How old is too old?

[Giskat09 2]

When we were in our younger years (like Elementary or High School). Most of us girls are dreaming to marry our prince charming one day. Someone who is handsome, young and willing to fight for us. But as the years goes by, things are getting different.

We discovered a lot of things that made us realized that physical feature is not a basis to prove how much we should love other people.

Hmm, i'm just thinking here... Have you ever dream to marry or to love someone who is 10 years or 20 years older than you?

This is especially to the couples who has an age gap. Like for the woman is 25 yrs old and their man is 40 yrs old, something like that.

I met a lot of guys who is 10 years or 20 years older than me, but i dunno why i didn't choose to be with one of them. Even they offered me their acres of land and their mansion house in california, i never tried to like them. I'm not being rude here but i just want to make sure that if i will love someone, my heart should be pure and right wthout any wrong motive.. Am i right?

Well, everything happens for a reason.

My husband is 25 and i'm 25 too. Never thought i will marry the same age as mine. Is there any reason behind of marrying an old man or simply you love them?

Don't get offended by this.

Just a freedom of speech!

Edited October 21, 2008 by jiskat08

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Large age gaps are just weird.

[R de la R 2]

Love is blind, you don't love a person for the age you get in love and you follow your heart. That is all.

Money is not all, feelings are important too.

[Mononoke28 135]

To each his own, that's what I say. But I've seen a lot of failed relationships because of the huge age gap and I'm not saying 10-15 years, more like over 20 years. My dad for once was 18 years older than my mom and at the beginning everything was peachy, he was 40 something, she was 20 something. But as soon as he hit 60, it was chaos. The difference in age was palpable and not very amicable.

Diana

[Giskat09 2]

money cant buy happiness..... but it can buy their pleasure anyways lol

Edited October 21, 2008 by jiskat08

[Mononoke28 135]

Yeah but I've seen a lot of broke old a$$ people.

Diana

[morocco4ever 63]

When we were in our younger years (like Elementary or High School), we especially girls are dreaming to marry our prince charming one day. Someone who is handsome, young and willing to fight for us. But as the years goes by, things are getting different.

We discover a lot of things that made us realized that physical feature is not a basis to prove how much we should love other people.

Hmm, i'm jus thinking here... Have you ever dream to marry or to love someone who is 10 years or 20 years older than you?

This is especially to the couples who has an age gap. Like for the woman is 25 yrs old and their man is 40 yrs old, something like that.

I met a lot of guys who is 10 years or 20 years older than me, but i dunno why i didn't choose to be with one of them. Even they offered me their acres of land and their mansion house in california, i never tried to like them. I'm not being rude here but i just want to make sure that if i will love someone, my heart should be pure and right wthout any wrong motive.. Am i right?

Well, everything happens for a reason.

My husband is 25 and i'm 25 too. Never thought i will marry the same age as mine. Is there any reason behind of marrying an old man or simply you love them?

Don't get offended by this.

Just a freedom of speech!

Ah yes, a subject close to my heart. This is a decision based on what 2 people want. If you fall in love with someone older or younger there really is no issue between the 2 of you. Just the people who judge you.

I have been in both situations. Once I loved a man 20 years my senior. It didn't work out between us, but not because of the age difference. Now I am married to a man younger than me. It is our 4 year anniversary tomorrow. When we are together we aren't constantly thinking about the age difference, just that we love each other. The problem isn't between us, the problem is with others.

I never intentional look for either older or younger, it just happened. But if this is not something that appeals to you that is fine as well. It's a personal decision. It's just too bad that so many people feel they have a right to judge.

[Giskat09 2]

things are getting tougher when the guy reached at that age of 50 to 60... woman are likely not being proud of their husband at those times... but hopefully marriage life will stay intact no matter what.

[charramal 0]

My sister was 21 when she married her 40 yr old husband (same age as my mom). they have 2 kids now and they VEERRRY love each other.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

things are getting tougher when the guy reached at that age of 50 to 60... woman are likely not being proud of their husband at those times... but hopefully marriage life will stay intact no matter what.

[Giskat09 2]

When we were in our younger years (like Elementary or High School), we especially girls are dreaming to marry our prince charming one day. Someone who is handsome, young and willing to fight for us. But as the years goes by, things are getting different.

We discover a lot of things that made us realized that physical feature is not a basis to prove how much we should love other people.

Hmm, i'm jus thinking here... Have you ever dream to marry or to love someone who is 10 years or 20 years older than you?

This is especially to the couples who has an age gap. Like for the woman is 25 yrs old and their man is 40 yrs old, something like that.

I met a lot of guys who is 10 years or 20 years older than me, but i dunno why i didn't choose to be with one of them. Even they offered me their acres of land and their mansion house in california, i never tried to like them. I'm not being rude here but i just want to make sure that if i will love someone, my heart should be pure and right wthout any wrong motive.. Am i right?

Well, everything happens for a reason.

My husband is 25 and i'm 25 too. Never thought i will marry the same age as mine. Is there any reason behind of marrying an old man or simply you love them?

Don't get offended by this.

Just a freedom of speech!

Ah yes, a subject close to my heart. This is a decision based on what 2 people want. If you fall in love with someone older or younger there really is no issue between the 2 of you. Just the people who judge you.

I have been in both situations. Once I loved a man 20 years my senior. It didn't work out between us, but not because of the age difference. Now I am married to a man younger than me. It is our 4 year anniversary tomorrow. When we are together we aren't constantly thinking about the age difference, just that we love each other. The problem isn't between us, the problem is with others.

I never intentional look for either older or younger, it just happened. But if this is not something that appeals to you that is fine as well. It's a personal decision. It's just too bad that so many people feel they have a right to judge.

people judge because that's their opinion and they've seen a lot of people breaking up bcoz of the hidden agendas..

But if you really have no other motive for marrying that person, then simply marriage goes on and on...

[charramal 0]

My sister was 21 when she married her 40 yr old husband (same age as my mom). they have 2 kids now and they VEERRRY love each other.

And My Brother(27) is married to his wife who is 43 right now.

Love is Not blind they just found love.

[Giskat09 2]

My sister was 21 when she married her 40 yr old husband (same age as my mom). they have 2 kids now and they VEERRRY love each other.

thats lovely.. GOD bless to your sister and her husband.

My sister was 21 when she married her 40 yr old husband (same age as my mom). they have 2 kids now and they VEERRRY love each other.

And My Brother(27) is married to his wife who is 43 right now.

Love is Not blind they just found love.

thats amazing. God bless their marriage life.

[caybee 21]

Large age gaps are just weird.

And abnormal at that.

Seriously, whatever works for you. We have a nice gap, and we're still honeymooning after a year and a half. I'll check back in in 20 years and let ya know how we're doing.

[natty bumppo 297]

things are getting tougher when the guy reached at that age of 50 to 60... woman are likely not being proud of their husband at those times... but hopefully marriage life will stay intact no matter what.

why do women hate guys who are 50-60 years old?