a lot on line but my life seems so empty with out him.. i have my bad days and good. filed aug and sept for k3 visa just hope to see him in january!

[zuluforzen 0]

i feel your pain i am missing my husband as well !! i have not seen him since april 28th . we talk a lot on line but my life seems so empty with out him.. i have my bad days and good. filed aug and sept for k3 visa just hope to see him in january!

i just opend my time line and it jump from january back to april may what happend ???

[Stinky Monkey 1]

Thanks StinkyMoney & Gemmie It just seems like I'm hearing and seeing less and LESS approvals lately. Plus we haven't been touched since August. But you're right... all we can do is WAIT... and WAIT.... and WAIT

Until our approval on Monday our last touch was 11th July, we got our NOA2 just over 4 months after NOA1, so you have little bit of a wait still

Spend your time reading up on the next stage and everything you have to do so you are prepared and ready to go

Hopefully you will have your noa2 by the end of the year

[kaye 0]

same here missing my fiance also...i'm also tired of the long wait and just talking and seeing him thru web cam and we have just started the long journey oct 3 i just hope the waiting ends really soon!

[inGODShands 0]

Thanks Zuluforzen... we're the same. You're in my prayers. May God bless you & your loved ones ALWAYS.

[inGODShands 0]

God-willing, YES , StinkyMonkey. I'm REALLY, REALLY happy for you and your fiance. May God bless you both! Good luck on the next stage of your VISA process.

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Zuluforzen, I feel the same as you... empty. I never thought it would be this hard, but even still... thank God for everything that has happened. I know that everything happens for a reason. It will soon be our turn to celebrate too, my friend. As for your time-line.... I stopped checking mine. It's never accurate, it's always changing, & quite honestly... it depresses me when I see the dates fluctuate back and forth. It's helped me to stop looking at mine. But then again, that's just me.

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Kaye, I feel your pain too. Even though your journey has just begun, it doesn't make it hurt any less & it's just as hard. It's hard to be separated from the one person you love most in this world. It's so unfair. I see people around me always fighting and complaining about stupid little things in their relationships... ALWAYS making a HUGE FUSS over the little things.... they don't realize just how lucky & how BLESSED they are for having their significant other by their side. Meanwhile, here are people like you and I... who can only see our fiances through a web-cam & pics. i miss holding him... I miss his smell... I miss the sparkle in his eyes & his sweet, sweet smile.... I miss being in his arms which is the only place in this world where I feel safe... I miss EVERTHING about my Habibi. It's just not the same being without him. I hate it!

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YOU ARE ALL IN MY PRAYERS! I'M SERIOUSLY NOT JUST SAYING THAT EITHER... I KNOW WE ALL OUR IN DESPERATE NEED OF GOD'S HELP RIGHT NOW. HOPE YOU CAN COUNT US IN IN YOUR PRAYERS, TOO! WE ALL NEED A LITTLE PRAYER. LOVE 'YA GUYS

Edited November 8, 2008 by inGODShands

[Cham 3]

I know how you feel I have not seen kai in 1.5 years and thank god for webcams and voice chat. We cry all the time because we miss each other, BUT we know it will be in a few months..it may not be tomorrow it may not be next week but in a few months (PRAYS HARD!)

The wait is worth it though sweetie..KEEP BUSY!!!!! Start planning your wedding to, buying things here and there and start a wedding book..glue in cakes you love and so on THIS way when your SO gets home YOU have a book started of things you like and he can help you pick it all out!

BIG HUGS!!

Meri and Kai

[inGODShands 0]

Cham,

Thank you! It's nice to know we're not alone, but at the same time it makes me sad because there are other people out there who are suffering badly, too. It IS hard... everyday seems to be getting harder & harder, but thank God for everything anyway. He helps us get through each day, one day at a time. I know what you mean though. Even though I'd rather be with my fiance then watch him through a web-cam......... GOD BLESS WEB-CAMS & VOICE CHAT!!!!! Without that.... I'd seriously go crazy! My fiance's Internet is down right now and it's his birthday this weekend. We had A LOT of things plans out, and now everything is ruined because his Internet won't be working again until sometime next week. This week has been a really difficult week for me, so sorry for my mood. Anyway, you & your fiance have been waiting for FAR TOO LONG! May God grant you a speedy approval before all of us in here who are still waiting. Your approval is LONG OVERDUE! BUT.... it's coming very soon! I hope you let me know when you receive it so I can celebrate with 'ya! God bless you, Cham! Thanks again for your support & encouraging words. You & your fiance are in my prayers. May God bless you with a life FULL of happiness & LOVE!

I know how you feel I have not seen kai in 1.5 years and thank god for webcams and voice chat. We cry all the time because we miss each other, BUT we know it will be in a few months..it may not be tomorrow it may not be next week but in a few months (PRAYS HARD!)

The wait is worth it though sweetie..KEEP BUSY!!!!! Start planning your wedding to, buying things here and there and start a wedding book..glue in cakes you love and so on THIS way when your SO gets home YOU have a book started of things you like and he can help you pick it all out!

BIG HUGS!!

Meri and Kai

[tenderheartusa79 14]

I miss him soooooooooooooo much! Time seems to be going by SOOOOO slowly without my habibi, and NOTHING seems to be happening lately at VSC. I'm miserable without him. Anyone have any kind of news about progress at VSC???

I know how it feels .

i miss my queen so much .i don't like the waiting game but we can't do anything but waiting and praying .

we applied for the visa in Aug and they didn't touch our case either .

i hope that we will hear good news soon

hang in there . you are in my prayers

[KandD 1]

Hang in there guys, this journey isn't easy. just look at my timeline. At least you can see some kind of progress. We are in administrative processing known as the "black hole" we have no idea when it will be finished. All you can do is pray and have faith in God that it will be over soon. God Bless

[liraC 2]

I miss him soooooooooooooo much! Time seems to be going by SOOOOO slowly without my habibi, and NOTHING seems to be happening lately at VSC. I'm miserable without him. Anyone have any kind of news about progress at VSC???

I feel the same,i missed my fiancee so much and i havent seen him for 4 and half months already...there are times at night that i cant help myself not to cry because i wanted to be with him,it feels bad that we cant do nothing about it but to wait cuz its part of this journey..Just remember always that god id very good and he know's how we feel,so just hang on there,be patient and dont forget to pray always..Were on the same boat..Goodluck for us,for our journey...