Yardies at home and farrin (part 9)

[*JG* 2]

Okay ladies, I am a to each it's own type of person. So in saying that, if Joel was to take me his WIFE to one of thise places, I would just shoot him right there in the club.

Now, if we were GF and BF and he was to take me to one of those places I might not kill him, but I would question his good sense in it. I am aware that curiosity got the cat, so was it worth it?

Whats the difference? He's still your man, your still his woman. There are still other women and other sexuality in YOUR relationship. Dont matter if you are married.

Marlita no it shouldn't matter, but as Gf and BF we are not totally committed, so if he is trying to test me, so be it. But as my husband, I am his to protect and cherished. So if he isn't trying to do that, I have just be told by his actions that I am not worthy of his protection.

Girl dont wait til marriage to find out if he gonna do that. If you my BF, treat me as wifey!

It's not my thing for any reason at all.....just met, GF, wife......None of it.

[solsoeur 0]

Sus what internet service did you go with to be able to use your laptop in JA. I have received alot of conflicting information on this. If you don't mind the question.

Roxcie, I didn't go with an internet service - the laptop has a wireless card - I bought a Linksys WPC55AG, which can reach an 802.11a or an 802.11b/g network, which are the common one in JA through C&W - As long as you are in range of someone with a wireless router that isn't locked down you can pick up the net.

Sus I am confused is the Linksys the wireless card? I am having these conversations constantly with Garth. I know his laptop has a card that can pick up signals it is finding a signal to pick up on that is his problem.

[Yaads 0]

ahhaaa..u betta no ignore mi post dem..u can ignore every body else..but mek sure yuh read all a fi mi dem..patois and all....

Lawd yuh nah easy!

[Marlita 0]

Marlita, if it expires next year, then you'll will have to apply for the 10 year GC, since by then you'll will be going on your second anniversay.

I guess so. I guess I always thought that they gave you 2 years conditional card in the beginning, and then you apply. But sounds like they give you conditional green card til you make your 2 year anniversary. I guess thats good. By next year he wil have his 10 year card. All we are waiting for now is the SS card, so he can start applying for jobs for the holidays. its a good time to get a job, everyone is hiring for the season now.

That really sucks. So, what is the benefits of filing the CR-1 for those who are weighing getting married or not before filing?

Its not AOS, its just removing conditions. You just remove them earlier than a K1 person cause you are married already. Basically by the 2nd year of your marriage you should be removing conditions. We were married over a year but living apart, but USCIS still counts that time period so come our 2 year anniversary we have to remove conditions. its actually nicer, we get out of USCIS earlier than expected.

[sus 70]

Okay ladies, I am a to each it's own type of person. So in saying that, if Joel was to take me his WIFE to one of thise places, I would just shoot him right there in the club.

Now, if we were GF and BF and he was to take me to one of those places I might not kill him, but I would question his good sense in it. I am aware that curiosity got the cat, so was it worth it?

Whats the difference? He's still your man, your still his woman. There are still other women and other sexuality in YOUR relationship. Dont matter if you are married.

Marlita no it shouldn't matter, but as Gf and BF we are not totally committed, so if he is trying to test me, so be it. But as my husband, I am his to protect and cherished. So if he isn't trying to do that, I have just be told by his actions that I am not worthy of his protection.

Girl dont wait til marriage to find out if he gonna do that. If you my BF, treat me as wifey!

I agree with you, Marlita - I also think it depends on what your own personal belief is - To each there own - if someone enjoys strip clubs, that's there perogative, same as porn - I don't see my SO liking that or taking me to a strip club as disrespect of me or testing of my relationship - I dislike what strip clubs stand for and how they degrade women as a whole - But people make their own choices in life.

[Yaads 0]

So a ongly fi yuh posts worthy? Yaads, read fi mi too yah...altho a nuh much still

hehehe Mi a be like Claire...mi a go read every single ting...mi nah waan fi miss no suss

[sus 70]

Sus I am confused is the Linksys the wireless card? I am having these conversations constantly with Garth. I know his laptop has a card that can pick up signals it is finding a signal to pick up on that is his problem.

Sol, yes - Linksys is the brand of wireless card I bought - There aren't that many people who have wireless in JA, depending on the area you are in - it's not always that his card won't link, it's that there isn't an available network. Usually near the large hotels / business areas you can find them.

[*JG* 2]

Mi naw see nuttin at Shades...

LMAO - what were you doing?

Those girls that work at Shades, for the most part - are seriously hooked on drugs - They are making about $2000 a night to do what they do - Someone that lived in DJ's district worked there - Sad -

absolutely !!

I'd have to be too to think that is a good job to have.

[Marlita 0]

Still catching up

Congrats to everyone on their weightloss How wonderful!

Love the Halloween pics JG!

Many prayers for JALove I sure hope she is ok.

What happend to JALove? I have missed alot. Is she ok?

she had seizures after complaining of terrible headaches

OMG! What kinda seizure? Is she well? That scares me cause I get such bad headaches all the time. Was it from the pregnancy or birth?

[*JG* 2]

Its not AOS, its just removing conditions. You just remove them earlier than a K1 person cause you are married already. Basically by the 2nd year of your marriage you should be removing conditions. We were married over a year but living apart, but USCIS still counts that time period so come our 2 year anniversary we have to remove conditions. its actually nicer, we get out of USCIS earlier than expected.

Just months though. Cause we were removing conditions just 2 months AFTER our 2 year anniversary.

I don't know why I thought it was nothing after he got here for you.

That really sucks. So, what is the benefits of filing the CR-1 for those who are weighing getting married or not before filing?

Edited November 3, 2008 by Jomo's girl

[SupportOAFJF 0]

that's what they r trying to figure out Lita...

[Yaads 0]

Okay ladies, I am a to each it's own type of person. So in saying that, if Joel was to take me his WIFE to one of thise places, I would just shoot him right there in the club.

Now, if we were GF and BF and he was to take me to one of those places I might not kill him, but I would question his good sense in it. I am aware that curiosity got the cat, so was it worth it?

Whats the difference? He's still your man, your still his woman. There are still other women and other sexuality in YOUR relationship. Dont matter if you are married.

I couldn't agree more. That kind of environment is a no go from day 1.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Jg..i would think that the ppl wanting to file CR1 should discuss if they are gonna be apart for 2yrs so then they will get their 10yr..it's also cheaper in the end ?

wow..13 of us..and no duppies or guest..for the 1st time in a long time

[solsoeur 0]

Sus you said those girls at shades making $2000 a day isn't that around $25 us or so a day?! Isn't there something better you can do to make that? Just wondering out loud.

[Yaads 0]

Did you ever discuss that with Rhonda? That's Tony's field as well, right?

I don't remember. Geesh it has been too long since I talked to Rhonda.