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[Rabi 0]

its been 3 years one month and 5 days ago

i didn't see him and i m missing my Husband so much...

i m eagerly waiting my VIsa please pray for me

im waitnig since last 3 years ...............

[siyaram 0]

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Mumbai, India

Marriage : 2007-01-20

I-130 Sent : 2007-03-03

I-130 NOA1 : 2007-05-10

I-129F Sent : 2008-04-03

I-129F NOA1 : 2008-05-27

this is my case nothing has turned up yet.What to do ?What these people are doing.If they tell us that there is some discrepancy then we will atleat try to give more proofs if they require but they dont send us anything.No paper except NOA 1 .How we sould come to know about the status?If my husband goes to the local consulate to ask them they tell to see the database of the processing dates which shows the same everytime.Are the people workign over there?I dont understand.

Your petition is past the processing times. I am sorry that you have to go through this. Please tell your husband to contact congressman and senator's office. Also tell him to contact VSC and request for status inquiry as it has taken unusually long. Please be proactive about your petition now. I hope a speedy approval for you.

[mkg265 2]

At least I have only 43 more days till I go to see him!!

I ended up watching old Albanian movies last night just to hear the language!

I miss my burre.

[Beautiful_years 0]

Sorry Ladies, it does suck to wait and be away... cos time has a way of running slowly when you are waiting... be strong, you ll be together soon.

It almost seemed like forever to me but now we are together and i tell you the waiting was "worth it"

Now i have a different kind of waiting on USCIS but its easier to wait with him by my side and knowing even after work he ll be coming straight home to me!

Just wanted to cheer you all up.

Hope i helped a tiny weeny bit?

Love works and yes together we can!

[crazyinEgypt 0]

Hang in there everyone

[trinidad-lohner 0]

i miss my husband sooooooo bad....though he was just here in august....

im waiting for k3 visa, too...though now, i have been married more than a year....i was interviewed at the manila us embassy on september 4th and until now, my case is still being reviewed by my CO, like most of us september interviewees here in the philippines....still praying, hoping and waiting for visa.....we can't figure out what the problem is since both of us were never married before our marriage and had no criminal case whatsoever....

our system here sucks!!! the addition of the documents verification process even made the waiting unbearable....

[amberL 0]

the whole system really does suck. after reading some of the timelines/posts by the people who are doing the K3 visa route i feel kinda better, but i still really miss my boyfriend. I just came home from visiting him on Monday and here i am sitting here, having to leave for work in an hour and im bawling my eyes out. i hate this soo much. its been only 42 days since our NOA (thank god we had a touch last week, it kinda brightens my day) i try and rationalize and try and guess how much time has still to pass but its awful. in my head im like well 42 days have passed and the average for the past year has been x days so im z% done waiting.... im bobarded with the what ifs and the uncertainty is driving my insane. the first week back is always the worst, i remember the second time i came back to canada back in the summer i couldnt eat or sleep for 4 days. i was a zombie. today i looked at booking my flight for my xmas visit and it made me feel a bit better but i almost dont want to go because then i have to face this horrible feeling that i feel now all over again. :'(

Edited November 6, 2008 by amberL

[Sweetpea-n-Poppy 0]

Hi everyone!

I know how difficult it is being apart from the one you love. My husband and I went the K-1 route, so he could come here and we could marry. I can’t imagine being married and having to be away from your husband. We officially met in London last November, and that’s when we knew we had to be together. We filed our K-1 petition in December, his visa was granted in July, he came here in August, we married in October, and now we get to go through another waiting game, however; this time we can do it together, side by side and that is SO much better. Hang in there! One thing is certain…we will know how to appreciate our husbands! We know what it’s like to be apart, therefore; we will never take them for granted. Michael, my hubby, always told me when I would get upset…â€Nothing in life worth having ever comes easy.†That is quite true…good things come to those who wait. *hugs*

Edited November 6, 2008 by Sweetpea-n-Poppy

[notime4haterz 0]

Rabi! Oh my God! You've been waiting for 3 years???? Why???? That is downright inhumane!

Well I don't feel any better today. I was listening to music on my way to work and it just made me miss him more...

I'm just a mess. I've been crying on and off all day today. It must be hormones mixed with missing him terribly!

I guess we all have "missing him so much" hormones LOL

[nowhereman 1]

Hang in there... my fiancee and I have waited over a year to be together, but she will be here in 9 days! Stay busy (my work didn't give me much of a choice there), keep in touch & find something relaxing to do (beer & a good cigar on my patio worked for me lol).

[Rabi 0]

i have been married more than 3 years

Missing HIm So MUch........................MY Husband is So Caring......................SoCute.....................

Pray For MY k3 Visa Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!and Packet 4

I M So SAd...............

Furstrated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

[babyanna 0]

AND I AM IN TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. I really miss my husband so much I had never felt the days so long like that before away from him. I feel down so many moments but then I think about the hope that we will be together some day soon. I sit at my apt so lonely after my job and I feel like I really do not wanna do any thing but think about him, I wish I have the magic stick to do some thing about it.

[e-migra 4]

Ohhhh... this is so HARD!!!!! It really hurts... I want my American...

we must be strong and try not to waste too much kleenexes...

GOOD LUCK

[njaxfl 0]

I do miss my husband too.

I've already said this on my previous post but,i feel so sad reading this whole waiting period coz i and my husband experienced the same thing.We waited 12 months long for the petition approval and over 3 months more after visa interview and delivery of visa- it made me so sick and tired but we hold on to what we have promised to each other when we got married.Finally here in America,1 month today since we arrived here together with my 2children.Amazing coz It feels like we've been together for 20 yrs,things are doing pretty well as part of our master plan.Hold on ladies and it all paid off and it's always fun and satisfying to look back after what we all we've been through!

Edited November 7, 2008 by wemissedbigdaddy

[Paul's Mrs. 0]

Man I feel all your pain. Luckily we have got through the process fairly quick. Even though it has been speedy, I have been crying my eyes out all day. We are waiting for an interview and were almost certain that it would be December but they said that all the Dec interviews for Sydney were already taken and that they thought February interviews looked the best for us. So I called back and they said that they hadn't started to give out December interviews yet. I don't know which lady to trust. Either way, just the thought of my hubby being gone for Christmas makes me so sad and I haven't been able to stop crying all day....