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I'll check back in in 20 years and let ya know how we're doing. :D

Only time will tell. But who cares really, it's nobody's business who you marry. They're not the ones who have to live with them day in and day out.

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02/05/07 - I-130 sent to NSC

05/03/07 - NOA2

05/10/07 - NVC receives petition, case # assigned

08/08/07 - Case Complete

09/27/07 - Interview, visa granted

10/02/07 - POE

11/16/07 - Received green card and Welcome to America letter in the mail

Removing Conditions

07/06/09 - I-751 sent to CSC

08/14/09 - Biometrics

09/27/09 - Approved

10/01/09 - Received 10 year green card

U.S. Citizenship

03/30/11 - N-400 sent via Priority Mail w/ delivery confirmation

05/12/11 - Biometrics

07/20/11 - Interview - passed

07/20/11 - Oath ceremony - same day as interview

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Giskat09 Proficient

Giskat09   2

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things are getting tougher when the guy reached at that age of 50 to 60... woman are likely not being proud of their husband at those times... but hopefully marriage life will stay intact no matter what.

why do women hate guys who are 50-60 years old? :blink:

white hairs and mustaches is growing... wrinkles and voices are changing.. moods are changing as well... i have no idea but maybe like that.

CITIZENSHIP 06-19-2013 Sent N400 Application (Chicago Lockbox)


06-21-2013 USCIS received my N400 application


06-25-2013 USCIS mailed the NOA1


06-28-2013 USCIS mailed the Biometrics appt


07-01-2013 Received NOA1 and Biometrics appt letter


​07-15-2013 Biometrics Appt.


08-27-2013 Interview/Test passed


10-07-2013 Oath taking


IR-5 MOM AND DAD


02-20-2014 mailed I-130 for my parents


02-24-2014 USCIS received the I-130 docs


03-17-2014 USCIS approved the petition (took 15 days, weekdays only)


03-25-2014 USCIS shipped the approved case to NVC


04-02-2014 NVC received the papers (6 days from the approval date)


05-01-2014 Got the 2 case numbers. (21 days)


05-07-2014 Got an email & paid the AOS fee (4 days); DS-261(Choice of Agent) sent


05-09-2014 AOS status "PAID" (2 days from the date the was paid)


05-22-2014 AOS docs delivered in NVC


06-27-2014 RFE for I864 and I864A (i left the Place of residence blank, 26 days from the date they received the AOS)


06-28-2014 Mailed the corrected forms to NVC


06-30-2014 NVC received the AOS corrected forms


07-01-2014 Received IV Bill Invoice, paid.


07-02-2014 PAID status of the mother


07-07-2014 PAID status of the father


07-08-2014 Mailed the supporting docs


07-10-2014 Supporting docs arrived at NVC


07-11-2014 Submitted DS260 of mother


07-13-2014 Submitted DS260 of father


09-04-2014 Called NVC and the lady said CASE COMPLETE! (136 days total from the day they received the I-130)


09-11-2014 Received an email regarding the Interview (5 days from the day the case was completed)


09-15-2014 Status "In Transit" inCEAC


09-16-2014 Status "Ready" CEAC


10-03-2014 Interview/AP/USEM (no record of their medical,DAD needs to get an NBI explanation letter&new NBI clearance with his "aka"


10-8-2014 Mom called St Lukes and asked about the medical results, they said they submitted it already back in June


10-10-2014 Mom mailed the NBI Clearance of my dad


10-14-2014 NBI clearance delivered in USEM


10-06-2014 Visa Issued CEAC


10-09-2014 Got an email that my dad's visa was issued


10-14-2014 Visa delivered 11-29-2014 POE


12-08-2014 SS Card arrived

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I sense some people getting offended by this thread, let's see....

Yeah, I agree, ridiculously big age gaps are weird, I just don't think a 20 y/o can happen to be at the same page as a 40 y/o, I mean one is in the beginning of her/his life and the other has been through it all, I don't think one would be willing to skip the supposed best years of their lives or the other would be very eager to experience it all over again, of course there are a bunch of 40 y/o the dresses like teenagers and try to act like them, but they just act retarded and I wouldn't think someone would marry an weirdo like that just because love is great.

Just my 2 cents.

02/20/2008 - wedding

06/09/2008 - finally sent package!

06/11/2008 - package received

06/19/2008 - NOA received - I-485, I-130, I-765

06/23/2008 - I-765 correction sent

06/25/2008 - I-765 correction received

06/30/2008 - NOA received, biometrics scheduled

07/11/2008 - I-485, I-765 touched

07/15/2008 - Biometrics

09/14/2008 - 90 days since NOA, no news about my EAD.

09/15/2008 - Called USCIS, no holds on my case, they made an inquiry on my EAD.

09/20/2008 - Got a letter saying they are working on my I-765 actively and there's nothing they could do, I have to wait for 6 more months till I'm "out of the" timeline again GRRRRRRRRRRR

09/25/2008 - Infopass appt.

09/26/2008 - EAD, card production ordered. YAAAAAAAAAAAY

09/29/2008 - EAD touched

10/01/2008 - EAD touched

10/03/2008 - Approval notice sent!yupyyyyyyyyyy

10/04/2008 - Finally received the EAD, time to go job hunting!

11/19/2008 - Interview letter received

01/13/2009 - Interview date APPROVED

01/13/2009 - Card production ordered

01/22/2009 - Aproval notice sent

01/22/2009 - Received Green Card YAAAAAAAAAAAAY

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things are getting tougher when the guy reached at that age of 50 to 60... woman are likely not being proud of their husband at those times... but hopefully marriage life will stay intact no matter what.

why do women hate guys who are 50-60 years old? :blink:

white hairs and mustaches is growing... wrinkles and voices are changing.. moods are changing as well... i have no idea but maybe like that.

:o you mean my man might start to grow a mustache as soon as he hits 55 or so! Oh #######. It's over then!

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things are getting tougher when the guy reached at that age of 50 to 60... woman are likely not being proud of their husband at those times... but hopefully marriage life will stay intact no matter what.

why do women hate guys who are 50-60 years old? :blink:

white hairs and mustaches is growing... wrinkles and voices are changing.. moods are changing as well... i have no idea but maybe like that.

mustache ... there are inventions called razors

white hairs ... who cares (if it is such a problem ... a little hair color ... or ... a clean shaven head) ... there again a women would never consider coloring hair ....

wrinkles ... voice change ... moods ... and the woman is exactly the same as she was on the day of the marriage years earlier ... :blink:

age is in a persons head ... either it's accepted or it's not.

Who has time to waste worrying about this when there is a life to live, and special people to share it with ...

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Large age gaps are just weird.

why?

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things are getting tougher when the guy reached at that age of 50 to 60... woman are likely not being proud of their husband at those times... but hopefully marriage life will stay intact no matter what.

why do women hate guys who are 50-60 years old? :blink:

white hairs and mustaches is growing... wrinkles and voices are changing.. moods are changing as well... i have no idea but maybe like that.

:o you mean my man might start to grow a mustache as soon as he hits 55 or so! Oh #######. It's over then!

does this mean ... you'll have to wait until he reaches 55 before you can go on a mustache ride? :devil:

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things are getting tougher when the guy reached at that age of 50 to 60... woman are likely not being proud of their husband at those times... but hopefully marriage life will stay intact no matter what.

why do women hate guys who are 50-60 years old? :blink:

white hairs and mustaches is growing... wrinkles and voices are changing.. moods are changing as well... i have no idea but maybe like that.

I remember a 20-something girl expressing an interest in a 50-something man and asking me about him a few years ago. Well, she didn't know he was my dad -- it felt strange to tell her he was "happily married, thank-you-very-much." There are plenty of stunning gray-haired men and women around and plenty of people who prefer them. Sometimes with age comes confidence, stability, stronger communication skills, a real sense of what you want in life and where you're headed -- not always but sometimes -- and those qualities can be very attractive. People just like what they like. There's nothing wrong with preferring a partner your own age or falling in love with someone of a different generation. Main thing is to be yourself and love who you love. The opinions of others do not matter.

I'm the USC.

11/05/2007........Conditional permanent residency effective date.

01/10/2008........Two-year green card in hand.

08/08/2009........Our son was born <3

08/08/2009........Filed for removal of conditions.

12/16/2009........ROC was approved.

11/05/2010........Eligible for Naturalization.

03/01/2011........Separated.

11/05/2012........Eligible for Naturalization.

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My sister was 21 when she married her 40 yr old husband (same age as my mom). they have 2 kids now and they VEERRRY love each other.

And My Brother(27) is married to his wife who is 43 right now.

Love is Not blind they just found love.

This is similar to our age gap - I am 41 and he is 25. Our temperaments match and I think that is key - we are both kinda nerdy, into books and nature and stuff like that, also neither of us is into drinking or partying so we get along well together. If he wanted to go out partying and I wanted to always stay at home that wouldn't be good - I've heard of some age gap couples where that has been an issue.


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I sense some people getting offended by this thread, let's see....

Yeah, I agree, ridiculously big age gaps are weird, I just don't think a 20 y/o can happen to be at the same page as a 40 y/o, I mean one is in the beginning of her/his life and the other has been through it all, I don't think one would be willing to skip the supposed best years of their lives or the other would be very eager to experience it all over again, of course there are a bunch of 40 y/o the dresses like teenagers and try to act like them, but they just act retarded and I wouldn't think someone would marry an weirdo like that just because love is great.

Just my 2 cents.

Why should the younger person be skipping anything just because he or she is married to an older person? They still have a life as an individual, still can hang out with friends their own age, still enjoy their own music and other interests. Unless the couple is joined at the hip and totally codependent, they're each going to have individual interests, some of which they share with one another and some not.

I'm the USC.

11/05/2007........Conditional permanent residency effective date.

01/10/2008........Two-year green card in hand.

08/08/2009........Our son was born <3

08/08/2009........Filed for removal of conditions.

12/16/2009........ROC was approved.

11/05/2010........Eligible for Naturalization.

03/01/2011........Separated.

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things are getting tougher when the guy reached at that age of 50 to 60... woman are likely not being proud of their husband at those times... but hopefully marriage life will stay intact no matter what.

why do women hate guys who are 50-60 years old? :blink:

white hairs and mustaches is growing... wrinkles and voices are changing.. moods are changing as well... i have no idea but maybe like that.

So are you going to trade your husband for a younger guy once he reaches this time in his life?

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things are getting tougher when the guy reached at that age of 50 to 60... woman are likely not being proud of their husband at those times... but hopefully marriage life will stay intact no matter what.

why do women hate guys who are 50-60 years old? :blink:

white hairs and mustaches is growing... wrinkles and voices are changing.. moods are changing as well... i have no idea but maybe like that.

My husband is 25 and already has a little salt mixed with the pepper - I like it!!!


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things are getting tougher when the guy reached at that age of 50 to 60... woman are likely not being proud of their husband at those times... but hopefully marriage life will stay intact no matter what.

why do women hate guys who are 50-60 years old? :blink:

white hairs and mustaches is growing... wrinkles and voices are changing.. moods are changing as well... i have no idea but maybe like that.

My husband is 25 and already has a little salt mixed with the pepper - I like it!!!

I have a feeling my husband will look like his dad when he gets older. :thumbs:

I'm the USC.

11/05/2007........Conditional permanent residency effective date.

01/10/2008........Two-year green card in hand.

08/08/2009........Our son was born <3

08/08/2009........Filed for removal of conditions.

12/16/2009........ROC was approved.

11/05/2010........Eligible for Naturalization.

03/01/2011........Separated.

11/05/2012........Eligible for Naturalization.

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my hubby is 27 and he already has a few grey hairs.. I like it....

I am only 7 years older then him but I really don't notice the age difference...

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