Is it possible to be dumped into AP without knowing

[Usui Takumi 1,562]

Yeah i'm still here. She's coming in a few hours so all I can do is try my best and have faith in our relationship and that she can get past this.

[*julez* 124]

Yeah i'm still here. She's coming in a few hours so all I can do is try my best and have faith in our relationship and that she can get past this.

The first few months are the hardest. You really need to be "there" for her as much as possible. My husband was not hesitant to move and it was still a big adjustment for him and for me. There were times when he just wanted to go back to the UK. Not because of our relationship, but because getting used to the US, not working and not having his own friends was tougher that he thought it would be. And the food and lack of proper football and a whole hose of smaller things that you don't notice until they're not there.

But, those days I'd tell him I understood that it must be hard and why he would feel that way and give him a bit of space to cope with it all. He's still here we're married 8 months now and he's definitley settling in. Your fiance might need different things from you as women and men tend to react to these types of things differently. Really keep the lines of communication open and help her through it. It will be well worth the effort and make your relationship stronger as a result.

Good luck with everything.