What Ever God has planned for me....im ready

[bassel15 0]

Hey everyone hope all are well....as for me im going nuts here really i am....i have been reading how some interviews at Casa are scarey as hell....should i have my husband run for the hills lol kidding....yes i know this is no laughing matter but i have been stressing and he hasnt even had his interview date....i know i should just calm down and wait but God only knows why im stressing....okay who am i kidding i know why im stressing this is just my life im talking about, mine and my husbands lets not forget my two great kids that have been there for me over a year while i sit infront of the computer with my husband for hours every single day....this is no way for a husband and wife to live life wishing to hold one another if these people at Casa could see the pain that we go through....damit....this just makes me so mad to read what they put people through to prove that they love their spouse....what do they want from them to cut their hearts out and show them just how much love they have for us....okay now im sounding crazy like really....its just that i love my husband so much and i love my kids....there is nothing i wouldnt do for them...my kids are great they told me the other night that if my husband doesnt get his visa that they would stand behind me no matter the outcome....wow...now all i can do is leave this matter in God's hands and pray for a happing ending....yes i know not all of us get a happy ending but im hoping for one....all my life i have asked for happiness and my first marriage was nothing but cheating,lies,tears,heartache....and God has given me a great man and im holding on to this one....thank you all for letting me go on and on....God Bless....

[ladyinpink 1]

Hey everyone hope all are well....as for me im going nuts here really i am....i have been reading how some interviews at Casa are scarey as hell....should i have my husband run for the hills lol kidding....yes i know this is no laughing matter but i have been stressing and he hasnt even had his interview date....i know i should just calm down and wait but God only knows why im stressing....okay who am i kidding i know why im stressing this is just my life im talking about, mine and my husbands lets not forget my two great kids that have been there for me over a year while i sit infront of the computer with my husband for hours every single day....this is no way for a husband and wife to live life wishing to hold one another if these people at Casa could see the pain that we go through....damit....this just makes me so mad to read what they put people through to prove that they love their spouse....what do they want from them to cut their hearts out and show them just how much love they have for us....okay now im sounding crazy like really....its just that i love my husband so much and i love my kids....there is nothing i wouldnt do for them...my kids are great they told me the other night that if my husband doesnt get his visa that they would stand behind me no matter the outcome....wow...now all i can do is leave this matter in God's hands and pray for a happing ending....yes i know not all of us get a happy ending but im hoping for one....all my life i have asked for happiness and my first marriage was nothing but cheating,lies,tears,heartache....and God has given me a great man and im holding on to this one....thank you all for letting me go on and on....God Bless....

just pray remember everything is miracle when it come to god

but that is normal felling before the interview a lots of what if????

and more stress but in other side is happiness i wish all the luck to your husband

just go for VISA VISA VISA.......

in the name of LOVE tell your husband how much you love him and the kids

how much you miss him. :energy:

[HLM 1]

O boy the number of ppl who will come to this thread to tell u; they have been thru this pain from the begining to end!! this is definitly the hardest thing i ever did! i was never a patient person and i have learnd to just wait n wait n wait! My friends were telling me today i calmed down a lot -was very hyper n active person- i say i dont know my brain is only focused on one issue -getting reunited with the love of my life- i stopped everything in my life! Bottom line i know how u feel and im soo scared myself from my interview this november and even tho most of the drama lately was coming from casa...cairo isnt that nice either! but its 3 weeks to the real freaking out so with faith and again some patience i will try to convince myself that i will be ok!

[Martiniolive 0]

you sound perfectly normal to me LOL welcome to our mena family Martiniolive

Hey everyone hope all are well....as for me im going nuts here really i am....i have been reading how some interviews at Casa are scarey as hell....should i have my husband run for the hills lol kidding....yes i know this is no laughing matter but i have been stressing and he hasnt even had his interview date....i know i should just calm down and wait but God only knows why im stressing....okay who am i kidding i know why im stressing this is just my life im talking about, mine and my husbands lets not forget my two great kids that have been there for me over a year while i sit infront of the computer with my husband for hours every single day....this is no way for a husband and wife to live life wishing to hold one another if these people at Casa could see the pain that we go through....damit....this just makes me so mad to read what they put people through to prove that they love their spouse....what do they want from them to cut their hearts out and show them just how much love they have for us....okay now im sounding crazy like really....its just that i love my husband so much and i love my kids....there is nothing i wouldnt do for them...my kids are great they told me the other night that if my husband doesnt get his visa that they would stand behind me no matter the outcome....wow...now all i can do is leave this matter in God's hands and pray for a happing ending....yes i know not all of us get a happy ending but im hoping for one....all my life i have asked for happiness and my first marriage was nothing but cheating,lies,tears,heartache....and God has given me a great man and im holding on to this one....thank you all for letting me go on and on....God Bless....

[Ahmed N Tina 2]

HLM & Martini

Bassel, it isn't easy, but you will be ok, and you are being normal. Until it's over, these guys are pretty fabulous and can totally relate, which is a very nice change from others not in the process who don't understand. Good luck!

[Mrs.Bayoumi 0]

Hey everyone hope all are well....as for me im going nuts here really i am....i have been reading how some interviews at Casa are scarey as hell....should i have my husband run for the hills lol kidding....yes i know this is no laughing matter but i have been stressing and he hasnt even had his interview date....i know i should just calm down and wait but God only knows why im stressing....okay who am i kidding i know why im stressing this is just my life im talking about, mine and my husbands lets not forget my two great kids that have been there for me over a year while i sit infront of the computer with my husband for hours every single day....this is no way for a husband and wife to live life wishing to hold one another if these people at Casa could see the pain that we go through....damit....this just makes me so mad to read what they put people through to prove that they love their spouse....what do they want from them to cut their hearts out and show them just how much love they have for us....okay now im sounding crazy like really....its just that i love my husband so much and i love my kids....there is nothing i wouldnt do for them...my kids are great they told me the other night that if my husband doesnt get his visa that they would stand behind me no matter the outcome....wow...now all i can do is leave this matter in God's hands and pray for a happing ending....yes i know not all of us get a happy ending but im hoping for one....all my life i have asked for happiness and my first marriage was nothing but cheating,lies,tears,heartache....and God has given me a great man and im holding on to this one....thank you all for letting me go on and on....God Bless....

Welcome to M.E.N.A. like every one who as also replied, I know how you feel!! I joke with Abdalla that when he come im tossing the computer out the window!! Hang in there and remember every tear, every bad day and every night spent blowing kisses to your web cam ( admit it we all do it ) is worth it in the end when you go to get your husband from the airport and finally get the best hug and real kiss.... in the world, and all of this will be just a memorie to share with your grand kids!

All of us here know true love, we have too, true love is the only thing that can get you threw the pounds of paper work, repetitive questions and sleepless lonely nights.

The people at Casa may not feel your pain but again honey, we do and we are all here for ya! Any time you need to vent feel free to and if you ever need a shoulder to loose it on i know i am here for ya too girl!

once a MENA girl...always!

((((( hugs))))

Best of luck and remeber when God is ready for you to be together then you will be, and it will be the best day ever!!

Edited October 11, 2008 by Mrs.Bayoumi

[tenderheartusa79 14]

Well i don't have an interview date yet .

but I'm so scared from the clean version of hell ( USA embassy in Cairo ).

i went to the USA embassy many times and they were so rude to me and to my fiancee and to all of American and Egyptian on this day when they denied us to get married .

and just like HLM says all the drama is coming from Cairo and casa now .

but we don't know what will happen from one day to the next so I'm trying to get ready for them and inshaallah I'm going to beat them up LOL. and I'm going to make it . i will win hopefully and i will never let them beat me .lol

and as you just said ''What Ever God has planned for me....I'm ready''

Good luck and my best wishes for you

[Mrs.Bayoumi 0]

Well i don't have an interview date yet .

but I'm so scared from the clean version of hell ( USA embassy in Cairo ).

i went to the USA embassy many times and they were so rude to me and to my fiancee and to all of American and Egyptian on this day when they denied us to get married .

and just like HLM says all the drama is coming from Cairo and casa now .

but we don't know what will happen from one day to the next so I'm trying to get ready for them and inshaallah I'm going to beat them up LOL. and I'm going to make it . i will win hopefully and i will never let them beat me .lol

and as you just said ''What Ever God has planned for me....I'm ready''

Good luck and my best wishes for you

:blink: i hate ciaro........... :blink:

Good luck!! I will cross my fingers and pray for you too!

[tenderheartusa79 14]

Well i don't have an interview date yet .

but I'm so scared from the clean version of hell ( USA embassy in Cairo ).

i went to the USA embassy many times and they were so rude to me and to my fiancee and to all of American and Egyptian on this day when they denied us to get married .

and just like HLM says all the drama is coming from Cairo and casa now .

but we don't know what will happen from one day to the next so I'm trying to get ready for them and inshaallah I'm going to beat them up LOL. and I'm going to make it . i will win hopefully and i will never let them beat me .lol

and as you just said ''What Ever God has planned for me....I'm ready''

Good luck and my best wishes for you

:blink: i hate ciaro........... :blink:

Good luck!! I will cross my fingers and pray for you too!

you are in my prayers to and say hi to Abdallah and viva zamalek LOL

[Imua 0]

Good luck to all of you going through Casa and Cairo, my prayers are with you...

You can argue about the semantics but basically these COs are being allowed to decide who gets to marry who and I am sure bring their own prejudices into it - you can argue well we American wives can go over there but honestly in most cases these guys are struggling, making little or no money, there are few jobs for natives let alone foreign spouses. In our case we have big red flags (quick marriage and 16 year age gap, older woman) and even though KTM is supposed to be a 'easy' embassy I am anticipating a more difficult interview than others and I won't be able to be there with him. If our petition gets sent back then I don't know what we will do. I don't think my husband realizes that we may get turned down. Especially with the economic mess in the US I am again thinking about going to live in a third country(Thailand maybe), anywhere where we could both work and live together without someone deciding we don't deserve to share our lives together. All I know is I can't put my life on hold for another year, file another application - I miss him too much and life is short...

[bassel15 0]

Thank You all so much really....and I pray that everything goes well for all of you as well....and i feel the same way about living another year without my husband no way i can deal with that again....i would move there to be with him....i mean if that is what it takes to prove that we truly love one another then so be it....it's my kids that i worry about during this matter.....they are with me on moving but i know that it would be hard on them....but im praying that it doesnt come to that....anyways you all are great people and happiness is around the corner God Bless....

[SaadBell 0]

I feel ya, you are not alone.

[Ahmed N Tina 2]

I've said that too, I will not wait another year to be with my husband. We have looked into other countries and searched for jobs, but every time we did, Cairo (HG has it right, clean version of Hell) throws us a bone and we hold on a little longer. I hope and pray that NO ONE has to wait as long as we have, but true love can help you through anything. Look at all options before you take the leap to leave. Crossing fingers and toes for you!

[Martiniolive 0]

my husband often says we will throw our computers away after he is here LOL how funny.....just remember to keep your mind open and look for all the "oportunities to deepen & cement the love between you and your spouse" that you encounter along the way in this process LOL...."what God has joined & the Immigration process has tested let NO MAN put asunder!" LOL

Hey everyone hope all are well....as for me im going nuts here really i am....i have been reading how some interviews at Casa are scarey as hell....should i have my husband run for the hills lol kidding....yes i know this is no laughing matter but i have been stressing and he hasnt even had his interview date....i know i should just calm down and wait but God only knows why im stressing....okay who am i kidding i know why im stressing this is just my life im talking about, mine and my husbands lets not forget my two great kids that have been there for me over a year while i sit infront of the computer with my husband for hours every single day....this is no way for a husband and wife to live life wishing to hold one another if these people at Casa could see the pain that we go through....damit....this just makes me so mad to read what they put people through to prove that they love their spouse....what do they want from them to cut their hearts out and show them just how much love they have for us....okay now im sounding crazy like really....its just that i love my husband so much and i love my kids....there is nothing i wouldnt do for them...my kids are great they told me the other night that if my husband doesnt get his visa that they would stand behind me no matter the outcome....wow...now all i can do is leave this matter in God's hands and pray for a happing ending....yes i know not all of us get a happy ending but im hoping for one....all my life i have asked for happiness and my first marriage was nothing but cheating,lies,tears,heartache....and God has given me a great man and im holding on to this one....thank you all for letting me go on and on....God Bless....

Welcome to M.E.N.A. like every one who as also replied, I know how you feel!! I joke with Abdalla that when he come im tossing the computer out the window!! Hang in there and remember every tear, every bad day and every night spent blowing kisses to your web cam ( admit it we all do it ) is worth it in the end when you go to get your husband from the airport and finally get the best hug and real kiss.... in the world, and all of this will be just a memorie to share with your grand kids!

All of us here know true love, we have too, true love is the only thing that can get you threw the pounds of paper work, repetitive questions and sleepless lonely nights.

The people at Casa may not feel your pain but again honey, we do and we are all here for ya! Any time you need to vent feel free to and if you ever need a shoulder to loose it on i know i am here for ya too girl!

once a MENA girl...always!

((((( hugs))))

Best of luck and remeber when God is ready for you to be together then you will be, and it will be the best day ever!!

[brnidokiegurl 0]

welcome to the club