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PlatyPius Experienced

PlatyPius   5

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Although I guess I knew it was inevitable, I am still deeply saddened and traumatiuzed by his behavior and attitude. Projection at its very best.
So, you, or he, will be moving back to your or his country of origin then?

Well there's compassion for ye...

Actually, I was gonna say stupidity, since she has a 10 year GC.....

Lady, people aren't chocolates. Do you know what they are mostly? Bastards. ####### coated bastards with ####### filling. But I don't find them half as annoying as I find naive bobble-headed optimists who walk around vomiting sunshine.
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ronjie   0

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I called my husband on his continuous flirting and lying etc etc. etc.. I have discovered that he suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder but of course everything is always my fault.

Today he tells me that I pushed him too far by holding him accountable and that I lied to him before we got married and misled him (BS by the way).

He said he will dig his heels in and cut me off emotionaly forever.

So......looks like he is not even going to try anymore. It's apparently over. I did nothing wrong except try and hold him responsible for his actions and their consequences an dget him to see that he wsa behaving improperly for a married man.

Although I guess I knew it was inevitable, I am still deeply saddened and traumatiuzed by his behavior and attitude. Projection at its very best.

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2008-03-03 : I-130 Sent

2008-03-03 : I-130 NOA1

2008-05-08 : Touched

2008-10-16 : Touched

2008-10-20 : Touched and Approved (NOA2)

2008-03-27 : I-129F Sent

2008-03-31 : I-129F NOA1

2008-04-24 : Touched

2008-10-03 : Touched

2008-10-05 : Touched

2008-10-06 : Touched

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2008-10-22 : NVC Receive

2008-10-24 : NVC Left

2008-10-30 : USEM Receive

2008-11-10 : Wife's Medical - PASSED

2008-12-01 : Son's Medical - PASSED

2008-12-19 : USEM Interview - PASSED

2009-01-14 : VISA RECEIVED

2009-01-25 : US Entry (JFK)

morocco4ever Experienced

morocco4ever   63

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Just let the man flirt. Boys will be boys :P

:bonk:

I hope life brings you the best.

'Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming 'WOO HOO, What a Ride'

justashooter Experienced

justashooter   430

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find someone older and wiser than both of you to validate your thoughts, or correct you. pastors of protestant/methodist/anglican churches over the age of 60 tend to be good fellows, and can help you figure out whether you are being disrespected, or too posessive. get some advice on how to handle the situation and go with your heart. you are a little off kilter right now, and need to find your balance before making big decisions.

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morocco4ever Experienced

morocco4ever   63

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I have yet to hear of one intelligent response from you sharpshooter.

'Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming 'WOO HOO, What a Ride'

JenT Experienced

JenT   0

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I'm sorry you're going through this perfect... I remember you.... all you can do is hold fast to the truths you know in your heart and try not to let it affect your self-esteem. I would recommend finding a good counselor who can help you through this.

Hugs - Jen

8-30-05 Met David at a restaurant in Germany

3-28-06 David 'officially' proposed

4-26-06 I-129F mailed

9-25-06 Interview: APPROVED!

10-16-06 Flt to US, POE Detroit

11-5-06 Married

7-2-07 Green card received

9-12-08 Filed for divorce

12-5-08 Court hearing - divorce final

A great marriage is not when the "perfect couple" comes together.

It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.

Shpat_Argjira Proficient

Shpat_Argjira   0

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Why dont you shoot him?

Vermont Service Center:

11-23-2007: I-130 Sent

01-25-2008: I-130 NOA1 Received

08-26-2008: I-130 NOA2 Approved

NVC:

09-02-2008: NVC RECEIVED CASE

11-19-2008: CASE COMPLETE

Consulate:

Interview @ Skopje, Macedonia

January 20th, 2009

PlatyPius Experienced

PlatyPius   5

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Why dont you shoot him?

You really ARE a useless SOB, aren't you?

Lady, people aren't chocolates. Do you know what they are mostly? Bastards. ####### coated bastards with ####### filling. But I don't find them half as annoying as I find naive bobble-headed optimists who walk around vomiting sunshine.
JenT Experienced

JenT   0

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For those of you who are in such perfect relationships that you can come on here and make light of, or make snide remarks about someone else's pain, let's just hope you never find yourselves in a position to need to begin a thread on this board.

Jen

8-30-05 Met David at a restaurant in Germany

3-28-06 David 'officially' proposed

4-26-06 I-129F mailed

9-25-06 Interview: APPROVED!

10-16-06 Flt to US, POE Detroit

11-5-06 Married

7-2-07 Green card received

9-12-08 Filed for divorce

12-5-08 Court hearing - divorce final

A great marriage is not when the "perfect couple" comes together.

It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.

morocco4ever Experienced

morocco4ever   63

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Why dont you shoot him?

Can we use you for target practice?

'Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming 'WOO HOO, What a Ride'

brnidokiegurl Grand Master

brnidokiegurl   0

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For those of you who are in such perfect relationships that you can come on here and make light of, or make snide remarks about someone else's pain, let's just hope you never find yourselves in a position to need to begin a thread on this board.

Jen

the thing is everyones life maybe perfect today, who knows what tomorrow will bring, hate to see the breakups but it is a part of life not just thru immigration couples. Wonder what the percentage would be here of the people on here now after a divorce from the past

TIMELINE

04/04/2007 K1 Interview from H...w/the devil herself

06/12/2007 Rec'd Notification Case Now Back In Calif. only to expire

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11/20/2007 Married in Morocco

02/23/2008 Mailed CR1 application today

03/08/2008 NOA1 Notice Recd (notice date 3/4/08)

08/26/2008 File transfered fr Vermont to Calif

10/14/2008 APPROVALLLLLLLLLLLL

10/20/2008 Recd hard copy NOA2

10/20/2008 NVC Recd case

11/21/2008 CASE COMPLETE

01/15/2009 INTERVIEW

01/16/2009 VISA IN HAND

01/31/2009 ARRIVED OKC

BE WHO YOU ARE AND SAY WHAT YOU FEEL, BECAUSE THOSE WHO MIND DONT MATTER AND THOSE WHO MATTER DONT MIND

YOU CANT CHANGE THE PAST BUT YOU CAN RUIN THE PRESENT BY WORRYING OVER THE FUTURE

TRIP.... OVER LOVE, AND YOU CAN GET UP

FALL.... IN LOVE, AND YOU FALL FOREVER

I DO HAVE THE RIGHT TO REMAIN SILENT, JUST NOT THE ABILITY

LIKE THE MEASLES, LOVE IS MOST DANGEROUS WHEN IT COMES LATER IN LIFE

LIFE IS NOT THE WAY ITS SUPPOSED TO BE, ITS THE WAY IT IS

I MAY NOT BE WHERE I WANT TO BE BUT IM SURE NOT WHERE I WAS

JenT Experienced

JenT   0

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For those of you who are in such perfect relationships that you can come on here and make light of, or make snide remarks about someone else's pain, let's just hope you never find yourselves in a position to need to begin a thread on this board.

Jen

the thing is everyones life maybe perfect today, who knows what tomorrow will bring, hate to see the breakups but it is a part of life not just thru immigration couples. Wonder what the percentage would be here of the people on here now after a divorce from the past

Of course.... but why throw salt on a wound? It's not necessary.

I started a poll to ID those who would remain after a VJ break-up... didn't get many replies. Perhaps that says something right there.

Jen

8-30-05 Met David at a restaurant in Germany

3-28-06 David 'officially' proposed

4-26-06 I-129F mailed

9-25-06 Interview: APPROVED!

10-16-06 Flt to US, POE Detroit

11-5-06 Married

7-2-07 Green card received

9-12-08 Filed for divorce

12-5-08 Court hearing - divorce final

A great marriage is not when the "perfect couple" comes together.

It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.

brnidokiegurl Grand Master

brnidokiegurl   0

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Morocco
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For those of you who are in such perfect relationships that you can come on here and make light of, or make snide remarks about someone else's pain, let's just hope you never find yourselves in a position to need to begin a thread on this board.

Jen

the thing is everyones life maybe perfect today, who knows what tomorrow will bring, hate to see the breakups but it is a part of life not just thru immigration couples. Wonder what the percentage would be here of the people on here now after a divorce from the past

Of course.... but why throw salt on a wound? It's not necessary.

I started a poll to ID those who would remain after a VJ break-up... didn't get many replies. Perhaps that says something right there.

Jen

i was agreeing with you, just saying life happens, whats good today maybe gone tomorrow

TIMELINE

04/04/2007 K1 Interview from H...w/the devil herself

06/12/2007 Rec'd Notification Case Now Back In Calif. only to expire

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11/20/2007 Married in Morocco

02/23/2008 Mailed CR1 application today

03/08/2008 NOA1 Notice Recd (notice date 3/4/08)

08/26/2008 File transfered fr Vermont to Calif

10/14/2008 APPROVALLLLLLLLLLLL

10/20/2008 Recd hard copy NOA2

10/20/2008 NVC Recd case

11/21/2008 CASE COMPLETE

01/15/2009 INTERVIEW

01/16/2009 VISA IN HAND

01/31/2009 ARRIVED OKC

BE WHO YOU ARE AND SAY WHAT YOU FEEL, BECAUSE THOSE WHO MIND DONT MATTER AND THOSE WHO MATTER DONT MIND

YOU CANT CHANGE THE PAST BUT YOU CAN RUIN THE PRESENT BY WORRYING OVER THE FUTURE

TRIP.... OVER LOVE, AND YOU CAN GET UP

FALL.... IN LOVE, AND YOU FALL FOREVER

I DO HAVE THE RIGHT TO REMAIN SILENT, JUST NOT THE ABILITY

LIKE THE MEASLES, LOVE IS MOST DANGEROUS WHEN IT COMES LATER IN LIFE

LIFE IS NOT THE WAY ITS SUPPOSED TO BE, ITS THE WAY IT IS

I MAY NOT BE WHERE I WANT TO BE BUT IM SURE NOT WHERE I WAS

 
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