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[pushbrk 12,822]

I wonder what things like "This stuff about 40-somethings and gals in their late teens is Puritanism left over from the early 20th century." actually mean. Is the label supposed to somehow make it OK then for 40-somethings to be into young girls? I see it as either lazy argument style or substanceless argument style. It is like referencing the crusades when bashing Christianity.

Ma Z, you are clearly losing this one. LOL. Take that puritan/judgemental stick you got up your booty about the age issue and relax. Your judgemental Feminizai attitude is another reason why I run away from Western woman. Geesh.

I once read where a 55 yr old guy married a 18 yr old girl and brought her to the states and she looked like 13. (You guys know how young filipinas can look at 18) Well, he reported that American woman(never men), always came up to his wife when he was out of earshot and asked "are you ok little gilr? Is this man really yoru husband? Do we need to call the police? Are you being kidnapped?". Ahhhhh, I love it!! Thast what I want. I want to bring a really petitie humble shy quiet LEGAL 18 or 19 yr old who looks underage so I can relish in these feminists western woman who CANT ST AND it!! It would make my day every day!!!

The Mz Z's would be having heart attacks, and pointing out "look at that bad man" , that childmolester.

reminds me of the first 8 weeks i spent in china.

i was in this little city (6 M) where many foreigners tourist, but few live. i was walking through the downtown one day looking for a barber shop, and two cute local girls struck up a conversation with me in broken english. i told them i was looking to get my hair cut, and the next thing you know, i was in a beauty shop with a bunch of neo-punk green-haired mini-skirted jack-booted honeys taking turns on my lap playing with the blonde curly hair. i just sat there with a poker face pretending that $hit happened to me all the time, and everything was cool.

i ended up "dating" those girls just as friends, and one day took them to a big bhuddist site that was popular with western tourists. some europeans were in a group blocking the stairs in front of us, so i stood there between the girls, who were wearing minis and nancy sinatra white boots and hanging on my arms.

one of them asked the portly matron closest to us if she spoke english, and was she american? she looked down her nose pointedly at me as she answered that yes, she spoke english, and no, she was belgian. i just grinned at her and said that i was american. she looked at me and said "I know."

priceless.

I'm 11 years older than my wife and people always think she and her 20 year old daughter are sisters. Let them think what they want of me. We're happy.

[Y's_habibitk 2]

I wonder what things like "This stuff about 40-somethings and gals in their late teens is Puritanism left over from the early 20th century." actually mean. Is the label supposed to somehow make it OK then for 40-somethings to be into young girls? I see it as either lazy argument style or substanceless argument style. It is like referencing the crusades when bashing Christianity.

Ma Z, you are clearly losing this one. LOL. Take that puritan/judgemental stick you got up your booty about the age issue and relax. Your judgemental Feminizai attitude is another reason why I run away from Western woman. Geesh.

I once read where a 55 yr old guy married a 18 yr old girl and brought her to the states and she looked like 13. (You guys know how young filipinas can look at 18) Well, he reported that American woman(never men), always came up to his wife when he was out of earshot and asked "are you ok little gilr? Is this man really yoru husband? Do we need to call the police? Are you being kidnapped?". Ahhhhh, I love it!! Thast what I want. I want to bring a really petitie humble shy quiet LEGAL 18 or 19 yr old who looks underage so I can relish in these feminists western woman who CANT ST AND it!! It would make my day every day!!!

The Mz Z's would be having heart attacks, and pointing out "look at that bad man" , that childmolester.

THAT is probably why the women ask "are you ok, little girl?" It's not that they "cant stand it". They are being typical,average women and looking out for who they perceive to be a CHILD. The men dont approach, because it's not typical for a man. How often would you see a man approach a child in a park to ask if they were ok if there wasnt a parent around? nope, its the chicks.

So, if its jealousy you are after..get a HOT 20 or 30(who looks 20) something to hang on your arm. then they "couldnt stand it".

[Brad and Vika 129]

I wonder what things like "This stuff about 40-somethings and gals in their late teens is Puritanism left over from the early 20th century." actually mean. Is the label supposed to somehow make it OK then for 40-somethings to be into young girls? I see it as either lazy argument style or substanceless argument style. It is like referencing the crusades when bashing Christianity.

Ma Z, you are clearly losing this one. LOL. Take that puritan/judgemental stick you got up your booty about the age issue and relax. Your judgemental Feminizai attitude is another reason why I run away from Western woman. Geesh.

I once read where a 55 yr old guy married a 18 yr old girl and brought her to the states and she looked like 13. (You guys know how young filipinas can look at 18) Well, he reported that American woman(never men), always came up to his wife when he was out of earshot and asked "are you ok little gilr? Is this man really yoru husband? Do we need to call the police? Are you being kidnapped?". Ahhhhh, I love it!! Thast what I want. I want to bring a really petitie humble shy quiet LEGAL 18 or 19 yr old who looks underage so I can relish in these feminists western woman who CANT ST AND it!! It would make my day every day!!!

The Mz Z's would be having heart attacks, and pointing out "look at that bad man" , that childmolester.

THAT is probably why the women ask "are you ok, little girl?" It's not that they "cant stand it". They are being typical,average women and looking out for who they perceive to be a CHILD. The men dont approach, because it's not typical for a man. How often would you see a man approach a child in a park to ask if they were ok if there wasnt a parent around? nope, its the chicks.

So, if its jealousy you are after..get a HOT 20 or 30(who looks 20) something to hang on your arm. then they "couldnt stand it".

Guys don't typically approach young, unattended kids in parks for the obvious reason that we do not want to be cast as some kind of pedophile or chicken hawk. Simple as that. It isn't that we don't care, or that we don't want to help and protect children, we just don't need some fanatical man-hater "protecting" them from our sincere offer of concern or help that way. The only way to avoid the situation for sure is to avoid the contact (unless of course you can see real harm to the kid is imminent).

I wonder what things like "This stuff about 40-somethings and gals in their late teens is Puritanism left over from the early 20th century." actually mean. Is the label supposed to somehow make it OK then for 40-somethings to be into young girls? I see it as either lazy argument style or substanceless argument style. It is like referencing the crusades when bashing Christianity.

Ma Z, you are clearly losing this one. LOL. Take that puritan/judgemental stick you got up your booty about the age issue and relax. Your judgemental Feminizai attitude is another reason why I run away from Western woman. Geesh.

I once read where a 55 yr old guy married a 18 yr old girl and brought her to the states and she looked like 13. (You guys know how young filipinas can look at 18) Well, he reported that American woman(never men), always came up to his wife when he was out of earshot and asked "are you ok little gilr? Is this man really yoru husband? Do we need to call the police? Are you being kidnapped?". Ahhhhh, I love it!! Thast what I want. I want to bring a really petitie humble shy quiet LEGAL 18 or 19 yr old who looks underage so I can relish in these feminists western woman who CANT ST AND it!! It would make my day every day!!!

The Mz Z's would be having heart attacks, and pointing out "look at that bad man" , that childmolester.

reminds me of the first 8 weeks i spent in china.

i was in this little city (6 M) where many foreigners tourist, but few live. i was walking through the downtown one day looking for a barber shop, and two cute local girls struck up a conversation with me in broken english. i told them i was looking to get my hair cut, and the next thing you know, i was in a beauty shop with a bunch of neo-punk green-haired mini-skirted jack-booted honeys taking turns on my lap playing with the blonde curly hair. i just sat there with a poker face pretending that $hit happened to me all the time, and everything was cool.

i ended up "dating" those girls just as friends, and one day took them to a big bhuddist site that was popular with western tourists. some europeans were in a group blocking the stairs in front of us, so i stood there between the girls, who were wearing minis and nancy sinatra white boots and hanging on my arms.

one of them asked the portly matron closest to us if she spoke english, and was she american? she looked down her nose pointedly at me as she answered that yes, she spoke english, and no, she was belgian. i just grinned at her and said that i was american. she looked at me and said "I know."

priceless.

I would have announced to the men in the group that I new a great place to get them on a two-for-one special.

[Craneman 2]

I beleive it was Benjamin Franklin who said that the perfect wife should half the mans age plus 1 year.

[justashooter 430]

I beleive it was Benjamin Franklin who said that the perfect wife should half the mans age plus 1 year.

then mine is too damned old. i'm 45, so she should be 23.5, but she's 27. i'll have to boot her when i get home.

[Brad and Vika 129]

I beleive it was Benjamin Franklin who said that the perfect wife should half the mans age plus 1 year.

then mine is too damned old. i'm 45, so she should be 23.5, but she's 27. i'll have to boot her when i get home.

Me too My wife is 27, and I am 44. Sorry sweetie

[Y's_habibitk 2]

I wonder what things like "This stuff about 40-somethings and gals in their late teens is Puritanism left over from the early 20th century." actually mean. Is the label supposed to somehow make it OK then for 40-somethings to be into young girls? I see it as either lazy argument style or substanceless argument style. It is like referencing the crusades when bashing Christianity.

Ma Z, you are clearly losing this one. LOL. Take that puritan/judgemental stick you got up your booty about the age issue and relax. Your judgemental Feminizai attitude is another reason why I run away from Western woman. Geesh.

I once read where a 55 yr old guy married a 18 yr old girl and brought her to the states and she looked like 13. (You guys know how young filipinas can look at 18) Well, he reported that American woman(never men), always came up to his wife when he was out of earshot and asked "are you ok little gilr? Is this man really yoru husband? Do we need to call the police? Are you being kidnapped?". Ahhhhh, I love it!! Thast what I want. I want to bring a really petitie humble shy quiet LEGAL 18 or 19 yr old who looks underage so I can relish in these feminists western woman who CANT ST AND it!! It would make my day every day!!!

The Mz Z's would be having heart attacks, and pointing out "look at that bad man" , that childmolester.

THAT is probably why the women ask "are you ok, little girl?" It's not that they "cant stand it". They are being typical,average women and looking out for who they perceive to be a CHILD. The men dont approach, because it's not typical for a man. How often would you see a man approach a child in a park to ask if they were ok if there wasnt a parent around? nope, its the chicks.

So, if its jealousy you are after..get a HOT 20 or 30(who looks 20) something to hang on your arm. then they "couldnt stand it".

Guys don't typically approach young, unattended kids in parks for the obvious reason that we do not want to be cast as some kind of pedophile or chicken hawk. Simple as that. It isn't that we don't care, or that we don't want to help and protect children, we just don't need some fanatical man-hater "protecting" them from our sincere offer of concern or help that way. The only way to avoid the situation for sure is to avoid the contact (unless of course you can see real harm to the kid is imminent).

That is a very good, yet sad point. I wasnt saying that you guys dont care. I know you guys have that protective instinct too, maybe not as pronounced as us moms

My point was that women arent approaching these girls because they are jealous or hateful, but they probably are genuinely concerned.

ok back to whatever the topic was. heh

carry on

[Craneman 2]

Me too mines is 37 and I 58

She is older than my kids though.

I beleive it was Benjamin Franklin who said that the perfect wife should half the mans age plus 1 year.

[Brad and Vika 129]

I wonder what things like "This stuff about 40-somethings and gals in their late teens is Puritanism left over from the early 20th century." actually mean. Is the label supposed to somehow make it OK then for 40-somethings to be into young girls? I see it as either lazy argument style or substanceless argument style. It is like referencing the crusades when bashing Christianity.

Ma Z, you are clearly losing this one. LOL. Take that puritan/judgemental stick you got up your booty about the age issue and relax. Your judgemental Feminizai attitude is another reason why I run away from Western woman. Geesh.

I once read where a 55 yr old guy married a 18 yr old girl and brought her to the states and she looked like 13. (You guys know how young filipinas can look at 18) Well, he reported that American woman(never men), always came up to his wife when he was out of earshot and asked "are you ok little gilr? Is this man really yoru husband? Do we need to call the police? Are you being kidnapped?". Ahhhhh, I love it!! Thast what I want. I want to bring a really petitie humble shy quiet LEGAL 18 or 19 yr old who looks underage so I can relish in these feminists western woman who CANT ST AND it!! It would make my day every day!!!

The Mz Z's would be having heart attacks, and pointing out "look at that bad man" , that childmolester.

THAT is probably why the women ask "are you ok, little girl?" It's not that they "cant stand it". They are being typical,average women and looking out for who they perceive to be a CHILD. The men dont approach, because it's not typical for a man. How often would you see a man approach a child in a park to ask if they were ok if there wasnt a parent around? nope, its the chicks.

So, if its jealousy you are after..get a HOT 20 or 30(who looks 20) something to hang on your arm. then they "couldnt stand it".

Guys don't typically approach young, unattended kids in parks for the obvious reason that we do not want to be cast as some kind of pedophile or chicken hawk. Simple as that. It isn't that we don't care, or that we don't want to help and protect children, we just don't need some fanatical man-hater "protecting" them from our sincere offer of concern or help that way. The only way to avoid the situation for sure is to avoid the contact (unless of course you can see real harm to the kid is imminent).

That is a very good, yet sad point. I wasnt saying that you guys dont care. I know you guys have that protective instinct too, maybe not as pronounced as us moms

My point was that women arent approaching these girls because they are jealous or hateful, but they probably are genuinely concerned.

ok back to whatever the topic was. heh

carry on

I appreciate your response, and in all fairness want to acknowledge the elephant in the room. Children in distress in a park are not at all similar to the teenage brides described in earlier posts. I do agree that many moms (especially) do have well developed protective instincts, but do you really think that women who see a 55 year old guy with his 19 year old wife are really wondering if she is safe? I think the "are you all right honey?" inquiries would mostly be to send the guy a message, no?

[Y's_habibitk 2]

I wonder what things like "This stuff about 40-somethings and gals in their late teens is Puritanism left over from the early 20th century." actually mean. Is the label supposed to somehow make it OK then for 40-somethings to be into young girls? I see it as either lazy argument style or substanceless argument style. It is like referencing the crusades when bashing Christianity.

Ma Z, you are clearly losing this one. LOL. Take that puritan/judgemental stick you got up your booty about the age issue and relax. Your judgemental Feminizai attitude is another reason why I run away from Western woman. Geesh.

I once read where a 55 yr old guy married a 18 yr old girl and brought her to the states and she looked like 13. (You guys know how young filipinas can look at 18) Well, he reported that American woman(never men), always came up to his wife when he was out of earshot and asked "are you ok little gilr? Is this man really yoru husband? Do we need to call the police? Are you being kidnapped?". Ahhhhh, I love it!! Thast what I want. I want to bring a really petitie humble shy quiet LEGAL 18 or 19 yr old who looks underage so I can relish in these feminists western woman who CANT ST AND it!! It would make my day every day!!!

The Mz Z's would be having heart attacks, and pointing out "look at that bad man" , that childmolester.

THAT is probably why the women ask "are you ok, little girl?" It's not that they "cant stand it". They are being typical,average women and looking out for who they perceive to be a CHILD. The men dont approach, because it's not typical for a man. How often would you see a man approach a child in a park to ask if they were ok if there wasnt a parent around? nope, its the chicks.

So, if its jealousy you are after..get a HOT 20 or 30(who looks 20) something to hang on your arm. then they "couldnt stand it".

Guys don't typically approach young, unattended kids in parks for the obvious reason that we do not want to be cast as some kind of pedophile or chicken hawk. Simple as that. It isn't that we don't care, or that we don't want to help and protect children, we just don't need some fanatical man-hater "protecting" them from our sincere offer of concern or help that way. The only way to avoid the situation for sure is to avoid the contact (unless of course you can see real harm to the kid is imminent).

That is a very good, yet sad point. I wasnt saying that you guys dont care. I know you guys have that protective instinct too, maybe not as pronounced as us moms

My point was that women arent approaching these girls because they are jealous or hateful, but they probably are genuinely concerned.

ok back to whatever the topic was. heh

carry on

I appreciate your response, and in all fairness want to acknowledge the elephant in the room. Children in distress in a park are not at all similar to the teenage brides described in earlier posts. I do agree that many moms (especially) do have well developed protective instincts, but do you really think that women who see a 55 year old guy with his 19 year old wife are really wondering if she is safe? I think the "are you all right honey?" inquiries would mostly be to send the guy a message, no?

I dont know? i really dont think so. the fact that the poster that i quoted said "who looks underage". So i imagined a VERY young(like a 13yo looking in the story) girl with a 55 y.o and how a nosey, well meaning woman would try to make sure she was ok.

I guess thats a pretty naive idea, but the story said "out of earshot" so I didnt read it as a blow to the guy.

Now, if a girl is obviously of legal age and some lady asked that, well then ya, she'd be a nosey, mean spirited,bitter woman who needs to get over it

editted to add that your news pics are so nice! Your wife is gorgeous

Edited March 19, 2009 by Y's_habibitk

[Brad and Vika 129]

I wonder what things like "This stuff about 40-somethings and gals in their late teens is Puritanism left over from the early 20th century." actually mean. Is the label supposed to somehow make it OK then for 40-somethings to be into young girls? I see it as either lazy argument style or substanceless argument style. It is like referencing the crusades when bashing Christianity.

Ma Z, you are clearly losing this one. LOL. Take that puritan/judgemental stick you got up your booty about the age issue and relax. Your judgemental Feminizai attitude is another reason why I run away from Western woman. Geesh.

I once read where a 55 yr old guy married a 18 yr old girl and brought her to the states and she looked like 13. (You guys know how young filipinas can look at 18) Well, he reported that American woman(never men), always came up to his wife when he was out of earshot and asked "are you ok little gilr? Is this man really yoru husband? Do we need to call the police? Are you being kidnapped?". Ahhhhh, I love it!! Thast what I want. I want to bring a really petitie humble shy quiet LEGAL 18 or 19 yr old who looks underage so I can relish in these feminists western woman who CANT ST AND it!! It would make my day every day!!!

The Mz Z's would be having heart attacks, and pointing out "look at that bad man" , that childmolester.

THAT is probably why the women ask "are you ok, little girl?" It's not that they "cant stand it". They are being typical,average women and looking out for who they perceive to be a CHILD. The men dont approach, because it's not typical for a man. How often would you see a man approach a child in a park to ask if they were ok if there wasnt a parent around? nope, its the chicks.

So, if its jealousy you are after..get a HOT 20 or 30(who looks 20) something to hang on your arm. then they "couldnt stand it".

Guys don't typically approach young, unattended kids in parks for the obvious reason that we do not want to be cast as some kind of pedophile or chicken hawk. Simple as that. It isn't that we don't care, or that we don't want to help and protect children, we just don't need some fanatical man-hater "protecting" them from our sincere offer of concern or help that way. The only way to avoid the situation for sure is to avoid the contact (unless of course you can see real harm to the kid is imminent).

That is a very good, yet sad point. I wasnt saying that you guys dont care. I know you guys have that protective instinct too, maybe not as pronounced as us moms

My point was that women arent approaching these girls because they are jealous or hateful, but they probably are genuinely concerned.

ok back to whatever the topic was. heh

carry on

I appreciate your response, and in all fairness want to acknowledge the elephant in the room. Children in distress in a park are not at all similar to the teenage brides described in earlier posts. I do agree that many moms (especially) do have well developed protective instincts, but do you really think that women who see a 55 year old guy with his 19 year old wife are really wondering if she is safe? I think the "are you all right honey?" inquiries would mostly be to send the guy a message, no?

I dont know? i really dont think so. the fact that the poster that i quoted said "who looks underage". So i imagined a VERY young(like a 13yo looking in the story) girl with a 55 y.o and how a nosey, well meaning woman would try to make sure she was ok.

I guess thats a pretty naive idea, but the story said "out of earshot" so I didnt read it as a blow to the guy.

Now, if a girl is obviously of legal age and some lady asked that, well then ya, she'd be a nosey, mean spirited,bitter woman who needs to get over it

editted to add that your news pics are so nice! Your wife is gorgeous

Thanks about the pics. I guess I assumed that if you asked a teenage Phillipina if she was OK with that guy, the first thing she would do is tell her husband. And they all look underage at 19 (if you are an old geezer like me) Women cannot be different in this regard.

[justashooter 430]

I beleive it was Benjamin Franklin who said that the perfect wife should half the mans age plus 1 year.

then mine is too damned old. i'm 45, so she should be 23.5, but she's 27. i'll have to boot her when i get home.

Me too My wife is 27, and I am 44. Sorry sweetie

we got it goin on, ain't we, bud. two middle aged guys with hotties in tow. it's enough to drive late middle aged women crazy.

the new pix are snazzy. especially like the one in which the little guy is hiding his eyes for the gooey stuff.

Edited March 19, 2009 by justashooter

[Ban Hammer 13,275]

I beleive it was Benjamin Franklin who said that the perfect wife should half the mans age plus 1 year.

then mine is too damned old. i'm 45, so she should be 23.5, but she's 27. i'll have to boot her when i get home.

don't do that unless you have plenty of dishes

[Trompe le Monde 1,107]

I've been in a situation in Asia where I've seen much older men pawing hot young things who were clearly not happy being mauled, but did nothing because they knew they were not equals with these men situation and seemed to accept their fate as being the older man's plaything. The look in that young girl's eyes (maybe 18? 19?) has always haunted me, though I said/did nothing. It made me very uncomfortable, to be honest, and so grateful to not have to rely on such an arrangement to escape crushing poverty. Is that always the situation? Certainly not, but you can't deny that it sometimes is - if it wasn't, I doubt we'd hear so much about marriage fraud coming out of that part of the world

And no, you can't imagine how not jealous I am of that situation.

Brad & Vika - love the pics. Is the little guy embarassed by the kissing your son?

[MsZ 6]

I wonder what things like "This stuff about 40-somethings and gals in their late teens is Puritanism left over from the early 20th century." actually mean. Is the label supposed to somehow make it OK then for 40-somethings to be into young girls? I see it as either lazy argument style or substanceless argument style. It is like referencing the crusades when bashing Christianity.

Ma Z, you are clearly losing this one. LOL. Take that puritan/judgemental stick you got up your booty about the age issue and relax. Your judgemental Feminizai attitude is another reason why I run away from Western woman. Geesh.

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The Mz Z's would be having heart attacks, and pointing out "look at that bad man" , that childmolester.

Actually, I think you're a loser who can't handle adult women, period. End of story. You not only can't afford one, which is true enough, you can't compete with one. That you must go younger and poorer and out of the country to find someone who is inexperienced enough to overlook your obvious failings as a man doesn't get erased by your erroneous characterization of my stance.

I'm not a feminazi. I'm more than your equal and that's what you can't stand. And so you resort to calling me a name that somehow says that my overall message is man-bashing. Hardly. Up until my recent relationship, I dated older men at the exclusion of younger men.

Also, I serve my husband. I do this because I love him and respect him. I also have an education, earn a fine living, and have opinions. I do those things because it is a part of how I express my individuality as well as how I contribute to my family. That someone like me wouldn't give someone like you a second glance has a lot more to do with your inability to accept responsibility for your own failings than anything else. You're a loser in dating American women. And you're an obvious loser dating Filipino women.

The thing that all of your failed relationships have in common in YOU. It really doesn't matter how young they are. They ditch you anyway. You might want to look into this instead of just deciding that they're fickle at that age. Have you noticed that once again, you're blaming someone else for your failures? Hmmm....