Yardies at home and farrin (part 9)

[shrewdgal 0]

BUT u know..in JA it is stil very still accepted for the woman to not work and the man to provide..

and i think thats okay if you are in a RELATIONSHIP

i mean..helloo..... baby momma doesnt mean much more than a little, sperm on egg action....

maybe it used to mean more..but not if you arent together!

BUT u know..in JA it is stil very still accepted for the woman to not work and the man to provide..

You know, I am okay with that when in a relationship or married. But, when not in that relationship anymore, I think it's kind of ####### to expect to NEVER have to work. You know?

My SIL is in NY (right now, anyhow) and she still has that mentatlity.

exactly!

[Yaads 0]

Anybody ever do Night Auditor work for a hotel before or know anyone who has? Just wondering what kind of work it would be.

[shrewdgal 0]

I GOT A HEART!

[^KK^ 3]

I GOT A HEART!

Congrats

[dillon 6]

Anybody ever do Night Auditor work for a hotel before or know anyone who has? Just wondering what kind of work it would be.

I have a friend who just got hired here for that position. I think tonight will be his third night on the job...I will ask him what they have him doing. I know it is taking a lot out of him getting used to that schedule.

[WestmorelandLove 0]

I'm with you Kimmy no tv in the bedroom. I read it kills the romance I have never had a tv in my room for that reason and I never will.

TV's in the bedroom can kill the romance - but in my case it wasn't the tv

I'M SORRY I HAD TO PAM...

And people always wondering why I'm always talking about going to therapy.

[wakeywakeup 1]

Hi Everyone!!! Waving

This last couple of weeks has been a tornado of events. The biggest is dental work for hubby!! to the tune of almost $5000!!!!!!!!!! Lord all I can tell you is he requires so much stuff to be done to his mouth and our insurance is only covering a small amount.

When I call the insurance company they give me much lower prices to pay than the dentist. However, dentist insist they are right and we are wrong. Not sure what we're going to do at this point.

Hubby says dental work in JA is much cheaper but he never was able to go because he was busy taking care of all the rest of the family and making sure they were alright - ray ray ray.

If this is true I would recomend this be added to the list of things to do before your SO comes to the states.

I saw the wonderful birthday wishes from you guys and truly want to say thank you thank you

What's being going on in the VJ world i'm so many pages behind?

Wakey

[Yaads 0]

Anybody ever do Night Auditor work for a hotel before or know anyone who has? Just wondering what kind of work it would be.

I have a friend who just got hired here for that position. I think tonight will be his third night on the job...I will ask him what they have him doing. I know it is taking a lot out of him getting used to that schedule.

Thanks Dillon. Yeah the schedule seems killer...not sure if it would be worth it the havoc it would do to your body.

[WestmorelandLove 0]

So i was just outside with hubby..his phone rings (babymodda) me..wah she want while he's on the phone him..mi no know yet Kimmy him..start laughing....me..wah dis..oonuh a big fren now??/ him..no, mi tell har she no call unless she want something and last time when she call fi no reason mi ask har if it a rain..and gues wah it is raining..dat woman don't call till payday..like she know how him money a mek or she a help him mek it...sh eno affi call fi get the girls money...pisses me off that she does all the freakin time...oonuh blame mi

Kimmy;

Like u no know seh dem can smell money

Its not only pickney madda calling - my ex left his youngest son with a cousin (have the same last name - from the same district). After he got here - I sent some money for him - it wasn't a week later the cousin called and said that the school said he needed his teeth cleaned and she needed some money. I was like WTH - we sent her enough money to get his teeth done. I asked my ex - I say when was the last time your son went to the dentist - he said he's never been. I blew a gasket - why was it so important to get his teeth cleaned now - he was ten and had never been to see a dentist. My children started going to damn dentist at like 3-4 years old. I understand that its different in Jamaica - I didn't believe the school would tell them that unless he was complaining of tooth pain or something. Mi tink de cousin tink I'm made of gold and have some ov de money trees growing in mi yaad.

[^KK^ 3]

Hi Everyone!!! Waving

This last couple of weeks has been a tornado of events. The biggest is dental work for hubby!! to the tune of almost $5000!!!!!!!!!! Lord all I can tell you is he requires so much stuff to be done to his mouth and our insurance is only covering a small amount.

When I call the insurance company they give me much lower prices to pay than the dentist. However, dentist insist they are right and we are wrong. Not sure what we're going to do at this point.

Hubby says dental work in JA is much cheaper but he never was able to go because he was busy taking care of all the rest of the family and making sure they were alright - ray ray ray.

If this is true I would recomend this be added to the list of things to do before your SO comes to the states.

I saw the wonderful birthday wishes from you guys and truly want to say thank you thank you

What's being going on in the VJ world i'm so many pages behind?

Wakey

Wakey - NO....they just pulled my husband's tooth whenever he went to dentist in Jamaica.

We went to dentist here. He needs some fillings..but no where near $5000..

[clairern 0]

OK..SINCE IT LOOK LIKE NO BODY NEVA HEAR MI DI FUSS TIME..

KIMORA SAID THE PLEDGE OF ALLEGIANCE TODAY...THE WHOLE DYAM TING..MI TINK SHE WOULD BUCK BUT SHE DIDN'T..MY BOOBULA...LOVE HER !! SO PROUD..BUT I GUESS ALL 3 YR OLDS SAY IT HUH

Oh Kimmy That is sooooo special. She is a smartie like her mom, isn't she? Give her one big kiss for me. She gets three stars....

I wanted to answer before but the post was too long and i hate those loooooonnnngg replies taht I have to scroll alllllll the waaaaayy dowwnnnnn to read.. Any you know that I have to read every single post, no matter how far back and how long it takes me.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Hi Wakey...(waving)

Pam..in JA ost schools have dental trips..do u guys notice how many ppl in JA have alot of dental caries...

[wakeywakeup 1]

Wakey - NO....they just pulled my husband's tooth whenever he went to dentist in Jamaica.

We went to dentist here. He needs some fillings..but no where near $5000..

I wish our was that simple. If they pull every tooth they plan to work on for him he would be bare mouth! He needs root canals, crowns, bridges, and wisdom teeth pulled.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

and i think thats okay if you are in a RELATIONSHIP

i mean..helloo..... baby momma doesnt mean much more than a little, sperm on egg action....

maybe it used to mean more..but not if you arent together!

right! but if she no ave no skill never ever worked wah him a go do? mek him pickney dem starve just cause a she? mi no tink so...when she give dem lunch money and buy food wah she ave lef really? mi know not much a rass...wah him a go do force har fi go wuk.

We no ave spousal support in the US? wah di man affi maintain the ooman lifestyle wah she did ave b4 a divorce? trust..mi no in no way shape or form condoning wah she a gwaan..but like mi seh WAH MI A GO GO!!

how would u solve that Shrewdie?

Thanks Clairey she fiesty di same way to

[WestmorelandLove 0]

Hi Wakey...(waving)

Pam..in JA ost schools have dental trips..do u guys notice how many ppl in JA have alot of dental caries...

And on those dental trips - do the children get their teeth cleaned. What if the parents can't afford it? Then what happens.? The amount the cousin needed wasn't bad - but mi being a newbie to the "send money" trail I sent a nice sum the week prior to the dentist incident. Enough for at least 10 children to get their damn teeth cleaned . After this happened I told the ex - we will send money monthly and your cousin will have to make do. And if she can't then she can just wait to you start working.