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[justashooter 430]

This forum is for people who have met the one they love and are trying desparately to be together. so they can be married.

It is not to tell you ways of getting a green card, if you are looking for a girl to marry you to acheive your goals, it is visa fraud and no one here will help you to acheive the K1 route

So what everyone here is saying is all who have met their spouses on the internet and are in different countries, you think your spouse insnt looking to get out of their country??? Are you serious? Why is everyone dogging this guy when 80% of the people who met their "partners" on line in another country, just want a green card also. If not then why not find someone in your own country.

many people on this forum cannot find as good a deal in the US as they are getting by shopping in other countries. the person in the other country is usually getting a better package, too.

while i have dated women 12-15 years younger than me for reasonable periods, i didn't find them compatible, and broke the relationships in dissapointment over their immaturity and self centeredness. instead, i married a woman who is 18 years younger than me, who loves me sincerely, and with whom i have a balanced relationship in terms of shared responsibility and control. she doesn't make the salary i do, but it makes no difference. we both work and both benefit from the work. she gets a responsible husband who has a good salary, a car of her own, a big house in the country, and help in her carreer. these things she would not get from a chinese man. the green card is a non-issue. it's the interpersonal relationship and the lifestyle that count.