remeaning days in pinas is being deffecult!!!!!!

[ladyinpink 1]

i receive my visa it really wonderful!!!!

very happy but behind my happiness

other side of my family is very sad!!!!!

specially my mom!!!!!

i am really concerned the condensation of my be loving mom

she almost hurt attack and now she is under medication on high

blood and heart problem she is crying lady every time i see my

mom!!!!! it breaking my heart and my whole family is very sad every corner

in my house is sad and crying very hard to see my whole family is very sad

i am the youngest of my family sweetheart to every body

the only single of my family never expect that i was full in love other side of the planet

i feel very guilty!!!!! because of condensation of my mom now

my mom she is happy and understand but i think in her heart she cant accept that

her little girl now become a lady and ready to start my own life and my own family

my fiancee he promise my mom in one yrs she well be coming to usa to see me and my new family

but i really don't know if my mom she well make it she is 76 yrs now

my whole life i never be part of my family very hard!!!!

my feeling is mixed emotion happy to be my honey but other side of my heart is sad

what if i lost mom?????? because of me? loving some one that living in other side of the planet

but i fallow my heart i love my honey so much

he is my everything in my life that make me happy the rest of my life

my body in the Philippines but my heart and mind my honey bring my heart when is back home in usa

i feel guilty????

do you think guy i am selfish????

do you think i am self center???????

i just fallow my heart

any comments and ic welcome

so i have other side point of view

in this matter

I und every detail ladyinpink is trying to tell us,it touches me.I too have a mother who were deeply sad when me and my 2 children who grow up with the care of my mother had to leave to be with my husband here in America.A person like ladyinpink is one of the most honest and real true Filipina i've known here on VJ...

THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!!!! WEMISSDBIGDDAY.........THAT YOU RELATE ABOUT MY FEELING AND CONCERNED

IT DO SENT MEAN WE HAVE OUR OWN FAMILY IN THE USE WE FORGET OUR FAMILY IN THE PHILIPPINES AND DO SENT CARE ABOUT THEIR FEELING..WHAT EVER LONG PROCESSION WE ENDING IN THE CHURCH. MY MOM IS MY HERO SHE BROUGHT MY LIFE IN THIS WORLDS WITH FULL OF LOVE.

[Gumbolette 58]

I'm sorry you are feeling this way. I'm also afraid that time to come to me. I have my very loving family. And when I leave them, I know they will feel mixed emotions with happiness and loneliness.

nosebleed

Please don't be like this. you will never know when you'll feel this way.

I just wish you won't feel this way. I know there are people are not so given to what we have, but it doesn't necessary mean you have the right to condemn them.

Edited November 8, 2008 by my_panacea = Greg

[xylide 2]

I'm sorry you are feeling this way. I'm also afraid that time to come to me. I have my very loving family. And when I leave them, I know they will feel mixed emotions with happiness and loneliness.

i agree with u sis.. i know all of us here are feeling or felt the same way u are feeling right now.. i am thinking of that too,when i leave my family here,they will miss us and we will too, but im looking at the bright side of our future with my new family...

nosebleed

Please don't be like this. you will never know when you'll feel this way.

I just wish you won't feel this way. I know there are people are not so given to what we have, but it doesn't necessary mean you have the right to condemn them.

i agree with u again sis!

if theres nothing good to say,just shut their mouth coz this site was made to help people that is going through this hard process to be with our love ones... we are all doing the best we can just to shout out what we are feeling..

thats not funny! i do believe in karma!!!

Edited November 8, 2008 by xylide

[xylide 2]

I'm sorry you are feeling this way. I'm also afraid that time to come to me. I have my very loving family. And when I leave them, I know they will feel mixed emotions with happiness and loneliness.

i agree with u sis.. i know all of us here are feeling or felt the same way u are feeling right now.. i am thinking of that too,when i leave my family here,they will miss us and we will too, but im looking at the bright side of our future with my new family...

nosebleed

Please don't be like this. you will never know when you'll feel this way.

I just wish you won't feel this way. I know there are people are not so given to what we have, but it doesn't necessary mean you have the right to condemn them.

i agree with u again sis!

if theres nothing good to say,just shut their mouth coz this site was made to help people that is going through this hard process to be with our love ones... we are all doing the best we can just to shout out what we are feeling..

thats not funny! i do believe in karma!!!

[sj5 4]

I'm sorry to hear your situation. I didn't experienced your emotions so I don't know what it feels like. Edited November 8, 2008 by SJ

[AllRightsReserved 0]

nosebleed

what's this suppose to mean?

Go easy on this person please. It is obvious this person does not come from a loving family, has no heart and/or has issues that can only be dealt with by medication.

TexPamp

I DO NOT KNOW OF A MEDICATION FOR THE LACK OF RESPECT!!!

No medical intervention would be effective...this person will soon be 6ft below the ground.

[sj5 4]

Go easy on this person please. It is obvious this person does not come from a loving family, has no heart and/or has issues that can only be dealt with by medication.

TexPamp

I DO NOT KNOW OF A MEDICATION FOR THE LACK OF RESPECT!!!

No medical intervention would be effective...this person will soon be 6ft below the ground.

[cherryred_04 1]

in addition to many post reply i can feel it in my heart what LADYIN PINK feels when she is about to leave na for US,i have my loving mama also as the only daughter of the family i know how much love my mama have to me,by im only hoping she can understand,we are just a human being and all wishes for our happiness and also the happiness of all our family,i know it sad to be far from them but we all know also we do this all for the good in future not only for me alone,and to ease the sadness when we are already there we can still get in touch to them by way of calling,chating,seeing them on cam,what else and it would be good also if u gurls can get and advance payrole just in case if something happens before we can have the greencard we can fly back to phils if we have the advance payrole,okay just relax and be happy,rem we only live once so enjoy and spent happily the most it with someone u truly love...

in addition to many post reply i can feel it in my heart what LADYIN PINK feels when she is about to leave na for US,i have my loving mama also as the only daughter of the family i know how much love my mama have to me,by im only hoping she can understand,we are just a human being and all wishes for our happiness and also the happiness of all our family,i know it sad to be far from them but we all know also we do this all for the good in future not only for me alone,and to ease the sadness when we are already there we can still get in touch to them by way of calling,chating,seeing them on cam,what else and it would be good also if u gurls can get and advance payrole just in case if something happens before we can have the greencard we can fly back to phils if we have the advance payrole,okay just relax and be happy,rem we only live once so enjoy life,and spent happily the most it with someone u truly love...

[sj5 4]

I'm the most fortunate girl from Philippines.. I have no mama (sssshhh I'm ####### daughter..my father told me so.) Edited November 8, 2008 by SJ

[maritoni 3]

Do what ever you think is best for you......Yawning!

[ladyinpink 1]

Do what ever you think is best for you......Yawning!

to;jhon,jean, comments....i don't know of a medical for the lack of respect

to;allright reserved, comments no medical intervention would be effective below the 6ft below the ground

i agree with allright reserved............. ignorance is very expensive!!!!!!!!!!!!

[ladyinpink 1]

Do what ever you think is best for you......Yawning!

to;jhon,jean, comments....i don't know of a medical for the lack of respect

to;allright reserved, comments no medical intervention would be effective below the 6ft below the ground

i agree with allright reserved............. ignorance is very expensive!!!!!!!!!!!!

to!!!!!! all my loving Filipino vj who was family oriented and devoted to our family

thank you so much!!!! for all the support i fell better because of your support and wonderful comments

and spend time to read my post from the button of my heart i really appreciated it very much!!!!this site

i consider it my extension family thank you so much guys and god bless....

cherryred-o4,xylide,my panaceagrea,blukiss20,abbynormm1

allringhtsreserved,sonomocountygal,rickmi,5j

[Sinergy 3]

i dont think you should feel guilty at all. If your happy and inlove then go without guilt.

I think its wrong for all your family to show you how sad they are, they should be happy that you found love and happiness, no matter where it is.

Did you ever think maybe they are doing this so you would change your mind and not leave?

[Sinergy 3]

nosebleed

what's this suppose to mean?

Go easy on this person please. It is obvious this person does not come from a loving family, has no heart and/or has issues that can only be dealt with by medication.

TexPamp

I DO NOT KNOW OF A MEDICATION FOR THE LACK OF RESPECT!!!

No medical intervention would be effective...this person will soon be 6ft below the ground.

That was no more mature than the "nosebleed" comment

[MJ3lasvegas 0]

TO MJLASVEGAS SHE IS VERY HAPPY WHEN HER MOM DIE!!!!!! OR HAVING A HEART ATTACK!!!!!! RUD!!!! PILIPINA WOMAN GURLS YOU ARE NOT IN THIS WORLD IF YOU DON'T HAVE MOTHER!!!!!! I AM BORN WITH FULL OF LOVE AND ATTENTION OF MY FAMILY

DO SENT CARE HER MOTHER OR HER FAMILY HUH?

hmm, i'm not quite sure what this mean..