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perfect   39

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I called my husband on his continuous flirting and lying etc etc. etc.. I have discovered that he suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder but of course everything is always my fault.

Today he tells me that I pushed him too far by holding him accountable and that I lied to him before we got married and misled him (BS by the way).

He said he will dig his heels in and cut me off emotionaly forever.

So......looks like he is not even going to try anymore. It's apparently over. I did nothing wrong except try and hold him responsible for his actions and their consequences an dget him to see that he wsa behaving improperly for a married man.

Although I guess I knew it was inevitable, I am still deeply saddened and traumatiuzed by his behavior and attitude. Projection at its very best.

<sigh>

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ADJUSTMENT OF STATUS - 5 MONTHS

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4/3/06 - RFE for AOS - requested new medical and vacc supplement

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05/02/2006 - Greencard arrives in mail

03/14/08 - Petition to Remove Conditions mailed to CSC delivered - 7/2/08 APPROVED

NATURALIZATION TIMELINE (for myself and son) 5 MONTHS

April 18, 2011 - N-400 Applications Mailed to AZ lockbox

April 21 (received April 25) NOAs

May 12 - FP Letters mailed

May 16 - Received FP appointment letters for June 8 at 11am

August 1 - Interview - approved for Oath Ceremony - OATH CEREMONY 28 SEPTEMBER

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chri'stina   190

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I am sorry this has been a very bad experience for you. I have been reading your posts for awhile of course. I am sure you must be upset but it seems you have been upset for a long time. And though I can only see your side written here, from what you have written over the past it will be good for you not to be around him anymore. No one can say you didn't try! You have tried more than many would/should have, don't tolerate any more please. (F)

Married since 9-18-04(All K1 visa & GC details in timeline.)

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Although I guess I knew it was inevitable, I am still deeply saddened and traumatiuzed by his behavior and attitude. Projection at its very best.
So, you, or he, will be moving back to your or his country of origin then? Edited by akdiver

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All for the best

At some point one's own shortcomings just is too much to handle.

You tried your best, it didn't work, and time to move on. Even better that he is moving on. Usually the ones who are most bitter about it are the ones most incapable of "getting over it" as quickly as they state.

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Although I guess I knew it was inevitable, I am still deeply saddened and traumatiuzed by his behavior and attitude. Projection at its very best.
So, you, or he, will be moving back to your or his country of origin then?

to soon to be making those kind of decisions yet. I have no idea what I'm going to do. I'm still in pieces over his last barrage of abuse.

OUR TIMELINE

K1 VISA & MARRIAGE - 8 MONTHS

17 February 2004 Sent I-129F petition CSC - It was APPROVED in 147 days

3 September 2004 INTERVIEW IN LONDON SUCCESSFUL VISA APPROVED! MARRIED OCTOBER 16, 2004

ADJUSTMENT OF STATUS - 5 MONTHS

4 January 2005 - Submitted applications for AOS and EAD - 12 May 2005 Conditional Permanent Residency Approved - interview in Santa Ana

4 June 2005 CPR 2-year Green Card arrives in mail

REMOVAL OF CONDITIONS - 3½ MONTHS

8 May 2007 - I-751 sent to CSC - 23 August 2007 - Approved - Card production ordered

30 August 2007 - 10 year Green Card received

K2 TIMELINE (Stayed behind in UK to finish school)

28 March 2005 - embassy interview & medical London - visa granted

01/18/06 Applications for AOS/EAD sent - 03/28/06 EAD approved

4/3/06 - RFE for AOS - requested new medical and vacc supplement

4/26/06 - approved without interview and welcome letter sent

05/02/2006 - Greencard arrives in mail

03/14/08 - Petition to Remove Conditions mailed to CSC delivered - 7/2/08 APPROVED

NATURALIZATION TIMELINE (for myself and son) 5 MONTHS

April 18, 2011 - N-400 Applications Mailed to AZ lockbox

April 21 (received April 25) NOAs

May 12 - FP Letters mailed

May 16 - Received FP appointment letters for June 8 at 11am

August 1 - Interview - approved for Oath Ceremony - OATH CEREMONY 28 SEPTEMBER

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Sorry to hear this.

Best of luck to you

PEGGY & ROGER

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K-1/K-2 VISA'S APPROVED IN MONTREAL MAY 2, 2005

K-1/K-2 AOS APPROVED IN ATLANTA MAY 17, 2006

10 year GC Approved - APRIL 16th ,2009 - Peggy and Jonathan's......

Still waiting for our cards...Had to file I-90 as they sent them to the wrong address.

March 9th, 2010, Received GC that has been lost in the mail for 10 months. Still waiting for my son's that is lost as well.

Filed Waiver for my son's 10 year GC and it was approved. He finally received his GC after its been missing for 2 years.

Thanking God this is over for 10 years.

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Although I guess I knew it was inevitable, I am still deeply saddened and traumatiuzed by his behavior and attitude. Projection at its very best.
So, you, or he, will be moving back to your or his country of origin then?

Well there's compassion for ye...

Edited by aidan80

Filed N400 11/7/16

Check (CC) Cashed 11/10/16

Text/Email NOA 11/16/16

 
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