Missing your spouses

[CasandraYounes 0]

I want to know how long it has been for everyone to be separated from their spouses. This whole process is rediculous of making us be separate for so long. I have been apart from my husband now for 4 months and do not know when I will go back to Morocco. How is everyone else dealing and coping?

[S and S 12]

I have my good days where I am full of hope and my bad days where I think he will never get here. I set a limit on how long I will wait before I will go to him, regardless of where he is. This waiting is really hard, but its made me stronger and we love each other more every day and appreciate each other more for it.

[Azulolhospatricia 0]

We re not married yet but it has been over a year without him here. I have been to brazil to see him twice and my daughter and i will be going again on the 29th of thi smonth because our intervew is Nov 4th. It seems to be getting harder and harder by the minute and the stress level is just too darn high. i just do not know how much more I can take.

[Ahmed N Tina 2]

We have been waiting, apart, for 856 days, not that I'm counting. That's 2 years and almost 5 months since I've seen my husband. Like S and S, we each have our good and bad days. It doesn't get any easier the longer it is and we always hold out hope that one day soon we'll finally be together. But neither of us will give up, even if I have to move there.

[S and S 12]

We have been waiting, apart, for 856 days, not that I'm counting. That's 2 years and almost 5 months since I've seen my husband. Like S and S, we each have our good and bad days. It doesn't get any easier the longer it is and we always hold out hope that one day soon we'll finally be together. But neither of us will give up, even if I have to move there.

Its people like you who keep me inspired. I just want you to know that. This waiting is definitely one of the hardest things I've ever done. I'll keep you in my prayers as I know it must be tough for you after all this time.

[nunyab 0]

wow... you know i never thought i was the type of person who could have a relationship like this... but every time i get to see my husband on cam it's like the first time again... i am planning a trip now in Jan wither or not he has his visa... always nice to have something to look forward to you know???

i've started sending things to him... stuffed animal i slept with for a week and sprayed my perfume on with a love note

another time a box full of scraps of papers and phrases for him so when he opened it all my love and happiness fell around him.

his favorite american candy etc.... he loves the little surprises and he gets so excited and wants to talk to me. I love how it helps him and he loves to share it with me

my ticker says the exact date of our last kiss but it's almost 5 months now.....

[chuckb 0]

wow... you know i never thought i was the type of person who could have a relationship like this... but every time i get to see my husband on cam it's like the first time again... i am planning a trip now in Jan wither or not he has his visa... always nice to have something to look forward to you know???

i've started sending things to him... stuffed animal i slept with for a week and sprayed my perfume on with a love note

another time a box full of scraps of papers and phrases for him so when he opened it all my love and happiness fell around him.

his favorite american candy etc.... he loves the little surprises and he gets so excited and wants to talk to me. I love how it helps him and he loves to share it with me

my ticker says the exact date of our last kiss but it's almost 5 months now.....

It is difficult. I waited too long myself, but the end justifies the means. After several years, it is hard to remember how hard it was to wait. It is totally stupid dealing with the process, but in the end, it makes you stronger. Provided it was meant to be...

Edited October 19, 2008 by chuckb

[Y's_habibitk 2]

I havent touched my husband in 267 days. We also have good and bad times coping.

We talk everyday on the phone, send millions of texts. And we talk on cam 2-4 times a week.

Its rough

This week has been one of my "bad times"

Lisa

[Ahmed N Tina 2]

We have been waiting, apart, for 856 days, not that I'm counting. That's 2 years and almost 5 months since I've seen my husband. Like S and S, we each have our good and bad days. It doesn't get any easier the longer it is and we always hold out hope that one day soon we'll finally be together. But neither of us will give up, even if I have to move there.

Its people like you who keep me inspired. I just want you to know that. This waiting is definitely one of the hardest things I've ever done. I'll keep you in my prayers as I know it must be tough for you after all this time.

Thank you, S and S! I'm glad I can inspire instead of worry folks. I wouldn't wish this on anyone, but it's made us so strong in our relationship. When it's meant to be.....you wait forever if you have to. Thanks for the prayers. You are in mine too.

[nunyab 0]

yeah... we miss eachother and the not knowing is hard but one thing i can count on is our love... don't let it go ladies we will win in the end!!!

[Ahmed N Tina 2]

I havent touched my husband in 267 days. We also have good and bad times coping.

We talk everyday on the phone, send millions of texts. And we talk on cam 2-4 times a week.

Its rough

This week has been one of my "bad times"

Lisa

Remember it's the end we are waiting for, and once it's done it will all be a distant memory.

Exactly RR! Let's all keep keeping on!

Edited October 19, 2008 by TinaMsea

[nunyab 0]

I havent touched my husband in 267 days. We also have good and bad times coping.

We talk everyday on the phone, send millions of texts. And we talk on cam 2-4 times a week.

Its rough

This week has been one of my "bad times"

Lisa

Remember it's the end we are waiting for, and once it's done it will all be a distant memory.

Exactly RR! Let's all keep keeping on!

How can i forget i get to see him tomorrow hehehehe i feel like a school girl. I blush when i see him , my heart rate increases and i giggle.... I love himmmmmmmmmmmm

[Martiniolive 0]

TinaMsea your timeline freaks me out.....I130 sent 06 approved 08???? Yikes girl!

We have been waiting, apart, for 856 days, not that I'm counting. That's 2 years and almost 5 months since I've seen my husband. Like S and S, we each have our good and bad days. It doesn't get any easier the longer it is and we always hold out hope that one day soon we'll finally be together. But neither of us will give up, even if I have to move there.

[Ahmed N Tina 2]

Rajaa Reda, you are too cute! Good for you!!!!

Weekends are my favorite cause we get to spend soooo much time together on the cams. He's my favorite person in the whole world!

[Y's_habibitk 2]

I havent touched my husband in 267 days. We also have good and bad times coping.

We talk everyday on the phone, send millions of texts. And we talk on cam 2-4 times a week.

Its rough

This week has been one of my "bad times"

Lisa

Remember it's the end we are waiting for, and once it's done it will all be a distant memory.

Exactly RR! Let's all keep keeping on!

Thanks! Thats what we look forward to. The days we are sitting doing boring family stuff and appreciating every single second together.